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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 5:57:23 PM
#352:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

I know enough to make me curious and get me excited to know more :). Plus I have a feeling you'd like the simple things like walks and conversation. That's my style

Yeah, I don't need anything fancy to feel satisfied, >.< . Just doing something like that would be fine with me, because i'd be happy to spend time with someone.


Im in the exact same place. That's why I guessed that :p. Id also rearrange my budget to actually do stuff tho
I have a game collection I've grown unattached to that Id sell just for a shot at a relationship lol
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:02:54 PM
#353:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

Im in the exact same place. That's why I guessed that :p. Id also rearrange my budget to actually do stuff tho
I have a game collection I've grown unattached to that Id sell just for a shot at a relationship lol

Basically, then... you're desperate for a relationship with anyone? >.<
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DaemMkIV7
02/06/18 6:04:49 PM
#354:


How long have you been a shut-in for? I became one last year, kind of. Was more of a rest thing for me and it was pretty good, actually.

Now it's business as usual for me.
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:06:14 PM
#355:


DaemMkIV7 posted...
How long have you been a shut-in for? I became one last year, kind of. Was more of a rest thing for me and it was pretty good, actually.

Now it's business as usual for me.

Five years.
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:09:06 PM
#356:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

Im in the exact same place. That's why I guessed that :p. Id also rearrange my budget to actually do stuff tho
I have a game collection I've grown unattached to that Id sell just for a shot at a relationship lol

Basically, then... you're desperate for a relationship with anyone? >.<


Neh. Cause I also have pride and need to be respected as I respect others. Which really narrows things down since most people have lost the ability to respect others. I actually find it really hard to find an actual connection with most people. I can't be with someone im just phoning it in with. I need someone who makes me want to constantly do romantic things for them
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:10:53 PM
#357:


Lost_All_Senses posted...


Neh. Cause I also have pride and need to be respected as I respect others. Which really narrows things down since most people have lost the ability to respect others. I actually find it really hard to find an actual connection with most people. I can't be with someone im just phoning it in with. I need someone who makes me want to constantly do romantic things for them

That makes it feel more special, then, >.<
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:18:50 PM
#358:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...


Neh. Cause I also have pride and need to be respected as I respect others. Which really narrows things down since most people have lost the ability to respect others. I actually find it really hard to find an actual connection with most people. I can't be with someone im just phoning it in with. I need someone who makes me want to constantly do romantic things for them

That makes it feel more special, then, >.<


Ill day in the bed I made, before I lay with a love I loathe :3.

song lyric, not original

Seeing other relationships I noticed being with the wrong person seems waaay worse than being with nobody. Gotta find someone who challenges you but doesn't hold it over your head when you're wrong.
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:23:39 PM
#359:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

Ill day in the bed I made, before I lay with a love I loathe :3.

song lyric, not original

Seeing other relationships I noticed being with the wrong person seems waaay worse than being with nobody. Gotta find someone who challenges you but doesn't hold it over your head when you're wrong.

I agree, :D
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Ivynn
02/06/18 6:26:28 PM
#360:


MorningRose posted...
DaemMkIV7 posted...
How long have you been a shut-in for? I became one last year, kind of. Was more of a rest thing for me and it was pretty good, actually.

Now it's business as usual for me.

Five years.


If you don't mind me asking, do you ever feel like you're a burden on your parents? I remember when I spent almost two years as a shut-in and every day I felt huge guilt because I felt I was being a burden on mine. It felt like they were tolerating me, and if I had stayed inactive for five years, I think their patience would have definitely broke. >_>
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:30:32 PM
#361:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

Ill day in the bed I made, before I lay with a love I loathe :3.

song lyric, not original

Seeing other relationships I noticed being with the wrong person seems waaay worse than being with nobody. Gotta find someone who challenges you but doesn't hold it over your head when you're wrong.

I agree, :D


In a way you're ahead of others. Cause most people who are always in relationships are always in toxic ones. Where people like us who have watched from the outside and put stuff into perspective as we grew without being influenced heavily by our emotions and drama that comes with relationships. People who always are in relationships since a teen are jaded as hell
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:30:54 PM
#362:


Ivynn posted...


If you don't mind me asking, do you ever feel like you're a burden on your parents? I remember when I spent almost two years as a shut-in and every day I felt huge guilt because I felt I was being a burden on mine. It felt like they were tolerating me, and if I had stayed inactive for five years, I think their patience would have definitely broke. >_>

Only slightly. It doesn't take much to keep me... just one meal a day (which I usually cook) and keeping my hormones paid for.
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DragonGirlYuki
02/06/18 6:32:16 PM
#364:


What will you do if they throw you out?
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Drrobotniks
02/06/18 6:32:35 PM
#365:


MorningRose posted...
just one meal a day (which I usually cook) and keeping my hormones paid for.

and power and internet
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:35:14 PM
#367:


Drrobotniks posted...
MorningRose posted...
just one meal a day (which I usually cook) and keeping my hormones paid for.

and power and internet

Nope. That's not specifically for me, so it doesn't count.

Lost_All_Senses posted...

In a way you're ahead of others. Cause most people who are always in relationships are always in toxic ones. Where people like us who have watched from the outside and put stuff into perspective as we grew without being influenced heavily by our emotions and drama that comes with relationships. People who always are in relationships since a teen are jaded as hell

Being in a relationship just to be in one is a recipe for failure, x.x

DragonGirlYuki posted...
What will you do if they throw you out?

There is exactly 0% chance of that, considering that they are the ones who have encouraged me to stay here.
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Drrobotniks
02/06/18 6:36:16 PM
#368:


MorningRose posted...
Nope

Yep, you use it, thus, raising their bill up

MorningRose posted...
That's not specifically for me

See above
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:37:06 PM
#369:


Drrobotniks posted...
MorningRose posted...
just one meal a day (which I usually cook) and keeping my hormones paid for.

and power and internet


That would be a necessity regardless of her being there or not. Don't be a dick
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Drrobotniks
02/06/18 6:37:49 PM
#370:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
That would be a necessity


Drrobotniks posted...
internet


Didnt know the internet was a necessity, seemed like a luxury
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:38:03 PM
#371:


Drrobotniks posted...
MorningRose posted...
Nope

Yep, you use it, thus, raising their bill up

MorningRose posted...
That's not specifically for me

See above

I barely do anything to affect the power bill. My TV is rarely on and only have to charge my laptop once a day.
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:38:21 PM
#372:


CrimsonRage posted...
@Lost_All_Senses...are you genuinely interested in MorningRose? you're coming on pretty strong tbh and she said she has a bf already


I don't have to answer that. I have that freedom
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Ivynn
02/06/18 6:40:44 PM
#373:


MorningRose posted...
Ivynn posted...


If you don't mind me asking, do you ever feel like you're a burden on your parents? I remember when I spent almost two years as a shut-in and every day I felt huge guilt because I felt I was being a burden on mine. It felt like they were tolerating me, and if I had stayed inactive for five years, I think their patience would have definitely broke. >_>

Only slightly. It doesn't take much to keep me... just one meal a day (which I usually cook) and keeping my hormones paid for.


I was similar in that I tried not to use too many resources but I at least tried to earn my keep by cleaning up the house and looking after my sister. Granted I was not as severe as you in that I could at least go out to do grocery shopping. Do you ever buy food for yourself?
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:41:03 PM
#374:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

That would be a necessity regardless of her being there or not. Don't be a dick

Yeah, everyone here uses and depends on the internet.
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Ivynn
02/06/18 6:41:53 PM
#375:


Drrobotniks posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
That would be a necessity


Drrobotniks posted...
internet


Didnt know the internet was a necessity, seemed like a luxury


These days it pretty much is. Pretty sure most if not all jobs require you to apply online now, for example.
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:42:05 PM
#376:


Ivynn posted...

I was similar in that I tried not to use too many resources but I at least tried to earn my keep by cleaning up the house and looking after my sister. Granted I was not as severe as you in that I could at least go out to do grocery shopping. Do you ever buy food for yourself?

I can't leave the house without my mom, :/ . I do stuff in the house too, though, like the laundry and cooking.
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:50:26 PM
#379:


CrimsonRage posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
CrimsonRage posted...
@Lost_All_Senses...are you genuinely interested in MorningRose? you're coming on pretty strong tbh and she said she has a bf already


I don't have to answer that. I have that freedom


sorry didn't mean to offend


Haha, you didn't. I just don't have any intentions one way or another. I just live day by day and im enjoying the conversation. Enough to maybe get overly flirty here and there
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:53:45 PM
#380:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

Haha, you didn't. I just don't have any intentions one way or another. I just live day by day and im enjoying the conversation. Enough to maybe get overly flirty here and there

You're putting your foot in your mouth again, >.<
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Ivynn
02/06/18 6:54:31 PM
#381:


MorningRose posted...
Ivynn posted...

I was similar in that I tried not to use too many resources but I at least tried to earn my keep by cleaning up the house and looking after my sister. Granted I was not as severe as you in that I could at least go out to do grocery shopping. Do you ever buy food for yourself?

I can't leave the house without my mom, :/ . I do stuff in the house too, though, like the laundry and cooking.


Do you also have agoraphobia? Like diagnosed?

I was never good at cooking. You ever see that gif of Homer Simpson pouring a bowl of cereal and it catching fire? Not to far off from reality for me. >_>
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:55:19 PM
#382:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

Haha, you didn't. I just don't have any intentions one way or another. I just live day by day and im enjoying the conversation. Enough to maybe get overly flirty here and there

You're putting your foot in your mouth again, >.<


At this points I might just have to accept it as a personality trait...
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:56:46 PM
#383:


Ivynn posted...

Do you also have agoraphobia? Like diagnosed?

I was never good at cooking. You ever see that gif of Homer Simpson pouring a bowl of cereal and it catching fire? Not to far off from reality for me. >_>

I am diagnosed with...
- Major Depression
- Social Anxiety Disorder
- Bulimia
- Insomnia
- Agoraphobia

x.x
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:58:20 PM
#384:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

At this points I might just have to except it as a personality trait...

It seems so, >.<
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:58:23 PM
#385:


MorningRose posted...
Ivynn posted...

Do you also have agoraphobia? Like diagnosed?

I was never good at cooking. You ever see that gif of Homer Simpson pouring a bowl of cereal and it catching fire? Not to far off from reality for me. >_>

I am diagnosed with...
- Major Depression
- Social Anxiety Disorder
- Bulimia
- Insomnia
- Agoraphobia

x.x


You should definitely apply for SSI.
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MorningRose
02/06/18 6:59:36 PM
#386:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

You should definitely apply for SSI.

I keep badgering my mom about it, x.x
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 6:59:36 PM
#387:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

At this points I might just have to except it as a personality trait...

It seems so, >.<


Aw, you caught it before I corrected the word error. Internet failed to let me appear smarter than I am
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MorningRose
02/06/18 7:00:35 PM
#388:


Lost_All_Senses posted...

Aw, you caught it before I corrected the word error. Internet failed to let me appear smarter than I am

Besides, your typo would still be available by clicking on message detail, unless they've taken that out recently.
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coolpal23
02/06/18 7:01:13 PM
#389:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
MorningRose posted...
Ivynn posted...

Do you also have agoraphobia? Like diagnosed?

I was never good at cooking. You ever see that gif of Homer Simpson pouring a bowl of cereal and it catching fire? Not to far off from reality for me. >_>

I am diagnosed with...
- Major Depression
- Social Anxiety Disorder
- Bulimia
- Insomnia
- Agoraphobia

x.x


You should definitely apply for SSI.

Right? I told her

Your mom isnt the one you should be badgering, its the online application, and the doctor who evaluates you who you should be semi badgering
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Ivynn
02/06/18 7:02:45 PM
#390:


MorningRose posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

You should definitely apply for SSI.

I keep badgering my mom about it, x.x


Is there any reason she's not going for it? It's unbelievable you don't have it given all your stuff. @_@
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MorningRose
02/06/18 7:03:55 PM
#391:


coolpal23 posted...

Right? I told her

Your mom isnt the one you should be badgering, its the online application, and the doctor who evaluates you who you should be semi badgering

Like i've already said, she doesn't want to do online, x.x . Also, I have an appointment with my psychiatrist on Thursday.
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Ivynn
02/06/18 7:03:58 PM
#392:


coolpal23 posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
MorningRose posted...
Ivynn posted...

Do you also have agoraphobia? Like diagnosed?

I was never good at cooking. You ever see that gif of Homer Simpson pouring a bowl of cereal and it catching fire? Not to far off from reality for me. >_>

I am diagnosed with...
- Major Depression
- Social Anxiety Disorder
- Bulimia
- Insomnia
- Agoraphobia

x.x


You should definitely apply for SSI.

Right? I told her

Your mom isnt the one you should be badgering, its the online application, and the doctor who evaluates you who you should be semi badgering


Also, you're over 18. Technically, you don't even need your mom for it, just yourself, your doctor and maybe a social worker.
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coolpal23
02/06/18 7:04:39 PM
#393:


MorningRose posted...
she doesn't want to do online

Thats why YOU do it online, you're the one applying

Also, I dont remember you saying that
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MorningRose
02/06/18 7:05:32 PM
#394:


Ivynn posted...

Is there any reason she's not going for it? It's unbelievable you don't have it given all your stuff. @_@

She's afraid it'll take me off of the family healthcare plan, and is afraid that i'll have to pay most of what i'd get on SSI towards health insurance.
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coolpal23
02/06/18 7:06:44 PM
#395:


MorningRose posted...
She's afraid it'll take me off of the family healthcare plan

See what its like in your state, I'm fairly sure when you get on SSI, you get free health insurance for yourself
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MorningRose
02/06/18 7:20:37 PM
#396:


She still won't hear anything about it. I've tried, and she's getting mad.

Talking about this is getting me frustrated, too.
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Lost_All_Senses
02/06/18 7:32:27 PM
#397:


MorningRose posted...
She still won't hear anything about it. I've tried, and she's getting mad.

Talking about this is getting me frustrated, too.


Doesn't mean its wrong
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coolpal23
02/06/18 7:33:18 PM
#398:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
MorningRose posted...
She still won't hear anything about it. I've tried, and she's getting mad.

Talking about this is getting me frustrated, too.


Doesn't mean its wrong

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MorningRose
02/06/18 7:36:05 PM
#399:


What do you expect me to do? She's legitimately concerned it could affect their healthcare plans. That could end up making things worse.
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coolpal23
02/06/18 7:36:22 PM
#400:


MorningRose posted...
What do you expect me to do

Research
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MorningRose
02/06/18 9:29:30 PM
#401:


bump
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02/06/18 9:38:23 PM
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MorningRose
02/06/18 9:41:23 PM
#403:


Yennefer posted...
Do you have any posters up on your walls?

Yeah, and three wall scrolls.
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