Current Events > A guy very aggressively hit on me at a bar tonight

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BloodyNate
05/19/18 7:31:38 AM
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It made me really fuckin uncomfortable

Later I asked my friend is that what its like being a woman? and she was like yeah pretty much and it made me sad
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Kurumiee
05/19/18 7:37:08 AM
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maybe you shouldn't have been wearing those short shorts, you ho
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gamer167
05/19/18 7:38:19 AM
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Its the society we live in unfortunately. Guys have to make the first move and most of them suck at it.

Add a little liquid courage from a couple drinks and they fuck it up even worse.
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BloodyNate
05/19/18 7:44:52 AM
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Kurumiee posted...
maybe you shouldn't have been wearing those short shorts, you ho


I was in jeans, a tee, and a jacket

gamer167 posted...
Its the society we live in unfortunately. Guys have to make the first move and most of them suck at it.

Add a little liquid courage from a couple drinks and they fuck it up even worse.


Im not gonna excuse someone who did a creepy thing as being a product of society. People shouldnt be shitty to each other no matter what
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nicklebro
05/19/18 7:47:59 AM
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You were probably asking for it. Or you're just lying like the rest of the hypocritical #MeToo movement.

/ConservativeLogic
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BlockAddition
05/19/18 7:49:49 AM
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Bigot much? Just because a presumed gay guy was talking to you it doesn't mean he was hitting on you
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NeoBowser
05/19/18 7:50:06 AM
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BlockAddition posted...
Bigot much? Just because a presumed gay guy was talking to you it doesn't mean he was hitting on you

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rusty12000
05/19/18 7:51:05 AM
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It's kind of one of those damned if you do and damned if you don't situations. Because often times the aggressive guy is the one that will get laid. Even if 9/10 people he aggressively hits on are super turned off by it, and will judge you for life, there is always one that is down. but if you don't hit on anyone, you have a 0% chance lol.

No chick is coming up to the moderately successful quiet guy, they want the Aggressive Drug dealer that has never had a job since High School... </rant>
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BloodyNate
05/19/18 7:51:35 AM
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BlockAddition posted...
Bigot much? Just because a presumed gay guy was talking to you it doesn't mean he was hitting on you


Oh fuck this bullshit
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nicklebro
05/19/18 7:52:11 AM
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NeoBowser posted...
BlockAddition posted...
Bigot much? Just because a presumed gay guy was talking to you it doesn't mean he was hitting on you

Oh stfu. And you, don't encourage this kinda behavior.
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Kurumiee
05/19/18 7:52:57 AM
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@BloodyNate

maybe you shouldn't have been rubbing your moobs in that wet t-shirt of yours, ho
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BloodyNate
05/19/18 7:53:58 AM
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Kurumiee posted...
@BloodyNate

maybe you shouldn't have been rubbing your moobs in that wet t-shirt of yours, ho


Okay this one made me smile
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BlockAddition
05/19/18 7:58:08 AM
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BloodyNate posted...
Oh fuck this bullshit

Are you really so full of yourself that when a presumed gay guy talks to you he's hitting on you? Do you feel the same when a female talks to you?

Protip: Not every gay guy is after you. Get over it
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Kazi1212
05/19/18 7:59:42 AM
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BloodyNate posted...


Im not gonna excuse someone who did a creepy thing as being a product of society. People shouldnt be shitty to each other no matter what


Some people just come off creepy, not everyone is an average socially well adjusted person, some people are below average in that category and as a result they come off creepy when trying to engage in normal social activities ie flirtation in this case. But if he was being shitty, thats a different story. Being creepy or coming off as creepy is not the same thing as intentionally being shitty. How was he being shitty to you?
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BloodyNate
05/19/18 8:03:59 AM
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BlockAddition posted...
BloodyNate posted...
Oh fuck this bullshit

Are you really so full of yourself that when a presumed gay guy talks to you he's hitting on you? Do you feel the same when a female talks to you?

Protip: Not every gay guy is after you. Get over it


Heres a protip: if someone says they were aggressively hit on to the point that it made them uncomfortable, one of the worst things you can do is tell then theyre bigoted for thinking they were getting flirted with. I like men. I flirt with men. Men flirt with me. I know what flirting looks like. So fuck off with your gaslighting bullshit and start thinking twice before talking to people
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Turtlebread
05/19/18 8:15:15 AM
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so what was this gaybro actually saying
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Sad_Face
05/19/18 8:17:00 AM
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rusty12000 posted...
It's kind of one of those damned if you do and damned if you don't situations. Because often times the aggressive guy is the one that will get laid. Even if 9/10 people he aggressively hits on are super turned off by it, and will judge you for life, there is always one that is down. but if you don't hit on anyone, you have a 0% chance lol.

No chick is coming up to the moderately successful quiet guy, they want the Aggressive Drug dealer that has never had a job since High School... </rant>


Successful aggressive guys are more subtle about being aggressive. They'll be honest in what they want, but they also make sure you have a good time talking to them and enjoy their company first. What TC seems to have encountered was a guy in desperation mode.
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