Current Events > "You can't change how attractive you are"

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Things you can't change:
Facial structure
Height
Skin Color
Hair type

Things you CAN change:
Skin complexion
Hair cut
Hair style/color/texture
Literally your entire body
Teeth color
Hygeine
Confidence/personality
Clothing

There's way more shit you can change than shit you can't. Focus on that.

The people who complain about not being attractive just don't want to put in the effort to make themselves more attractive.
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EverHeardOfIt posted...

Things you can't change:
Facial structure Surgery
Height Leg bone implants
Skin Color Michael Jackson
Hair type Not sure on this

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EverHeardOfIt posted...

Literally your entire body

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

Tmaster148 posted...

The people who complain about not being attractive just don't want to put in the effort to make themselves more attractive.

For some people, there's just nothing you can do.

SkittyOnWailord posted...

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Height Leg bone implants

That can make you shorter?
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Kisai posted...

SkittyOnWailord posted...

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Height Leg bone implants

That can make you shorter?

They can cut out bone too. Though it's not done very often.
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Kisai posted...

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

I was thinking of adding this but it's really a minor thing. Whether your hips/rib cage/shoulders are a little bigger or smaller doesn't really matter in terms of attractiveness, at least for guys.

you really can unless you're like disfigured.

I'm not saying you can be a movie star, but you can be sexually desirable to most people.
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EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

I was thinking of adding this but it's really a minor thing. Whether your hips/rib cage/shoulders are a little bigger or smaller doesn't really matter in terms of attractiveness, at least for guys.

It's not minor. It's a huge thing. Literally, my shoulders are huge. Combined with my large upperarms, which I'll never be able to get rid of, it's a pretty big flaw. I doubt guys would go for this.
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Solid Snake07 posted...

you really can unless you're like disfigured.

I'm not saying you can be a movie star, but you can be sexually desirable to most people.

This absolutely.

Most people that are clinically "ugly" could be pretty average or decent looking if they understood/implement basic principles on how to be presentable.
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Kisai posted...

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

I was thinking of adding this but it's really a minor thing. Whether your hips/rib cage/shoulders are a little bigger or smaller doesn't really matter in terms of attractiveness, at least for guys.

It's not minor. It's a huge thing. Literally, my shoulders are huge. Combined with my large upperarms, which I'll never be able to get rid of, it's a pretty big flaw. I doubt guys would go for this.

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People need to understand that attraction isn't only physical...I've noticed that a lot of the people who complain about "not being attractive enough" to find someone are either really quiet and shy or really loud and obnoxious....That's not going to win many people over...

..that and so many of them just stop trying...like they don't even attempt to comb their hair or whatever. Its like a self fulfilling prophecy.
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Kisai posted...

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

I was thinking of adding this but it's really a minor thing. Whether your hips/rib cage/shoulders are a little bigger or smaller doesn't really matter in terms of attractiveness, at least for guys.

It's not minor. It's a huge thing. Literally, my shoulders are huge. Combined with my large upperarms, which I'll never be able to get rid of, it's a pretty big flaw. I doubt guys would go for this.

A lot of skeletal structure variation can be masked with muscle.

What do you mean large upper arms? Do you mean long upper arms?

Oh, another thing you should add to the things you can't change: your hands.

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

I was thinking of adding this but it's really a minor thing. Whether your hips/rib cage/shoulders are a little bigger or smaller doesn't really matter in terms of attractiveness, at least for guys.

It's not minor. It's a huge thing. Literally, my shoulders are huge. Combined with my large upperarms, which I'll never be able to get rid of, it's a pretty big flaw. I doubt guys would go for this.

A lot of skeletal structure variation can be masked with muscle.

What do you mean large upper arms? Do you mean long upper arms?

...Why would I mean long upper arms? No, I mean they're large. You know, the area of the arm below the shoulder, above the elbow? Also, are you saying building more muscle could somehow hide how wide my shoulders are?
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Kisai posted...

Oh, another thing you should add to the things you can't change: your hands.

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

EverHeardOfIt posted...

Kisai posted...

...No. No you can't. Also, I'd like to add bone structure to the list of things you can't change. I can't have more slender shoulders.

I was thinking of adding this but it's really a minor thing. Whether your hips/rib cage/shoulders are a little bigger or smaller doesn't really matter in terms of attractiveness, at least for guys.

It's not minor. It's a huge thing. Literally, my shoulders are huge. Combined with my large upperarms, which I'll never be able to get rid of, it's a pretty big flaw. I doubt guys would go for this.

A lot of skeletal structure variation can be masked with muscle.

What do you mean large upper arms? Do you mean long upper arms?

...Why would I mean long upper arms? No, I mean they're large. You know, the area of the arm below the shoulder, above the elbow? Also, are you saying building more muscle could somehow hide how wide my shoulders are?

You would mean long upper arms because that can't be changed, but of course arm size can be changed. The relevant parts are just muscle and fat. Change the amount of muscle and fat, change the size of the arms.

Yes, building more muscle in your abs/lats/etc. would make your shoulders seem smaller in comparison by evening out your physique.

You can be a butterface and most girls won't mind, that's how I got laid in college. Did a total lifestyle when I went into college and focused primarily on school and my health (which included dieting and working out). Got the beach body I wanted and saw major improvements in my dating game (however I still semi struggled being a 5'6 nerdy looking asian).
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