Current Events > Ever wonder why it's so hard to succeed with women?

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It drives me crazy when people say things about fat women. I see a shit load of fat, ugly women that have children and are married.
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kinetika_ posted...

I only ever made moves on women that showed interest/flirted, but I'm really good at reading those kinds of things, though.

Maybe I'm not good at reading people. Or maybe no girls like me.
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Pepys Monster posted...

kinetika_ posted...

I only ever made moves on women that showed interest/flirted, but I'm really good at reading those kinds of things, though.

Maybe I'm not good at reading people. Or maybe no girls like me.

It's likely not just one single thing, but it can be slightly simplified on what to work on. First off, you shouldn't assume how other people see you. That can lead to you not truly listening to the person that you're engaging because you've created a bias that paints the intent of the words in how you view as opposed to how the person is intending for them to sound. That can easily lead to a breakdown in communication and make it seem like you don't understand the other person. Basically, slow down and listen when engaging and try to enjoy yourself instead of being goal oriented. You don't need to control the conversation all the time, but don't hold back so much.

And people aren't necessarily gonna show interest if you don't show them anything about you in the first place. That's just a few things to keep in mind. That's a brief approach to that stuff.
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Bad_Mojo posted...

It drives me crazy when people say things about fat women. I see a shit load of fat, ugly women that have children and are married.

That's kind of proving the TC's point then isn't it? Like, there is love and acceptance out there for every woman.

But being an average male is like being borderline destitute and putting out hundreds of resumes and job applications every day and never getting a single call back. You might say up your qualifications then, but struggling is the norm in today's dating economy. Unless your resume shows you graduated from a top university, have many years of experience and numerous talents, you don't have any chance of being hired or even remotely considered.
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