Current Events > it's bizarre that people don't understand the concept of choosing to be single

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First, I'll start out by saying that I am a pick up artist. Second, I'll tell you I'm massively introverted and prefer to be alone 90% of the time. This is greatly due to the way I was raised.

My parents were never emotional with me and I can tell you all 5 times my parents have told me they loved me (all from my mom, my dad never has). I have asian parents and my dad grew up an orphan on the streets, so he's very emotionally cold. They are not very emotional people and actually never went on a date before getting married (they went on a few group hang outs). They were also very emotionally and sometimes physically abusive. When I was younger they would fight literally every night, with broken furniture involved. My mom would wake me up in the middle of the night, to take me away, afraid my dad would hurt us. I wished every day they would get divorced, but they never did.

Growing up, they never even told me about the concepts of love, dating, sex, etc. I never really learned about them until later in high school/college. So because I was raised in such a cold environment, I never really felt the emotions of love.

I can name you the exact 3 times in the last 2 years I've actually felt lonely. Now that said, the 90-10 is still a balance. I just really understand how to do the 10% that I need, which people don't. So if I want to have sex, all I do is go out and find a new girl to have sex with.

The issue is a lot of people just cant get laid, so they don't understand the mindset of abundance that I come from. They'd do any desperate thing just to cling onto one girl that will have them. If I told you, you could just go out and find a new girl to bang every time you wanted to....none of you would ever settle down with any one girl. So, instead of being desperate to find one girl to settle down with, I just really believe in my abilities and go out and find a new girl to sleep with whenever I want. I absolutely hate the idea of having someone around I have to constantly communicate with and keep involved in my life just so I can sleep with her...when i'd probably get bored of sleeping with her anyway. So because of this, I choose and prefer to be single.
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The fact that you still have this gimmick is sad, bro
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I get it. I lived with my ex for years, she's was ok most of the time but I got sick of having to explain why I didn't come home until 7am. Shit happens when you're out late drinking ok!?
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not everyone is that dead inside

I'm getting there, it's been years of hard work
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