Current Events > So I recently learned "How's your night going?" works for online dates

(+) Yeah! (+)

As a first message. Been throwing shit at the wall to see what sticks and God damn, it's way easier than I was making it out to be
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What were you using before?
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Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners
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deenoona posted...

What were you using before?

Joenage posted...

Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners

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deenoona posted...

What were you using before?

Hey how you doin lil mama lemme whisper in your ear
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DrizztLink posted...

deenoona posted...

What were you using before?

Hey how you doin lil mama lemme whisper in your ear

I have yet to use this but I will whenever I feel inspired to
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Joenage posted...

Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners

this
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DrizztLink posted...

deenoona posted...

What were you using before?

Hey how you doin lil mama lemme whisper in your ear

swoon.

... Call me.
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God_Of_Entirety posted...

Joenage posted...

Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners

this

I wish I realized it sooner. Just gotta act like it's a cold approach like irl
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flirting feels so much better this way

no anxiety cause you arent "trying" to project some sort of funny/cool persona
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Joenage posted...

Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners

for years everyone everywhere says to reference profiles and now I see people saying stuff like this, it's all too bloody difficult

ghostmess posted...

Joenage posted...

Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners

for years everyone everywhere says to reference profiles and now I see people saying stuff like this, it's all too bloody difficult

at some point you should bring up some of the interest in her profile, but stuff like "so I see you love travelling!" is corny
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ghostmess posted...

Joenage posted...

Small talk is much better than cringy 'reference something from their profile' first liners

for years everyone everywhere says to reference profiles and now I see people saying stuff like this, it's all too bloody difficult

Online dating culture has changed. Plus I guess this is way more "human" of a way to start a conversation
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I was around 22 when I just started saying literally the first thing that came to mind

if they don't like it they don't like me so who cares. too many guys approach women with the mindset of "I gotta make her interested in me"

you're a damn man, it's the opposite
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