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KINDERFELD 12/09/18 6:31:10 PM #1:	For those who doubt that women have rape fantasies, here are a few studies to read about. Register to read more. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19085605 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18321031 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/5531382_Women's_Erotic_Rape_Fantasies_An_Evaluation_of_Theory_and_Research This is an article on the first study: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/slightly-blighty/201508/womens-sexual-fantasies-the-latest-scientific-research So could this be part of a bigger problem? Some men simply don't know how far they should take things? I am very respectful of those who have actually been victims of sexual violence and this is in no way to devalue the heinousness of those acts or to legitimize them. With the current debate about the Christmas carol "Baby It's Cold Outside" I think we need to look at things from all perspectives possible and this imo is just one of them. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:913842868] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>For those who doubt that women have rape fantasies, here are a few studies to read about. Register to read more. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19085605 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18321031 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/5531382_Women's_Erotic_Rape_Fantasies_An_Evaluation_of_Theory_and_Research This is an article on the first study: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/slightly-blighty/201508/womens-sexual-fantasies-the-latest-scientific-research So could this be part of a bigger problem? Some men simply don't know how far they should take things? I am very respectful of those who have actually been victims of sexual violence and this is in no way to devalue the heinousness of those acts or to legitimize them. With the current debate about the Christmas carol "Baby It's Cold Outside" I think we need to look at things from all perspectives possible and this imo is just one of them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 12/09/18 6:32:14 PM #2:	nah --- https://imgur.com/oMugXmg https://imgur.com/RqZEfZX https://imgur.com/ZDQ6hEl https://imgur.com/QTyiblu <cite>KainWind posted [p:913842944] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>nah</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 12/09/18 6:33:37 PM #3:	Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie. --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:913843050] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 12/09/18 6:37:57 PM #4:	averagejoel posted... Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie. Never heard about that song before or that term. Is it from another country? --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:913843307] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote>Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie.</quote> Never heard about that song before or that term. Is it from another country?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirkDiggles 12/09/18 6:38:24 PM #5:	https://imgur.com/tUhAouA --- https://imgtc.com/i/5CTKeaL.jpg https://imgtc.com/i/G9w39yE.gif <cite>DirkDiggles posted [p:913843331] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>https://imgur.com/tUhAouA</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 12/09/18 6:39:08 PM #6:	KINDERFELD posted... averagejoel posted... Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie. Never heard about that song before or that term. Is it from another country? it's a joke --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:913843376] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>KINDERFELD posted...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote>Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie.</quote> Never heard about that song before or that term. Is it from another country?</quote> it's a joke</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/09/18 6:39:36 PM #7:	Rape fantasies are definitely a thing but I don't think the song has anything to do with it. It's just a 1940s version of modern rap songs about wanting to fuck some thot really bad. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:913843410] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>Rape fantasies are definitely a thing but I don't think the song has anything to do with it. It's just a 1940s version of modern rap songs about wanting to fuck some thot really bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nemu 12/09/18 6:41:46 PM #8:	It's insane that anyone still brings this up. You can tell that someone doesn't have a good grasp on real issues if they think this song is problematic. <cite>nemu posted [p:913843535] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>It's insane that anyone still brings this up. You can tell that someone doesn't have a good grasp on real issues if they think this song is problematic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
monkmith 12/09/18 6:42:30 PM #9:	averagejoel posted... KINDERFELD posted... averagejoel posted... Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie. Never heard about that song before or that term. Is it from another country? it's a joke this is gamefaqs, everything is taken extremely literal. --- People die when they are killed. Quando il gioco e finito, il re e il pedone vanno nella stessa scatola <cite>monkmith posted [p:913843592] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KINDERFELD posted...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote>Actually, the line "I'm going to disembowel you, Santa" in the Christmas classic "Let's Disembowel Santa" isn't about slicing Santa open to remove his steaming bowels. The song was written during a brief period in 1953 when "disembowel" was slang for giving someone a fig cookie.</quote> Never heard about that song before or that term. Is it from another country?</quote> it's a joke</quote> this is gamefaqs, everything is taken extremely literal.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 12/09/18 6:42:40 PM #10:	SpiralDrift posted... Rape fantasies are definitely a thing but I don't think the song has anything to do with it. It's just a 1940s version of modern rap songs about wanting to fuck some thot really bad. You might be correct but things were quite different in those days. Husbands could beat their wives etc apart from other things. However, this didn't all come about by chance. Even today I see women reject men because they are "soft" or not aggressive enough. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:913843603] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>Rape fantasies are definitely a thing but I don't think the song has anything to do with it. It's just a 1940s version of modern rap songs about wanting to fuck some thot really bad.</quote> You might be correct but things were quite different in those days. Husbands could beat their wives etc apart from other things. However, this didn't all come about by chance. Even today I see women reject men because they are "soft" or not aggressive enough.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnholyMudcrab 12/09/18 6:43:20 PM #11:	Holy jesus, we just can't fucking stop --- https://imgur.com/VeNBg https://imgur.com/gd5jC8q https://imgur.com/PKIy7 https://imgur.com/3p29JqP <cite>UnholyMudcrab posted [p:913843653] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>Holy jesus, we just can't fucking stop</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KINDERFELD 12/09/18 6:45:58 PM #13:	WhinyZach posted... There's nothing wrong with the song, and hardly anyone cares about it. Some women have that specific fetish, but they want it acted out in a safe and controlled way. No woman want's be raped, i refuse to believe that. heads up NOTHING averagejoel ever posts should be taken seriously Way to show you didn't read anything posted but the headlines...typical vesti poster...smh. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:913843822] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>WhinyZach posted...</cite> <quote>There's nothing wrong with the song, and hardly anyone cares about it. Some women have that specific fetish, but they want it acted out in a safe and controlled way. No woman want's be raped, i refuse to believe that. heads up NOTHING averagejoel ever posts should be taken seriously</quote> Way to show you didn't read anything posted but the headlines...typical vesti poster...smh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/09/18 6:46:19 PM #14:	I actually hope this music censorship thing goes into overdrive again like the PMRC in the 1980s, thus ushering in a new era of awesome anti-censorship music with balls. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:913843843] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>I actually hope this music censorship thing goes into overdrive again like the PMRC in the 1980s, thus ushering in a new era of awesome anti-censorship music with balls.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AdviceMan 12/10/18 4:52:31 PM #15:	No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her. --- "I'm not racist but, BLM sure did make me racist." -Skasa I'm just here to offer you advice, take it or leave it. <cite>AdviceMan posted [p:913897790] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lordgold666 12/10/18 4:53:52 PM #16:	AdviceMan posted... No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her. ^^^ this --- 3DS: 1848-2391-0198 "May the Father of Understanding guide us" <cite>Lordgold666 posted [p:913897849] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>AdviceMan posted...</cite> <quote>No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her.</quote> ^^^ this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iPhone_7 12/10/18 4:58:53 PM #17:	The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man! --- Sig User Logic https://imgur.com/lA5fm7w <cite>iPhone_7 posted [p:913898123] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 12/10/18 7:03:12 PM #18:	iPhone_7 posted... The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man! you and your penis need a timeout. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:913905370] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>iPhone_7 posted...</cite> <quote>The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man!</quote> you and your penis need a timeout.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iPhone_7 12/10/18 7:09:19 PM #19:	KINDERFELD posted... iPhone_7 posted... The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man! you and your penis need a timeout. Now a man cant discipline his wife for burning the pot roast or give his secretary a small ass spank without fear of HR not even allowed to smoke whenever or wherever they please. What happened to Murika??? When will we be allowed again to sell lead paint or allow pregnant women to smoke? The good ol days! --- Sig User Logic https://imgur.com/lA5fm7w <cite>iPhone_7 posted [p:913905756] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>KINDERFELD posted...</cite> <quote><cite>iPhone_7 posted...</cite> <quote>The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man!</quote> you and your penis need a timeout.</quote> Now a man cant discipline his wife for burning the pot roast or give his secretary a small ass spank without fear of HR not even allowed to smoke whenever or wherever they please. What happened to Murika??? When will we be allowed again to sell lead paint or allow pregnant women to smoke? The good ol days!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 12/10/18 7:10:17 PM #20:	iPhone_7 posted... KINDERFELD posted... iPhone_7 posted... The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man! you and your penis need a timeout. Now a man cant discipline his wife for burning the pot roast or give his secretary a small ass spank without fear of HR not even allowed to smoke whenever or wherever they please. What happened to Murika??? When will we be allowed again to sell lead paint or allow pregnant women to smoke? The good ol days! That's why we gotta vote Trump in 2020. He's the only one who can MAGA! --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:913905820] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>iPhone_7 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KINDERFELD posted...</cite> <quote><cite>iPhone_7 posted...</cite> <quote>The 1940s when America used to be great. Now a man cant be a man!</quote> you and your penis need a timeout.</quote> Now a man cant discipline his wife for burning the pot roast or give his secretary a small ass spank without fear of HR not even allowed to smoke whenever or wherever they please. What happened to Murika??? When will we be allowed again to sell lead paint or allow pregnant women to smoke? The good ol days!</quote> That's why we gotta vote Trump in 2020. He's the only one who can MAGA!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prestoff 12/10/18 7:32:14 PM #21:	Its a song about 2 people flirting with each other. The woman in the song is playing coy with the man. --- It's what all true warriors strive for! Switch FC: SW-0575-4758-7878 <cite>Prestoff posted [p:913907189] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>Its a song about 2 people flirting with each other. The woman in the song is playing coy with the man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sariana21 12/10/18 7:34:07 PM #22:	AdviceMan posted... No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her. Yep. The song is misogynistic not because the man wants her to stay but rather because the nosy neighbor, the brother, the sister, everyone will talk. The woman doesnt have the freedom to make her own choice. --- ___ Sari, Mom to DS (07/04) and DD (01/08) <cite>Sariana21 posted [p:913907298] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>AdviceMan posted...</cite> <quote>No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her.</quote> Yep. The song is misogynistic not because the man wants her to stay but rather because the nosy neighbor, the brother, the sister, everyone will talk. The woman doesnt have the freedom to make her own choice.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Doge 12/10/18 7:43:57 PM #23:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJB9GP5gyAw" data-time=" --- Wow such signature join Dogefaqs today http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1341-dogefaqs <cite>The_Doge posted [p:913907843] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJB9GP5gyAw" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iPhone_7 12/10/18 7:44:46 PM #24:	Sariana21 posted... AdviceMan posted... No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her. Yep. The song is misogynistic not because the man wants her to stay but rather because the nosy neighbor, the brother, the sister, everyone will talk. The woman doesnt have the freedom to make her own choice. Huh --- Sig User Logic https://imgur.com/lA5fm7w <cite>iPhone_7 posted [p:913907895] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sariana21 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AdviceMan posted...</cite> <quote>No. It's a play on the fact that in the 1930's or w/e a woman was an absolute slut if she accepted a man's advances. The point is that she actually WANTS to say yes, but she can't due to societal pressures, and she is more concerned with what people will think than about the man taking advantage of her.</quote> Yep. The song is misogynistic not because the man wants her to stay but rather because the nosy neighbor, the brother, the sister, everyone will talk. The woman doesnt have the freedom to make her own choice.</quote> Huh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Thunder_Armor 12/10/18 7:45:54 PM #25:	The song is kind of rapey if you choose to view it that way. That's all there is to it. --- I should go. <cite>Thunder_Armor posted [p:913907961] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>The song is kind of rapey if you choose to view it that way. That's all there is to it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SquirrelyDan 12/10/18 7:57:15 PM #26:	No. --- Rams fan in L.A., then in St. Louis, and in L.A. again Something was said. <cite>SquirrelyDan posted [p:913908599] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>No.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 12/12/18 3:56:38 PM #27:	the song is only rapey if you apply modern language to an old song. the song was written before date rape drugs were even invented. the "whats in this drink" line is not referring to that. shes just saying it's getting her drunk. the song was written by a married couple. it's supposed to be flirting. she's coming up with reasons to stay overnight with a man. but doesn't want to come right out say "let's have sex" peope outraged by the song are using modern assumptions and understanding on a song from a completely different era and culture <cite>Zikten posted [p:914013484] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote>the song is only rapey if you apply modern language to an old song. the song was written before date rape drugs were even invented. the "whats in this drink" line is not referring to that. shes just saying it's getting her drunk. the song was written by a married couple. it's supposed to be flirting. she's coming up with reasons to stay overnight with a man. but doesn't want to come right out say "let's have sex" peope outraged by the song are using modern assumptions and understanding on a song from a completely different era and culture</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SquirrelyDan 12/12/18 4:59:06 PM #28:	The_Doge posted... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJB9GP5gyAw" data-time=" This is great. --- Rams fan in L.A., then in St. Louis, and in L.A. again Something was said. <cite>SquirrelyDan posted [p:914017031] in Is "B... [t:77286255]...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Doge posted...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJB9GP5gyAw" data-time="</quote> This is great.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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