Current Events > I hate when I get moments when I just get sad.

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CyricZ 02/04/20 12:48:32 PM #1:	Nothing in particular really brought it on, either. I just lose motivation to do work. Don't feel good about myself. ._. --- CyricZ <cite>CyricZ posted [p:933921337] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Nothing in particular really brought it on, either. I just lose motivation to do work. Don't feel good about myself. ._. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/20 12:54:01 PM #2:	I get this too. I just wait it out. It gets easier over time. I think as long as you don't feel like harming yourself or others you can possibly solo it. Don't be scared to ask for help tho --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:933921576] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>I get this too. I just wait it out. It gets easier over time. I think as long as you don't feel like harming yourself or others you can possibly solo it. Don't be scared to ask for help tho </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ToPoPO 02/04/20 12:55:31 PM #3:	Lost_All_Senses posted... I get this too. I just wait it out. It gets easier over time. I think as long as you don't feel like harming yourself or others you can possibly solo it. Don't be scared to ask for help tho No it doesn't, at least not for me. <cite>ToPoPO posted [p:933921645] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>I get this too. I just wait it out. It gets easier over time. I think as long as you don't feel like harming yourself or others you can possibly solo it. Don't be scared to ask for help tho</quote> No it doesn't, at least not for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/20 12:56:23 PM #4:	ToPoPO posted... No it doesn't, at least not for me. How old are you? --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:933921677] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>ToPoPO posted... </cite> <quote>No it doesn't, at least not for me.</quote> How old are you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 02/04/20 12:57:32 PM #5:	I don't get sad, but I do get randomly anxious and it has a similar effect --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:933921720] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>I don't get sad, but I do get randomly anxious and it has a similar effect </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/04/20 12:58:01 PM #6:	ToPoPO posted... No it doesn't, at least not for me. Once you accept it is the norm or feel an even deeper sadness you can become numb to lesser sadness possibly most sadness as that is all you can remember. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:933921737] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>ToPoPO posted... </cite> <quote>No it doesn't, at least not for me.</quote>Once you accept it is the norm or feel an even deeper sadness you can become numb to lesser sadness possibly most sadness as that is all you can remember. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/20 1:00:25 PM #7:	Mistere Man posted... Once you accept it is the norm or feel an even deeper sadness you can become numb to lesser sadness possibly most sadness as that is all you can remember. This is kind of what I was getting at. It's easier to operate with it there over time. Which can lead to you starting to do things you'd normally avoid. But if you just give into it 24/7, I can understand how you wouldn't get better at dealing with it. I fought it every step of the way. Which is what I meant by "solo" it. If you create an unrealistic goal of never being sad you're just not giving yourself a shot to become content again --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:933921834] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Mistere Man posted... </cite> <quote>Once you accept it is the norm or feel an even deeper sadness you can become numb to lesser sadness possibly most sadness as that is all you can remember.</quote> This is kind of what I was getting at. It's easier to operate with it there over time. Which can lead to you starting to do things you'd normally avoid. But if you just give into it 24/7, I can understand how you wouldn't get better at dealing with it. I fought it every step of the way. Which is what I meant by "solo" it. If you create an unrealistic goal of never being sad you're just not giving yourself a shot to become content again </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ToPoPO 02/04/20 1:00:50 PM #8:	Lost_All_Senses posted... How old are you? 26 soon to be 27 this month <cite>ToPoPO posted [p:933921849] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>How old are you?</quote> 26 soon to be 27 this month </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerSlaw 02/04/20 1:03:06 PM #9:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6w2UxDdhZPk I watch this video when I feel sad. --- The personal is the political is a totalitarian progressive decree that I reject entirely. <cite>KillerSlaw posted [p:933921937] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6w2UxDdhZPk I watch this video when I feel sad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/20 1:03:29 PM #10:	ToPoPO posted... 26 soon to be 27 this month My mind shifted at 28. I was miserable from 20-27. I hope you have a similar experience. At 28 I felt like I clicked into a new phase. My anxiety went down by like 90%. It wasn't overnight of course but at the same time it almost felt like it clicked overnight. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:933921950] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>ToPoPO posted... </cite> <quote>26 soon to be 27 this month</quote> My mind shifted at 28. I was miserable from 20-27. I hope you have a similar experience. At 28 I felt like I clicked into a new phase. My anxiety went down by like 90%. It wasn't overnight of course but at the same time it almost felt like it clicked overnight. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/04/20 1:04:43 PM #11:	Lost_All_Senses posted... This is kind of what I was getting at. It's easier to operate with it there over time. Which can lead to you starting to do things you'd normally avoid. But if you just give into it 24/7, I can understand how you wouldn't get better at dealing with it. I fought it every step of the way. Which is what I meant by "solo" it. If you create an unrealistic goal of never being sad you're just not giving yourself a shot to become content again I will be honest I didnt word that as well as I wanted. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:933921990] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>This is kind of what I was getting at. It's easier to operate with it there over time. Which can lead to you starting to do things you'd normally avoid. But if you just give into it 24/7, I can understand how you wouldn't get better at dealing with it. I fought it every step of the way. Which is what I meant by "solo" it. If you create an unrealistic goal of never being sad you're just not giving yourself a shot to become content again</quote>I will be honest I didnt word that as well as I wanted. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/20 1:08:09 PM #12:	Mistere Man posted... I will be honest I didnt word that as well as I wanted. Actually I was the one who messed up. Because I addressed your post but my "yous" were directed at TC. I didn't specify that. Is that the misunderstanding? --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:933922121] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Mistere Man posted... </cite> <quote>I will be honest I didnt word that as well as I wanted.</quote> Actually I was the one who messed up. Because I addressed your post but my "yous" were directed at TC. I didn't specify that. Is that the misunderstanding? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/04/20 1:10:50 PM #13:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Actually I was the one who messed up. Because I addressed your post but my "yous" were directed at TC. I didn't specify that. Is that the misunderstanding? No my message was to ToPoPo but it just isnt exactly how I want to say it, but sadly I cant think of a fix for it. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:933922225] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Actually I was the one who messed up. Because I addressed your post but my "yous" were directed at TC. I didn't specify that. Is that the misunderstanding?</quote>No my message was to ToPoPo but it just isnt exactly how I want to say it, but sadly I cant think of a fix for it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/20 1:14:02 PM #14:	Mistere Man posted... No my message was to ToPoPo but it just isnt exactly how I want to say it, but sadly I cant think of a fix for it. So you didn't mean what I expanded on? You meant something else? --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:933922363] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Mistere Man posted... </cite> <quote>No my message was to ToPoPo but it just isnt exactly how I want to say it, but sadly I cant think of a fix for it.</quote> So you didn't mean what I expanded on? You meant something else? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pitlord_Special 02/04/20 1:22:52 PM #15:	Im weird but I like to transfer my sadness by reading sad stories (real or fictional) or watching a sad movie or show and have a good cry afterwards, that having a cathartic moment and then moving forward. That is, giving myself something specific to be sad about rather than vague feelings of disappointment or dissatisfaction. I feel like there is something beautiful in sadness and acknowledging the negative side of the human condition. That in order to fully appreciate the light and warmth of the day, you have to experience the cold dark night. --- Posted from my iPhone 8 <cite>Pitlord_Special posted [p:933922709] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Im weird but I like to transfer my sadness by reading sad stories (real or fictional) or watching a sad movie or show and have a good cry afterwards, that having a cathartic moment and then moving forward. That is, giving myself something specific to be sad about rather than vague feelings of disappointment or dissatisfaction. I feel like there is something beautiful in sadness and acknowledging the negative side of the human condition. That in order to fully appreciate the light and warmth of the day, you have to experience the cold dark night. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 02/04/20 1:24:50 PM #16:	Lost_All_Senses posted... So you didn't mean what I expanded on? You meant something else? they replied to your it gets easier over time with not for them it hasnt. I replied on how it can, but feel I worded it wrong. Like I should have used one instead of you as not to imply that it will work for them that way as everyone is different. I just know for me bigger sadness made the smaller sadness feel inconsequential. I edited it so it is better but maybe the end needs fixing still? I will leave it as it is close enough. --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:933922783] in I hate whe... [t:78382323]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>So you didn't mean what I expanded on? You meant something else?</quote>they replied to your it gets easier over time with not for them it hasnt. I replied on how it can, but feel I worded it wrong. Like I should have used one instead of you as not to imply that it will work for them that way as everyone is different. I just know for me bigger sadness made the smaller sadness feel inconsequential. I edited it so it is better but maybe the end needs fixing still? I will leave it as it is close enough. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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