Current Events > Is It Morally Wrong To Go "No Contact" On A Friend Or GF?

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Lets say that you've known someone for several months or a year or something. And lets say that something they did/said bothered you.

Would it be morally wrong to go no contact on them? As in, stop answering texts/calls/etc.

I've only done so once but it was mutual.

To be fair, it fucking sucks being ghosted and never knowing the reason why. What was the relationship for, what was it meant to teach you, etc.. you'll never know.

If you ever get to the point where you feel the need to do this, it's probably already past the point where it's too far gone to salvage. But I think it's fair to let that person know what's up. Most would probably disagree.
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depends on the level of which they slighted you.

me personally, i would talk it out and come to a mutual agreement to stop talking tho, cuz closure is important imo.
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not really , it's not like we attack them personally by cutting off our ties with them. Whats the problem then?

you don't owe anyone anything but it can be a dick move
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Straight up ghosting someone without saying anything is a dick move unless it was such a big deal they know what they did. And when it's significant other that's different than a friend, ghosting a friend is one thing but ghosting an intimate partner is another. Pretty fucked up thing to do to someone, again, unless they know what they did, like they cheated on you or something.

Don't know if I'd go "morally wrong" but it's a dick move most of the time. It's better to just tell them or talk about it.
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Did it to my ex. She treated me like dogshit. Everyone that knew about her and I thought I made the right call
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If its ghosting vs typing out a paragraph text concisely stating why you dont think it works out...just do the latter and immediately block their number after sending the text. Its basically ghosting but its a definite step up. I dont see how a months long relationship cant at least get some closure.

Just a few dates though? Ghosting is allowed for sure. Hopefully its not a consistent habit though.
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