Current Events > Texted my ex-gf last night. Selfish ****** responds with this.

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Basically explained to her how I'm heart broken over some married chick at work, and that I was up all night crying, needed someone to talk to and that was why I was texting her late last night. She is a nurse, so I do not think that texting her at 1 AM is a big deal, since her hours naturally keep her up during those hours. This also wasn't an issue when we were dating.

She tells me this crap

"Warfire, I am always here for you and you can reach out to me at the odd hours. However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

I am livid. basically took the time to type this out because my hands are shaking right now and I'm not sure what to say to her that will actually tell her what I think of her but won't burn any bridges. It's pretty entitled for her to take a hard time that I'm going through and turn it into a cry for attention on her end.

How do I deal with this *****? I want to teach her some humility, but she is also good for a few things here and there so I have to be discreet.
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Something similar happened with my ex; basically explained to her how I'm heart broken over some married chick at work, and that I was up all night crying, needed someone to talk to and that was why I was texting her late last night. She is a nurse, so I do not think that texting her at 1 AM is a big deal, since her hours naturally keep her up during those hours. This also wasn't an issue when we were dating.

She tells me this crap

"Muffinz0rz, I am always here for you and you can reach out to me at the odd hours. However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

I am livid. basically took the time to type this out because my hands are shaking right now and I'm not sure what to say to her that will actually tell her what I think of her but won't burn any bridges. It's pretty entitled for her to take a hard time that I'm going through and turn it into a cry for attention on her end.

How do I deal with this *****? I want to teach her some humility, but she is also good for a few things here and there so I have to be discreet.
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Well maybe fucking check in on her once in a while and you wouldn't be in this damn predicament.

you sound incredibly selfish and entitled, but i'm just going off of what you typed.
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How does reaching out for support during a moment of weakness make me selfish or entitled?
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Using her as an emotional crutch and being mad at her for not being your emotional crutch makes you selfish and entitled.

And she's still fucking down to be your emotional crutch. Get the fuck over it.

she literally said "I'm here for you but it'd be nice if you were here for me" and you got mad lmfao

fair next
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If you're actively friends with her, then you need to actually talk to her outside of your pity parties. Forcing her to be your crutch only is selfish.

Tappor posted...

she literally said "I'm here for you but it'd be nice if you were here for me" and you got mad lmfao

fair next

Well what does she want me to do? Randomly ask her about her job even though I'm not actively dating her anymore????
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is this a copypasta and tc is trolling
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i hope every word of the op is fake
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WarfireX posted...

How does reaching out for support during a moment of weakness make me selfish or entitled?

If you do so repeatedly and pretty much don't offer the same for her, then it's a justified criticism.
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I'm starting to think this topic is satire for the usual reverse situation of this.
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WarfireX posted...

Tappor posted...

she literally said "I'm here for you but it'd be nice if you were here for me" and you got mad lmfao

fair next

Well what does she want me to do? Randomly ask her about her job even though I'm not actively dating her anymore????

Well if you see things like that then what the fuck are you even contacting her for to begin with?

neverwin posted...

I'm starting to think this topic is satire for the usual reverse situation of this.

probably.
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WarfireX posted...

Tappor posted...

she literally said "I'm here for you but it'd be nice if you were here for me" and you got mad lmfao

fair next

Well what does she want me to do? Randomly ask her about her job even though I'm not actively dating her anymore????

So it's weird for you to ask about how work's going ... but it's not weird for you to go into some deep emotional stuff? :thonk:
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lesidesi posted...

is this a copypasta and tc is trolling

I hope I just responded to bait lol
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Kombucha posted...

you expect your ex to pick you up (which is probably emotionally exhausting alone) but do so without even considering reciprocity in the transaction, meaning you should just simply check to see how she is doing as well. i mean, it's not that hard.

nobody wants to be an emotional tampon, especially if you can't provide reciprocal support.

That's an extremely vulgar and inappropriate way to describe our dynamic. I am just friends with her. She needs to get it through her head that I'm not getting back together with her.

The problem here is that I'm upset over one of my colleagues, and she offered me no comfort when I was in need. NOW she stacks the added responsibility of me having to care for her?
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lmao u sound like a huge crybaby

text your mom or your friend if you're feeling salty
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Tappor posted...

lesidesi posted...

is this a copypasta and tc is trolling

I hope I just responded to bait lol

same tbh
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lesidesi posted...

is this a copypasta and tc is trolling

If you're going to make claims like that then please prove it and show me where I copied this from.
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So you (still) want her to be an emotional crutch and you continue to do nothing for her wellbeing?
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Wow thats funny OP, something similar recently happened with my ex; basically explained to her how I'm heart broken over some married chick at work, and that I was up all night crying, needed someone to talk to and that was why I was texting her late last night. She is a nurse, so I do not think that texting her at 1 AM is a big deal, since her hours naturally keep her up during those hours. This also wasn't an issue when we were dating.

She tells me this crap

"Eze, I am always here for you and you can reach out to me at the odd hours. However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

I am livid. basically took the time to type this out because my hands are shaking right now and I'm not sure what to say to her that will actually tell her what I think of her but won't burn any bridges. It's pretty entitled for her to take a hard time that I'm going through and turn it into a cry for attention on her end.

How do I deal with this *****? I want to teach her some humility, but she is also good for a few things here and there so I have to be discreet.
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one day TC will get his head out of his ass and realise much of an ass he really is
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I'm just going to tell her I'm dealing with way too much crap right now to add her problems to mine. This is why I dumped her.
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So basically your idea of friendship is she helps you if you ever need it and you resent the idea of ever having to do the slightest thing to be worth her time
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Something similar happened with my ex; basically explained to her how I'm heart broken over some married chick at work, and that I was up all night crying, needed someone to talk to and that was why I was texting her late last night. She is a nurse, so I do not think that texting her at 1 AM is a big deal, since her hours naturally keep her up during those hours. This also wasn't an issue when we were dating.

She tells me this crap

"Freddie_Mercury, I am always here for you and you can reach out to me at the odd hours. However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

I am livid. basically took the time to type this out because my hands are shaking right now and I'm not sure what to say to her that will actually tell her what I think of her but won't burn any bridges. It's pretty entitled for her to take a hard time that I'm going through and turn it into a cry for attention on her end.

How do I deal with this *****? I want to teach her some humility, but she is also good for a few things here and there so I have to be discreet.
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WarfireX posted...

I'm just going to tell her I'm dealing with way too much crap right now to add her problems to mine. This is why I dumped her.

I'm sure she'll be very distraught to hear this
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Panthera posted...

So basically your idea of friendship is she helps you if you ever need it and you resent the idea of ever having to do the slightest thing to be worth her time

And he sees absolutely nothing wrong with this.

Amazing, isn't it?

WarfireX posted...

Kombucha posted...

you expect your ex to pick you up (which is probably emotionally exhausting alone) but do so without even considering reciprocity in the transaction, meaning you should just simply check to see how she is doing as well. i mean, it's not that hard.

nobody wants to be an emotional tampon, especially if you can't provide reciprocal support.

That's an extremely vulgar and inappropriate way to describe our dynamic. I am just friends with her. She needs to get it through her head that I'm not getting back together with her.

The problem here is that I'm upset over one of my colleagues, and she offered me no comfort when I was in need. NOW she stacks the added responsibility of me having to care for her?

not biting.

rip me
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Panthera posted...

So basically your idea of friendship is she helps you if you ever need it and you resent the idea of ever having to do the slightest thing to be worth her time

This tbh

She doesnt owe you one way emotional labor
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WarfireX posted...

I'm just going to tell her I'm dealing with way too much crap right now to add her problems to mine. This is why I dumped her.

But you want her to add your problems to her? jfc dude...
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this is clearly fake
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Well this is dumb.
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lmfao
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WarfireX posted...

I'm just going to tell her I'm dealing with way too much crap right now to add her problems to mine. This is why I dumped her.

Lol
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"Let me dump you and then use you as an emotional crutch while i pine over another woman."

"Oh no? fuck you then, this is why i dumped your bitch ass"

I don't know who's worse. You for being an absolute fucking selfish prick or her for putting up with it.

These weak willed women aggravate me. She would be completely justified in telling you to fuck off.

Proud enough to dump her, but not strong enough to cope with your problems without her? Goddamn.
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Kombucha posted...

you sound incredibly selfish and entitled, but i'm just going off of what you typed.

lesidesi posted...

this is clearly fake

One of these.
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She wants things to be fair, not a one-way street.
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tag
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WarfireX posted...

Basically explained to her how I'm heart broken over some married chick at work

LMAO
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Your ex sounds like a reasonable woman. Give me her number and I'll be sure to direct her to this shit show of stupidity to give her plenty of reasons to never talk to you again.
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uh... do you only call her with your probs, brah?? bcause it makes perfect sense that as your ex she isn't on the hook to listen to you tell her you cried and shit. who the fuck tells girls they cry? imagine. she treated you like that because you acted hella awk and she doesn't wanna have a one way baby street
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Rad_Chad posted...

uh... do you only call her with your probs, brah?? bcause it makes perfect sense that as your ex she isn't on the hook to listen to you tell her you cried and shit. who the fuck tells girls they cry? imagine. she treated you like that because you acted hella awk and she doesn't wanna have a one way baby street

Seeing as how I have already bent her over my washing machine multiple times and she puts up with me texting her at 1 AM, I will disclose whatever I want to her. It doesn't really matter if she thinks I'm awkward, I'm the one that ended things with her. The woman I'm hung up on is way out of her league and more in line with the type of girl that I usually date. She always knew it was going to be this way.
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tc going IN with the shitposting lmao
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yikes
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WarfireX posted...

Basically explained to her how I'm heart broken over some married chick at work, and that I was up all night crying, needed someone to talk to and that was why I was texting her late last night. She is a nurse, so I do not think that texting her at 1 AM is a big deal, since her hours naturally keep her up during those hours. This also wasn't an issue when we were dating.

She tells me this crap

"Warfire, I am always here for you and you can reach out to me at the odd hours. However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

I am livid. basically took the time to type this out because my hands are shaking right now and I'm not sure what to say to her that will actually tell her what I think of her but won't burn any bridges. It's pretty entitled for her to take a hard time that I'm going through and turn it into a cry for attention on her end.

How do I deal with this *****? I want to teach her some humility, but she is also good for a few things here and there so I have to be discreet.

If this is not a troll post:

You reply feedback noted. Sorry to bother you, Dont worry I wont annoy you anymore and never talk to her again.

Shes your ex for a reason. She moved on and so should you. Youre coming off as weak and needy, even unmanly. She is secretly laughing at your weakness.

Now go out there, bang some hottie from a local bar and post a few (non sexual) pictures with her on social media to rub it on your exs face like a normal male would.

Get your man card back bro, we believe on you! We got your back!

WarfireX posted...

However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

That's a plenty reasonable request dude
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The fact that she calls you warfire is some next level shit
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MC_BatCommander posted...

WarfireX posted...

However, it would be nice if you checked on me once in a while rather than only coming to me when you are hurting."

That's a plenty reasonable request dude

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