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darkprince45
08/29/19 8:46:25 PM
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Im just bored? I just want like more. Hasnt worked in 4 years, doesnt want to finish school even though she only needs one semester to finish a bachelors. Then just complains to me all day because she wanted to rescue 5 cats and 3 dogs and cant handle it now

Every day at work I get paragraphs on top of paragraphs that her life sucks, she just picks up after animals and nothing else blah blah. I bought a house to have more room, I bought her a car two weeks ago. Because she got her car repod the first year I knew her.

Her mom has been staying with us this entire month and her reason coming here was to help my wife rehome the rescues so she could be happy again in her own words. Her mom is now leaving in 5 hours and they didnt do anything. In
fact her mom did the same thing and slept the entire day. She slept until 8 pm yesterday and woke up for an hour to eat and went back to bed

they were also supposed to help my wife fix her hoarding in the garage. None of my wifes boxes from when we moved in here a year ago are unpacked

the whole family has mental issues and I dont
want to deal with it

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Austin_Era_II
08/29/19 8:48:23 PM
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Good call. It's for the better. If she gets suicidal just move on. It's not your fault. Remember that. Guilt trips are the worst.
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glitteringfairy
08/29/19 8:48:24 PM
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You shouldn't give up on your wife, brew.
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Nutcase_Johnny
08/29/19 8:48:26 PM
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Aren't you cop? Tase them the fuck out the door.
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Sunburst
08/29/19 8:49:25 PM
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Y did the mom sleep till 8pm?

Was your wife like this when you married her?
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The Admiral
08/29/19 8:49:50 PM
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You should get out. Situations like that rarely get better. Certainly sounds like she has mental health issues, but there's obviously also more to it than that.

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eston
08/29/19 8:50:27 PM
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And what are you doing through all of this? You sound very distant. How long have you been unhappy?
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Solid Sonic
08/29/19 8:50:35 PM
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I want to have till death do you part removed from all wedding vows from here onwards. Its the 21st century, shit dont work that way.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 8:50:47 PM
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Sunburst posted...
Y did the mom sleep till 8pm?

Was your wife like this when you married her?
i dont know shes weird and takes a punch of pills. Shes one of those something is always wrong with me type. At the doctor every day

and my wife was worse when I met her , mellowed out for a bit but then now just unbearable

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NuclearPandaz
08/29/19 8:51:49 PM
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What did your wife say?
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glitteringfairy
08/29/19 8:52:04 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
I want to have till death do you part removed from all wedding vows from here onwards. Its the 21st century, shit dont work that way.

It's the "ME" generation for sure
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Nutcase_Johnny
08/29/19 8:52:06 PM
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Oh man you're in a bad way. You gotta rip that shit outta your life. You'll be able to breathe.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 8:52:12 PM
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eston posted...
And what are you doing through all of this? You sound very distant. How long have you been unhappy?
I used to scream and fight with her because shes one of the types if you confront her she immediately starts screaming at the top of her lungs and she says thats how she was raised. Now I just mind my own business. Like right now Im at the gym and theyre both still sleeping

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DifferentialEquation
08/29/19 8:53:20 PM
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Divorce as soon as you can. The longer you stay with her, the more you're going to get screwed over financially.
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Solid Sonic
08/29/19 8:53:29 PM
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darkprince45 posted...
eston posted...
And what are you doing through all of this? You sound very distant. How long have you been unhappy?
I used to scream and fight with her because shes one of the types if you confront her she immediately starts screaming at the top of her lungs and she says thats how she was raised. Now I just mind my own business. Like right now Im at the gym and theyre both still sleeping

Sounds like how my relationship would probably go...
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Sunburst
08/29/19 8:53:53 PM
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Well I don't know why you would expect her to change if she was worse when you met her. But if you don't have kids I recommend divorce.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 8:59:26 PM
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I mean dont get me wrong theres two sides to every stories. Ive been an asshole and just uncaring at this point. Because theres a point where you dont care anymore. Im tired of being the nice guy. I forgot to say it in the op but she drinks a lot too. She used to be a handle a day and now shes a handle every 3-4 days. But still I dont want to spend 15-20 dollars on alcohol every 3 days. Shes never been drunk shes just one of those quiet secret types, that takes a shot every hour or so and then washes her mouth and shit.

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Colorahdo
08/29/19 8:59:58 PM
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I grew up as the only non mentally ill person in my family

There is no person in there, she is her disease

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Nutcase_Johnny
08/29/19 9:01:21 PM
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Whaaaaaaaat the fuck? 15-20 bucks every 3 days for a handle? She's doing more than sneaking it sir. You also have to be buying the local grocery store brand bottle.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:02:35 PM
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Nutcase_Johnny posted...
Whaaaaaaaat the fuck? 15-20 bucks every 3 days for a handle? She's doing more than sneaking it sir. You also have to be buying the local grocery store brand bottle.
Of course Im not wasting more money for it be well wasted

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glitteringfairy
08/29/19 9:03:19 PM
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darkprince45 posted...
Nutcase_Johnny posted...
Whaaaaaaaat the fuck? 15-20 bucks every 3 days for a handle? She's doing more than sneaking it sir. You also have to be buying the local grocery store brand bottle.
Of course Im not wasting more money for it be well wasted

Well whatever you do don't cut her off cold turkey or you'll be paying for a hospital visit
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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:03:56 PM
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glitteringfairy posted...
Well whatever you do don't cut her off cold turkey or you'll be paying for a hospital visit
Trust me I know. Thats how we spent the first day of our vacation

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Solid Sonic
08/29/19 9:04:23 PM
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This wasnt the scene afterwards, right?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIyW_-6IILk" data-time="

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No_U_L7
08/29/19 9:05:01 PM
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You made similar topics complaining about her before you got married. Idk how you didnt get the hint. Now shes gonna get half your stuff. And you guys wonder why I'm so against marriage

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emblem boy
08/29/19 9:05:33 PM
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Did you know about what she wanted in life and her desire to apparently just be a stay at home wife before you got married?

Are your feelings about it new?
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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:06:21 PM
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From our talk, were supposedly gonna file a mutual one. And she wants to keep the animals and for me to pay all the expenses and I can keep everything

knowing my wife, by tomorrow nothing will have happened and this conversation didnt happen

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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:08:12 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Did you know about what she wanted in life and her desire to apparently just be a stay at home wife before you got married?

Are your feelings about it new?
Shes led me on this game that she does want to work and blah blah. But Its always a goal post extension. If I get x then I can do x. Copy and paste like 100 times. Ive always felt iffy and then we moved across the country and I was like well now its fucked and Ive kinda been rolling through the motions.

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DespondentDeity
08/29/19 9:09:09 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
This wasnt the scene afterwards, right?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIyW_-6IILk" data-time="


Holy shit.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:12:30 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
This wasnt the scene afterwards, right?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIyW_-6IILk" data-time="
My wife is worse than that. Im not even kidding. She talks like this just when dealing with customer service to get a return. She got kicked out of Sams club once because she wouldnt stop screaming at the manager for a return on a defunct tv.

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ssj3vegeta_
08/29/19 9:15:30 PM
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Nutcase_Johnny
08/29/19 9:15:52 PM
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Clear cut case of divorce here. Cut your losses in half or more and move on. You fucked up.
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Sad_Face
08/29/19 9:16:50 PM
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What happened to going to a therapist?
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Smashingpmkns
08/29/19 9:17:01 PM
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Better to do it now when you dont have kids.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:17:57 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
What happened to going to a therapist?
My wife says shes been to all of them it doesnt work as well as all the antidepressants shes tried

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Nutcase_Johnny
08/29/19 9:19:54 PM
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So now she drinks and takes pills. This can't end in a happy ending.
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darkprince45
08/29/19 9:21:56 PM
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Nutcase_Johnny posted...
So now she drinks and takes pills. This can't end in a happy ending.
My wife drank before I even knew, and she takes adderal that shes been prescribed since middle school

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Nutcase_Johnny
08/29/19 9:30:59 PM
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darkprince45 posted...
Nutcase_Johnny posted...
So now she drinks and takes pills. This can't end in a happy ending.
My wife drank before I even knew, and she takes adderal that shes been prescribed since middle school


Shit you walked into this hornets nest.
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misterbum
08/29/19 9:45:13 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
This wasnt the scene afterwards, right?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIyW_-6IILk" data-time="

Saying shes acting like an 11 year old is generous. My 2 year old doesnt throw tantrums that bad.
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kingdrake2
08/29/19 10:09:44 PM
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darkprince45 posted...
From our talk, were supposedly gonna file a mutual one. And she wants to keep the animals and for me to pay all the expenses and I can keep everything

knowing my wife, by tomorrow nothing will have happened and this conversation didnt happen


damn. already screwed over.
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EpicMickeyDrew
08/29/19 10:13:03 PM
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Good on you.
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pfh1001
08/29/19 10:18:12 PM
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DifferentialEquation posted...
Divorce as soon as you can. The longer you stay with her, the more you're going to get screwed over financially.


Agreed.
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LadyVyxx
08/29/19 10:19:57 PM
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She sounds depressed honestly. Has she ever seen a therapist or could she be open to seeing one?
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Dark_SilverX
08/29/19 10:43:20 PM
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glitteringfairy posted...
You shouldn't give up on your wife, brew.

He should. She sounds like she and her mother should go with her animals to a shelter. It's sad, but sometimes you have to do what's best for yourself. Don't be unhappy to make someone else happy.

Keep it up TC.
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emblem boy
08/30/19 10:15:22 PM
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Any update?
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Solid Snake07
08/30/19 10:18:43 PM
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Yeah.....sounds like she has some pretty deep rooted issues. Sorry man
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darkprince45
08/30/19 10:21:32 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Any update?
Nope, just pretends like nothing happened

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Crazyman93
08/30/19 10:22:11 PM
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darkprince45 posted...
Because she got her car repod the first year I knew her.

Honestly, that was warning sign #1
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biggernails
08/30/19 10:24:04 PM
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yeah you should get out of there, it's pretty unanimous
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