Current Events > This board really doesnt understand how hard it is to date girls as an asian ma

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Its ridiculous how often the advice I see is geared towards white people dating white people

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Do you have any STDs from all the sexy women youve bedded?

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I thought you were getting a lot of tail.
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Have sex, incel.
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au_gold posted...

Do you have any STDs from all the sexy women youve bedded?

No I got tested earlier this month

PikachuMaxwell posted...

I thought you were getting a lot of tail.

I do...doesnt mean I cant complain about how much effort I have to put in to make it happen

I literally study pick up 12+ hours a week, watching videos, reading articles etc

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Well, how challenging is it?
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No_U_L7 posted...

I literally study pick up 12+ hours a week, watching videos, reading articles etc

This is sad, lmao

MedeaLysistrata posted...

Well, how challenging is it?

Extremely...I have to run A usually A+ game to close a hot young white girl. A- game and I'm going home alone

Ethosian posted...

This is sad, lmao

Gotta do what i gotta do, it's less sad than not getting any

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No_U_L7 posted...

Gotta do what i gotta do, it's less sad than not getting any

If you have to study 12+ hours a week to get laid, no its really not

Ethosian posted...

If you have to study 12+ hours a week to get laid, no its really not

I'd rather put in the work and have sex with the insanely hot girls I do than have no sex at all. You can live whatever life you want tho, I'm not stopping you. The 12 hours a week is me cutting back too..when I first got started a decade ago it was 20+ hours

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I dont get why you dont just always run A+ game, since you clearly have the ability to do so?
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No_U_L7 posted...

You can live whatever life you want tho, I'm not stopping you

I have a long term girlfriend. I didn't study to get her. Your life sounds like shit, tbh.

MedeaLysistrata posted...

I dont get why you dont just always run A+ game, since you clearly have the ability to do so?

Because its not as easy as saying "I'm going to run A+ game". Its like an athlete capable of shooting 75% from the field...its not going to happen every game. Theres too many moving pieces, both with the girl and with me. It's very easy for things to not break my way. It's very easy to screw up...something as minor as botching one push/pull and the overall interaction is immediately downgraded. Just because I'm capable of doing something to perfection doesnt mean I will be able to do it to perfection every single time, especially when it's something with no set template/routine

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Ethosian posted...

I have a long term girlfriend. I didn't study to get her. Your life sounds like shit, tbh.

How hot is your girlfriend? How hot are you? If your girlfriend ever cheated on you or the romance started to die, how would you start over?

My life was shit, mostly due to an abusive childhood. I've massively improved upon it by having an amazing career and upgrading my dating life by studying pick up

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No_U_L7 posted...

MedeaLysistrata posted...

I dont get why you dont just always run A+ game, since you clearly have the ability to do so?

Because its not as easy as saying "I'm going to run A+ game". Its like an athlete capable of shooting 75% from the field...its not going to happen every game. Theres too many moving pieces, both with the girl and with me. It's very easy for things to not break my way. It's very easy to screw up...something as minor as botching one push/pull and the overall interaction is immediately downgraded. Just because I'm capable of doing something to perfection doesnt mean I will be able to do it to perfection every single time, especially when it's something with no set template/routine

I just meant more like... you go in and it's A+ game if it gets an A+ result OR you have an A+ game, an A game, etc

Anyway, I think you were having more fun reading with the other guy so I'm just gonna stop posting
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MedeaLysistrata posted...

I just meant more like... you go in and it's A+ game if it gets an A+ result OR you have an A+ game, an A game, etc

Anyway, I think you were having more fun reading with the other guy so I'm just gonna stop posting

I don't understand the question, can you clarify?

I don't base the grades (not that I actually assign a literal grade) off the results, i base it off the process. as an engineer, you realize that process > results in the long term

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Ethosian posted...

This is sad, lmao

Came here to say this basically. I mean watching a video or reading an article or two is one thing, but 12+ hours a week? That really is pretty sad

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Gamerguymass posted...

Came here to say this basically. I mean watching a video or reading an article or two is one thing, but 12+ hours a week? That really is pretty sad

think of it as an evaluation of alternatives, you can either:

1. do the work, bang hot girls
2. not ever have sex with girls you find attractive

those were essentially my 2 options, i chose the first option

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what is the point of lying about this? like your account is just sad, no one believes it
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No_U_L7 posted...

How hot is your girlfriend? How hot are you?

She's gorgeous, I'm pretty good
No_U_L7 posted...

If your girlfriend ever cheated on you

Not going to happen. We've both had plenty of chances, but we're very loyal. We tell each other about people who try, her stories about "pick up artists" are quite funny.
No_U_L7 posted...

or the romance started to die

3 and a half years and things keep getting better. Don't see that changing

I see zero reason to study hokey pick up material

Lorthremar posted...

what is the point of lying about this? like your account is just sad, no one believes it

im not lying...what part of anything about this seems like a lie
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so you can understand my pain

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Ethosian posted...

She's gorgeous, I'm pretty good

Not going to happen. We've both had plenty of chances, but we're very loyal. We tell each other about people who try, her stories about "pick up artists" are quite funny.

3 and a half years and things keep getting better. Don't see that changing

I see zero reason to study hokey pick up material

there's your answer. what if i want a girl that's gorgeous and i'm really not good looking and another race that the girl generally find unattractive?

that's why studying pick up is important to my dating life

let me put it this way...what alternatives would you suggest?

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Anecdotal, but I am extremely attracted to asian men and would like to date them but can never get over what horn dogs all the ones I have been on dates with have been the first few meets. Since I don't hook up first thing, its very hard to thwart their efforts and keep their interest or my own.
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Daffadilio posted...

Anecdotal, but I am extremely attracted to asian men and would like to date them but can never get over what horn dogs all the ones I have been on dates with have been the first few meets. Since I don't hook up first thing, its very hard to thwart their efforts and keep their interest or my own.

they get so few white girls on dates, they can't help themselves when you do go out with them lol

have you ever met another white girl that is as into asian guys as you are?

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Conflict posted...

You made a topic yesterday about getting 3 numbers from fucking strippers. I'm not sure what you expected

yes...and i had to run a lot of game to make it happen...what is your point?

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I did the whole PUA thing for a while and you come to realize that the juice ain't worth the squeeze my man. If you're down for a bunch of petty one-night-stands and juggling fuck-buddys, keep at it. Finding something meaningful is next to impossible these days. I got tired of spinning all the plates and inevitably finding drama every single time.

I officially went my own way October 15th of this year after years of resisting the red pill truths that had been rammed down my throat repeatedly by women I invested countless hours of time, effort, money and emotional energy into. All I really wanted was a mate, someone to share my life with. Instead I just found a bunch of cock carousal riders with fake-ass superficial lives incapable of monogamy and driven by insatiable hypergamy.

That all being said, I think you're right. It IS a lot harder to date girls as an asian guy. I know because I hear the way they talk about them. But dating in today's age in general is a crap-shoot. Especially for younger dudes. When you're older, it's a lot easier to pull chicks, you just find that the younger ones are extremely immature, and the older ones have a ton of baggage. It's a lose-lose for most men these days. I personally made the decision to quit wasting time and resources on these low quality women and focus on my own interests and hobbies.

^This man is going his own way.

DDirtyDastard posted...

I did the whole PUA thing for a while and you come to realize that the juice ain't worth the squeeze my man. If you're down for a bunch of petty one-night-stands and juggling fuck-buddys, keep at it. Finding something meaningful is next to impossible these days. I got tired of spinning all the plates and inevitably finding drama every single time.

I officially went my own way October 15th of this year after years of resisting the red pill truths that had been rammed down my throat repeatedly by women I invested countless hours of time, effort, money and emotional energy into. All I really wanted was a mate, someone to share my life with. Instead I just found a bunch of cock carousal riders with fake-ass superficial lives incapable of monogamy and driven by insatiable hypergamy.

That all being said, I think you're right. It IS a lot harder to date girls as an asian guy. I know because I hear the way they talk about them. But dating in today's age in general is a crap-shoot. Especially for younger dudes. When you're older, it's a lot easier to pull chicks, you just find that the younger ones are extremely immature, and the older ones have a ton of baggage. It's a lose-lose for most men these days. I personally made the decision to quit wasting time and resources on these low quality women and focus on my own interests and hobbies.

I plan on never getting married but am extremely introverted and work an office job. so i pick up a few girls a year and go on a few dates to balance that out, since life is all about balance. otherwise i do focus my free time and energies on myself. doesn't mean i don't enjoy the occasional love affair with a beautiful girl.

i balance it out by taking long breaks off during winter and traveling to meet girls (and hanging out with my guy friends who are also pick up artists)

but yes, the things white girls say about asian guys is disgusting, it can sometimes be extremely biased, bigoted and racist. even worse, even the girls who don't mind asian guys get shamed by their friends, who will say passive aggressive things like "i didn't know you were into asian guys" and then the girl will get self conscious even if she really liked me

but dating younger girls (18-20) is getting harder the older i get and it's reaching a point where my good game can't make up for my advanced age. when i was 28ish i could still date that young (especially because i looked younger since im asian) but now that i'm 32 a lot of younger girls tend to think of me more as an "old asian guy". these days i've found i've been dating a little older (23-28) and it isn't entirely voluntary

but tl;dr, yes it is very hard for asian men to date young hot white girls


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i also find it hilarious that the second i ask @Ethosian for an alternative suggestion to studying pick up he vanishes because he can't think of one/there isnt one. all of a sudden taking the steps towards having the dating life i want is "sad" when there is not even an alternative

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Crono99 posted...

Damn what are you going to refer to yourself as when you hit the 50s?

i doubt i'll live that long...

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Crono99 posted...

You doubt you'll hit the 50s? Do you have some kind of illness that we don't know about that's cutting your life expectancy?

Cuz if you do... it kind of makes your incessant talk of picking up girls make sense. Like someone who wants to have as much fun as possible before they go or something.

I've lived a rough life of lots of late nights and lots of red meat. I'm already emotionally dead, I expect the physical side will catch up sooner than later

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Why dont you call the strippers?
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Now imagine being a gamer

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HydraSlayer82 posted...

Why dont you call the strippers?

I will...that's not what this topic is about. Jsut necause I can do something doesnt mean I cant complain about how much work it takes. I'm sure Olympic athletes get annoyed at the amount of practice they need for difficult routines too

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I also havent eaten a fruit or vegetable since I was 5

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Don't let jealous dudes put you down, good on ya TC. I've tried the pickup thing but im a massive pussy when it comes to rejection haha.

Did you wash your dirty sheets?
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The_Freecs posted...

Don't let jealous dudes put you down, good on ya TC. I've tried the pickup thing but im a massive pussy when it comes to rejection haha.

You get over it fast. Detachment from ego helped a lot, you learn often that "rejection" often doesn't even have anything to do with you

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HydraSlayer82 posted...

Did you wash your dirty sheets?

Yes I made a topic and everything. They're good for another 18 months now

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No_U_L7 posted...

You get over it fast. Detachment from ego helped a lot, you learn often that "rejection" often doesn't even have anything to do with you

Where do you approach these chicks?

I believe ya.

The_Freecs posted...

Where do you approach these chicks?

college campus/gym back when i was in grad school, any busy street/shopping area, i mostly stick to bars/clubs now since i work during the day

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No_U_L7 posted...

college campus/gym back when i was in grad school, any busy street/shopping area, i mostly stick to bars/clubs now since i work during the day

Were you in shape and shit before you started? Also I don't drink which seems to turn off a lot of chicks.

The_Freecs posted...

Were you in shape and shit before you started? Also I don't drink which seems to turn off a lot of chicks.

no and i'm still not in good shape. but i dress well and look very good in clothes

i went through a long period where i didn't drink, it was fine as long as you didn't make a big deal about it either way

i will say that having a drink with a girl is a great way to move an interaction forward. taking a girl from her friends to another bar and splitting a drink can really solidify things

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