Current Events > Would you ever bang an escort?

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Lets say u were on a 5 year dry streak and striking out left and right, and you had plenty of money to spend.

Sure, why not?
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I've banged a couple of escorts, but I've never paid for one, eheu

I wouldn't pay for one. Not because I have something against it morally, but I just don't think I'd be able to enjoy it if I knew it was simply transactional for her.
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5 years? I'd bang one after 5 days
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Yeah I could see it happening if I was drunk and rich enough the money was inconsequential.
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I can't imagine what would have to happen to me where I wasn't able to get laid for 5 years
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Sure, but where can I find an escort to my taste lol
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As long as she is from a reputable company that has them tested regularly, sure.
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I've banged a couple of really hot ones but I didn't enjoy it too much.

pinky0926 posted...

I've banged a couple of escorts, but I've never paid for one, eheu

I wouldn't pay for one. Not because I have something against it morally, but I just don't think I'd be able to enjoy it if I knew it was simply transactional for her.

All sex is transactional, in some way or another. Otherwise it's rape.

I'm too paranoid of disease and such to ever try, although I have had some pretty bad dry spells.

The fact that most of them look pretty busted/cracked out is also a good deterrent.
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Tauros posted...

All sex is transactional, in some way or another. Otherwise it's rape.

The point is obviously that I want a woman to be interested and attracted to me, and to feel like I won her over.
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Ultima Dragon posted...

I'm too paranoid of disease and such to ever try, although I have had some pretty bad dry spells

To be honest I think you're safer off not contracting a disease from an escort than from your average "weekend warrior, new guy every week" kinda girl.
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Ultima Dragon posted...

I'm too paranoid of disease and such to ever try, although I have had some pretty bad dry spells.

The fact that most of them look pretty busted/cracked out is also a good deterrent.

You're thinking about street hookers which escorts are not.
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pinky0926 posted...

Tauros posted...

All sex is transactional, in some way or another. Otherwise it's rape.

The point is obviously that I want a woman to be interested and attracted to me, and to feel like I won her over.

Well of course.

You don't really "win" anything though, since nature already determines it. We're programmed to determine if we'd have sex with another person, literally within a second. It's just a matter of letting nature do its work.

Tauros posted...

Well of course.

You don't really "win" anything though, since nature already determines it. We're programmed to determine if we'd have sex with another person, literally within a second. It's just a matter of letting nature do its work.

I don't know what weird shit you're getting at but I'm just saying I would have no interest in paying for sex because that's boring and unchallenging for me
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voldothegr8 posted...

You're thinking about street hookers which escorts are not.

If you were going to a brothel/agency it's a pretty safe/secure transaction, but it's illegal in most places so you're doing it on the d/l (usually online) with what is most likely fairly loose regulations.

pinky0926 posted...

To be honest I think you're safer off not contracting a disease from an escort than from your average "weekend warrior, new guy every week" kinda girl.

Haha, fair enough. I know "proper" escorts would at least demand condom use every time and get themselves tested regularly.
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pinky0926 posted...

Tauros posted...

Well of course.

You don't really "win" anything though, since nature already determines it. We're programmed to determine if we'd have sex with another person, literally within a second. It's just a matter of letting nature do its work.

because that's boring and unchallenging for me

It's not weird shit: You don't win or lose. There is no "challenge".

Tauros posted...

It's not weird shit: You don't win or lose. There is no "challenge".

This is definitely some weird shit
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Nature is pretty weird, yeah.

I would just talk to them, go Shrink on them

see how they ended up there, basically seeing 1000s of dindogs a week
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Tauros posted...

Nature is pretty weird, yeah.

You're kind of saying that regardless of how you interact with someone it will have zero bearing on whether you end up sleeping together. You realise that is some silly ass shit to say right?
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pinky0926 posted...

Tauros posted...

Nature is pretty weird, yeah.

You're kind of saying that regardless of how you interact with someone it will have zero bearing on whether you end up sleeping together. You realise that is some silly ass shit to say right?

I'm not saying that. I'm saying they've already determined if they're attracted enough to you to sleep with you. You can walk down the street, and instantly pick which girls you'd want to sleep with. The process is less than a second, and it works the other way around too.

You don't have any challenge. You have to interact with the individual if you actually want to take them somewhere else, but is that really challenge? Interaction is what people do.

Tauros posted...

I'm not saying that. I'm saying they've already determined if they're attracted enough to you to sleep with you. You can walk down the street, and instantly pick which girls you'd want to sleep with. The process is less than a second, and it works the other way around too.

You don't have any challenge. You have to interact with the individual if you actually want to take them somewhere else, but is that really challenge? Interaction is what people do.

There's a considerable, grand canyon size chasm between "I find that guy attractive" and "I'm going to go home with that guy".

The initial decision that someone finds you attractive enough to sleep with does not at all mean they want to sleep with you. This is doubly, triply so for women. The challenge comes with winning them over to get to that point.

If it wasn't a thing, people wouldn't go on dates.
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pinky0926 posted...

Tauros posted...

I'm not saying that. I'm saying they've already determined if they're attracted enough to you to sleep with you. You can walk down the street, and instantly pick which girls you'd want to sleep with. The process is less than a second, and it works the other way around too.

You don't have any challenge. You have to interact with the individual if you actually want to take them somewhere else, but is that really challenge? Interaction is what people do.

There's a considerable, grand canyon size chasm between "I find that guy attractive" and "I'm going to go home with that guy".

The initial decision that someone finds you attractive enough to sleep with does not at all mean they want to sleep with you. This is doubly, triply so for women. The challenge comes with winning them over to get to that point.

If it wasn't a thing, people wouldn't go on dates.

I agree with you, it's not that simple anymore. But the primal, natural instinct is still there. It's been suppressed by societal conditioning. But it has to be activated in the first place for the person to give you a chance, provided there's no monetary transaction involved.

Right, but if you look across the animal kingdom most animals (mammals and primates included) engage in some courting rituals to determine if a mate is suitable.
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pinky0926 posted...

Right, but if you look across the animal kingdom most animals (mammals and primates included) engage in some courting rituals to determine if a mate is suitable.

It's displays of physical prowess, and it doesn't take that long at all. The male chimp ain't exactly asking the female chimp to accompany him to the river bank so they can have a picnic and get to know each other a little better.

I'm a professional poker player and generally on the road most of the time. Escorts are plentiful in casinos and at least once or twice a month when I have a big win I hire them. I've had great experiences personally, but then again I hire the higher end escorts that have good reviews from their clientele. A lot of these girls are actually pretty smart, it's just that they make a ton of money relatively easily doing what their doing
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Yes. This is the only way I'll lose my virginity.
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This topic turned to shit
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Leight_Weight posted...

This topic turned to shit

Every topic in CE turns to shit because people can't help themselves from arguing when their point is contested or the need to prove they're correct, quite sad really. Half this topic has absolutely nothing to do with the original question
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i've considered it, but i'm in a committed relationship with someone who is too paranoid about catching something to be okay with either one of us fooling around with anyone
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Na. It wouldn't really solve any of my issued.
Plus, it'd feel weird knowing that the person is only doing it because of the monetary benefits
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I have plenty of times. No regrets.
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I wanted to but I'm committed nowadays and I have a gf and kid with her so I can't anymore...
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Yeah, but I wouldn't cuddle with her.
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Done it a few times. Didn't want to waste time with the usual mating dance, didn't want strings attached, and I got to pick my flavour of the month instead of having to hope I'd randomly run into a girl who fitted the bill. No guilt, no regrets, no STD.
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Kazi1212 posted...

Leight_Weight posted...

This topic turned to shit

Every topic in CE turns to shit because people can't help themselves from arguing when their point is contested or the need to prove they're correct, quite sad really. Half this topic has absolutely nothing to do with the original question

Yeah too many people here like to flex their intelligence for really no reason.
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