Current Events > Invited a guy over, planned on telling him I like him.

(+) Yeah! (+)

(Since most people have told me I should ask him out.)

Shows up at my place, we both sit down. I think how to go about starting this off.

Notice he's nervous. Ask why he seems nervous.

"I have a confession."

...Wait, is he gonna say he likes me? No, wait...

Start prepping myself for bad news.

He asks what I wanted to talk about.

"No, go ahead and say what you wanted to say first." Depending on what it is, I might not have anything to say at all.

He tells me he has a girlfriend.

"Well, fuck." Kisai thought to herself.

Guess I can stop worrying about how to tell him I like him now. ;_;
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Should have asked if a threesome was in the realm of possibility.
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Chin up. You put yourself out there.

YonicBoom posted...

Should have asked if a threesome was in the realm of possibility.

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Wonder why he came over if he has a girlfriend.
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mipond posted...

Wonder why he came over if he has a girlfriend.

maybe he thought they would be playing video games or something

besides he doesn't seem like the type of guy to just outright say "I have a girlfriend"
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How long have you known him to not know he's in a relationship?
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I'll be your boyfriend kisai.
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GiftedACIII posted...

How long have you known him to not know he's in a relationship?

...Because, with the implication that it's a new, recent development that I didn't know and he didn't tell anyone yet, it was a new, recent development... that I didn't know, and he didn't tell anyone about. Why else do you think he brought it up?

Tadamoto32 posted...

I'll be your boyfriend kisai.

I don't think you'd want that.

Just_a_loser posted...

YonicBoom posted...

Should have asked if a threesome was in the realm of possibility.

Only if he doesn't mind a devil's threesome...

Akagami_Shanks posted...

mipond posted...

Wonder why he came over if he has a girlfriend.

maybe he thought they would be playing video games or something

besides he doesn't seem like the type of guy to just outright say "I have a girlfriend"

Well, playing video games is exactly what we did do. And admittedly, I did make it seem like I had something I wanted to talk about, and I did. But that quickly changed after hearing that news. I wanted to come off as interested and supportive, but it did kinda bother me, a little. ;_; We've always been friends though, so I can't imagine why he wouldn't visit... But yeah, I'm guessing I probably won't see him come over ever again now. ;.;

But later, we played some Mario Kart 8. I beat him in 2 different sets of races, so he decided to change things up by making us play battle mode, which honestly I had never touched. ...and I somehow won the first round by dumb luck, anyway. Then he won the final match.
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That sucks. What happened next?
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making an advance on someone and being told they have a SO is always awkward

I'm just like "Well, okay" and then our contact is limited, if not outright severed
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That's why you Facebook creep at step 1. Like before they ever become a serious option, check that shit out.
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weapon_d00d816 posted...

That's why you Facebook creep at step 1. Like before they ever become a serious option, check that shit out.

some people hide it pretty well

I find most girls will find some way to bring their boyfriend into a convo as a "Don't get too close" maneuver. Like a "Hows your day?" will get a response like "Good, my boyfriend and I went to the park" or something like that
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Whyd he phrase it the way he did? A confession? It sounds like something he maybe regrets or isnt proud of.

Maybe he was waiting on you to say something and got tired of waiting? I dunno why he wouldnt have made the first move but some dudes are like that. I think you shouldve gone for it, honestly.

I hate when that happens
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pinky0926 posted...

That sucks. What happened next?

Nothing. ;_; We just did normal friend stuff, for the most part.

weapon_d00d816 posted...

That's why you Facebook creep at step 1. Like before they ever become a serious option, check that shit out.

For one, he doesn't have a Facebook account. And two--

Akagami_Shanks posted...

some people hide it pretty well

I find most girls will find some way to bring their boyfriend into a convo as a "Don't get too close" maneuver. Like a "Hows your day?" will get a response like "Good, my boyfriend and I went to the park" or something like that

This happened very recently. He didn't bring it up because I tried asking him out. He just wanted to mention it just because it was a recent and new update. In fact, he said I was the first person to know. ...But he is a very secretive person, normally.

rhklce posted...

Whyd he phrase it the way he did? A confession?

I think he was just being silly. He does that a lot.

It sounds like something he maybe regrets or isnt proud of.

Maybe he was waiting on you to say something and got tired of waiting? I dunno why he wouldnt have made the first move but some dudes are like that.

Well, he didn't have a problem making the first move with this girl... (And what he wants is a real girl.) Anyway, he had no problems saying anything to this other girl two days ago about being in a relationship... I assume if he really wanted to be with me, he could've easily said something with me...

I think you shouldve gone for it, honestly.

...Damnit, now I'm going to be thinking about this for awhile now. ;_; Goddamnit...
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should have just unzipped his pants anyways tbh, that would be the true test..if he stopped you or not
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it's ok Kisai, you can unzip my pants
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treewojima posted...

Chin up. You put yourself out there.

This, there's a lot of boys out there
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Kisai posted...

I don't think you'd want that..

I do. As long as you don't treat me like dirt like most women do.
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haha isn't tad Byron or something? The dudes that posts the cringy tinder convos?
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