Current Events > I'm currently rehabilitating an incel, ce

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We met playing magic the gathering after he Said that slut beat me but she got lucky and I kept using an active questioning approach every time he said something questionable to understand his approach

After I mercd him 2 - 0 I asked him to hang with my gang and now hes being fostered into a supportive non hostile group

You all should do the same and adopt an incel

Sounds memetic, but that's actually pretty wholesome if true.
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i tried to help a coworker once, but he refused to give up his Ernest fan fiction.
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Evening_Dragon posted...

Sounds memetic, but that's actually pretty wholesome if true.

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Evening_Dragon posted...

Sounds memetic, but that's actually pretty wholesome if true.

yeah we get together every week as a group to draft so why not - from what he's told me his friend group doesn't like him around and when I asked him why he said it was because he thinks women deserve getting assualted for dressing up

(that was a fun convo)

BuckVanHammer posted...

i tried to help a coworker once, but he refused to give up his Ernest fan fiction.

tf ernest fanfic is goat

You fucked up.
He's currently converting your boys to the incel lifestyle until you're the odd man left in the group.

I've experienced it many times, it's always sad to see a group of friends destroyed from the inside.
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Turbam posted...

You fucked up.
He's currently converting your boys to the incel lifestyle until you're the odd man left in the group.

I've experienced it many times, it's always sad to see a group of friends destroyed from the inside.

what
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Turbam posted...

You fucked up.
He's currently converting your boys to the incel lifestyle until you're the odd man left in the group.

I've experienced it many times, it's always sad to see a group of friends destroyed from the inside.

wut

soulunison2 posted...

I kept using an active questioning approach

Explain pls, I wanna hear more about this
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BuckVanHammer posted...

i tried to help a coworker once, but he refused to give up his Ernest fan fiction.

Encourage that dude. Writing in general can be extremely cathartic, and Ernest is wholesome and awesome.

As for the TC, I concur with what you're doing. I think, honestly, most incels just need a friend or friends. Someone that will ask them how they're doing and try to hang out with them and encourage social activities. Good job, man.
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Schwarz posted...

soulunison2 posted...

I kept using an active questioning approach

Explain pls, I wanna hear more about this

basically it's something I learned as a teacher - listen to what the other person is saying (listening is key, people don't know how to listen) Digest and affirm you heard it and then ask another question that further elicits an explanation or response to what was said

when you use it with kids you use it as a response to a misbehavior and have children talk themselves into explaining why they misbehaved and it helps understand what the misbehavior was