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Meadz
07/09/18 12:48:39 AM
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not because she wants to see multiple people, but because she wants to wait until marriage to have sex but doesn't expect me to do the same. she's totally okay and is encouraging me to have sex with other women until then

I mean, i dunno what to think
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ThePrinceFish
07/09/18 12:50:22 AM
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What could possibly go wrong?
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Omnislasher
07/09/18 12:50:52 AM
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so she's a religious fanatic and you're interested because..?
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Jetblackmoon
07/09/18 12:50:54 AM
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I mean, in theory that's the best of both worlds... but I just can't see any woman being okay with that. My radar is going off.
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TheDarkCircle
07/09/18 12:51:02 AM
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she's slowly setting you up for the exit. enjoy
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Kaiganeer
07/09/18 12:51:03 AM
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Meadz posted...
i dunno what to think

there's a catch
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An_Actual_Chad
07/09/18 12:51:07 AM
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masticatingman
07/09/18 12:52:06 AM
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Ackbar/10
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Meadz
07/09/18 12:54:55 AM
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Captain_Qwark posted...
No woman on the planet would be okay with that

ikr

TheDarkCircle posted...
she's slowly setting you up for the exit. enjoy

ionno what that means
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TheDarkCircle
07/09/18 12:55:29 AM
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Meadz posted...
Captain_Qwark posted...
No woman on the planet would be okay with that

ikr

TheDarkCircle posted...
she's slowly setting you up for the exit. enjoy

ionno what that means


it means she's looking to dump ya. and she's gonna make u the bad guy first before doing so
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Kineth
07/09/18 12:56:58 AM
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Don't take the advice of a bunch of jaded incels.
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Meadz
07/09/18 12:57:16 AM
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TheDarkCircle posted...
it means she's looking to dump ya. and she's gonna make u the bad guy first before doing so

o i c. well we're not actually together yet. she's telling me all this before anything so im extra confused
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TheDarkCircle
07/09/18 12:57:34 AM
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Meadz posted...
TheDarkCircle posted...
it means she's looking to dump ya. and she's gonna make u the bad guy first before doing so

o i c. well we're not actually together yet. she's telling me all this before anything so im extra confused


oh ok, it means she dun wanna fuck u then
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EpicMickeyDrew
07/09/18 12:59:07 AM
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Maybe she wants your care/support/money but doesn't want to sleep with you for the gf privileges,
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masticatingman
07/09/18 1:04:31 AM
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Kineth posted...
Don't take the advice of a bunch of jaded incels.


Once again not contributing to a thread beyond throwing out blanket insults at other posters
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LedZeppelin
07/09/18 1:05:33 AM
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masticatingman posted...
Kineth posted...
Don't take the advice of a bunch of jaded incels.


Once again not contributing to a thread beyond throwing out blanket insults at other posters

classic kineth
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Meadz
07/09/18 1:06:09 AM
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Kineth posted...
Don't take the advice of a bunch of jaded incels.

good point.

EpicMickeyDrew posted...
Maybe she wants your care/support/money but doesn't want to sleep with you for the gf privileges,

that'd be one thing but the encouraging me to sleep around part is a first for me
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TheDarkCircle
07/09/18 1:10:50 AM
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im not trying to be mean, but she's looking for a nice way to let you down easy. I know people who wanted to wait until marriage, there's nothing wrong with that if thats what you want. But it'd be one thing is she told you that and said she understand if that doesn't work for you and that wouldn't wouldn't want a relationship with her.

The fact that she's encouraging you to seek relationships elsewhere means she's just not that into you. That's universal regardless of whether you're a virgin or not.
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Bacon_Pancakes
07/09/18 1:13:22 AM
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Sounds like the nicest way to go about friend zoning someone tbh
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Anteaterking
07/09/18 1:16:30 AM
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So what exactly does the two of you being in a relationship mean? Is that clear to you?

Right now it sounds like she's not going to have sex with you and doesn't really need any sort of emotional attachment from you.
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Meadz
07/09/18 1:16:42 AM
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TheDarkCircle posted...
The fact that she's encouraging you to seek relationships elsewhere means she's just not that into you. That's universal regardless of whether you're a virgin or not.

it doesnt make sense to pursue someone you're not into. it'd be a lot easier to say that rather than propose this set up
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Russman
07/09/18 1:17:14 AM
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She isnt interested but is trying to be nice, sorry. She just gave you an unrealistic scenario in the hope that you dont pursue it.
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TheDarkCircle
07/09/18 1:18:43 AM
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Meadz posted...
TheDarkCircle posted...
The fact that she's encouraging you to seek relationships elsewhere means she's just not that into you. That's universal regardless of whether you're a virgin or not.

it doesnt make sense to pursue someone you're not into. it'd be a lot easier to say that rather than propose this set up


what has she done to pursue you?
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Meadz
07/09/18 1:18:55 AM
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Anteaterking posted...
So what exactly does the two of you being in a relationship mean? Is that clear to you?

she says she wants someone to build towards marriage with. i told her i couldnt do that without sex then she proposed i get my jollies off while still being with her.
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refmon
07/09/18 1:22:08 AM
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Captain_Qwark posted...
No woman on the planet would be okay with that

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Anteaterking
07/09/18 1:37:47 AM
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Meadz posted...
while still being with her.


Yeah I guess I'm just not sure what this entails.
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YOUHAVENOHOPE
07/09/18 1:40:08 AM
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WafflehouseJK
07/09/18 1:40:58 AM
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Anteaterking posted...
Meadz posted...
while still being with her.


Yeah I guess I'm just not sure what this entails.

She's into him enough that she wants to be with him in a relationship long term, but doesn't want to have sex with him till marriage. TC told her that's a deal breaker, so she's trying to keep him around by reactionarily saying he could sleep with other people till they get married.

Likely though, that was something she panicked and said in the moment cause she doesn't want to lose you, but long term, there's an extremely high chance that if/when you actually sleep with someone else, she'll start to get jealous and give you an ultimatum.
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Pitlord_Special
07/09/18 1:42:31 AM
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Im not friendzoned! Were just in an open relationship where she refuses to have sex with me
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TheDarkCircle
07/09/18 1:42:47 AM
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Pitlord_Special posted...
Im not friendzoned! Were just in an open relationship where she refuses to have sex with me
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YOUHAVENOHOPE
07/09/18 1:43:05 AM
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just pretend to care about her feelings and sleep around with women while seeing her for the emotions and cuddling

then when she has a problem with it, you can just dump her because she's not holding up her end of the bargain

you literally can't lose here
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