Current Events > My fiance's friend kissed me "goodbye" on the lips. Is that cheating?

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EvalAngell 02/26/18 5:47:11 PM #1:	I was out at a bar with my boys on Saturday night and ran into a couple of girls we know, some of whom are friends with my fiance. My fiance wasn't there as it was just a "guys night out." We hung out with them for a little while and then decided to head out to another bar. One of the girls was noticeably drunk and upon saying goodbye to me she can gave an unusually long hug and gave me a peck on the lips. I tried to pull away but she kept the hug locked in, i looked at her, she kept saying she was so happy she saw me and she again kissed me goodbye on the lips. I told her good night and went on my way as MY friends looked on in awe. Later that night I got a Facebook message from her saying "It was so great seeing you tonight :)" I replied "haha me too Katie" and she sent a smiley emoji. That was the end of it. So is this considered cheating? Or am I victim in all of this? --- It's what's best for business. <cite>EvalAngell posted [p:896818789] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>I was out at a bar with my boys on Saturday night and ran into a couple of girls we know, some of whom are friends with my fiance. My fiance wasn't there as it was just a "guys night out." We hung out with them for a little while and then decided to head out to another bar. One of the girls was noticeably drunk and upon saying goodbye to me she can gave an unusually long hug and gave me a peck on the lips. I tried to pull away but she kept the hug locked in, i looked at her, she kept saying she was so happy she saw me and she again kissed me goodbye on the lips. I told her good night and went on my way as MY friends looked on in awe. Later that night I got a Facebook message from her saying "It was so great seeing you tonight :)" I replied "haha me too Katie" and she sent a smiley emoji. That was the end of it. So is this considered cheating? Or am I victim in all of this?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 02/26/18 5:48:20 PM #2:	Obviously no. I will say though, if those girls are friends with your fianc, it could get back to her (maybe from the kisser herself) and she probably wont care that the bitch initiated it. --- I am basically am I. Well, basically. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:896818859] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>Obviously no. I will say though, if those girls are friends with your fianc, it could get back to her (maybe from the kisser herself) and she probably wont care that the bitch initiated it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Patchwork 02/26/18 5:48:25 PM #3:	It's not cheating but she's got a thing for you. --- The mind is its own place, and in itself Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n. <cite>Patchwork posted [p:896818864] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>It's not cheating but she's got a thing for you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Steve Nick 02/26/18 5:48:42 PM #4:	are you gonna hit that? --- This is my signature. <cite>Steve Nick posted [p:896818883] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>are you gonna hit that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gunpo 02/26/18 5:49:38 PM #5:	Pics --- Steam/PSN:AloofHermit http://error1355.com/ce/Gunpo.html <cite>Gunpo posted [p:896818934] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>Pics</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Electrokinesis 02/26/18 5:49:39 PM #6:	It sounds like one of those things that will come up in an unnecessarily dramatic way. No, it's not cheating. --- It's scientifically impossible for pants to feel "pain". ~ TheRealItachi <cite>Electrokinesis posted [p:896818936] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>It sounds like one of those things that will come up in an unnecessarily dramatic way. No, it's not cheating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvalAngell 02/26/18 5:49:47 PM #7:	Steve Nick posted... are you gonna hit that? in another life i would have. She's very pretty. --- It's what's best for business. <cite>EvalAngell posted [p:896818945] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>Steve Nick posted...</cite> <quote>are you gonna hit that?</quote> in another life i would have. She's very pretty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvalAngell 02/26/18 5:50:08 PM #8:	Electrokinesis posted... It sounds like one of those things that will come up in an unnecessarily dramatic way. this is what i fear the most. I didn't mention it to my fiance either so I just know it's going to come back to haunt me. --- It's what's best for business. <cite>EvalAngell posted [p:896818962] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>Electrokinesis posted...</cite> <quote>It sounds like one of those things that will come up in an unnecessarily dramatic way.</quote> this is what i fear the most. I didn't mention it to my fiance either so I just know it's going to come back to haunt me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 02/26/18 5:50:12 PM #9:	3way time --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:896818965] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>3way time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Axiom 02/26/18 5:53:16 PM #10:	I know a girl that would do that pretty often especially when drinking. It didn't mean anything granted she was my friend and not the other way around so I didn't have to worry about it becoming something when it was nothing <cite>Axiom posted [p:896819142] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>I know a girl that would do that pretty often especially when drinking. It didn't mean anything granted she was my friend and not the other way around so I didn't have to worry about it becoming something when it was nothing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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PhazonReborn 02/26/18 5:54:48 PM #12:	You should have fucked her bro --- The Phazon you know and trust since 2004 Steam ID: AncientToaster / PSN ID: LiteralToaster <cite>PhazonReborn posted [p:896819243] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>You should have fucked her bro</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fam_Fam 02/26/18 5:54:51 PM #13:	its funny because you are in a jam, but im the one thats jelly <cite>Fam_Fam posted [p:896819248] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>its funny because you are in a jam, but im the one thats jelly</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvalAngell 02/26/18 5:56:36 PM #14:	fenderbender321 posted... 'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me. --- It's what's best for business. <cite>EvalAngell posted [p:896819351] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. </quote> bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dyinglegacy 02/26/18 6:00:53 PM #15:	EvalAngell posted... fenderbender321 posted... 'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me. It's kinda like when you have a job, it's easier to find another job if you decide to look. People more likely to employ someone who is already employed.. They may see value in you. --- I tried to think of something clever to put here. <cite>Dyinglegacy posted [p:896819605] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>EvalAngell posted...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. </quote> bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me.</quote> It's kinda like when you have a job, it's easier to find another job if you decide to look. People more likely to employ someone who is already employed.. They may see value in you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SomeonesAlt 02/26/18 6:01:01 PM #16:	EvalAngell posted... fenderbender321 posted... 'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me. It's because you don't care/aren't looking. Girls love that for some reason. Fortunately my girlfriend isn't the jealous type and feels flattered when other girls hit on me, lol. I feel the same way with her cause we both know we're going home with each other at the end of the night. --- But Whose? <cite>SomeonesAlt posted [p:896819620] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>EvalAngell posted...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. </quote> bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me.</quote> It's because you don't care/aren't looking. Girls love that for some reason. Fortunately my girlfriend isn't the jealous type and feels flattered when other girls hit on me, lol. I feel the same way with her cause we both know we're going home with each other at the end of the night.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvalAngell 02/26/18 6:02:57 PM #17:	SomeonesAlt posted... Fortunately my girlfriend isn't the jealous type and feels flattered when other girls hit on me, lol. I feel the same way with her cause we both know we're going home with each other at the end of the night. nice! thats a great thing you guys have going. --- It's what's best for business. <cite>EvalAngell posted [p:896819725] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeonesAlt posted...</cite> <quote>Fortunately my girlfriend isn't the jealous type and feels flattered when other girls hit on me, lol. I feel the same way with her cause we both know we're going home with each other at the end of the night.</quote> nice! thats a great thing you guys have going.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 02/26/18 6:02:59 PM #18:	EvalAngell posted... fenderbender321 posted... 'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me. https://www.thecut.com/2016/07/why-married-men-get-hit-on-more.html --- I am basically am I. Well, basically. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:896819728] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>EvalAngell posted...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>'you've been in a serious relationship long enough to where other girls are more attracted to you and wanna f* you, but you can't do it because you'll lose everything you've built with your current girlfriend' test. </quote> bro there really is a strange correlation between being in a relationship and suddenly getting hit on/flirted with more. when I was single I had a difficult time meeting girls. But once I got into a relationship suddenly they were throwing themselves at me.</quote> https://www.thecut.com/2016/07/why-married-men-get-hit-on-more.html</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cerealbox760 02/26/18 6:04:49 PM #20:	I have a rule: if you only got the tip in, its not cheating. Therefore, a simple kiss on the lips is not cheating. Dont worry. If your finance feels differently, you know where to go for another one. --- Clevo P775 QHD 120hz / i7 7700k 4.5GHZ / GTX 1070 8GB / DDR4 16GB/ 256gb m.2 SSD /Magni-Modi DAC_AMP combo/ ie800. Laptop on the outside. Desktop on the inside. <cite>cerealbox760 posted [p:896819823] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>I have a rule: if you only got the tip in, its not cheating. Therefore, a simple kiss on the lips is not cheating. Dont worry. If your finance feels differently, you know where to go for another one.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Yazarogi 02/26/18 6:12:07 PM #21:	its a trap, she's trying to fake you out and get you in trouble with your fiance, per your fiance's orders. --- "There will be nothing to show that we were ever here... but stardust." - Pinbacker <cite>Yazarogi posted [p:896820298] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>its a trap, she's trying to fake you out and get you in trouble with your fiance, per your fiance's orders.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PhazonReborn 02/26/18 6:13:40 PM #22:	Yazarogi posted... its a trap, she's trying to fake you out and get you in trouble with your fiance, per your fiance's orders. Oh yeah this was probably a test --- The Phazon you know and trust since 2004 Steam ID: AncientToaster / PSN ID: LiteralToaster <cite>PhazonReborn posted [p:896820392] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>Yazarogi posted...</cite> <quote>its a trap, she's trying to fake you out and get you in trouble with your fiance, per your fiance's orders.</quote> Oh yeah this was probably a test</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 02/26/18 6:16:53 PM #23:	if i were you i would tell my partner what happened immediately but i am genuinely angry when women who know i'm married flirt with me in such overt ways. --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:896820581] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote>if i were you i would tell my partner what happened immediately but i am genuinely angry when women who know i'm married flirt with me in such overt ways.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 02/26/18 6:25:46 PM #26:	byron posted... EvalAngell posted... "It was so great seeing you tonight :)" I replied "haha me too Katie" I thought no one was gonna touch that lmao --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim team: https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.png <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:896821135] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>byron posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EvalAngell posted...</cite> <quote>"It was so great seeing you tonight :)" I replied "haha me too Katie"</quote></quote> I thought no one was gonna touch that lmao</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kazi1212 02/26/18 6:29:18 PM #27:	byron posted... EvalAngell posted... "It was so great seeing you tonight :)" I replied "haha me too Katie" --- I don't know my gimmick <cite>Kazi1212 posted [p:896821369] in My fiance'... [t:76360728]...</cite> <quote><cite>byron posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EvalAngell posted...</cite> <quote>"It was so great seeing you tonight :)" I replied "haha me too Katie"</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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