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Kurumiee 06/17/19 7:13:08 PM #1:	So we had been dating for a while because I thought she was a genuinely sweet and caring person, and in fact, she brought up the status of our current situation, which lead to us being official. The problem is that she can't take initiative. She says that she loves me, but would never take initiative kissing. At most, what you can expect from her, in terms of initiative, is that she would hold my hand. We haven't even slept either, because she gets all vague about that. Why? Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I'm 23, she's 22. Can someone educate me on shy people? <cite>Kurumiee posted [p:923456845] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>So we had been dating for a while because I thought she was a genuinely sweet and caring person, and in fact, she brought up the status of our current situation, which lead to us being official. The problem is that she can't take initiative. She says that she loves me, but would never take initiative kissing. At most, what you can expect from her, in terms of initiative, is that she would hold my hand. We haven't even slept either, because she gets all vague about that. Why? Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I'm 23, she's 22. Can someone educate me on shy people?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendarylemur 06/17/19 7:14:03 PM #2:	Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways --- "Iwata was awesome" - Mr. Nintendo https://i.imgtc.com/7dRrfE1.jpg <cite>legendarylemur posted [p:923456887] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster 06/17/19 7:15:00 PM #3:	Kurumiee posted... Can someone educate me on shy people? Do some self-reflection, because you sound like a shy dude. --- GOML <cite>Pepys Monster posted [p:923456929] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Can someone educate me on shy people?</quote> Do some self-reflection, because you sound like a shy dude.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MakoReizei 06/17/19 7:16:22 PM #4:	sounds like the perfect girlfriend --- https://i.imgtc.com/3owskMW.png <cite>MakoReizei posted [p:923456979] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>sounds like the perfect girlfriend</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 06/17/19 7:17:15 PM #5:	You can take the initiative. Which will show her that doing so isn't weird. Or you can be weird about it and confirm her fears. --- PSN: Jiek FFRK: Tyro God Wall KZcv <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:923457010] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>You can take the initiative. Which will show her that doing so isn't weird. Or you can be weird about it and confirm her fears.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/17/19 7:17:53 PM #6:	legendarylemur posted... Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways Not in my experience. Back in the day women wanted to jump deez bones....come to think of it though, they just made it REALLY obvious. I technically still made the first move except for a couple cases. One chick just said "I been wanting to do this" and attacked me when we became the only 2 in the room. She was engaged too. Them hos don't play --- Name checks out <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:923457046] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendarylemur posted...</cite> <quote>Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways</quote> Not in my experience. Back in the day women wanted to jump deez bones....come to think of it though, they just made it REALLY obvious. I technically still made the first move except for a couple cases. One chick just said "I been wanting to do this" and attacked me when we became the only 2 in the room. She was engaged too. Them hos don't play</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jackgunney 06/17/19 7:17:53 PM #7:	Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. --- http://i.minus.com/ieOpLcuqiqfcb.gif http://i.minus.com/ibiGqRtGU0KZ8K.gif <cite>jackgunney posted [p:923457047] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/17/19 7:19:08 PM #8:	jackgunney posted... Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move --- Name checks out <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:923457089] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MasterGakke 06/17/19 7:19:23 PM #9:	Take her out in public to a crowded place. Park your car and get out and hold her hand. Bodily fling her into the group of people while making Chewbacca noises, and then hop in the car and drive away before she can get in. This will either cure her or give her a lifelong fear of wookies. Or just do what normal people do and talk to her how you feel and how you think it'd make you feel really wanted and loved if she started the sex sometimes. --- All generalizations are false, including this one. <cite>MasterGakke posted [p:923457105] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>Take her out in public to a crowded place. Park your car and get out and hold her hand. Bodily fling her into the group of people while making Chewbacca noises, and then hop in the car and drive away before she can get in. This will either cure her or give her a lifelong fear of wookies. Or just do what normal people do and talk to her how you feel and how you think it'd make you feel really wanted and loved if she started the sex sometimes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kurumiee 06/17/19 7:19:35 PM #10:	legendarylemur posted... Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways Well, we don't live in the 60s anymore. When initiative in certain areas (like this) is one sided, it doesn't really go well with me either. It should come from both sides. <cite>Kurumiee posted [p:923457111] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendarylemur posted...</cite> <quote>Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways</quote> Well, we don't live in the 60s anymore. When initiative in certain areas (like this) is one sided, it doesn't really go well with me either. It should come from both sides.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BandofMedz 06/17/19 7:19:58 PM #11:	Dump her on her birthday --- Signature <cite>BandofMedz posted [p:923457123] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>Dump her on her birthday</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jackgunney 06/17/19 7:20:18 PM #12:	Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect. --- http://i.minus.com/ieOpLcuqiqfcb.gif http://i.minus.com/ibiGqRtGU0KZ8K.gif <cite>jackgunney posted [p:923457136] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move</quote> I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
a_riot04 06/17/19 7:20:51 PM #13:	She a virgin TC? Sounds like it. Either stay for a long haul and wait for her to get comfortable or dump her ass. It seems you've already tried talking it out. Dunno what else you can do. Maybe a grand gesture? --- Reinforcements? I am THE reinforcements. <cite>a_riot04 posted [p:923457157] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>She a virgin TC? Sounds like it. Either stay for a long haul and wait for her to get comfortable or dump her ass. It seems you've already tried talking it out. Dunno what else you can do. Maybe a grand gesture?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kurumiee 06/17/19 7:22:25 PM #14:	a_riot04 posted... She a virgin TC? Sounds like it. Either stay for a long haul and wait for her to get comfortable or dump her ass. It seems you've already tried talking it out. Dunno what else you can do. Maybe a grand gesture? I have never asked her whether she's a virgin, but I probably should, when I can find a suitable moment to ask such a question. <cite>Kurumiee posted [p:923457213] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>a_riot04 posted...</cite> <quote>She a virgin TC? Sounds like it. Either stay for a long haul and wait for her to get comfortable or dump her ass. It seems you've already tried talking it out. Dunno what else you can do. Maybe a grand gesture?</quote> I have never asked her whether she's a virgin, but I probably should, when I can find a suitable moment to ask such a question.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendarylemur 06/17/19 7:22:43 PM #15:	Kurumiee posted... legendarylemur posted... Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways Well, we don't live in the 60s anymore. When initiative in certain areas (like this) is one sided, it doesn't really go well with me either. It should come from both sides. Well you can either have that kind of expectation or simply just make things happen. It sounds absurd to me that you taking initiative can actually negatively affect your relationship either. Sooner or later, she's probably gonna tire of the fact that you're not making any moves. Kinda sounds to me like she's waiting for you to do stuff, and you're waiting for her to do stuff Either that or you actually meet women that are willing to take initiative. --- "Iwata was awesome" - Mr. Nintendo https://i.imgtc.com/7dRrfE1.jpg <cite>legendarylemur posted [p:923457235] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote><cite>legendarylemur posted...</cite> <quote>Why does she need to take the initiative lol... Even outside shy people it's usually the guys that have to do all that shit anyways</quote> Well, we don't live in the 60s anymore. When initiative in certain areas (like this) is one sided, it doesn't really go well with me either. It should come from both sides.</quote> Well you can either have that kind of expectation or simply just make things happen. It sounds absurd to me that you taking initiative can actually negatively affect your relationship either. Sooner or later, she's probably gonna tire of the fact that you're not making any moves. Kinda sounds to me like she's waiting for you to do stuff, and you're waiting for her to do stuff Either that or you actually meet women that are willing to take initiative.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OwlRammer 06/17/19 7:22:55 PM #16:	obviously you gotta act more shy than she does and force her to do something --- https://imgur.com/ji9KF3f https://imgur.com/p3G1Hvd http://puu.sh/ovZuS/97325c05b3.jpg http://puu.sh/ovZB2/eeee237f49.jpg <cite>OwlRammer posted [p:923457242] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>obviously you gotta act more shy than she does and force her to do something</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kurumiee 06/17/19 7:24:20 PM #17:	Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move She can't even look me in the eyes for longer than a few seconds, without getting all shy, lol <cite>Kurumiee posted [p:923457305] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move</quote> She can't even look me in the eyes for longer than a few seconds, without getting all shy, lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jackgunney 06/17/19 7:25:36 PM #18:	Kurumiee posted... She can't even look me in the eyes for longer than a few seconds, without getting all shy, lol My face is getting red reading this because I was the EXACT same way. My girlfriend started bringing me around all her loud and outgoing friends and it basically became sink or swim lol. --- http://i.minus.com/ieOpLcuqiqfcb.gif http://i.minus.com/ibiGqRtGU0KZ8K.gif <cite>jackgunney posted [p:923457363] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>She can't even look me in the eyes for longer than a few seconds, without getting all shy, lol</quote> My face is getting red reading this because I was the EXACT same way. My girlfriend started bringing me around all her loud and outgoing friends and it basically became sink or swim lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/17/19 7:27:05 PM #19:	jackgunney posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect. Oh, You'd hate me then. I love self deprecation humor. I also never get the vibe that people think I don't respect myself for it. --- Name checks out <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:923457411] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move</quote> I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect.</quote> Oh, You'd hate me then. I love self deprecation humor. I also never get the vibe that people think I don't respect myself for it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jackgunney 06/17/19 7:29:07 PM #20:	Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect. Oh, You'd hate me then. I love self deprecation humor. I also never get the vibe that people think I don't respect myself for it. I don't mind it as a joke. When people, like TC's girlfriend, use it as an excuse to avoid a topic it irritates the hell out of me. --- http://i.minus.com/ieOpLcuqiqfcb.gif http://i.minus.com/ibiGqRtGU0KZ8K.gif <cite>jackgunney posted [p:923457492] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move</quote> I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect.</quote> Oh, You'd hate me then. I love self deprecation humor. I also never get the vibe that people think I don't respect myself for it.</quote> I don't mind it as a joke. When people, like TC's girlfriend, use it as an excuse to avoid a topic it irritates the hell out of me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jedisamurai 06/17/19 7:34:10 PM #21:	This isn't about her shyness. Youre not adolescents. At your ages...dude, she says youre a couple, so she likes you...just take all the initiative. Itll be obvious if she's being responsive or not. At the beginning, some girls/women just aren't comfortable being forward physically with what they want. Lots of times they just need to feel relaxed and trust in their new sexual partner and they open way up. Just gotta man up. Now that DOES NOT mean you just whip your dick out. You can take charge and still show respect...if she's verbally resistant, or it feels like she's non-verbally hesitant, just stop and ask what's up. It's not difficult. And shy ones can be the best....lady in the street and freak in the bed! <cite>jedisamurai posted [p:923457704] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>This isn't about her shyness. Youre not adolescents. At your ages...dude, she says youre a couple, so she likes you...just take all the initiative. Itll be obvious if she's being responsive or not. At the beginning, some girls/women just aren't comfortable being forward physically with what they want. Lots of times they just need to feel relaxed and trust in their new sexual partner and they open way up. Just gotta man up. Now that DOES NOT mean you just whip your dick out. You can take charge and still show respect...if she's verbally resistant, or it feels like she's non-verbally hesitant, just stop and ask what's up. It's not difficult. And shy ones can be the best....lady in the street and freak in the bed!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kensaimage 06/17/19 7:35:42 PM #22:	Put your dick in her hand. I had a girl once who wouldnt make the move. We were making out plenty, I was feeling her up, we were enjoying each other. Finally, I just took my dick out of my pants and she started tugging. Worked out. <cite>Kensaimage posted [p:923457773] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>Put your dick in her hand. I had a girl once who wouldnt make the move. We were making out plenty, I was feeling her up, we were enjoying each other. Finally, I just took my dick out of my pants and she started tugging. Worked out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pus_N_Pecans 06/17/19 7:36:44 PM #23:	I'm real shy too, but it sounds like she might lack self confidence more than actually being shy. Tell her you value her opinion and let her know it's okay to speak her mind, listen to what she has to say and she might open up with you more. She just has to feel safe, and that takes time. --- My arts- http://gopherguy.deviantart.com/ <cite>Pus_N_Pecans posted [p:923457826] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote>I'm real shy too, but it sounds like she might lack self confidence more than actually being shy. Tell her you value her opinion and let her know it's okay to speak her mind, listen to what she has to say and she might open up with you more. She just has to feel safe, and that takes time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/17/19 7:40:40 PM #24:	jackgunney posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... jackgunney posted... Kurumiee posted... Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid". I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend. If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect. Oh, You'd hate me then. I love self deprecation humor. I also never get the vibe that people think I don't respect myself for it. I don't mind it as a joke. When people, like TC's girlfriend, use it as an excuse to avoid a topic it irritates the hell out of me. True. I joke a lot but I get to the point when it's actually about moving the pace. --- Name checks out <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:923457976] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jackgunney posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote>Her answers, though vague, being "I don't know" or "I'm just stupid".</quote> I hate that s*! Honestly I don't know how to handle shy people because I used to be the shy one until my current girlfriend.</quote> If she looks at you while saying nothing and playing with her hair, she wants you to make a move. That's a classic shy girl move</quote> I meant the "I'm stupid" part. Even if she isn't being serious it annoys me when girls or people in general say that. Have some self respect.</quote> Oh, You'd hate me then. I love self deprecation humor. I also never get the vibe that people think I don't respect myself for it.</quote> I don't mind it as a joke. When people, like TC's girlfriend, use it as an excuse to avoid a topic it irritates the hell out of me.</quote> True. I joke a lot but I get to the point when it's actually about moving the pace.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jedisamurai 06/17/19 7:43:46 PM #25:	jedisamurai posted... This isn't about her shyness. Youre not adolescents. At your ages...dude, she says youre a couple, so she likes you...just take all the initiative. Itll be obvious if she's being responsive or not. At the beginning, some girls/women just aren't comfortable being forward physically with what they want. Lots of times they just need to feel relaxed and trust in their new sexual partner and they open way up. Just gotta man up. Now that DOES NOT mean you just whip your dick out. You can take charge and still show respect...if she's verbally resistant, or it feels like she's non-verbally hesitant, just stop and ask what's up. It's not difficult. And shy ones can be the best....lady in the street and freak in the bed! Kensaimage posted... Put your dick in her hand. I had a girl once who wouldnt make the move. We were making out plenty, I was feeling her up, we were enjoying each other. Finally, I just took my dick out of my pants and she started tugging. Worked out. Well we've certainly offered contradictory advice here lol. I dont where TCs relationship is at currently. If they've just started being physical, then listen to me. If you're far enough along as Kensai's scenario, then that may indeed be the next step. <cite>jedisamurai posted [p:923458092] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>jedisamurai posted...</cite> <quote>This isn't about her shyness. Youre not adolescents. At your ages...dude, she says youre a couple, so she likes you...just take all the initiative. Itll be obvious if she's being responsive or not. At the beginning, some girls/women just aren't comfortable being forward physically with what they want. Lots of times they just need to feel relaxed and trust in their new sexual partner and they open way up. Just gotta man up. Now that DOES NOT mean you just whip your dick out. You can take charge and still show respect...if she's verbally resistant, or it feels like she's non-verbally hesitant, just stop and ask what's up. It's not difficult. And shy ones can be the best....lady in the street and freak in the bed!</quote> <cite>Kensaimage posted...</cite> <quote>Put your dick in her hand. I had a girl once who wouldnt make the move. We were making out plenty, I was feeling her up, we were enjoying each other. Finally, I just took my dick out of my pants and she started tugging. Worked out.</quote> Well we've certainly offered contradictory advice here lol. I dont where TCs relationship is at currently. If they've just started being physical, then listen to me. If you're far enough along as Kensai's scenario, then that may indeed be the next step.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kensaimage 06/17/19 7:49:37 PM #26:	jedisamurai posted... jedisamurai posted... This isn't about her shyness. Youre not adolescents. At your ages...dude, she says youre a couple, so she likes you...just take all the initiative. Itll be obvious if she's being responsive or not. At the beginning, some girls/women just aren't comfortable being forward physically with what they want. Lots of times they just need to feel relaxed and trust in their new sexual partner and they open way up. Just gotta man up. Now that DOES NOT mean you just whip your dick out. You can take charge and still show respect...if she's verbally resistant, or it feels like she's non-verbally hesitant, just stop and ask what's up. It's not difficult. And shy ones can be the best....lady in the street and freak in the bed! Kensaimage posted... Put your dick in her hand. I had a girl once who wouldnt make the move. We were making out plenty, I was feeling her up, we were enjoying each other. Finally, I just took my dick out of my pants and she started tugging. Worked out. Well we've certainly offered contradictory advice here lol. I dont where TCs relationship is at currently. If they've just started being physical, then listen to me. If you're far enough along as Kensai's scenario, then that may indeed be the next step. In this situation, we were already pretty hot and heavy. A lot of times, one is just waiting for the other to get sexual. If shes letting you feel her up while you make out, shes probably okay with going further. A good test in that situation is to touch the thigh. If she responds well, youre almost certainly in the clear to whip yo dick out <cite>Kensaimage posted [p:923458331] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>jedisamurai posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jedisamurai posted...</cite> <quote>This isn't about her shyness. Youre not adolescents. At your ages...dude, she says youre a couple, so she likes you...just take all the initiative. Itll be obvious if she's being responsive or not. At the beginning, some girls/women just aren't comfortable being forward physically with what they want. Lots of times they just need to feel relaxed and trust in their new sexual partner and they open way up. Just gotta man up. Now that DOES NOT mean you just whip your dick out. You can take charge and still show respect...if she's verbally resistant, or it feels like she's non-verbally hesitant, just stop and ask what's up. It's not difficult. And shy ones can be the best....lady in the street and freak in the bed!</quote> <cite>Kensaimage posted...</cite> <quote>Put your dick in her hand. I had a girl once who wouldnt make the move. We were making out plenty, I was feeling her up, we were enjoying each other. Finally, I just took my dick out of my pants and she started tugging. Worked out.</quote> Well we've certainly offered contradictory advice here lol. I dont where TCs relationship is at currently. If they've just started being physical, then listen to me. If you're far enough along as Kensai's scenario, then that may indeed be the next step.</quote> In this situation, we were already pretty hot and heavy. A lot of times, one is just waiting for the other to get sexual. If shes letting you feel her up while you make out, shes probably okay with going further. A good test in that situation is to touch the thigh. If she responds well, youre almost certainly in the clear to whip yo dick out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeadPipeCinche 06/17/19 8:04:35 PM #27:	Kurumiee posted... a_riot04 posted... She a virgin TC? Sounds like it. Either stay for a long haul and wait for her to get comfortable or dump her ass. It seems you've already tried talking it out. Dunno what else you can do. Maybe a grand gesture? I have never asked her whether she's a virgin, but I probably should, when I can find a suitable moment to ask such a question. When you are both sitting on the couch, you whip your dick out and tell her to get to work on it. Works like a charm 90% of the time 100% of the time. <cite>LeadPipeCinche posted [p:923459014] in How to dea... [t:77798258]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kurumiee posted...</cite> <quote><cite>a_riot04 posted...</cite> <quote>She a virgin TC? Sounds like it. Either stay for a long haul and wait for her to get comfortable or dump her ass. It seems you've already tried talking it out. Dunno what else you can do. Maybe a grand gesture?</quote> I have never asked her whether she's a virgin, but I probably should, when I can find a suitable moment to ask such a question.</quote> When you are both sitting on the couch, you whip your dick out and tell her to get to work on it. Works like a charm 90% of the time 100% of the time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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