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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:10:14 AM
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My question is, would you do that, CE?
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FrenchCrunch
09/28/17 11:10:25 AM
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wat
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boxington
09/28/17 11:10:55 AM
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nah
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:11:09 AM
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FrenchCrunch posted...
wat


I don't think I would do it, honestly.
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FrenchCrunch
09/28/17 11:12:28 AM
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i dont know wtf youre talking about doing
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:14:07 AM
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FrenchCrunch posted...
i dont know wtf youre talking about doing


You've never heard of a free pass? It's where couples give eachother "permission" to cheat.
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BatmanVonDoom
09/28/17 11:14:31 AM
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Hell no and just the fact she asked is a major red flag.
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:14:45 AM
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BatmanVonDoom posted...
Hell no and just the fact she asked is a major red flag.


True.
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:15:17 AM
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But he doesn't have a problem with it; if only she meets his conditions.
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Wedge Antilles
09/28/17 11:15:45 AM
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Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.
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Caution999
09/28/17 11:16:32 AM
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If both parties give their consent to cheat, then it is none of our business.
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:16:47 AM
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Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


Hmm
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s0nicfan
09/28/17 11:16:50 AM
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Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


This. The "free pass" is just her asking to do what she's already going to do, but guilt-free.
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BatmanVonDoom
09/28/17 11:24:12 AM
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s0nicfan posted...
Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


This. The "free pass" is just her asking to do what she's already going to do, but guilt-free.

Or already did.
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:29:16 AM
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s0nicfan posted...
Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


This. The "free pass" is just her asking to do what she's already going to do, but guilt-free.


Talking to him about it; She and him apparently had a conversation about it. They just wanted to let the cards out on the table.
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MACisBack
09/28/17 11:38:05 AM
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I had an ex girlfriend that told me to fuck her friend since I was virgin when I met her and she felt she needed to know if I was only attracted to my ex because of the sex so she told us that in front of her friend.

All of us agreed, her friend and I fucked(I chose a motel so I didn't sleep with her on my bed or on my ex's bed out of respect and because my ex pressured me to sleep with her), then I was back with my ex later that day after dropping her friend off at home.

The major problem that came from that was my ex kept asking me what her friend did to me while we were having sex, I wouldn't tell her as I was trying to keep the peace and leave it in the past(her friend and I agreed to this before having sex), well, my ex got fed up over time and then started to believe we were secretly fucking, her friend knew something she didn't in how to get me off right, my ex wasn't as good as her friend, ultimately it became a twisted nightmare, and of course we ended up breaking up over this.

I guess this was my free pass?

In case you the reader are curious and because it doesn't matter any more, her friend and I did oral first then had sex in three different positions before finishing.
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:43:39 AM
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MACisBack posted...
I had an ex girlfriend that told me to fuck her friend since I was virgin when I met her and she felt she needed to know if I was only attracted to my ex because of the sex so she told us that in front of her friend.

All of us agreed, her friend and I fucked(I chose a motel so I didn't sleep with her on my bed or on my ex's bed out of respect and because my ex pressured me to sleep with her), then I was back with my ex later that day after dropping her friend off at home.

The major problem that came from that was my ex kept asking me what her friend did to me while we were having sex, I wouldn't tell her as I was trying to keep the peace and leave it in the past(her friend and I agreed to this before having sex), well, my ex got fed up over time and then started to believe we were secretly fucking, her friend knew something she didn't in how to get me off right, my ex wasn't as good as her friend, ultimately it became a twisted nightmare, and of course we ended up breaking up over this.

I guess this was my free pass?

In case you the reader are curious and because it doesn't matter any more, her friend and I did oral first then had sex in three different positions before finishing.


He said he don't care; if it's over, it's over.
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Solar_Crimson
09/28/17 11:44:41 AM
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If anyone's asking about this, then it's likely that they're already seeing someone on the side.

In which case, I would personally just end things.
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Turtlebread
09/28/17 11:48:59 AM
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MACisBack posted...
In case you the reader are curious and because it doesn't matter any more, her friend and I did oral first then had sex in three different positions before finishing.


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Link HT
09/28/17 11:54:01 AM
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BatmanVonDoom posted...
s0nicfan posted...
Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


This. The "free pass" is just her asking to do what she's already going to do, but guilt-free.

Or already did.

ding ding ding

fuck that noise in a committed relationship. If it's just two people who hook up then it's fine, otherwise no.
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Iwin2013
09/28/17 11:57:23 AM
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Link HT posted...
BatmanVonDoom posted...
s0nicfan posted...
Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


This. The "free pass" is just her asking to do what she's already going to do, but guilt-free.

Or already did.

ding ding ding

fuck that noise in a committed relationship. If it's just two people who hook up then it's fine, otherwise no.


What about if one developed feelings and the other claims she has but is on and off?
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s0nicfan
09/28/17 11:59:05 AM
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Iwin2013 posted...
What about if one developed feelings and the other claims she has but is on and off?


That's not how feelings work. If they're "on and off" that just means the guy is being used as a safety net because she thinks she can do better. They're "on" when she's lonely and feeling low self-esteem, and "off" when there's someone better in her sights.

I'm not saying men don't do this, too, obviously. Just that the excuse given is a bogus one.
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Monolith1676
09/28/17 11:59:14 AM
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Your brother is a cuck.
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ChewedMint
09/28/17 12:07:31 PM
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Monolith1676 posted...
Your brother is a cuck.

Can't believe it took that long for this post.
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--kresnik--
09/28/17 12:08:39 PM
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Her:

I want to fuck some other guy. I've obviously been flirting with him for some time now.
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FrenchCrunch
09/28/17 12:22:33 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
FrenchCrunch posted...
i dont know wtf youre talking about doing


You've never heard of a free pass? It's where couples give eachother "permission" to cheat.

that's a good way to good instantly dumped
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MACisBack
09/28/17 1:40:51 PM
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Iwin2013 posted...
He said he don't care; if it's over, it's over.


Uh.. they were both women(just to clarify), and unfortunately because I loved my ex so much that's the main reason for me fucking her friend while we were together. I really wanted to believe it would bring us closer to something better relationship wise, but in reality, it went the complete opposite way and I felt dumb because I believe so hard because this is what she wanted.
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DevsBro
09/28/17 1:45:09 PM
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Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.

Yep.
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FLUFFYGERM
09/28/17 1:45:36 PM
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i'd give her unlimited free passes by dumping her ass on the spot
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Life Sympathy
09/28/17 1:46:47 PM
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Only if she gives me a free pass (and she has to watch).
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GhostOfTrayvon
09/28/17 1:46:50 PM
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Wtf TC, this is your golden opportunity. His gf is going to be looking for someone to hook up with and you're the perfect candidate to slide up in there. She already knows you and if shes attracted to your brother there are certain features you guys probably share that will also attract her to you.

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FrisbeeDude
09/28/17 1:47:20 PM
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BatmanVonDoom posted...
s0nicfan posted...
Wedge Antilles posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.


This. The "free pass" is just her asking to do what she's already going to do, but guilt-free.

Or already did.


Who are the women who hurt y'all? Simply bringing up something you're interested in is an admission of guilt? I feel bad for whoever ends up with y'all
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Eevee-Trainer
09/28/17 1:47:30 PM
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DevsBro posted...
Nope, and she's likely to cheat regardless of the answer so it's probably an instant break up.

Yep.

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FrisbeeDude
09/28/17 1:49:26 PM
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This topic is redpill-y as fuck
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vashmoto
09/28/17 1:50:12 PM
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FrisbeeDude posted...
This topic is redpill-y as fuck

What would you do, iyo?
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FrisbeeDude
09/28/17 1:53:39 PM
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vashmoto posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
This topic is redpill-y as fuck

What would you do, iyo?


For starters, i wouldn't go into it thinking my girlfriend had nefarious intentions.

Second, I'd hear her out, mostly because I've found myself in a kinda similar situation. My ex and i were both very sexual people and we definitely discussed the occasional hall pass.

I think most of the resistance from men stems from some level of insecurity. They don't want to be "cucked", sitting at home with their dick in their hand while their girlfriend is off fucking

Edit: bottom line is, for a good portion of the population, sex with just one person for a long period of time, regardless of what you do to keep it fresh, just gets stale after a while. Rather than suppress those feelings until you end up doing something to really fuck up your relationship, it's much healthier to be proactive about it

It may not have to desired outcome, but it's much better for ones mental health. Forcing ones self to conform to society's basic concept of monogamy always seemed absurd to me
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FLUFFYGERM
09/28/17 1:55:43 PM
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it's about loyalty

i don't go around with other women because i choose to be loyal. if my woman doesn't want to be loyal, she can leave and go do whatever she wants. simple as that.
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Squall28
09/28/17 1:55:59 PM
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FrisbeeDude posted...
vashmoto posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
This topic is redpill-y as fuck

What would you do, iyo?


For starters, i wouldn't go into it thinking my girlfriend had nefarious intentions.

Second, I'd hear her out, mostly because I've found myself in a kinda similar situation. My ex and i were both very sexual people and we definitely discussed the occasional hall pass.

I think most of the resistance from men stems from some level of insecurity. They don't want to be "cucked", sitting at home with their dick in their hand while their girlfriend is off fucking


I bet you've been cucked.
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Offworlder1
09/28/17 1:57:00 PM
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If she is asking for permission to cheat that is the biggest reddest flag there is, she is trying to feel guilt free about this or what she has already done. When any woman asks for this it is time to break up with her NOW.

Don't let her walk all over you, be a fucking man and shut this bs down, it is clear she is no longer trustworthy.

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FrisbeeDude
09/28/17 1:57:04 PM
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I bet you've been cucked.

This is why CE can't have nice things
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KILBOTz
09/28/17 1:57:08 PM
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serious relationship it would be a deal breaker.
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scar the 1
09/28/17 1:58:23 PM
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FrisbeeDude posted...
This topic is redpill-y as fuck

Well, you are on a board where a substantial amount of posters think a woman deserves to be dumped for even bringing up the subject of sleeping with other people.
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K181
09/28/17 1:59:09 PM
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If a partner asks for a "free pass," 99% guaranteed it means they already cheated on you and the remaining 1% will then still cheat on you when you say no.
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scar the 1
09/28/17 2:00:04 PM
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K181 posted...
If a partner asks for a "free pass," 99% guaranteed it means they already cheated on you and the remaining 1% will then still cheat on you when you say no.

^ see what I'm saying?
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Offworlder1
09/28/17 2:01:20 PM
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@FrisbeeDude

It's clear you lack a spine, pretty sad your willing to let your woman cheat on you, hope you enjoy those sloppy seconds.

PS yes you are a cuckhold when you let your woman be plowed by another dude.
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FLUFFYGERM
09/28/17 2:03:48 PM
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scar the 1 posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
This topic is redpill-y as fuck

Well, you are on a board where a substantial amount of posters think a woman deserves to be dumped for even bringing up the subject of sleeping with other people.


a woman does deserve to be dumped if she asks to sleep with other people

same with a man
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K181
09/28/17 2:06:49 PM
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FLUFFYGERM posted...
scar the 1 posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
This topic is redpill-y as fuck

Well, you are on a board where a substantial amount of posters think a woman deserves to be dumped for even bringing up the subject of sleeping with other people.


a woman does deserve to be dumped if she asks to sleep with other people

same with a man


Yup, that's why I used "partner" in my post. Man asking a woman, woman asking a man, woman asking a woman, man asking a man, whatever. They either already cheated on you or will cheat on you.
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Offworlder1
09/28/17 2:12:27 PM
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Hopefully this guy dumps that cheating/about to cheat whore like she deserves.
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CensorErik
09/28/17 2:18:19 PM
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I wouldn't be able to handle it if a woman I was dating wanted a hall pass. I'm a loyal monogamist. I need anyone I'm going to be in a serious relationship with to be the same.
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CensorErik
09/28/17 2:19:08 PM
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Offworlder1 posted...
Hopefully this guy dumps that cheating/about to cheat whore like she deserves.

Yikes. Seems a little angry.
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