Current Events > My gf got her feelings hurt because I didn't finish during sex last night.

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I thought everything was alright though. Sometimes we go at it and I don't finish. We did it over 30 minutes and I honestly got tired and sleepy. It was getting late too and she had to leave. She left in a hurry and didn't even really say goodbye. She only told me later by texting why her feelings were hurt. She said I didn't finish because and it made her realize I never want kids and that she was just a temporary girlfriend for me. She said it's ok that I never want kids with her. That she is not so great.

Like WTF!!! This is almost enough to break up with her.

You should have told her that you accidentally sat on your balls earlier, and they still kinda hurt
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She said I didn't finish because and it made her realize I never want kids and that she was just a temporary girlfriend for me

...what
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Next time, don't leave a girl hanging! If she needs someone to finish, just tag me in, I'll get the job done.
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This happened
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wesastro911 posted...

Like WTF!!! This is almost enough to break up with her.

Sounds like she's going to break up with you.
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Why do you hate children TC?
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The fact that she left without telling me any on this is what made me feel confused. She left in a very cold manner and it had me literally stunned. She has done this before a few times. She gets her feelings hurt and doesn't tell me at the moment. She will leave in a cold manner and leave me questioning what the hell happened. Then, she will tell me what hurt her feelings after I get it out of her over texting.

You'll miss that after she breaks up with you. Some girls will just go bananas and talk your ear off for hours.
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We've been together for a year. We haven't met each other's family and friends yet. We both have social anxiety. I'm her first bf and she lost her virginity to me. She is sheltered and has a good close relation with family. She is sweet and nurturing. Very low maintenance and not typical. I dated about 50 women and seen some really crazy ones.

You have been dating for over a year and haven't met each other's family? Your girlfriend sounds upset that your relationship isn't progressing at a speed which is comfortable to her. You need to address where you each think your relationship is going and where you want it to go.

C7D posted...

You have been dating for over a year and haven't met each other's family? Your girlfriend sounds upset that your relationship isn't progressing at a speed which is comfortable to her. You need to address where you each think your relationship is going and where you want it to go.

It sounds like it's going nowhere if she want kids and he doesn't.
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Callixtus posted...

C7D posted...

You have been dating for over a year and haven't met each other's family? Your girlfriend sounds upset that your relationship isn't progressing at a speed which is comfortable to her. You need to address where you each think your relationship is going and where you want it to go.

It sounds like it's going nowhere if she want kids and he doesn't.

This is a relationship breaking issue. You cannot have a working long term relationship if your opinions on kids are opposed. It needs to be clearly stated what is expected in terms of kids and that has to 100% be accepted by both sides.

Otherwise your relationship is doomed for failure anyway.

As to your specific situation, if you have been seeing each other a year and not so much as met each others parents, which one of you is preventing that from happening (my guess is NOT her).
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I don't know if this really happened but my wife gets like that when I don't finish as well. There's times where we go at it multiple times a day and by the 3rd day I'm fucking spent and no matter how hard I try it just won't happen. She then goes on a kick thinking I'm not attracted to her. Women get like this if you can't finish.
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I'm the one who has tried to meet her family or her meet mine. She has refused and not ready yet. Also, a kid isn't a priority at the present. I'm not stable with my career or ready for that responsibility. I don't like to feel utilized. I like feeling loved for who I am and not for what I will give a woman.

I feel like she just wants to settle and have a tradition life. Like me working full time and her being a housewife. That sounds really stressing to me in this economy.

Do you ever actually talk to your girlfriend about these things? Maybe you should
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Girls have such fucking hang ups about sex, it's annoying as fuck. Like anytime you have less than stellar sex because of outside circumstances, it's a personal afront to them.
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wesastro911 posted...

We both have social anxiety. I'm her first bf and she lost her virginity to me. She is sheltered and has a good close relation with family. She is sweet and nurturing. Very low maintenance and not typical.

If you knew all of this, then perhaps you should keep that in mind when interacting with her.
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C_Pain posted...

Girls have such fucking hang ups about sex, it's annoying as fuck. Like anytime you have less than stellar sex because of outside circumstances, it's a personal afront to them.

If I bust too fast then it's a disappointment. Take too long and they think they're not attractive enough. Not rough enough one moment, but then not gentle enough the next. Too kinky and they feel dirty. Too bland and you're boring.

I'm not a light switch. I think women don't realize that men aren't always ready. Sometimes I like to be turned on too.

It doesn't help she was watching some crazy preacher on youtube talking about how men need sex. He was saying men are always ready for their seed to grow. Like a man is 100% the giver and a woman is 100% a receiver based on biological evidence. He was also being homophobic. WTF!!! Toxic masculinity to the extreme.

wesastro911 posted...

C_Pain posted...

Girls have such fucking hang ups about sex, it's annoying as fuck. Like anytime you have less than stellar sex because of outside circumstances, it's a personal afront to them.

If I bust too fast then it's a disappointment. Take too long and they think they're not attractive enough. Not rough enough one moment, but then not gentle enough the next. Too kinky and they feel dirty. Too bland and you're boring.

I'm not a light switch. I think women don't realize that men aren't always ready. Sometimes I like to be turned on too.

It doesn't help she was watching some crazy preacher on youtube talking about how men need sex. He was saying men are always ready for their seed to grow. Like a man is 100% the giver and a woman is 100% a receiver based on biological evidence. He was also being homophobic. WTF!!! Toxic masculinity to the extreme.

You say this like its all women. My wife isnt anything like your GF. Only reason my wife ever complains about sex is like this morning because I made her pussy and asshole sore from last night. But she wasnt REALLY complaining

And personally I am like a light switch. But Im always on.
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thronedfire2 posted...

This happened

It did. I watched it
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