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Tandy 07/09/18 9:33:18 AM #1:	I wasn't expecting her and when I heard a knock on the door and saw it was her I thought that she had changed her mind and that we'd be able to fix this. Instead she had her brother with her and said she was here to get the last of her things. I tried to talk to her and she ignored me, and her brother said to just let her alone. She got her stuff and they were gone. I don't know if I'll ever see her again. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904752928] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>I wasn't expecting her and when I heard a knock on the door and saw it was her I thought that she had changed her mind and that we'd be able to fix this. Instead she had her brother with her and said she was here to get the last of her things. I tried to talk to her and she ignored me, and her brother said to just let her alone. She got her stuff and they were gone. I don't know if I'll ever see her again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tandy 07/09/18 9:45:19 AM #2:	I understand many people might not know what to say to these topics, hence the lite replies but thanks to anyone that reads them anyway. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904753311] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>I understand many people might not know what to say to these topics, hence the lite replies but thanks to anyone that reads them anyway.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clearaflagrantj 07/09/18 9:46:28 AM #3:	Tandy posted... I understand many people might not know what to say to these topics, hence the lite replies but thanks to anyone that reads them anyway. We don't know how to respond without context <cite>clearaflagrantj posted [p:904753349] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote>I understand many people might not know what to say to these topics, hence the lite replies but thanks to anyone that reads them anyway.</quote> We don't know how to respond without context</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anarchy_Juiblex 07/09/18 9:46:28 AM #4:	Best of luck. What happened? --- "Tolerance of intolerance is cowardice." ~ Ayaan Hirsi Ali <cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted [p:904753350] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Best of luck. What happened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Forlorn_Ass 07/09/18 9:47:13 AM #5:	Did someone do something wrong in the relationship --- Her cheeks wobble around like water balloons on a trampoline. <cite>Forlorn_Ass posted [p:904753381] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Did someone do something wrong in the relationship</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 07/09/18 9:47:18 AM #6:	You're gonna continue to be miserable as long as you continue to hold on to hoping she'll come back. --- If you're not looking for any honest discussion, agreement, meeting halfway or middle ground, don't bother arguing with me. Selfish narcissists need not apply. <cite>Kineth posted [p:904753383] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>You're gonna continue to be miserable as long as you continue to hold on to hoping she'll come back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tandy 07/09/18 9:47:28 AM #7:	Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Best of luck. What happened? My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904753390] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote>Best of luck. What happened?</quote> My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clearaflagrantj 07/09/18 9:47:51 AM #8:	Tandy posted... Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Best of luck. What happened? My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope. Why <cite>clearaflagrantj posted [p:904753402] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote>Best of luck. What happened?</quote> My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope.</quote> Why</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthWendy 07/09/18 9:48:15 AM #9:	Well this doesn't usually happen out of nowhere. --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire mais l'effet reste le meme https://i.imgtc.com/eRE0ORV.jpg <cite>DarthWendy posted [p:904753423] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Well this doesn't usually happen out of nowhere.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrPeppers 07/09/18 9:48:19 AM #10:	It sucks man. Ive kind of been there before. Youll be better for it in a few months. Just realize that the biggest blows are yet to come. It gets MUCH better when youre finally over it though. --- https://imgur.com/SGkkbF0 <cite>MrPeppers posted [p:904753430] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>It sucks man. Ive kind of been there before. Youll be better for it in a few months. Just realize that the biggest blows are yet to come. It gets MUCH better when youre finally over it though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ultima Dragon 07/09/18 9:49:33 AM #11:	Kineth posted... You're gonna continue to be miserable as long as you continue to hold on to hoping she'll come back. This, for real. The best thing you can do for both of you is to just remove the traces of her from your life and move on. Don't live in the past and pine for what's been lost. Learn from any mistakes you may have made, keep improving and hope it goes better the next time. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz <cite>Ultima Dragon posted [p:904753474] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kineth posted...</cite> <quote>You're gonna continue to be miserable as long as you continue to hold on to hoping she'll come back.</quote> This, for real. The best thing you can do for both of you is to just remove the traces of her from your life and move on. Don't live in the past and pine for what's been lost. Learn from any mistakes you may have made, keep improving and hope it goes better the next time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anarchy_Juiblex 07/09/18 9:49:57 AM #12:	Tandy posted... My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope. Why? How long had you been together? How old are you currently? --- "Tolerance of intolerance is cowardice." ~ Ayaan Hirsi Ali <cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted [p:904753486] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote>My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope.</quote> Why? How long had you been together? How old are you currently?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tandy 07/09/18 9:51:04 AM #13:	clearaflagrantj posted... Tandy posted... Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Best of luck. What happened? My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope. Why DarthWendy posted... Well this doesn't usually happen out of nowhere. It feels like it did though. We rarely fought, were passionate, and had a ton of fun together. Then one day she just tells me she wants a divorce and won't give me a reason why or gives short and minimal answers. Not even knowing what led to its deterioration is frustrating. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904753530] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>clearaflagrantj posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote>Best of luck. What happened?</quote> My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope.</quote> Why</quote> <cite>DarthWendy posted...</cite> <quote>Well this doesn't usually happen out of nowhere.</quote> It feels like it did though. We rarely fought, were passionate, and had a ton of fun together. Then one day she just tells me she wants a divorce and won't give me a reason why or gives short and minimal answers. Not even knowing what led to its deterioration is frustrating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 07/09/18 9:51:49 AM #14:	Yeah, that's fucked up of her to treat you like that. --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:904753552] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, that's fucked up of her to treat you like that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrPeppers 07/09/18 9:52:35 AM #15:	Sounds like she found someone else. Thats usually the explanation for someone abruptly ending a relationship --- https://imgur.com/SGkkbF0 <cite>MrPeppers posted [p:904753588] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like she found someone else. Thats usually the explanation for someone abruptly ending a relationship</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tandy 07/09/18 9:53:05 AM #16:	Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Tandy posted... My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope. Why? How long had you been together? How old are you currently? Been together since high school. 28 now. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904753603] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote>My wife filed for divorce and I'm just trying to figure out how to cope.</quote> Why? How long had you been together? How old are you currently?</quote> Been together since high school. 28 now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Forlorn_Ass 07/09/18 9:53:15 AM #17:	MrPeppers posted... Sounds like she found someone else. Thats usually the explanation for someone abruptly ending a relationship Yeah, start hitting the gym TC, you got this. --- Her cheeks wobble around like water balloons on a trampoline. <cite>Forlorn_Ass posted [p:904753606] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>MrPeppers posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like she found someone else. Thats usually the explanation for someone abruptly ending a relationship</quote> Yeah, start hitting the gym TC, you got this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tandy 07/09/18 9:55:08 AM #18:	MrPeppers posted... Sounds like she found someone else. Thats usually the explanation for someone abruptly ending a relationship I would be fine if it was just us drifting apart or something like that, but I can't deal with the mental image of her with someone else. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904753672] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>MrPeppers posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like she found someone else. Thats usually the explanation for someone abruptly ending a relationship</quote> I would be fine if it was just us drifting apart or something like that, but I can't deal with the mental image of her with someone else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
D-Lo_BrownTown 07/09/18 9:56:58 AM #19:	I say this with all the love in the world, bro. She's fucking someone else already. Possibly her brother. --- You Messin Wit Da Real Deal Now https://imgur.com/dWXgtSb <cite>D-Lo_BrownTown posted [p:904753746] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>I say this with all the love in the world, bro. She's fucking someone else already. Possibly her brother.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anarchy_Juiblex 07/09/18 9:58:29 AM #20:	Tandy posted... Then one day she just tells me she wants a divorce and won't give me a reason why or gives short and minimal answers. Not even knowing what led to its deterioration is frustrating. She was either cheating or has some idea in her head about sowing her wild oats with 30 approaching and having spent so much of her time with you. Forget her, spend time working on yourself. --- "Tolerance of intolerance is cowardice." ~ Ayaan Hirsi Ali <cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted [p:904753796] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote>Then one day she just tells me she wants a divorce and won't give me a reason why or gives short and minimal answers. Not even knowing what led to its deterioration is frustrating.</quote> She was either cheating or has some idea in her head about sowing her wild oats with 30 approaching and having spent so much of her time with you. Forget her, spend time working on yourself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Error1355 07/09/18 9:58:33 AM #21:	....really? --- Welcome home, shed your skin and expose your bones. Take my hand, follow us into the black so far that we can't get back. <cite>Error1355 posted [p:904753798] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>....really?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 07/09/18 9:59:44 AM #22:	Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Forget her, spend time working on yourself. This. Best of luck --- I use Gameraven and you should too. #heavilyburntpotato <cite>teepan95 posted [p:904753847] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote>Forget her, spend time working on yourself.</quote> This. Best of luck</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 07/09/18 9:59:53 AM #23:	Dont you have to have some legit reason to get divorced legally? I dont think either person in a marriage can just force a divorce to happen --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:904753852] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Dont you have to have some legit reason to get divorced legally? I dont think either person in a marriage can just force a divorce to happen</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kingdrake2 07/09/18 10:02:20 AM #25:	Error1355 posted... ....really? the cheating thing happens, when they lose that spark in life. they'll seek love elsewhere or even things i have seen before is to convert to being a lesbian (this happened to my dad) with a woman he was trying to woo. --- I'm pretty much Stu from Rugrats making pudding at 4 in morning because I've lost control of my life - Polycosm <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:904753940] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Error1355 posted...</cite> <quote>....really?</quote> the cheating thing happens, when they lose that spark in life. they'll seek love elsewhere or even things i have seen before is to convert to being a lesbian (this happened to my dad) with a woman he was trying to woo.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Error1355 07/09/18 10:02:43 AM #26:	kingdrake2 posted... Error1355 posted... ....really? the cheating thing happens, when they lose that spark in life. they'll seek love elsewhere or even things i have seen before is to convert to being a lesbian. My post was directed at the TC. --- Welcome home, shed your skin and expose your bones. Take my hand, follow us into the black so far that we can't get back. <cite>Error1355 posted [p:904753957] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>kingdrake2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Error1355 posted...</cite> <quote>....really?</quote> the cheating thing happens, when they lose that spark in life. they'll seek love elsewhere or even things i have seen before is to convert to being a lesbian.</quote> My post was directed at the TC.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 07/09/18 10:03:09 AM #27:	TC i should of mentioned it was to. he sorry. --- I'm pretty much Stu from Rugrats making pudding at 4 in morning because I've lost control of my life - Polycosm <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:904753974] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>TC i should of mentioned it was to. he sorry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 07/09/18 10:06:00 AM #29:	thronedfire2 posted... I dont think either person in a marriage can just force a divorce to happen It only takes one vote cast. You can not sign and try to fight it in divorce court but that's usually a waste of time and money. --- Oda break tracker 2018- 4 (2) \| THE Ohio State: 11-2 \| Oakland Raiders: 6-10 Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:904754074] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote>I dont think either person in a marriage can just force a divorce to happen</quote> It only takes one vote cast. You can not sign and try to fight it in divorce court but that's usually a waste of time and money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tandy 07/09/18 10:08:16 AM #30:	Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Tandy posted... Then one day she just tells me she wants a divorce and won't give me a reason why or gives short and minimal answers. Not even knowing what led to its deterioration is frustrating. She was either cheating or has some idea in her head about sowing her wild oats with 30 approaching and having spent so much of her time with you. Forget her, spend time working on yourself. I'm really hoping this isn't the case. Error1355 posted... ....really? Yes, really. I'm trying to just get my thoughts out there. voldothegr8 posted... thronedfire2 posted... I dont think either person in a marriage can just force a divorce to happen It only takes one vote cast. You can not sign and try to fight it in divorce court but that's usually a waste of time and money. That's money I don't have. I'm hoping to reconcile. --- The Man With The Plan <cite>Tandy posted [p:904754158] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote>Then one day she just tells me she wants a divorce and won't give me a reason why or gives short and minimal answers. Not even knowing what led to its deterioration is frustrating.</quote> She was either cheating or has some idea in her head about sowing her wild oats with 30 approaching and having spent so much of her time with you. Forget her, spend time working on yourself.</quote> I'm really hoping this isn't the case. <cite>Error1355 posted...</cite> <quote>....really?</quote> Yes, really. I'm trying to just get my thoughts out there. <cite>voldothegr8 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote>I dont think either person in a marriage can just force a divorce to happen</quote> It only takes one vote cast. You can not sign and try to fight it in divorce court but that's usually a waste of time and money.</quote> That's money I don't have. I'm hoping to reconcile.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 07/09/18 10:11:59 AM #31:	Tandy posted... I'm hoping to reconcile. Move on, she has. --- Oda break tracker 2018- 4 (2) \| THE Ohio State: 11-2 \| Oakland Raiders: 6-10 Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:904754315] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tandy posted...</cite> <quote> I'm hoping to reconcile.</quote> Move on, she has.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MalachiteXWater 07/09/18 10:23:04 AM #32:	Well that was anticlimactic. --- You ever notice Dog is God spelled backwards is that some sort of clue <cite>MalachiteXWater posted [p:904754806] in She came b... [t:76790634]...</cite> <quote>Well that was anticlimactic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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