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Skywalkah
11/10/17 6:20:04 PM
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Met the guy at a social gathering and he pulled me to the side and told me to be very careful with her. He tells me that he now suffers PTSD and goes to therapy for some s*** she pulled on him 2 years ago. He says he's over her but just told me to be very careful and to document things.

This is the third person to tell me to watch out for my GF. One being one of her close friends who said "she doesn't know why she's friends with her." I've been dating my girl for 3 months. Nothing unusual so far. Are they just a couple of haters or do I have a right to be concerned?
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ssj3vegeta_
11/10/17 6:20:54 PM
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eston
11/10/17 6:21:52 PM
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ChainedRedone
11/10/17 6:22:12 PM
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PTSD eh?
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booboy
11/10/17 6:22:22 PM
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When your GF's ex gives you a warning to try to save your ass rather than threaten you, that's pretty close to the single biggest red flag you can get.
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Vyrulisse
11/10/17 6:22:44 PM
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Came into this topic expecting you to get threatened but if he's trying to look out for you like that then yeah I'd listen to him.
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Kazi1212
11/10/17 6:23:27 PM
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Does she give you any vibes that something is off somehow? Sounds sorta like a troll topic but if true I would be careful with money and shit around her
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hakujo
11/10/17 6:23:49 PM
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Roller-coaster time
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Skywalkah
11/10/17 6:23:58 PM
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booboy posted...
When your GF's ex gives you a warning to try to save your ass rather than threaten you, that's pretty close to the single biggest red flag you can get.

maybe he's not over her/jealous idk? I haven't gotten any direct red flags and no one goes into detail
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Skywalkah
11/10/17 6:24:44 PM
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Kazi1212 posted...
Does she give you any vibes that something is off somehow? Sounds sorta like a troll topic but if true I would be careful with money and shit around her

I've gotten my wallet stolen by a one night stand before and had to hunt her down. It was a wild adventure.
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Electrokinesis
11/10/17 6:25:51 PM
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booboy posted...
When your GF's ex gives you a warning to try to save your ass rather than threaten you, that's pretty close to the single biggest red flag you can get.

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theAteam
11/10/17 6:26:56 PM
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Some guy took my gf a few years ago. I didn't give him warning at all lol they broke up like 2 years later when he found out about her pill habit and she stole $500 from him.
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KainWind
11/10/17 6:27:06 PM
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Why would he give you a vague warning? Sounds like they just want you to be paranoid.
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booboy
11/10/17 6:27:32 PM
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Skywalkah posted...
booboy posted...
When your GF's ex gives you a warning to try to save your ass rather than threaten you, that's pretty close to the single biggest red flag you can get.

maybe he's not over her/jealous idk? I haven't gotten any direct red flags and no one goes into detail


Someone who's been mentally abused (especially recently) will have fear when talking about the abuser. Not jealousy or resentment. I'd give the exact same warning to anyone who attempted to date my ex, if not for the fact that I'm now a comfortable 10 hour drive away from her.
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Chicken
11/10/17 6:28:10 PM
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Bitches be crazy.
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Skywalkah
11/10/17 6:29:21 PM
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Electrokinesis posted...
booboy posted...
When your GF's ex gives you a warning to try to save your ass rather than threaten you, that's pretty close to the single biggest red flag you can get.

well wtf am I supposed to do? I can't judge her based off of these actions that I don't know much about? I'm thinking I should go to her friend and tell me that someone else warned me and ask exactly what happened. So far, my girl's been good.
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TheCyborgNinja
11/10/17 6:30:23 PM
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There was a user on a social board here years ago (like 15~) who ended up with a chick so fucked up that when it all came crashing down (she banged everybody and stole from him, but also got them on the Maury show prior to the revelation) her own grandmother told him to leave her and never go back.
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Mikablu
11/10/17 6:30:24 PM
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Skywalkah posted...
This is the third person to tell me to watch out for my GF.

One is an isolated event, two is a coincidence, three is a pattern.
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smoke_break
11/10/17 6:35:30 PM
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I wouldnt believe him unless I knew him personally. he could just as well be trying to break yall up so he can get back with her
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EnragedSlith
11/10/17 6:37:31 PM
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I personally wish my exs friends had warned me about her.
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GODTIER
11/10/17 6:38:18 PM
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Abort mission

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southcoast09
11/10/17 6:38:53 PM
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That's pretty concerning.
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Holy_Cloud105
11/10/17 6:42:40 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
I personally wish my exs friends had warned me about her.

Same.
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booboy
11/10/17 6:43:35 PM
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Skywalkah posted...
Electrokinesis posted...
booboy posted...
When your GF's ex gives you a warning to try to save your ass rather than threaten you, that's pretty close to the single biggest red flag you can get.

well wtf am I supposed to do? I can't judge her based off of these actions that I don't know much about? I'm thinking I should go to her friend and tell me that someone else warned me and ask exactly what happened. So far, my girl's been good.


Lock your shit down. Lock your phone, your computer, any possible financial access she may have to you, password everything to hell and back. When I say everything, I mean every digital account you have, Steam and GameFAQs included, as well as anything else you don't think might be of consequence.

After that, pretend like nothing happened, and watch the "fun" begin.
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Evthean
11/10/17 6:49:51 PM
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If this is a real topic, be very careful. Ive been there, and theres usually something to it, even if you cant tell early in the relationship
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glitteringfairy
11/10/17 6:52:00 PM
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@butthole666 can tell you all about crazy bitches
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butthole666
11/10/17 7:07:22 PM
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Take lots of screenshots of texts and get the fuck out
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Axiom
11/10/17 7:10:55 PM
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I don't think the universe could give you any clearer signs unless it literally knocked on your door kicked you in the balls and told you to get the fuck out immediately
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voldothegr8
11/10/17 7:14:53 PM
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When 3 different people tell you to bail you fucking bail. Bitch is crazy
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Bloodmoon77
11/10/17 7:18:59 PM
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If you have multiple people warning you about your girl chances are theres something up. Had the same thing happen to me and 2 years later I saw why everyone warned me. Just be careful.
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