Current Events > Could you date a bisexual?

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thronedfire2 posted...

not really in this case

if the bi person is going to be monogamous anyway the fact that they're bisexual doesn't even matter

Precisely.
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thronedfire2 posted...

Xelltrix posted...

thanosibe posted...

Someone choosing to not be with a bisexual person for their own reasons is not bigotry. But thanks for spreading the prejudice you seem to so vehemently hate.

Uh, yeah, stupid generalizations or stereotypes does make it bigotry. Try again.

not really in this case

if the bi person is going to be monogamous anyway the fact that they're bisexual doesn't even matter

"I don't like person because stupid generalization" is pretty clear cut bigotry. Someone also doesn't have to date black people, but if they say it's because they don't want to date a gang member, then that would make them a racist bigot.
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thronedfire2 posted...

Xelltrix posted...

thanosibe posted...

Someone choosing to not be with a bisexual person for their own reasons is not bigotry. But thanks for spreading the prejudice you seem to so vehemently hate.

Uh, yeah, stupid generalizations or stereotypes does make it bigotry. Try again.

not really in this case

if the bi person is going to be monogamous anyway the fact that they're bisexual doesn't even matter

It might to some people. I'm not saying that we all might understand why a person does not desire to be in a relationship with a bisexual person, but that is their reasons. Especially if it is going to be a monogomous relationship. No more than I'd judge someone unwilling to enter a relationship with someone with kids or that has had more partners before than they are comfortable with. It's not always a malicious reason like some people liking to shit post generalizations about others while pearl clutching while others do it. You can't force a relationship for social/political agenda and not claim prejudice. It's hypocritical. A long term monogomous relationship has to be based on a foundation both parties can accept. If they can't or prentend they can than the relationship is going to go toxic sooner rather than later. Better to be honest with each other so that they can each move on to a more profitable relationship for them both mentally, emotionally and physically.

Identity politics and agendas have no place in forcing human relationships.
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No one said they're obligated to date someone who's bisexual.

It also doesn't stop their reasoning from being stupid.
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Sure
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Xelltrix posted...

No one said they're obligated to date someone who's bisexual.

It also doesn't stop their reasoning from being stupid.

You are judging a group and generalizing them to fit your world view. And yet aggressivly denouncing people that do that. It's so transparent that you're pushing an agenda and at the same time being hypocritical. But I guess I shouldn't expect anything less from CE.
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I think I might be able to date a bi guy if I knew he'd only ever been on top. That'd be different.
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Yeah, and I have.

I had the opportunity to bang her and her friend one day, but I was young and too uncomfortable with the situation at the time. It's one of my biggest life regrets.
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OpheliaAdenade posted...

I think I might be able to date a bi guy if I knew he'd only ever been on top. That'd be different.

That's absurd. You're absurd. I'm not impressed with your gimmick.
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thanosibe posted...

You are judging a group and generalizing them to fit your world view. And yet aggressivly denouncing people that do that. It's so transparent that you're pushing an agenda and at the same time being hypocritical. But I guess I shouldn't expect anything less from CE.

Yeah, I'm going to be intolerant of intolerance and you telling me that makes me a hypocrite will have exactly 0% impact on my stance.
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I dated many bisexual women before I got married. What's the big deal?
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tamashii posted...

OpheliaAdenade posted...

I think I might be able to date a bi guy if I knew he'd only ever been on top. That'd be different.

That's absurd. You're absurd. I'm not impressed with your gimmick.

i'm entitled to my opinion. :u don't get me wrong, I love gay people and gay movies and gay everything pretty much. but I just wouldn't want to pursue a romance with a guy I knew had played "catcher" for another guy. i don't know why, it is just a roadblock for me.
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Yes, as long as she understands I'm not interested in having sex with other men.
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Sure
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Almost every girl I've ever been really into has turned out to be either a lesbian or bi.

So yeah, considering that seems to typically be the kind of girl I'm into. >_>
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