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Kuja_88 08/17/19 11:40:54 PM #1:	Like, I asked her out and she said she can't see me because she has a boyfriend. We were still talking but I got pissed and asked how serious there relationship was and she told me basically too back off. I'm not fat. Just a mix of muscle and fat. Is that normal rejection. Usually, the ladies love me. But how do I not feel bad that there are other guys out there? Sorry for the subsidy guys I know you must love your GF's but why can't we all just ya know.....**** each other. Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. why can't we all just share? --- The light before we land <cite>Kuja_88 posted [p:926206836] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Like, I asked her out and she said she can't see me because she has a boyfriend. We were still talking but I got pissed and asked how serious there relationship was and she told me basically too back off. I'm not fat. Just a mix of muscle and fat. Is that normal rejection. Usually, the ladies love me. But how do I not feel bad that there are other guys out there? Sorry for the subsidy guys I know you must love your GF's but why can't we all just ya know.....**** each other. Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. why can't we all just share?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 08/17/19 11:42:46 PM #2:	This is a FUCKING topic --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:926206909] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>This is a FUCKING topic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/17/19 11:44:39 PM #3:	Kuja_88 posted... Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. I did. You have questions or did you just want to know? --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:926206994] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Who invented marriage and commitment anyways.</quote> I did. You have questions or did you just want to know?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dragonblade01 08/17/19 11:46:28 PM #4:	Kuja_88 posted... But how do I not feel bad that there are other guys out there? By remembering there are other women out there. <cite>Dragonblade01 posted [p:926207053] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>But how do I not feel bad that there are other guys out there?</quote> By remembering there are other women out there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kuja_88 08/17/19 11:46:35 PM #5:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. I did. You have questions or did you just want to know? I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!! --- The light before we land <cite>Kuja_88 posted [p:926207059] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Who invented marriage and commitment anyways.</quote> I did. You have questions or did you just want to know?</quote> I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kuja_88 08/17/19 11:48:48 PM #6:	why did the big bang or god make us so horny. Maybe I should cut down on the horny goat weed. another thing does horny goat weed make you horny? --- The light before we land <cite>Kuja_88 posted [p:926207133] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>why did the big bang or god make us so horny. Maybe I should cut down on the horny goat weed. another thing does horny goat weed make you horny?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 08/17/19 11:50:55 PM #7:	You okay, man? You're saying a lot of crazy person shit. --- PSN: Jiek FFRK: Tyro God Wall KZcv <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:926207216] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>You okay, man? You're saying a lot of crazy person shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/17/19 11:51:39 PM #8:	Kuja_88 posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. I did. You have questions or did you just want to know? I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!! You realize that she probably wasn't rubbernecking and you were just picking up on false signals. So when you advanced again it started to scare her that you didn't understand she wasn't into you like that. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:926207238] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Who invented marriage and commitment anyways.</quote> I did. You have questions or did you just want to know?</quote> I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!!</quote> You realize that she probably wasn't rubbernecking and you were just picking up on false signals. So when you advanced again it started to scare her that you didn't understand she wasn't into you like that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kuja_88 08/17/19 11:53:10 PM #9:	I need to stop smoking weed too. It like changed my life. I live in Canada, you can order it from this site. Ontario Cannabis Store. It like messed me up and I started getting angry and stuff and greedy like the medical cocaine guys. --- The light before we land <cite>Kuja_88 posted [p:926207290] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>I need to stop smoking weed too. It like changed my life. I live in Canada, you can order it from this site. Ontario Cannabis Store. It like messed me up and I started getting angry and stuff and greedy like the medical cocaine guys.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/17/19 11:53:22 PM #10:	Kuja_88 posted... why did the big bang or god make us so horny. Maybe I should cut down on the horny goat weed. another thing does horny goat weed make you horny? God didn't make you horny, your lifestyle did. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:926207299] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>why did the big bang or god make us so horny. Maybe I should cut down on the horny goat weed. another thing does horny goat weed make you horny?</quote> God didn't make you horny, your lifestyle did.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kuja_88 08/17/19 11:55:55 PM #11:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. I did. You have questions or did you just want to know? I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!! You realize that she probably wasn't rubbernecking and you were just picking up on false signals. So when you advanced again it started to scare her that you didn't understand she wasn't into you like that. how do I pick up on the right signals? What are the right signals? My parents won't teach me. Give me an example. --- The light before we land <cite>Kuja_88 posted [p:926207389] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Who invented marriage and commitment anyways.</quote> I did. You have questions or did you just want to know?</quote> I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!!</quote> You realize that she probably wasn't rubbernecking and you were just picking up on false signals. So when you advanced again it started to scare her that you didn't understand she wasn't into you like that.</quote> how do I pick up on the right signals? What are the right signals? My parents won't teach me. Give me an example.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/17/19 11:57:59 PM #12:	Kuja_88 posted... I need to stop smoking weed too. It like changed my life. I live in Canada, you can order it from this site. Ontario Cannabis Store. It like messed me up and I started getting angry and stuff and greedy like the medical cocaine guys. You're the source man. You can blame substances and you're probably right that they're not helping. But I smoke weed and do medical cocaine a here and there and neither make me angry. They intensify an anger you have to address in your sober person. I actually have a friend that I been trying to coach through anger while having 0 experience. He's been way better at controlling his anger lately. I have no idea if I had anything to do with it but I think I did. We would talk about his anger quite often and it would seem like he thought my suggestions were logical. But we been friends for like 9 years so I had a lot of time. Try to be open about your anger when you're not angry. Be open to people you think want the best for you --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:926207460] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>I need to stop smoking weed too. It like changed my life. I live in Canada, you can order it from this site. Ontario Cannabis Store. It like messed me up and I started getting angry and stuff and greedy like the medical cocaine guys.</quote> You're the source man. You can blame substances and you're probably right that they're not helping. But I smoke weed and do medical cocaine a here and there and neither make me angry. They intensify an anger you have to address in your sober person. I actually have a friend that I been trying to coach through anger while having 0 experience. He's been way better at controlling his anger lately. I have no idea if I had anything to do with it but I think I did. We would talk about his anger quite often and it would seem like he thought my suggestions were logical. But we been friends for like 9 years so I had a lot of time. Try to be open about your anger when you're not angry. Be open to people you think want the best for you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Matchabuu_ 08/17/19 11:58:08 PM #13:	Dragonblade01 posted... Kuja_88 posted... But how do I not feel bad that there are other guys out there? By remembering there are other women out there. --- uwu SW-0239-3946-8686 <cite>_Matchabuu_ posted [p:926207467] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Dragonblade01 posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>But how do I not feel bad that there are other guys out there?</quote> By remembering there are other women out there.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 08/17/19 11:59:46 PM #14:	The best way to not feel bad is to know deep down, in your heart of hearts, that she is taking it like a champ at this very moment. With enthusiasm. Really committed to the act. Pulling out all the stops. Theyll both really need a shower afterwards. Probably together. Then right into round two. Detox, for fucks sake, man. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:926207530] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>The best way to not feel bad is to know deep down, in your heart of hearts, that she is taking it like a champ at this very moment. With enthusiasm. Really committed to the act. Pulling out all the stops. Theyll both really need a shower afterwards. Probably together. Then right into round two. Detox, for fucks sake, man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FightingJester 08/18/19 12:00:46 AM #15:	NeoShadowhen posted... The best way to not feel bad is to know deep down, in your heart of hearts, that she is taking it like a champ at this very moment. With enthusiasm. Really committed to the act. Pulling out all the stops. Theyll both really need a shower afterwards. Probably together. Then right into round two. Detox, for fucks sake, man. Lol. This. <cite>FightingJester posted [p:926207570] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>The best way to not feel bad is to know deep down, in your heart of hearts, that she is taking it like a champ at this very moment. With enthusiasm. Really committed to the act. Pulling out all the stops. Theyll both really need a shower afterwards. Probably together. Then right into round two. Detox, for fucks sake, man.</quote> Lol. This.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 08/18/19 12:02:01 AM #16:	she didn't think you were manly enough because you're canadian become an American citizen and she'll be all over you --- Shenmue II = best game of all time Shenmue = 2nd best game of all time <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:926207612] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>she didn't think you were manly enough because you're canadian become an American citizen and she'll be all over you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/18/19 12:03:45 AM #17:	Kuja_88 posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... Who invented marriage and commitment anyways. I did. You have questions or did you just want to know? I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!! You realize that she probably wasn't rubbernecking and you were just picking up on false signals. So when you advanced again it started to scare her that you didn't understand she wasn't into you like that. how do I pick up on the right signals? What are the right signals? My parents won't teach me. Give me an example. I can't. Because most of it is body language. I like to keep casual conversation until I notice them getting flirty, like laughing hard at my jokes and light touches. Also, tightening up is a dead give away. People who want to be where they at usually have a looser stance. Where if they're standing like they're in a line or waiting for someone then it's a sign they're not into what's going on as much. However just cause they're standing loose doesn't mean they're into you either, they could just be a comfortable person. It's not easy to figure --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:926207672] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>Who invented marriage and commitment anyways.</quote> I did. You have questions or did you just want to know?</quote> I want to know why my brain and testosterone want to play and the girl is rubbernecking and she's committed to her boyfriend. and all I want to do is not cross the line and then I cross the line. HOW DO I TELL MY BRAIN TO STOP!!!</quote> You realize that she probably wasn't rubbernecking and you were just picking up on false signals. So when you advanced again it started to scare her that you didn't understand she wasn't into you like that.</quote> how do I pick up on the right signals? What are the right signals? My parents won't teach me. Give me an example.</quote> I can't. Because most of it is body language. I like to keep casual conversation until I notice them getting flirty, like laughing hard at my jokes and light touches. Also, tightening up is a dead give away. People who want to be where they at usually have a looser stance. Where if they're standing like they're in a line or waiting for someone then it's a sign they're not into what's going on as much. However just cause they're standing loose doesn't mean they're into you either, they could just be a comfortable person. It's not easy to figure</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kuja_88 08/18/19 12:21:59 AM #18:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Kuja_88 posted... I need to stop smoking weed too. It like changed my life. I live in Canada, you can order it from this site. Ontario Cannabis Store. It like messed me up and I started getting angry and stuff and greedy like the medical cocaine guys. You're the source man. You can blame substances and you're probably right that they're not helping. But I smoke weed and do medical cocaine a here and there and neither make me angry. They intensify an anger you have to address in your sober person. I actually have a friend that I been trying to coach through anger while having 0 experience. He's been way better at controlling his anger lately. I have no idea if I had anything to do with it but I think I did. We would talk about his anger quite often and it would seem like he thought my suggestions were logical. But we been friends for like 9 years so I had a lot of time. Try to be open about your anger when you're not angry. Be open to people you think want the best for you This isn't this girl okay. This was another girl at the college I go too. We were into each other I can't remember if her pupils were dilated but she's like to come with me to Tim Hortons. And we would hug by the bus stop and hold hands. But I was nervous ya know maybe she just wanted to be friends so I went home. She asked me to take a bus ride with her as well one time. And another time she asked me if I could walk her home. I was so ****** scared I take her home and her parents see me. I think I'm scared of dealing with life in general. I know generations change but I'm black and she's Asian. I still haven't graduated from college. In fact, that's not even my college anymore because I refused to go to school one time. I'm thinking of doing some upgrading and going to a university. Another thing before I try again. I want to make sure I give her a good and relaxing time. I don't have a car or pocket money. And I don't want to be a bum or scare her or anything. That's why I'm trying to desperately either get my g2 which I already have my g1. And probably save up some reserves? >_> before I go to university properly. And maybe try another girl. She found a real boyfriend, by the way, I saw them pass by on a scooter and she gave me a wink goodbye. I hate lying and saying I've got a fever as I lean on a furnace or smoking weed and saying I'm drunk. I've only done that when I admitted. ** I can't pay you back or damn I don't have condoms or even I can't take you home because I don't have a g2 yet and I'm afraid of people on the subway. I know guys that have been in relationships the worst thing to do is to walk home or take the bus or train and we both don't have a car. Even worse now that I think about it....why do I feel bad I don't have a girlfriend and most have given social cues about how there is a relationship and when I don't get those cues I usually get the friend and then these issues come about. --- The light before we land <cite>Kuja_88 posted [p:926208299] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Kuja_88 posted...</cite> <quote>I need to stop smoking weed too. It like changed my life. I live in Canada, you can order it from this site. Ontario Cannabis Store. It like messed me up and I started getting angry and stuff and greedy like the medical cocaine guys.</quote> You're the source man. You can blame substances and you're probably right that they're not helping. But I smoke weed and do medical cocaine a here and there and neither make me angry. They intensify an anger you have to address in your sober person. I actually have a friend that I been trying to coach through anger while having 0 experience. He's been way better at controlling his anger lately. I have no idea if I had anything to do with it but I think I did. We would talk about his anger quite often and it would seem like he thought my suggestions were logical. But we been friends for like 9 years so I had a lot of time. Try to be open about your anger when you're not angry. Be open to people you think want the best for you</quote> This isn't this girl okay. This was another girl at the college I go too. We were into each other I can't remember if her pupils were dilated but she's like to come with me to Tim Hortons. And we would hug by the bus stop and hold hands. But I was nervous ya know maybe she just wanted to be friends so I went home. She asked me to take a bus ride with her as well one time. And another time she asked me if I could walk her home. I was so ****** scared I take her home and her parents see me. I think I'm scared of dealing with life in general. I know generations change but I'm black and she's Asian. I still haven't graduated from college. In fact, that's not even my college anymore because I refused to go to school one time. I'm thinking of doing some upgrading and going to a university. Another thing before I try again. I want to make sure I give her a good and relaxing time. I don't have a car or pocket money. And I don't want to be a bum or scare her or anything. That's why I'm trying to desperately either get my g2 which I already have my g1. And probably save up some reserves? >_> before I go to university properly. And maybe try another girl. She found a real boyfriend, by the way, I saw them pass by on a scooter and she gave me a wink goodbye. I hate lying and saying I've got a fever as I lean on a furnace or smoking weed and saying I'm drunk. I've only done that when I admitted. ** I can't pay you back or damn I don't have condoms or even I can't take you home because I don't have a g2 yet and I'm afraid of people on the subway. I know guys that have been in relationships the worst thing to do is to walk home or take the bus or train and we both don't have a car. Even worse now that I think about it....why do I feel bad I don't have a girlfriend and most have given social cues about how there is a relationship and when I don't get those cues I usually get the friend and then these issues come about.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 08/18/19 9:27:30 AM #19:	Damn_Underscore posted... she didn't think you were manly enough because you're canadian become an American citizen and she'll be all over you This. Or you can become more submissive and hope shes into femdom. --- Green is the Color <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:926218172] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>Damn_Underscore posted...</cite> <quote>she didn't think you were manly enough because you're canadian become an American citizen and she'll be all over you</quote> This. Or you can become more submissive and hope shes into femdom.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EverDownward 08/18/19 9:32:15 AM #20:	OP sounds like the title to a midwest emo song --- "Tried to point my finger, but the wind was blowing me around in circles, circles." <cite>EverDownward posted [p:926218273] in how do I n... [t:77946303]...</cite> <quote>OP sounds like the title to a midwest emo song</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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