Current Events > i'm going through the slut phase of my life at 26

(+) Yeah! (+)

even tho im in a relationship, everyone else is settling down and im about 8 years late for this

since working out i find im constantly horny, checking out and want to bang

this is not good

---

Everyone has a ho phase
---

Blue_Inigo posted...

Everyone has a ho phase

i swear to fuck that my body is going through delayed puberty or some shit

---

Nothing wrong with a slut phase itself!

Maybe just bang your partner in new and exciting places/ways! Get real dirty.
---

Funkydog posted...

Nothing wrong with a slut phase itself!

Maybe just bang your partner in new and exciting places/ways! Get real dirty.

i know but im being tempted in other ways

---

Jimmy g making you in to a 9er fan

---

Mine was 22
---

I Like Toast posted...

Jimmy g making you in to a 9er fan

lmao they're my NFC team

plus jimmy is

---

Controlling those temptations isn't slutty. Not controlling them temptations is what's slutty
---

I did mine from 25-28

Better doing it now than later. I'm thirty and have been contending with a sexual fire bordering on mania since I was about your age. It's worse than being fifteen: so distracted and achy and lecherous and, unlike back then, I actually know (sort of) what to do and have the freedom to (sort of) access it.

It's just as much fun, but it starts to feel creepy when you notice how much younger (ugh, and sometimes how way, way, way much older) the people left at the sex buffet are than you. The only advice I can give you is to try and get it dirty with your partner. I don't recommend it, but you could also try to work out some sort of openness window or set of circumstances that they'd let you go around sportfucking during, but that's a lot of drama, heartache and pornsickness for humping.
---

I know the feel.

Wish we could have a hot boy 2020 or something
---

Also, put your money where your mouth is:

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78093689
---

i went through this phase, its called my entire life
---

Lost_All_Senses posted...

Controlling those temptations isn't slutty. Not controlling them temptations is what's slutty

i don't want to control them tho, i want to break free and f hard

VanananaHeyHey posted...

Better doing it now than later. I'm thirty and have been contending with a sexual fire bordering on mania since I was about your age. It's worse than being fifteen: so distracted and achy and lecherous and, unlike back then, I actually know (sort of) what to do and have the freedom to (sort of) access it.

you know, i agree with you. it's better to happen now than to happen later on (e.g. marriage, mortgage, etc). i just wish it happened in my teen years like with everyone else

how did you deal with your sexual fire in your late 20s and early 30s?

emblem boy posted...

I know the feel.

Wish we could have a hot boy 2020 or something

there's a saying for that over here in the uk

'lads on tour'

---

Romulox28 posted...

i went through this phase, its called my entire life

but ur a happily married man who has no time for einhander now coz of 90 day fiance

life doesn't get much better than that

---

Parappa09 posted...

Blue_Inigo posted...

Everyone has a ho phase

i swear to fuck that my body is going through delayed puberty or some shit

Totally normal bro. And I already had my ho phase in my early twenties. I truly think guys get second wave of hormones close to their 30s, or some shit
---

lww99 posted...

Totally normal bro. And I already had my ho phase in my early twenties. I truly think guys get second wave of hormones close to their 30s, or some shit

bro i've never had mine before, this is my first one

i enjoy it but it's not good

---

Parappa09 posted...

i don't want to control them tho, i want to break free and f hard

Do it, safely. Those who judge you fir it aren't worth your time.
---

I Like Toast posted...

Jimmy g making you in to a 9er fan

To be fair, Jimmy G makes even the straightest of us straight men question our sexuality.

---

SquantoZ posted...

Jimmy G makes even the straightest of us straight men question our sexuality.

yee i get that feeling when other guys speak about him too

---

honestly been there, was super hoe around 19 when i first came out, and then about a 1-1.5 year ago it was like a second puberty. sometimes i hookup twice in one day and im like still down for another.

Parappa09 posted...

how did you deal with your sexual fire in your late 20s and early 30s?

omg, absolutely terribly. I went on a business trip this past Summer and tore a goddamn hole in Edinburgh. It ended up with a disaster in Oxford and I still can't quite get over the hump, as it were. I recommend exercising a lot (except exercise also makes me horny) and having a real hobby to sublimate, like, at least 15% of your sexual urges into.
---

Blue_Inigo posted...

Everyone has a ho phase

---

VanananaHeyHey posted...

Parappa09 posted...

how did you deal with your sexual fire in your late 20s and early 30s?

omg, absolutely terribly. I went on a business trip this past Summer and tore a goddamn hole in Edinburgh. It ended up with a disaster in Oxford and I still can't quite get over the hump, as it were. I recommend exercising a lot (except exercise also makes me horny) and having a real hobby to sublimate, like, at least 15% of your sexual urges into.

What about that made it horrible?
---

emblem boy posted...

What about that made it horrible?

Uninvited participants
---

chocolatemuffin posted...

honestly been there, was super hoe around 19 when i first came out, and then about a 1-1.5 year ago it was like a second puberty. sometimes i hookup twice in one day and im like still down for another.

do you feel you've settled down now?

VanananaHeyHey posted...

omg, absolutely terribly. I went on a business trip this past Summer and tore a goddamn hole in Edinburgh. It ended up with a disaster in Oxford and I still can't quite get over the hump, as it were. I recommend exercising a lot (except exercise also makes me horny) and having a real hobby to sublimate, like, at least 15% of your sexual urges into.

hahah i was very tempted to do something while i was in edinburgh as well. i've been working out for the past year or so and i definitely believe it's contributed to making me feel v horny.

sometimes i gotta get it out so i can move on and do stuff in my life. i know a lot of guys feel the same way but this has never been the case with me before. in the past, i was more in control i guess

VanananaHeyHey posted...

Uninvited participants

:|

---

Parappa09 posted...

hahah i was very tempted to do something while i was in edinburgh as well. i've been working out for the past year or so and i definitely believe it's contributed to making me feel v horny.

sometimes i gotta get it out so i can move on and do stuff in my life. i know a lot of guys feel the same way but this has never been the case with me before. in the past, i was more in control i guess

Edi's a hell of a city. :P I'm hoping to go back next year, buffer than ever. Don't know how to contend with the extra excitement from working out more, but I've been getting into food plating and stained glass as hobbies.

Is there any way you can be actionable in this without feeling like you're violating the terms of your relationship? Get freakier with your partner? Send dick pics to a woman in her thirties hungry for a thrill? Find tighter clothes to wear that turn heads?
---

Have you talked to your bf about it parrapa?
---

The slut phase coincides with the best time to get married.
---

VanananaHeyHey posted...

Is there any way you can be actionable in this without feeling like you're violating the terms of your relationship? Get freakier with your partner? Send dick pics to a woman in her thirties hungry for a thrill? Find tighter clothes to wear that turn heads?

emblem boy posted...

Have you talked to your bf about it parrapa?

okay being 100% honest with you both, i think he's picked up on me going through a 'slut' phase as well especially eyeing other guys and finding them attractive. he's not too bothered since we're open about that sort of thing anyway (he used to be much worse about it, and i used to take it hard)

he's noticed that since i've been working out that i've been a lot more horny which he's more than happy about. funnily enough he went through a similar phase a few years ago and he suggested an open relationship. at the time i was mad because i don't really believe in that, and it's not really a relationship but just a pass to fuck around

but now i think i would be happy with an open relationship. he's also hinted at a threesome, but again, being honest with you both, i would rather just have sex with someone else without him there

long term between the both of us? who knows, i'm less secure now than i was this time last year, when i was happy to buy a house with him

---

And how many years have you been 26?

---

_CARLOX_ posted...

And how many years have you been 26?

since 2012

can you believe its only been 3 years

---

Parappa09 posted...

he's also hinted at a threesome, but again, being honest with you both, i would rather just have sex with someone else without him there

Why without him?
---

emblem boy posted...

Why without him?

i feel it would be cringey having him there

which sounds weird...

---

bump

---

I wish you luck. It's an achy, sweltering problem to have.

Totally know what you mean by wanting to get railed without him there. Threeways can be fun, but it's so distracting to have to be splitting attention. And if you've been together a while, yeah, it would totally feel weird having him watch or worrying about whether you were enjoying the sex too much or whatever.

I'll be back in the UK in February if you want to form a support group with me. :P
---

VanananaHeyHey posted...

I'll be back in the UK in February if you want to form a support group with me. :P

yesyesyes i'm game for this

hmu next year when you have the dates and if you're around london then i'll make sure i'm free for some drinks

---

bump

---

I go through a slut phase every 2-3 years. Cant explain it.
---

masticatingman posted...

I go through a slut phase every 2-3 years. Cant explain it.

how old are you?

---

bump

---