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Bass_X0
05/16/18 4:36:50 PM
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Its only four years difference and the girl is fully consenting and aware. The guy is not abusive or manipulative in any way.

This is not me, nor anybody I know. Just a hypothetical situation.
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Loghain
05/16/18 4:37:37 PM
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Meh, I wouldn't
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Caution999
05/16/18 4:37:38 PM
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I don't care.
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ChainedRedone
05/16/18 4:38:02 PM
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hollow_shrine
05/16/18 4:38:54 PM
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Loghain posted...
Meh, I wouldn't

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A_Good_Boy
05/16/18 4:39:09 PM
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hollow_shrine posted...
Loghain posted...
Meh, I wouldn't

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Ilove4chan
05/16/18 4:40:13 PM
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Its only four years difference and the girl is fully consenting and aware.

Sorry, but she's not. "b-b-b-but she's mature for her age!" is what predators convince themselves of.
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Romulox28
05/16/18 4:40:34 PM
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legality & ethics aside, there is a massive maturity gap between someone in their 20s and a girl who is possibly a sophomore or junior in high school. i dont see how anyone would find that relationship fulfilling. 16 year olds are children imo
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desperationR
05/16/18 4:41:41 PM
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Ilove4chan posted...
Its only four years difference and the girl is fully consenting and aware.

Sorry, but she's not. "b-b-b-but she's mature for her age!" is what predators convince themselves of.

Can tell you're from eti with that crap.
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Konflikt
05/16/18 4:41:45 PM
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Ilove4chan posted...
Its only four years difference and the girl is fully consenting and aware.

Sorry, but she's not. "b-b-b-but she's mature for her age!" is what predators convince themselves of.

Romulox28 posted...
legality & ethics aside, there is a massive maturity gap between someone in their 20s and a girl who is possibly a sophomore or junior in high school. i dont see how anyone would find that relationship fulfilling. 16 year olds are children imo


Both of these
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TheVipaGTS
05/16/18 4:41:50 PM
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16 vs 20 is vastly different than 24 vs 28...

Level of maturity, experience, place in society....its all different. So when people say "ITS JUST 4 YEARS"...its not always "just 4 years"....
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JTilly
05/16/18 4:41:54 PM
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Well thats legal in many parts of the U.S., and other countries, but nah, Wait till they 18
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__aCEr__
05/16/18 4:44:11 PM
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I don't know why anyone who's 20 years old would want to put up with all the bullshit associated with dating a high schooler.
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DracoSpire
05/16/18 4:44:24 PM
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I wouldn't care.

Now, if I had a daughter in this kind of relationship, I would probably want her to at least graduate high school before she goes through with this.
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Muffinz0rz
05/16/18 4:45:24 PM
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ChainedRedone posted...
Muffinz0rz

What

My opinion? I actually had the opportunity when I was 20. I matched with this girl on tinder who even said she was 16 in her bio, but I was in college and swiped anyways. Unfortunately, despite her obviously being interested in me, and after hanging out several times, I still felt too skeevy to make a move, so I broke things off before we did anything. Even though the state age of consent was 16, so I would've been totally legal.

So I guess my opinion is, it's not for me, but I'm not gonna knock anyone for doing it, so long as they aren't breaking the law.

Crazy thing is, she and I just had lunch a few weeks ago when I visited home. She's super hot, I absolutely would've made a move if I wasn't on such a time crunch.
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DavidWong
05/16/18 4:45:52 PM
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It's legal where i live, but nah fuck that. Teenagers are shit
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Ving_Rhames
05/16/18 4:46:39 PM
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Gross/weird. Maturity difference is just too big there.
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KILBOTz
05/16/18 4:49:26 PM
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both a 20 year old and a 16 year old seem like kids to me. one we just pretend one is an adult.

/old man
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Orthopox12
05/16/18 4:51:01 PM
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Some dude I thought was my friend dated my 16 year old sister when he was 21. That ended the friendship.
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joestarrr
05/16/18 4:51:33 PM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
16 vs 20 is vastly different than 24 vs 28...

Level of maturity, experience, place in society....its all different. So when people say "ITS JUST 4 YEARS"...its not always "just 4 years"....

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DarkProto05
05/17/18 7:54:16 AM
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Want a real response? Nothing is wrong with it. Just wait until she's legal before doing anything sexual. CE is very sheltered imo and does not understand the real world.
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Jiggy101011
05/17/18 8:06:58 AM
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Romulox28 posted...
legality & ethics aside, there is a massive maturity gap between someone in their 20s and a girl who is possibly a sophomore or junior in high school. i dont see how anyone would find that relationship fulfilling. 16 year olds are children imo


This, its not so much the age gap as being 28 and dating a 24 year old is not looked down upon. However, she is 16 which means she is still in highschool and naive when it comes to life outside of school.
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Fam_Fam
05/17/18 8:11:02 AM
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why don't people realize that age and maturity are not very neatly correlated? There are people who are 30 who are horribly immature. Less mature than some 18 year olds.

it doesn't make as much of a difference as people liek to say, in many, many cases
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Scotty_Rogers
05/17/18 8:20:12 AM
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Generally, it'd be pretty fucking pathetic for a 20 year old to go for a 16 year old. Can't he get anyone his own age?

But we shouldn't pretend people magically become mature at 18. 18 year olds generally aren't mature in the first place. 16 years old and 18 years old generally aren't that different from each other, especially in maturity.
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KainWind
05/17/18 8:24:31 AM
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I don't see a huge issue with it. Maybe she just wants someone to protect her or something.
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Mr_Biscuit
05/17/18 8:25:25 AM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
hollow_shrine posted...
Loghain posted...
Meh, I wouldn't

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Laserion
05/17/18 8:30:41 AM
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Are they doing it, or just holding hands and peck kisses for two years?
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NeonOctopus
05/17/18 8:33:15 AM
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ThePredominate
05/17/18 8:39:19 AM
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I dunno, I still felt pretty childish at 20. I didn't have my shit together at all.
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averagejoel
05/17/18 9:05:50 AM
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the 20-year-old is a creep
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CyricZ
05/17/18 9:12:48 AM
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So I've been here.

It wasn't my best decision, but it wasn't a disaster either.

We connected online when online was a fresh new thing. We were both rather asocial people and we liked the same things. I wasn't exactly the kind of person who was in a rush to mature, so it's not like there was a discrepancy in maturity much. I don't really consider it "creeping" because I had never had a girlfriend, so I didn't make any assumptions about what the relationship would entail.

We lived half the country apart so we only ever met once. Strict parental supervision. For a guy who hadn't dated anyone up to that point, I had no preconceptions about how it was all supposed to go. In the end, nothing happened. We kept it going online for a while, but eventually broke it off when we realized getting together was just not viable.

That said I would like to check in with her to see how she's doing. It's been eighteen years, and all. We're still FB friends but we don't really talk.
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Irony
05/17/18 9:13:42 AM
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As long as you don't mate with her
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Veggeta X
05/17/18 9:17:06 AM
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desperationR posted...
Ilove4chan posted...
Its only four years difference and the girl is fully consenting and aware.

Sorry, but she's not. "b-b-b-but she's mature for her age!" is what predators convince themselves of.

Can tell you're from eti with that crap.

No this is called being normal.
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garan
05/18/18 5:15:25 AM
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DarkProto05 posted...
Want a real response? Nothing is wrong with it. Just wait until she's legal before doing anything sexual. CE is very sheltered imo and does not understand the real world.


Agree with this. Also, 16 is legal where I live. 20 isn't magically a lot more mature than a teenager. Most people I've known haven't been very mature till they got into their 30s, and some not even then.
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shokan_warrior
05/18/18 5:17:27 AM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
16 vs 20 is vastly different than 24 vs 28...

Level of maturity, experience, place in society....its all different. So when people say "ITS JUST 4 YEARS"...its not always "just 4 years"....

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SavenForever
05/18/18 5:39:11 AM
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Caution999 posted...
I don't care.

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Grischnak
05/18/18 6:25:08 AM
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KILBOTz posted...
both a 20 year old and a 16 year old seem like kids to me. one we just pretend one is an adult.

/old man


This. I work with some people in their early 20s and they really don't seem very different to me then 16 year olds. I mean, is two 16 year olds having sex supposed to seem like a better option to me? ...Nah. Doesn't really seem very different to me. Same risks and all that. Honestly, I don't think a difference in maturity level really even really matters as long as the two people get along well and there's no like "grooming" done on the side of the older person. I remember when Paul Walker died he got a lot of shit because it came out that he met his girlfriend when she was 16 and he was like 30. Never bothered me though. The girl basically won the lottery on that one. You know, until he died and all that...
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Jaghave
05/18/18 6:26:41 AM
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Nothing, it legal in NJ
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au_gold
05/18/18 6:27:31 AM
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Couldnt care less.
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Ruvan22
05/18/18 9:55:00 AM
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Grischnak posted...
KILBOTz posted...
both a 20 year old and a 16 year old seem like kids to me. one we just pretend one is an adult.

/old man


This. I work with some people in their early 20s and they really don't seem very different to me then 16 year olds. I mean, is two 16 year olds having sex supposed to seem like a better option to me? ...Nah. Doesn't really seem very different to me. Same risks and all that. Honestly, I don't think a difference in maturity level really even really matters as long as the two people get along well and there's no like "grooming" done on the side of the older person. I remember when Paul Walker died he got a lot of shit because it came out that he met his girlfriend when she was 16 and he was like 30. Never bothered me though. The girl basically won the lottery on that one. You know, until he died and all that...


Really? Never knew that about Paul Walker....
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Fony
05/18/18 9:58:30 AM
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Don't care. I dated girls in their 20's since I was 15. I would let my daughter date someone older, but I would not like my 20yo son to date a 16yo because he is more likely to get in trouble behind it.
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Ultima Dragon
05/18/18 9:59:05 AM
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The thing that makes it weird to me is that she would legit be in high school still. Four year difference and both people are in college? Not so weird then.
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Kitt
05/18/18 10:00:58 AM
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Eh. I wouldn't care. Girls were dating dudes in their mid 20s when I was in highschool. It wasn't uncommon and this is certainly tame in comparison.
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Doom_Art
05/18/18 10:01:29 AM
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20/2+7=17

nope not okay
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