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Kineth
12/15/18 2:09:29 PM
#51:


MonkeySee posted...
What was it you did that so charmed her?


KogaSteelfang posted...
Were you "selling yourself" on that field trip? She fell in love with you because she saw something she liked in you. There's nothing like that in me.


I'm gonna be very brief at the moment, but I can expand later on if necessary.

Anyway trip was to Six Flags. She finally got over her fear and rode her first real roller coaster. Later on a few of us want to ride the new big bad roller coaster there before we have to leave and it's like a 40 minute wait. At about minute... 35, her anxiety is kicking into overdrive and really didn't want to be there. I walked out with her knowing that I'd lose my spot in line.

Her and her boyfriend had apparently broken up 2 hours prior and he was part of the group of us in line. A grade school girlfriend I hadn't gotten over was also in the group along with 2 bullies of mine. I didn't hang out with her because I hated all of her friends. That whole day, I had been trying to "sell myself" with another chick I had met within the last 2 or 3 weeks of middle school. She was part of the group. The bullies were getting along better with her than I was. In front of my ex. My social anxiety is in overdrive... and this is probably minute 28. I needed her help just as much as she needed mine. Either way as a young person, I decided that my desire to ride a roller coaster I'd ridden a few times before and my desire to impress a chick were something I could be ok with sacrificing in order to help a friend.

Hell, I gotta talk to her about this again. Some of those minor details are things I just now recalled for the first time in 15 years and didn't even realize.

Turns out, I was the first person she ever felt safe around. The first person who was able to get her anxiety to disappear. And as I said, I was a social anxiety mess so my ability to understand social dynamics and cues and the implications of what I'm saying were abysmal especially because I had no clue what SAD even was then...

You don't have to move a mountain to give a person a reason to love you.

EDIT: Ugh, I'm having a low blood sugar attack. So I'll give a more coherent story when I make the edit, that is if it's necessary.
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Dark_SilverX
12/15/18 7:04:11 PM
#52:


DK9292 posted...
What if you don't fucking want one?

Is that an "excuse" too, TC?

xD
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Albel-Nox
12/15/18 7:09:18 PM
#53:


Dude's practically a Chad...

Or am I missing the point?
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Dark_SilverX
12/15/18 7:10:42 PM
#54:


Albel-Nox posted...
Dude's practically a Chad...

Or am I missing the point?

Anybody can be a Chad or Tyrone. That is the moral of this story and topic.
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matteus70
12/15/18 7:18:08 PM
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Jesus Koga you're an enigma.
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Albel-Nox
12/15/18 7:28:15 PM
#56:


Dark_SilverX posted...
Albel-Nox posted...
Dude's practically a Chad...

Or am I missing the point?

Anybody can be a Chad or Tyrone. That is the moral of this story and topic.

Mind=Blown
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The Catgirl Fondler
12/15/18 8:05:59 PM
#57:


I'm not terribly interested in a relationship to begin with, and it's just as well, I'm not at all desirable anyway.

No point in trying to play when you're already disqualified.
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MonkeySee
12/15/18 10:26:08 PM
#58:


Kineth posted...
MonkeySee posted...
What was it you did that so charmed her?


KogaSteelfang posted...
Were you "selling yourself" on that field trip? She fell in love with you because she saw something she liked in you. There's nothing like that in me.


I'm gonna be very brief at the moment, but I can expand later on if necessary.

Anyway trip was to Six Flags. She finally got over her fear and rode her first real roller coaster. Later on a few of us want to ride the new big bad roller coaster there before we have to leave and it's like a 40 minute wait. At about minute... 35, her anxiety is kicking into overdrive and really didn't want to be there. I walked out with her knowing that I'd lose my spot in line.

Her and her boyfriend had apparently broken up 2 hours prior and he was part of the group of us in line. A grade school girlfriend I hadn't gotten over was also in the group along with 2 bullies of mine. I didn't hang out with her because I hated all of her friends. That whole day, I had been trying to "sell myself" with another chick I had met within the last 2 or 3 weeks of middle school. She was part of the group. The bullies were getting along better with her than I was. In front of my ex. My social anxiety is in overdrive... and this is probably minute 28. I needed her help just as much as she needed mine. Either way as a young person, I decided that my desire to ride a roller coaster I'd ridden a few times before and my desire to impress a chick were something I could be ok with sacrificing in order to help a friend.

Hell, I gotta talk to her about this again. Some of those minor details are things I just now recalled for the first time in 15 years and didn't even realize.

Turns out, I was the first person she ever felt safe around. The first person who was able to get her anxiety to disappear. And as I said, I was a social anxiety mess so my ability to understand social dynamics and cues and the implications of what I'm saying were abysmal especially because I had no clue what SAD even was then...

You don't have to move a mountain to give a person a reason to love you.

EDIT: Ugh, I'm having a low blood sugar attack. So I'll give a more coherent story when I make the edit, that is if it's necessary.

Awww, that's really cute. Thanks for sharing your story. May you continue to find comfort in each other.
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Kanaya413
12/17/18 9:59:47 AM
#59:


Kineth posted...
MonkeySee posted...
What was it you did that so charmed her?


KogaSteelfang posted...
Were you "selling yourself" on that field trip? She fell in love with you because she saw something she liked in you. There's nothing like that in me.


I'm gonna be very brief at the moment, but I can expand later on if necessary.

Anyway trip was to Six Flags. She finally got over her fear and rode her first real roller coaster. Later on a few of us want to ride the new big bad roller coaster there before we have to leave and it's like a 40 minute wait. At about minute... 35, her anxiety is kicking into overdrive and really didn't want to be there. I walked out with her knowing that I'd lose my spot in line.

Her and her boyfriend had apparently broken up 2 hours prior and he was part of the group of us in line. A grade school girlfriend I hadn't gotten over was also in the group along with 2 bullies of mine. I didn't hang out with her because I hated all of her friends. That whole day, I had been trying to "sell myself" with another chick I had met within the last 2 or 3 weeks of middle school. She was part of the group. The bullies were getting along better with her than I was. In front of my ex. My social anxiety is in overdrive... and this is probably minute 28. I needed her help just as much as she needed mine. Either way as a young person, I decided that my desire to ride a roller coaster I'd ridden a few times before and my desire to impress a chick were something I could be ok with sacrificing in order to help a friend.

Hell, I gotta talk to her about this again. Some of those minor details are things I just now recalled for the first time in 15 years and didn't even realize.

Turns out, I was the first person she ever felt safe around. The first person who was able to get her anxiety to disappear. And as I said, I was a social anxiety mess so my ability to understand social dynamics and cues and the implications of what I'm saying were abysmal especially because I had no clue what SAD even was then...

You don't have to move a mountain to give a person a reason to love you.

EDIT: Ugh, I'm having a low blood sugar attack. So I'll give a more coherent story when I make the edit, that is if it's necessary.

Awww ;_;
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