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Aloner
05/17/18 9:07:57 PM
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How do you even win.
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ItsVinceRusso
05/17/18 9:08:16 PM
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By being Chad.
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DavidWong
05/17/18 9:08:21 PM
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Be a normal guy? Talk to her as a person?
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Tappor
05/17/18 9:08:48 PM
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ItsVinceRusso posted...
By being Chad.
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chill02
05/17/18 9:18:39 PM
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DavidWong posted...
Be a normal guy? Talk to her as a person?

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Aloner
05/17/18 9:20:21 PM
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DavidWong posted...
Talk to her as a person?

Doesn't that lead to the friendzone?
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Schwarz
05/17/18 9:22:03 PM
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Personality extremes aren't very attractive
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DavidWong
05/17/18 9:29:02 PM
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Aloner posted...
DavidWong posted...
Talk to her as a person?

Doesn't that lead to the friendzone?


http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

just read that, that article changed my life with women
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LordFarquad1312
05/17/18 9:29:46 PM
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People hate extremes. Imagine that...
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TheVipaGTS
05/17/18 9:31:11 PM
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chill02 posted...
DavidWong posted...
Be a normal guy? Talk to her as a person?

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pogo_rabid
05/17/18 9:31:28 PM
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People hate assholes and pussies...gee
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Suchomimus
05/17/18 9:31:39 PM
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DavidWong posted...
Be a normal guy? Talk to her as a person?


This but also be confident and attractive.
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bob742omb
05/17/18 9:37:19 PM
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no such thing as absolutes when it comes to this stuff (yeah yeah i know that's an absolute)
you can't be too much of a dick but you can't be too much of a milquetoast

you can't be emotional all the time but sometimes you have to show that side
you can't be a dick all the time but sometimes you have to be
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BipBapBam
05/17/18 9:38:32 PM
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Tappor posted...
ItsVinceRusso posted...
By being Chad.

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iClockwork
05/17/18 9:39:12 PM
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Politics
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Swagnificent119
05/17/18 9:41:25 PM
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You make your intentions known without being pushy.

The problem is that a lot of guys are afraid of being viewed as a creep for doing this, and granted it can be creepy if you don't do it right

but sometimes you just gotta say "girl, you want me to go balls deep sometime?"

whats the worst that can happen? she says no and never talks to you again?

Good, less time wasted on a pointless endeavor.
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Aloner
05/17/18 9:45:07 PM
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Schwarz posted...
Personality extremes aren't very attractive

It's cute when women do it. :/

DavidWong posted...
Aloner posted...
DavidWong posted...
Talk to her as a person?

Doesn't that lead to the friendzone?


http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

just read that, that article changed my life with women

"Either you will go about the task of seeing to those needs by learning a unique set of skills, or the world will reject you, no matter how kind, giving, and polite you are. You will be poor, you will be alone, you will be left out in the cold."

That seems like a good reason to not bother being nice to people...

""But why can't I find someone who just likes me for me?" you ask. The answer is because humans need things. The victim is bleeding, and all you can do is look down and complain that there aren't more gunshot wounds that just fix themselves?"

So we're allowed to be shallow too then?
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HashtagTartarus
05/17/18 9:48:50 PM
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Freddie_Mercury
05/17/18 9:57:13 PM
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@Complete_Idi0t
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Muffinz0rz
05/17/18 10:01:37 PM
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DavidWong posted...
Aloner posted...
DavidWong posted...
Talk to her as a person?

Doesn't that lead to the friendzone?


http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

just read that, that article changed my life with women

>cracked.com
>life-changing

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Schwarz
05/17/18 10:01:40 PM
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Aloner posted...
It's cute when women do it. :/

It's cute when cute people do it, physical attractiveness forgives a lot of other flaws.

But also along with that, it's cuter in fiction than it is in real life if that's what you're basing this off of.
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Aloner
05/17/18 10:04:26 PM
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So the problem is being ugly. :/
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im not 13
05/17/18 10:05:10 PM
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Dragonblade01
05/17/18 10:07:34 PM
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Are rude/aggressive and shy/submissive the only two options?
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Ivynn
05/17/18 10:07:45 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
chill02 posted...
DavidWong posted...
Be a normal guy? Talk to her as a person?

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Swagnificent119
05/17/18 10:08:18 PM
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RedWhiteBlue posted...
The number one problem with the mentality of "what's the worst that can happen" / "there's plenty of fish in the sea," is that there are actually quite a lot of people who rarely find people attractive. Imagine spotting one person, or even liking one person's personality enough, once a year or two. You know how royally f***ed you are?


Then you have a completely different problem that needs to be addressed.
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Aloner
05/17/18 10:13:21 PM
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Swagnificent119 posted...
You make your intentions known without being pushy.

The problem is that a lot of guys are afraid of being viewed as a creep for doing this, and granted it can be creepy if you don't do it right

but sometimes you just gotta say "girl, you want me to go balls deep sometime?"

whats the worst that can happen? she says no and never talks to you again?

Good, less time wasted on a pointless endeavor.

But my intentions are being a sweet psuedo-husband. :/
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DavidWong
05/17/18 10:23:16 PM
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@Aloner posted...

"Either you will go about the task of seeing to those needs by learning a unique set of skills, or the world will reject you, no matter how kind, giving, and polite you are. You will be poor, you will be alone, you will be left out in the cold."

That seems like a good reason to not bother being nice to people...

""But why can't I find someone who just likes me for me?" you ask. The answer is because humans need things. The victim is bleeding, and all you can do is look down and complain that there aren't more gunshot wounds that just fix themselves?"

So we're allowed to be shallow too then?


Read the article.

Being nice is the BASE. Everybody is nice. Like it says, pretty girls have guys being nice to them 36 times a day. What differentiates you, what can you offer that nobody else can?

Being shallow is a way of looking at it. Most humans are shallow. But hey, you think that if some hideously ugly girl was trying to get you to notice them by doing nothing but "be nice", you'd pay her attention?
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The23rdMagus
05/18/18 12:57:11 AM
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Balance.

Be interesting. Be nice. But also be willing to stand up and assert yourself for the right reasons. Doesn't mean being a dick.

I heard about the Two Rogers rule not too long ago, and it fits pretty well - if Fred or Steve wouldn't do it, I probably shouldn't either.
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