Current Events > Welp, time to move on to a different employer

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treewojima
10/02/19 11:58:40 AM
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Despite me having a good rapport with our dealership body shop and the professional recommendations of my colleagues there, upper management decided to step in and hand picked someone else internally to take over parts logistics. Guess the guy has friends in high places.

Time to find a better job lol
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ArchiePeck
10/02/19 11:59:31 AM
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Ya gotta hustle for progress!
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Twin3Turbo
10/02/19 12:05:59 PM
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This exact scenario happened to my brother. He immediately started looking for another job and found one pretty quickly

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treewojima
10/02/19 12:09:00 PM
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My work wife tells me CarMax is hiring in their parts dept with better pay and benefits, plus I know one of the women that works the back counter, she's a sweetheart.

Time to fix up the resume and ask for the manager next time I go there lol
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
10/02/19 12:09:14 PM
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Recommendations from your colleagues don't matter, tbh. Neither does your rapport with the bodyshop.

It matters to get in touch with the dude or dudette who's hiring.
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 12:15:27 PM
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treewojima posted...
My work wife tells me CarMax is hiring in their parts dept with better pay and benefits, plus I know one of the women that works the back counter, she's a sweetheart.

Time to fix up the resume and ask for the manager next time I go there lol


Cringe

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treewojima
10/02/19 12:19:36 PM
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
Recommendations from your colleagues don't matter, tbh. Neither does your rapport with the bodyshop.

It matters to get in touch with the dude or dudette who's hiring.

I did get in touch with the parts manager, multiple times. After not getting him on the phone for two days straight after him saying he'd call (he was busy with end of the month stuff), I personally stopped at his dealership and met with him face to face. That's when he told me that the director of bodyshop operations for the entire management group had recommended another candidate.

No_U_L7 posted...
treewojima posted...
My work wife tells me CarMax is hiring in their parts dept with better pay and benefits, plus I know one of the women that works the back counter, she's a sweetheart.

Time to fix up the resume and ask for the manager next time I go there lol


Cringe

I'm sorry that you view women as conquests rather than people
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
10/02/19 12:24:24 PM
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treewojima posted...

I did get in touch with the parts manager, multiple times. After not getting him on the phone for two days straight after him saying he'd call (he was busy with end of the month stuff), I personally stopped at his dealership and met with him face to face. That's when he told me that the director of bodyshop operations for the entire management group had recommended another candidate.

So he wasn't the top guy.
Like when I wanted to swap positions at a previous job I talked with one trainer, found out who her boss was, talked to him, got his advice on who could potentially overrule him or strongly influence them, talked to the head of training for like 10 offices and she was happy to recommend me

I know what you're saying and I agree it sucks but next time you go for an internal position, you don't stop until you have the top person who can intervene (within reason) on your side. The CEO is someone who can intervene but shouldn't be bothered. The director who can slap everyone else down was an example
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treewojima
10/02/19 12:24:37 PM
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I sometimes forget where I'm posting

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Work_spouse
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 12:26:20 PM
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treewojima posted...
I sometimes forget where I'm posting

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Work_spouse


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I stand by my statement...work wife is a super cringe phrase, especially used in that context

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treewojima
10/02/19 12:28:30 PM
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It's a goofy term of endearment

You guys take yourselves too seriously lol
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 12:29:40 PM
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treewojima posted...
It's a goofy term of endearment

You guys take yourselves too seriously lol


But you used it in a serious sentence...its meant to be used goofily, you used it as a literal label

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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
10/02/19 12:30:23 PM
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I miss my work wives.
I had a Russian one (she was literally the best). I had a Polish one. I had two Irish ones. I also had a work daughter at one point because I threatened some dude who kept asking her out and waited outside (for 4 hours) to follow her home.
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ScofieldReturns
10/02/19 12:31:28 PM
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
I also had a work daughter at one point because I threatened some dude who kept asking her out and waited outside (for 4 hours) to follow her home.


Yikes
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spudger
10/02/19 12:33:34 PM
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ScofieldReturns posted...
RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
I also had a work daughter at one point because I threatened some dude who kept asking her out and waited outside (for 4 hours) to follow her home.


Yikes

yeah sounds like ceman was there
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Carlbertomfg
10/02/19 12:34:54 PM
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Ya'll missing out on work harems.
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spudger
10/02/19 12:37:59 PM
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tc like that chick in the hiring commercial.

sucks though, definitely time to move on.

especially when you know you're qualified but its about "who you know" not "what you know". but thats life.
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
10/02/19 12:38:34 PM
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ScofieldReturns posted...


Yikes

It was pretty fucking weird, tbh.
So she's like 35-26 but looks really good, like barely older than 22-23.
So she had daughter who was 18 and we joked that her daughter probably looks like she's 12 (given her mom is youthful).

I should point out both of them were in a class I was teaching.
So I made the joke that her daughter was way too young for a car since she was only 12 and creeper dude just stared and said "your daughter is 12? I think she'd like me, kids love me" and there was no smile, no joke, nothing. Just like a complete fucking creepy stare. That was strike 2.
Strike 3 was "do you leave early to collect your daughter? I can understand, what school is she in".

Like keep in mind this was 3 weeks into the course so there was no "hey let's get to know one another" stuff still going on
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Veggeta X
10/02/19 12:40:45 PM
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Nepotism should have some filter but naw.
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treewojima
10/02/19 12:43:25 PM
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Carlbertomfg posted...
Ya'll missing out on work harems.

For real, they'll do shit like bring you homecooked meals
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Carlbertomfg
10/02/19 12:44:34 PM
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treewojima posted...
Carlbertomfg posted...
Ya'll missing out on work harems.

For real, they'll do shit like bring you homecooked meals

And they're the source for all the juicy gossip!
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
10/02/19 12:44:45 PM
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treewojima posted...

For real, they'll do s*** like bring you homecooked meals

Man when I started working with Russian Lady on a project one day she said "oh why don't you ever eat lunch downstairs? Dinner is good!" so I said I didn't like what they have.
Next day she literally fucking brings in a fucking plate of what she made for her husband and kid the day before. Every day we worked together she did the same.
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Unsugarized_Foo
10/02/19 12:47:10 PM
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Shoot, my work wife is a dude. Shits legit
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 12:48:35 PM
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I'm not against doing things with coworkers that makes them eligible for work wife title...I'm against using the phrase work wife in such a serious context

I went to a nice lunch with my work wife today

My work wife and I are trying to figure out which insurance is the best option

Both of those are wrong

We gossip so much shes practically my work wife

She brings me home cooked meals, shes such a great work wife

It should practically be a joke whenever its used

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treewojima
10/02/19 12:52:32 PM
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you're so cute when your jimmies are rustled
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treewojima
10/02/19 12:57:10 PM
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metallica846 posted...
treewojima posted...
you're so cute when your jimmies are rustled


What does your girlfriend think about your work wife?

She doesn't care, it's not like I'm lathering my coworker with affection
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 1:00:07 PM
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treewojima posted...
you're so cute when your jimmies are rustled


I'm merely correcting your incorrect use of the phrase. It's not a literal title

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treewojima
10/02/19 1:12:06 PM
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engineers are the worst
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 1:15:48 PM
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treewojima posted...
engineers are the worst


Its pros vs cons, youd literally be dead without me and my way of thinking saving the USA every single day, so weigh it for yourself

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Ghetto_Turtle
10/02/19 1:25:32 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...
Its pros vs cons, youd literally be dead without me and my way of thinking saving the USA every single day, so weigh it for yourself

awfully high opinion of yourself.
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No_U_L7
10/02/19 1:26:23 PM
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Ghetto_Turtle posted...
awfully high opinion of yourself.


It's just objective at this point

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treewojima
10/02/19 1:29:09 PM
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talk about rent free lol
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Cleo_II
10/02/19 1:31:27 PM
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treewojima posted...
engineers are the worst
Yeah tell me about it, I married one lol

Also Im sorry to hear that. I remember your other topic and it seemed to be a done deal. I know how you feel though because its what happened to me at my last company and why I left. Sounds like you have another opportunity though so go for it and try to connect with the hiring manager directly.
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Snip-N-Snails
10/03/19 9:10:56 PM
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Oof
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OctaviaMelody30
10/05/19 5:14:55 PM
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Why you should pour effort to have good rapport with management
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fire_bolt
10/05/19 5:21:45 PM
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I can't even tell there's drama here. I have all the shit stirrers ignored.Somebody catch me up on who is crying because they don't have a work wife.
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