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Muffinz0rz
08/13/18 11:30:51 PM
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We went out and grabbed a drink. I got there first, she had trouble parking. She ended up far away. Blah blah blah, conversation was going well, but holy shit she was SO far out of my league that I was just lucky to be there.

Anyways we walked to my car since I offered to drive her back to her car since she parked so far away, and it was like fuck man she couldn't get out of there fast enough lmao she didn't even look at me as she exited the car

My follow-up message was something like thanks for the lovely evening let's hang again soon or something like that. I think I actually asked if she wanted to set something up soon (i don't remember exactly, we communicated through snapchat because her phone sucks ass) and her response was like "ahaha yeah thanks for the drink!" (a.k.a non-answer, a.k.a no thank you) and I was like no prob how about saturday?

OPENED 2 HOURS AGO

rip

Oh well
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Blue_Inigo
08/13/18 11:31:50 PM
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Damn bro. Youll get em next time
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BWing
08/13/18 11:32:11 PM
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@Womp_Womp

Whatever happened to handcuff girl? Didn't you say you guys were a thing?
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MI4 REAL
08/13/18 11:33:08 PM
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Just tell her you were sick? I dunno.

Or just tell the truth.
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Authentic_fan
08/13/18 11:33:37 PM
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Send her a dick pic
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ChainedRedone
08/13/18 11:35:28 PM
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MI4 REAL
08/13/18 11:36:23 PM
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ChainedRedone posted...
No pics??? Wtf??


This too!
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Muffinz0rz
08/13/18 11:54:39 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
Damn bro. Youll get em next time

Thanks fam!

BWing posted...
Whatever happened to handcuff girl? Didn't you say you guys were a thing?

It lasted for a bit (the handcuffs were used twice except now they're at her place so RIP gotta get some more), but she went all relationshipp-y and I was blunt like sorry fam I really don't want anything cereal right now

It was a short but fun ride, but she wasn't all that attractive tbh. I was hoping the fun casual sex would last a little while longer, but shit happens and I didn't wanna lead her on

MI4 REAL posted...
Just tell her you were sick? I dunno.

Or just tell the truth.

I'm not sure I understand the purpose of this; my goal is to see her a second time, not drive her away.

What do you mean by "the truth?" That she's out of my league? Pretty sure she knew that lmfao hahahah

Authentic_fan posted...
Send her a dick pic

I hear chicks love unsolicited dick pics these days

ChainedRedone posted...
No pics??? Wtf??

sorry fam
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Damn_Underscore
08/13/18 11:58:54 PM
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she was SO far out of my league that I was just lucky to be there.


this is your problem

you created your own failure with this mindset
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MI4 REAL
08/14/18 12:01:08 AM
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Just tell her you got her text late and that's the only reason why you didn't see her. If you "got sick", it's because shit happens and it wasn't anything to do with her.

You're goal is not "just" to see her a second time. Otherwise why would you want to see her a second time? If you really don't want to build on it, either she will or she won't. Unfortunately, your job is to determine whether or not she does want to see you again.
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 12:16:16 AM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
she was SO far out of my league that I was just lucky to be there.


this is your problem

you created your own failure with this mindset

I know, and that thought was totally in my head the whole time and I just couldn't get it out. I was just so blown away.

MI4 REAL posted...
Just tell her you got her text late and that's the only reason why you didn't see her. If you "got sick", it's because shit happens and it wasn't anything to do with her.

Huh? I think you're confused. We did have a first date. Why would I be the one looking for a way out?
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MI4 REAL
08/14/18 12:25:08 AM
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Because if you didn't text her promptly, you won't be getting a 2nd date.

What if she didn't text you promptly, what would you do? or say?

Hell, just own up and say you got it late, what's the worst than can happen?
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bobtuse
08/14/18 9:24:41 AM
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I think you guys are misunderstanding what happened to tc. He asked her out again for this weekend. He got a read notification, but no response. Looks bleak, any updates?
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gp1829
08/14/18 10:07:13 AM
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MI4 REAL posted...
Because if you didn't text her promptly, you won't be getting a 2nd date.

What if she didn't text you promptly, what would you do? or say?

Hell, just own up and say you got it late, what's the worst than can happen?


Reread the OP man.
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DeadSite
08/14/18 10:09:48 AM
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Asian girls be like that fam
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 10:15:27 AM
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bobtuse posted...
I think you guys are misunderstanding what happened to tc. He asked her out again for this weekend. He got a read notification, but no response. Looks bleak, any updates?

nah, i'll probably wait until ~thursday to try again

I do have another date set up friday with someone else though so it's not a total wash

DeadSite posted...
Asian girls be like that fam

for someone as hot as her, i'd absolutely work for it

MI4 REAL posted...
Because if you didn't text her promptly, you won't be getting a 2nd date.

What if she didn't text you promptly, what would you do? or say?

Hell, just own up and say you got it late, what's the worst than can happen?

gp1829 posted...
Reread the OP man.

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No_U_L7
08/14/18 10:16:33 AM
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wouldn't have this problem if you were a pick up artist, i haven't been nervous on a date since the 20th century
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 10:21:17 AM
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No_U_L7 posted...
wouldn't have this problem if you were a pick up artist, i haven't been nervous on a date since the 20th century

I don't even think nervous is the right emotion tbh. It was more like I got up in my own head and tried to be someone I wasn't in an attempt to play up to her level, and failed miserably because at the same time, I didn't want to lie to her, and ended up getting caught somewhere in between.
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ScofieldReturns
08/14/18 10:42:00 AM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
No_U_L7 posted...
wouldn't have this problem if you were a pick up artist, i haven't been nervous on a date since the 20th century

I don't even think nervous is the right emotion tbh. It was more like I got up in my own head and tried to be someone I wasn't in an attempt to play up to her level, and failed miserably because at the same time, I didn't want to lie to her, and ended up getting caught somewhere in between.


That never would have happened if you were a pickup artist
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 10:43:33 AM
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ScofieldReturns posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
No_U_L7 posted...
wouldn't have this problem if you were a pick up artist, i haven't been nervous on a date since the 20th century

I don't even think nervous is the right emotion tbh. It was more like I got up in my own head and tried to be someone I wasn't in an attempt to play up to her level, and failed miserably because at the same time, I didn't want to lie to her, and ended up getting caught somewhere in between.


That never would have happened if you were a pickup artist

True, but honestly there is a point where the physical attractiveness gap is just too far. Don't get me wrong, I'm not ugly by any means, but this one was just so fucking hot I had no business being there and she had no business being at the same table as me.
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ScofieldReturns
08/14/18 10:49:48 AM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
True, but honestly there is a point where the physical attractiveness gap is just too far. Don't get me wrong, I'm not ugly by any means, but this one was just so fucking hot I had no business being there and she had no business being at the same table as me.


Looks are just one aspect of a person. Overall value factors in much more than just looks. If you cant be confident other aspects of yourself bringing you two to the same level, then you probably don't deserve her
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 11:20:17 AM
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ScofieldReturns posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
True, but honestly there is a point where the physical attractiveness gap is just too far. Don't get me wrong, I'm not ugly by any means, but this one was just so fucking hot I had no business being there and she had no business being at the same table as me.


Looks are just one aspect of a person. Overall value factors in much more than just looks. If you cant be confident other aspects of yourself bringing you two to the same level, then you probably don't deserve her

I mean it doesn't have anything to do with "deserving" her, but rather the chances of making anything happen. If I was an asshole the whole time, then yeah obviously I wouldn't "deserve" her.
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Authentic_fan
08/14/18 12:01:12 PM
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Send her a dick pic
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Turtlebread
08/14/18 12:04:39 PM
#24:


that's funny, I just blew my shot all over a hot asian chick
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 12:08:15 PM
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Turtlebread posted...
that's funny, I just blew my shot all over a hot asian chick

I did too with my ex but she wanted to move in and I was like nah fam
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im not 13
08/14/18 12:11:00 PM
#26:


Post pics if you've blown it

What's there to lose
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 12:17:37 PM
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im not 13 posted...
Post pics if you've blown it

What's there to lose

idk maybe she posts here and will dox me for revenge
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Kitt
08/14/18 3:24:28 PM
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I'm still proud of you, fam. You accomplished more than most of the sad saps here on CE.
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 3:25:44 PM
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Kitt posted...
I'm still proud of you, fam. You accomplished more than most of the sad saps here on CE.

Thanks famalam!
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SoundNetwork
08/14/18 3:27:04 PM
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Where are the pics
Also fuck her stuck up add
Go for a white chick im asian i done with these fucking Asian chicks they princesses what th
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 3:36:06 PM
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SoundNetwork posted...
Where are the pics
Also fuck her stuck up add
Go for a white chick im asian i done with these fucking Asian chicks they princesses what th

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Coolppl Owns
08/14/18 4:01:17 PM
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i think your problem may be that you were already propping her up on a pedestal saying stuff like "she's wayy too hot and out of my league". perhaps some of the things that you said and did during the date showed that insecurity

women want a dude to treat them like they're another human not like some untouchable goddess

you at least had the looks to attract someone like her you just need the correct attitude now
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Muffinz0rz
08/14/18 4:03:38 PM
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Coolppl Owns posted...
i think your problem may be that you were already propping her up on a pedestal saying stuff like "she's wayy too hot and out of my league". perhaps some of the things that you said and did during the date showed that insecurity

women want a dude to treat them like they're another human not like some untouchable goddess

you at least had the looks to attract someone like her you just need the correct attitude now

Yeah I know, and I recognized the mistake like AS it was happening, but couldn't shake the thought
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Womp_Womp
08/14/18 11:04:20 PM
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BWing posted...
@Womp_Womp

Whatever happened to handcuff girl? Didn't you say you guys were a thing?

Womp Womp
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Muffinz0rz
08/15/18 10:22:08 AM
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Womp_Womp posted...
BWing posted...
Womp_Womp

Whatever happened to handcuff girl? Didn't you say you guys were a thing?

Womp Womp

You're late fam
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GameboyTroy
08/15/18 10:26:10 PM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
Turtlebread posted...
that's funny, I just blew my shot all over a hot asian chick

I did too with my ex but she wanted to move in and I was like nah fam

Why didn't you want her to move in with you?
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Muffinz0rz
08/16/18 10:59:27 AM
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GameboyTroy posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Turtlebread posted...
that's funny, I just blew my shot all over a hot asian chick

I did too with my ex but she wanted to move in and I was like nah fam

Why didn't you want her to move in with you?

I mean the root of the problem atm is that I don't want to live with anyone. Living alone is great and even in relationships, I still absolutely need my alone time. I can't imagine not having that dedicated space to myself.

Plus she had some other problems that I did not want to deal with. She's adopted from China, where she was malnourished as a kid, so she has some assorted problems that I don't want to spend the rest of my life dealing with.
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Star_Spirit
08/16/18 11:05:41 AM
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remember. if you have a penis, you have to pay for everything.
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Muffinz0rz
08/16/18 11:09:51 AM
#39:


Star_Spirit posted...
if you have a penis, you have to pay for everything.

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