Current Events > male (late 20s) UNIVERSITY student "hanging out" with 20year old girls

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SaccharineSmile
08/26/19 10:04:32 PM
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Due to group projects

Is this socially acceptable

Asking for a friend who is going back to uni in a few weeks
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NathanX95
08/26/19 10:10:40 PM
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There's literally nothing wrong with that, whether it's for group projects or for any other reason.
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SaccharineSmile
08/26/19 10:14:50 PM
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Conflict posted...
Is it acceptable for someone in their 20s to hang out with girls in their 20s?

Gee, I don't know.


Its like a 10 year gap
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konokonohamaru
08/26/19 10:16:01 PM
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So?
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PesticideDream
08/26/19 10:17:28 PM
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Oh the horror!!
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KainWind
08/26/19 10:23:47 PM
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Imagine being a professor and a student comes up to you concerned that he can't work on group projects because he's a few years older then the others.

From my experience no one really cares if you are older anyway.

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pfh1001
08/26/19 10:28:31 PM
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NathanX95 posted...
There's literally nothing wrong with that, whether it's for group projects or for any other reason.
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The Wheelman1
08/26/19 10:42:35 PM
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Trust me, no one will care if you're 30 and hanging with 20 year olds. They are grown adults just like you.
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HANGtheDJ_86
08/26/19 10:45:25 PM
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Needs more age gap
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NuclearPandaz
08/26/19 10:52:04 PM
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Doesn't matter at all, I'm 25 and I was doing study groups with a 40+ year old. It isn't seen as bad, age doesn't matter too much passed a certain point.
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White Eagle
08/26/19 10:52:14 PM
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In one of my classes, there was a guy who was middle aged and bald. No one cared.
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Phantom_Nook
08/26/19 10:54:53 PM
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I had some friends in college that were older than me. no biggie.
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gloBal enemy
08/26/19 11:07:35 PM
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It's fine. Study groups at that level don't really care what age individuals are. Dating on the other hand...
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brestugo
08/26/19 11:12:06 PM
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When I was in college (20s) there were a couple guys and one woman (all students) who were in their mid 30s that would hang out on campus with us. Not a big deal.
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LadyVyxx
08/26/19 11:14:40 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
Conflict posted...
Is it acceptable for someone in their 20s to hang out with girls in their 20s?

Gee, I don't know.


Its like a 10 year gap


10 year gap
Both in 20s
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CasualGuy
08/26/19 11:16:00 PM
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If you're 28 and wondering if it's okay to be around 21 year olds you probably shouldn't be around any woman
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NonDairyMiltank
08/26/19 11:30:42 PM
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LadyVyxx posted...
SaccharineSmile posted...
Conflict posted...
Is it acceptable for someone in their 20s to hang out with girls in their 20s?

Gee, I don't know.


Its like a 10 year gap


10 year gap
Both in 20s

yea

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codey
08/26/19 11:32:17 PM
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If this is your concern please don't go to school

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Ving_Rhames
08/26/19 11:44:07 PM
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CasualGuy posted...
If you're 28 and wondering if it's okay to be around 21 year olds you probably shouldn't be around any woman

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SaccharineSmile
08/26/19 11:50:09 PM
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yikes

looks like i've hit a nerve with you guys

i mean there are people out there that believe hanging out with someone 10 years younger than you is seen as weird (regardless if this is in a university setting), and you should be hanging out with people your own age

fyi i dont
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Kastrada
08/26/19 11:55:22 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
Is this socially acceptable


Only if the main study partner hooks up with two of the female members.
And the third female member hooks up with the Spanish professor who ends up joing your study team as well.
And the two youngest members must host a morning talk show.
And the oldest member must be pretty racist.

And then it's still socially acceptable for just the first two years and maybe the fourth.
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Feline_Heart
08/26/19 11:56:13 PM
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If you hadnt felt the need to ask this then it wouldnt have been weird.
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SauI_Goodman
08/26/19 11:57:57 PM
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i was in school when i was 31 and hung out with a girl who was 20
she couldn't drink legally so couldn't even take her to the bar. but we went to dorm parties and stuff. it's to my benefit that i can pass for 21. people freaked when they found out how old i was.
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SaccharineSmile
08/27/19 12:01:02 AM
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Feline_Heart posted...
If you hadnt felt the need to ask this then it wouldnt have been weird.


well thats why i asked so i can gather other peoples opinions on it

not sure why having a discussion on this subject seemed so touchy and hostile though
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SaccharineSmile
08/27/19 12:04:33 AM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
i was in school when i was 31 and hung out with a girl who was 20
she couldn't drink legally so couldn't even take her to the bar. but we went to dorm parties and stuff. it's to my benefit that i can pass for 21. people freaked when they found out how old i was.


well yeah that's how i'd imagine it to be, people freaking out about age differences

i mean i see it all the time when you find out about couples whose partner is 10 years older/younger

People love to gossip/talk about it, it's just socially natural to talk about it
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SauI_Goodman
08/27/19 12:06:12 AM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
SauI_Goodman posted...
i was in school when i was 31 and hung out with a girl who was 20
she couldn't drink legally so couldn't even take her to the bar. but we went to dorm parties and stuff. it's to my benefit that i can pass for 21. people freaked when they found out how old i was.


well yeah that's how i'd imagine it to be, people freaking out about age differences

i mean i see it all the time when you find out about couples whose partner is 10 years older/younger

People love to gossip/talk about it, it's just socially natural to talk about it

well just to be clear. they weren't freaked out about us being together. they were more shocked at how old i was. they were totally cool to be around. i'm not with the girl anymore but i still have friends from that group. and not to toot my own horn but man i really hit the lotto in the genetics department. closing in on 40 and still look 23.
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Joelypoely
08/27/19 12:11:23 AM
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Agree that it's pretty much fine. It can be refreshing hanging out with people aged about 18-21 as they're often quite optimistic and full of enthusiasm. Also it's a nice feeling being able to teach them a few things.
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LadyVyxx
08/27/19 12:27:53 AM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
yikes

looks like i've hit a nerve with you guys

i mean there are people out there that believe hanging out with someone 10 years younger than you is seen as weird (regardless if this is in a university setting), and you should be hanging out with people your own age

fyi i dont


10 years younger
Both in 20s
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garan
08/27/19 12:28:45 AM
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Kastrada posted...
SaccharineSmile posted...
Is this socially acceptable


Only if the main study partner hooks up with two of the female members.
And the third female member hooks up with the Spanish professor who ends up joing your study team as well.
And the two youngest members must host a morning talk show.
And the oldest member must be pretty racist.

And then it's still socially acceptable for just the first two years and maybe the fourth.


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