Current Events > In BDSM, Is It Offensive To Call A Black Client A "Slave"?

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DumbQuestion 05/27/18 6:01:26 PM #1:	Lets say you have a black guy who wants to partake with a Mistress in BDSM. If that Mistress were to call that black client a "slave" would this be considered massively offensive? Even if it wasn't meant to be? <cite>DumbQuestion posted [p:902082099] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>Lets say you have a black guy who wants to partake with a Mistress in BDSM. If that Mistress were to call that black client a "slave" would this be considered massively offensive? Even if it wasn't meant to be?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkTransient 05/27/18 6:02:32 PM #2:	There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. --- http://www.facebook.com/loaocos/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAfJB3KYYDg <cite>DarkTransient posted [p:902082152] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AverageDude9 05/27/18 6:04:33 PM #3:	DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. facepalm <cite>AverageDude9 posted [p:902082246] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> facepalm</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkTransient 05/27/18 6:05:55 PM #4:	AverageDude9 posted... DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. facepalm Go on then, name one that hasn't. --- http://www.facebook.com/loaocos/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAfJB3KYYDg <cite>DarkTransient posted [p:902082309] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>AverageDude9 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> facepalm</quote> Go on then, name one that hasn't.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GiftedACIII 05/27/18 6:33:32 PM #5:	Tbh some masochists would like that even more. --- </topic> <cite>GiftedACIII posted [p:902083613] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>Tbh some masochists would like that even more.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Terra-enforcer 05/27/18 6:40:18 PM #6:	Nah thats inherent to the genre like it or not lol. DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. Every time I come back hoping CE gets better, then I read some of the dumbest shit Ive ever read in my entire life. --- Nintendo Switch Friend Code: SW-3032-7898-9500 http://psnprofiles.com/Terraforce777 http://miiverse.nintendo.net/users/Rayquaza487 <cite>Terra-enforcer posted [p:902083944] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>Nah thats inherent to the genre like it or not lol. <cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> Every time I come back hoping CE gets better, then I read some of the dumbest shit Ive ever read in my entire life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkTransient 05/27/18 6:43:27 PM #7:	Terra-enforcer posted... Nah thats inherent to the genre like it or not lol. DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. Every time I come back hoping CE gets better, then I read some of the dumbest shit Ive ever read in my entire life. See my response to AverageDude9, above. --- http://www.facebook.com/loaocos/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAfJB3KYYDg <cite>DarkTransient posted [p:902084093] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>Terra-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Nah thats inherent to the genre like it or not lol. <cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> Every time I come back hoping CE gets better, then I read some of the dumbest shit Ive ever read in my entire life.</quote> See my response to AverageDude9, above.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
catboy0_0 05/27/18 6:50:46 PM #8:	I feel like if it's in the bedroom and both parties agree to it with no coercion, then anything's fair game. --- https://imgur.com/a/YXM2bZn Dai Grepher: I am an idiot. I am wrong. My entire theory is incorrect. Zero Mission IS a remake of Metroid. <cite>catboy0_0 posted [p:902084462] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>I feel like if it's in the bedroom and both parties agree to it with no coercion, then anything's fair game.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Terra-enforcer 05/27/18 6:52:26 PM #10:	DarkTransient posted... Terra-enforcer posted... Nah thats inherent to the genre like it or not lol. DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. Every time I come back hoping CE gets better, then I read some of the dumbest shit Ive ever read in my entire life. See my response to AverageDude9, above. Yes, its the fact that you think thats a reasonable response that makes it even more stupid. --- Nintendo Switch Friend Code: SW-3032-7898-9500 http://psnprofiles.com/Terraforce777 http://miiverse.nintendo.net/users/Rayquaza487 <cite>Terra-enforcer posted [p:902084542] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terra-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Nah thats inherent to the genre like it or not lol. <cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> Every time I come back hoping CE gets better, then I read some of the dumbest shit Ive ever read in my entire life.</quote> See my response to AverageDude9, above.</quote> Yes, its the fact that you think thats a reasonable response that makes it even more stupid.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodyNate 05/27/18 6:52:44 PM #11:	i think especially with something as intimate and personal as BDSM sex, if thats what the submissive wants, then there shouldnt be any issue for what its worth, in healthy BDSM relationships, the sub is always setting the rules and choosing the pace of play. so with that under consideration, then hell yeah --- Be nice and spread positivity! <cite>BloodyNate posted [p:902084559] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>i think especially with something as intimate and personal as BDSM sex, if thats what the submissive wants, then there shouldnt be any issue for what its worth, in healthy BDSM relationships, the sub is always setting the rules and choosing the pace of play. so with that under consideration, then hell yeah</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xBloodBrotherx 05/27/18 6:56:17 PM #12:	With BDSM you establish ground rules first, a safe word, and you do some trial and error experimenting at first. Some people will be into it, some won't, and some might actually get off thinking about it meaning that kind of slave if you're into degradation. A girl I knew years ago told me one of her black ex bf's liked being called the n word during sex. People are weird, they like whatever they like. As long as everyone is all for it and of age there's no problem. --- The above post is literally and objectively right. <cite>xBloodBrotherx posted [p:902084726] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>With BDSM you establish ground rules first, a safe word, and you do some trial and error experimenting at first. Some people will be into it, some won't, and some might actually get off thinking about it meaning that kind of slave if you're into degradation. A girl I knew years ago told me one of her black ex bf's liked being called the n word during sex. People are weird, they like whatever they like. As long as everyone is all for it and of age there's no problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ProfessorKukui 05/27/18 6:57:23 PM #13:	Nope. Consent is key. <cite>ProfessorKukui posted [p:902084780] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>Nope. Consent is key.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmk 05/27/18 7:32:16 PM #14:	For some people, racial implications actually enhance it. --- I am snazzier, hot, hot rant. Warily slight as. Croak rush, OK? Weirder, almighty make out. ::) <cite>Tmk posted [p:902086556] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>For some people, racial implications actually enhance it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkTransient 05/27/18 7:37:27 PM #15:	CrimsonRage posted... DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. unless you're in america, then slave is more offensive to a black person than a white person isn't CONTEXT fun ITP: Everyone lives in America. ITP: There were never white slaves in America. --- http://www.facebook.com/loaocos/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAfJB3KYYDg <cite>DarkTransient posted [p:902086793] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>CrimsonRage posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. </quote> unless you're in america, then slave is more offensive to a black person than a white person isn't CONTEXT fun</quote> ITP: Everyone lives in America. ITP: There were never white slaves in America.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 05/27/18 7:43:26 PM #16:	GiftedACIII posted... Tbh some masochists would like that even more. This. Some Black guys may even want her to play up a racist angle, complete with slurs and such. --- Be wary of boarding the hype train, lest you end up on the ruse cruise... - nanobuilder (r/nintendo) http://backloggery.com/SolarCrimson <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:902087091] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>GiftedACIII posted...</cite> <quote>Tbh some masochists would like that even more.</quote> This. Some Black guys may even want her to play up a racist angle, complete with slurs and such.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 05/27/18 7:45:26 PM #17:	DarkTransient posted... ITP: There were never white slaves in America. To anywhere near the degree of Black slavery in the Americas, no, not at all. --- Be wary of boarding the hype train, lest you end up on the ruse cruise... - nanobuilder (r/nintendo) http://backloggery.com/SolarCrimson <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:902087189] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>ITP: There were never white slaves in America.</quote> To anywhere near the degree of Black slavery in the Americas, no, not at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SmidgeIsntBack 05/27/18 8:29:28 PM #18:	There are actually BDSM definitions for "slave" that vary wildly from those for "sub," and imply that the former has less rights than the latter. Doesn't really apply here because in a healthy, kinky relationship you're free to call your partner whatever designation you both agree on, but I just felt like throwing that out there. --- Audio Theater: For discussion of podcasts, radio, audiobooks, and the like https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1364- <cite>SmidgeIsntBack posted [p:902089197] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>There are actually BDSM definitions for "slave" that vary wildly from those for "sub," and imply that the former has less rights than the latter. Doesn't really apply here because in a healthy, kinky relationship you're free to call your partner whatever designation you both agree on, but I just felt like throwing that out there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DavidWong 05/27/18 8:31:52 PM #20:	strong username to post ratio --- When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850) <cite>DavidWong posted [p:902089321] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote>strong username to post ratio</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kazi1212 05/27/18 8:54:54 PM #21:	DarkTransient posted... There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that. This. Practically everyones ancestors had been slaves at some point in history. --- I don't know my gimmick "Does that sound reasonable to you?" <cite>Kazi1212 posted [p:902090469] in In BDSM, I... [t:76648925]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkTransient posted...</cite> <quote>There is no inherent reason for "slave" to be more offensive to a black man than anyone else. Every race has been enslaved at some point in their history. So, it would be no more offensive than if they called anyone else that.</quote> This. Practically everyones ancestors had been slaves at some point in history.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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