Current Events > I feel like my heart has literally been torn out and left in the cold

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Been crushing on this girl for a few months, we've been hanging out every Tuesday and I became infatuated with her. Imagining perfect "what if" scenarios

I've been giving her subtle hints about how I feel to no avail

This morning she texts me saying she's sick and can't see me today. Naturally I became suspicious. 1/7 odds of being sick on the day we have a date? I don't think so. I knew something was up

I checked her facebook and not only has she spent the afternoon with some gym rat looking guy, she's also uploaded pics to her facebook. Does she really think I wouldn't see them?

I've texted her a few times asking why she lied to me but I've had no reply and it's starting to push me close to breaking point

I'm giving her another 20 minutes to reply or I'm going to call her and tell her how frustrated I am
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Til people are sick 1 out of every 7 days

Its over before it even began. Move on.
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*farts*
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Just ignore her.

Who cares about her explanation, you already know the facts.

at first I thought this was a copy pasta but I don't see anything like it on Google so now I'm disappointed that this is probably real

Been crushing on this girl for a few months

Is there a reason you did not ask her out? I mean, eventually someone else would - and did - so why the inaction?

OH MAN!!!!!!!!!!

that's fucking horrible!!! the nerve!? of her.

Definitely Call her up! and find out what's up!?

BlockAddition posted...

Been crushing on this girl for a few months, we've been hanging out every Tuesday and I became infatuated with her. Imagining perfect "what if" scenarios

I've been giving her subtle hints about how I feel to no avail

This morning she texts me saying she's sick and can't see me today. Naturally I became suspicious. 1/7 odds of being sick on the day we have a date? I don't think so. I knew something was up

I checked her facebook and not only has she spent the afternoon with some gym rat looking guy, she's also uploaded pics to her facebook. Does she really think I wouldn't see them?

I've texted her a few times asking why she lied to me but I've had no reply and it's starting to push me close to breaking point

I'm giving her another 20 minutes to reply or I'm going to call her and tell her how frustrated I am

Is this a joke post
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slimfizzle2 posted...

*farts*

AYE! lmaoooooooo

Complete_Idi0t posted...

Til people are sick 1 out of every 7 days

Literally my first thought as well lmao
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I really hope this is a joke post.
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this has to be a joke post

Crushing or stalking? The story makes it sound like the latter.
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TC is Doug Funnie

Girl is Patti Mayonnaise

Dude that's banging the girl is Roger Klotz

TC, I feel for you man. Its really hard when you like a girl that doesnt like you back.

But my friend, you can not do this. Do not call her. She probably already feels scared of you already. I repeat. Do not call her. Forget about her. Play some video games or some shit.

Maybe give this a listen.
https://open.spotify.com/track/62vpWI1CHwFy7tMIcSStl8?si=pVRaIRInSfuQMT7KsanmwQ
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Sounds like most girls in the Western World.

Stick to books and music.

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That's why you need to become a full blown SJW and go for the girls with short hair and glasses that hang out at coffee shops.

Girl made the right choice. Fair next.
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Okay wow she's not answering her phone

This fucking sucks, all I can do is keep trying
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BlockAddition posted...

Okay wow she's not answering her phone

This fucking sucks, all I can do is keep trying

That's the quickest way to make you seem like a stalker.
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Let me be real with you.

You were crushing on this girl for months yet didn't make a move on her? You don't get to complain that she's hanging out with other guys. You never made the move, so someone else did.

He who hesitates is lost.
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Jesus guys are pathetic. I feel sorry for girls who put up with these stalker types
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if this is true it is creepy tbh

you should always tell her how you feel after spending a fair amount of time together imo.
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When I was younger I was in an extremely similar situation, so I can absolutely believe this is real. This woman doesn't care about you beyond using you as an emotional outlet and nothing you do will elevate the relationship to the level you want. Either you make a clean break and pick yourself up over time or you do something to alienate her and she shatters you on the spot.

In case you're wondering I had the latter happen to me and it was one of the worst experiences of my life.

BlockAddition posted...

Does she really think I wouldn't see them?

this is the right mentality
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Lmao this can't be real
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Oh also?

Hints are for middle schoolers.

Doesn't work for girls because "Being really friendly" is what 90% of guys do around a girl that's even moderately attractive.

Doesn't work for guys because holy shit are we bad at reading between the lines.

Be direct, or be silent.
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Hairistotle posted...

u guys are super gullible anyone ever tell u that

Eh. I'm reading this on my 30 minute break so I don't care if it's real or not, it passes the time.
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InCEl.
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The answer is sometimes no. I mean, it's usually no. Get over it
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BlockAddition posted...

Okay wow she's not answering her phone

This fucking sucks, all I can do is keep trying

youre going to scare her.
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ocelot51 posted...

When I was younger I was in an extremely similar situation, so I can absolutely believe this is real. This woman doesn't care about you beyond using you as an emotional outlet and nothing you do will elevate the relationship to the level you want. Either you make a clean break and pick yourself up over time or you do something to alienate her and she shatters you on the spot.

In case you're wondering I had the latter happen to me and it was one of the worst experiences of my life.

It's funny how when girls just want to be friends with a guy they're "using him". Maybe if the guy could be mature enough to realize there are more relationship types than one and you don't always get exactly what you want, then they could accept that they're not being used but just not getting a forced love connection. You're not a victim just cause a girl doesn't want to fuck you.
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Or just make her regret giving you a sliver of attention at all
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Hairistotle posted...

u guys are super gullible anyone ever tell u that

Yeah the way TC presented himself in the story makes it obvious

Lost_All_Senses posted...

It's funny how when girls just want to be friends with a guy they're "using him". Maybe if the guy could be mature enough to realize there are more relationship types than one and you don't always get exactly what you want, then they could accept that they're not being used but just not getting a forced love connection. You're not a victim just cause a girl doesn't want to fuck you.

I was just projecting based on my own experiences and perhaps TC's crush is different. Everything else you said is totally true and I was a different, shitty person back then.

Lost_All_Senses posted...

It's funny how when girls just want to be friends with a guy they're "using him". Maybe if the guy could be mature enough to realize there are more relationship types than one and you don't always get exactly what you want, then they could accept that they're not being used but just not getting a forced love connection. You're not a victim just cause a girl doesn't want to fuck you.

Also this.
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Wow.

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BlockAddition posted...

Okay wow she's not answering her phone

This fucking sucks, all I can do is keep trying

can you locate her? just confront her in person.
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ocelot51 posted...

Lost_All_Senses posted...

It's funny how when girls just want to be friends with a guy they're "using him". Maybe if the guy could be mature enough to realize there are more relationship types than one and you don't always get exactly what you want, then they could accept that they're not being used but just not getting a forced love connection. You're not a victim just cause a girl doesn't want to fuck you.

I was just projecting based on my own experiences and perhaps TC's crush is different. Everything else you said is totally true and I was a different, shitty person back then.

Fair enough. Im not one to hold people to the standard they had in their youth. People grow up and I respect that.
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ModLogic posted...

BlockAddition posted...

Okay wow she's not answering her phone

This fucking sucks, all I can do is keep trying

can you locate her? just confront her in person.

Yes, show up at her door at midnight. It would steal her heart away.
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Good news, I heard from her. Her phone has been messing up which is actually a blessing as I now know what to get her for Christmas, lol

The pictures she put on facebook were from an earlier date. I was slightly skeptical at first but I did my research and the pictures show a clear sky and it was cloudy/overcast all day yesterday
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BlockAddition posted...

Good news, I heard from her. Her phone has been messing up which is actually a blessing as I now know what to get her for Christmas, lol

The pictures she put on facebook were from an earlier date. I was slightly skeptical at first but I did my research and the pictures show a clear sky and it was cloudy/overcast all day yesterday

Lol.

If this did happened, you got fooled.
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Oh you poor thing. So naive.
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kinetika_ posted...

Lmao this can't be real

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If the chick is playing games, leave her alone. You'll only drive yourself nuts trying to get decency from her. Take that as a sneak preview of more dumb shit you'd have to put up with if you were in a relationship and be grateful you're not.
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BruceWayneJr posted...

If the chick is playing games, leave her alone. You'll only drive yourself nuts trying to get decency from her. Take that as a sneak preview of more dumb shit you'd have to put up with if you were in a relationship and be grateful you're not.

She's clearly not interested in a relationship with tc.
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Can't believe she tricked you into getting a new phone for her
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