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teepan95
12/17/17 1:22:56 AM
#1:


Should I start a conversation first ("How's your weekend going?" etc)?

Or should I just go for the jugular("Hey, I hope you're doing well. I'm gonna visit the Christmas market on Monday, do you want to come with me?")

We tend to write every second/third day or so, plus the times where I initiate a conversation, she'll initiate one the very next day...
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TheDarkCircle
12/17/17 1:25:20 AM
#2:


So you've already been texting a bit? on and off?

If so go for the jugular and ask. It's confident and sexy. Worst case scenario is she says no. Then you have your answer.
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TheCyborgNinja
12/17/17 1:26:14 AM
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Yeah, go for it. She seemingly likes you enough that youll be successful.
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BiIlyAssManGunn
12/17/17 1:27:17 AM
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teepan95
12/17/17 1:45:36 AM
#5:


TheDarkCircle posted...
So you've already been texting a bit? on and off?

If so go for the jugular and ask. It's confident and sexy. Worst case scenario is she says no. Then you have your answer.

This is true, but it will make classes awkward if she says no lmao

But yeah, point taken. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

And yeah, we've been texting on and off for a week or so
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TheDarkCircle
12/17/17 1:48:20 AM
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teepan95 posted...
TheDarkCircle posted...
So you've already been texting a bit? on and off?

If so go for the jugular and ask. It's confident and sexy. Worst case scenario is she says no. Then you have your answer.

This is true, but it will make classes awkward if she says no lmao

But yeah, point taken. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

And yeah, we've been texting on and off for a week or so


Yep, "nothing ventured nothing gained." Go for it. Also, it won't make classes awkward, there's nothing awkward about asking someone to hang out. And nothing awkward if they say no. It's no different than asking someone you're not interested in romantically to hang. Go for it man.
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_Schwarzlicht_
12/17/17 1:50:56 AM
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TheDarkCircle posted...
Yep, "nothing ventured nothing gained." Go for it. Also, it won't make classes awkward, there's nothing awkward about asking someone to hang out. And nothing awkward if they say no. It's no different than asking someone you're not interested in romantically to hang. Go for it man.

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008Zulu
12/17/17 1:55:48 AM
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Don't ask for the first date over text. If you are looking to form an emotional connection, it's best to start it as early as possible. Face to face.
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teepan95
12/17/17 2:40:31 AM
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008Zulu posted...
Don't ask for the first date over text. If you are looking to form an emotional connection, it's best to start it as early as possible. Face to face.

But who knows how long I'll have to end up waiting for the 'right chance'?

I could call her, I guess
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SomeLikeItHoth
12/17/17 2:43:18 AM
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Just tell her you're going and see her response. If she seems interested tell her she should tag along. If she says yes just hang out and ask her out on a dinner date for the following weekend (or two).
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teepan95
12/17/17 3:01:33 AM
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Did Hoth just make a serious post?

thanks for the advice, appreciate it
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008Zulu
12/17/17 3:54:40 AM
#12:


teepan95 posted...
But who knows how long I'll have to end up waiting for the 'right chance'?


The right chance is when you are within visual range.
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teepan95
12/17/17 6:19:04 AM
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008Zulu posted...
teepan95 posted...
But who knows how long I'll have to end up waiting for the 'right chance'?


The right chance is when you are within visual range.

Eh, who knows when that will be
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teepan95
12/17/17 9:23:40 AM
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Bump for last-minute opinions
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teepan95
12/17/17 9:41:38 AM
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We see each other sometimes on the train

Over the summer we learned for the exams together as part of a larger group

But we only swapped numbers a week or so ago
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teepan95
12/17/17 11:47:26 AM
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I did it

Got curved

feelsbadman.jpg
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BiIlyAssManGunn
12/17/17 12:02:44 PM
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SquantoZ
12/17/17 12:05:32 PM
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teepan95 posted...
I did it

Got curved

feelsbadman.jpg


You were too good for her then. Teepan da BASED GAWD
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MegaTech
12/17/17 12:07:42 PM
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teepan95 posted...
I did it

Got curved

feelsbadman.jpg

sall good brother. Cant tell you how many times ive been curved or ghosted. Win some, lose some. As long as you keep putting yourself out there, you'll get some wins in there.
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TheDarkCircle
12/17/17 12:14:05 PM
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You did the right thing. All u did was ask, nothing to feel bad about. Feel good you had the guts to put yourself out there. More than most people can say these days
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EpicMickeyDrew
12/17/17 12:16:20 PM
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What did she say?
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SomeLikeItHoth
12/17/17 12:20:53 PM
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EpicMickeyDrew posted...
What did she say?

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teepan95
12/17/17 12:32:58 PM
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I have to get home after [lecture] but thanks anyway

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EpicMickeyDrew
12/17/17 6:24:44 PM
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That doesn't seem so bad
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thronedfire2
12/17/17 6:26:16 PM
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What exactly did you say when you asked her? If you just said 'hey do you wanna go with me' she might not have even taken that as going on a date
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teepan95
12/18/17 1:19:30 PM
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thronedfire2 posted...
What exactly did you say when you asked her? If you just said 'hey do you wanna go with me' she might not have even taken that as going on a date

Say, I'm going to the Christmas market after [lecture]. Do you want to come along?

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Vindris_SNH
12/18/17 1:21:18 PM
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Better to know that someone isn't interested and move on instead of wasting time.
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Awesome
12/18/17 1:26:03 PM
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Vindris_SNH posted...
Better to know that someone isn't interested and move on instead of wasting time.


yep its good to get to the point and not waste any time and to prevent yourself from being treated poorly.
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