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I see one too many girls that wait until they find something that isn't good enough about the guy they're currently with leaving them as soon as they find someone who seems like hes better.

I always feel like girls get and fall for that "the grass is greener on the other side" thing more than guys do.


What do you guys think?
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As if guys don't do the same thing.
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I'm sorry for taking all your girls.... Psych!

It's true.

There's a lot of guys who will leave one guy for another just because he seems better.
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A guy leaving his wife for a younger woman is a pretty big stereotype lol
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piUrsEitanizm posted...

I see one too many girls that wait until they find something that isn't good enough about the guy they're currently with leaving them as soon as they find someone who seems like hes better.

I always feel like girls get and fall for that "the grass is greener on the other side" thing more than guys do.


What do you guys think?

Men overall are more loyal than women, women have a habit of being social climbers.

I've had my fair share of short and long term relationships and the other types in between, and i'm honestly more than happy to just be single and not be bothered with women for a good while. Its too much of a pain in the ass to wade through all the opportunistic selfish drama llama baggage filled little girl in a grown womans body garbage to find an actual decent woman these days.

And even then, just general drama of certain types seems to be a constant with all women period, and i despise drama with a passion the shit makes me sick.

Great example, there was a time where i was seeing someone, not dating, not a relationship, we hung out, chilled watched movies got take out, went out, really enjoyed each others company. So after a normal night of, you know, the whole night, in the morning she wants to go some more.

Me: i'm really sorry im just tired, i worked six days this week really burned out specially after last night lol. I just wanna sleep in a little more for a bit first

Her: THATS NOT THE REASON, WHY DON'T YOU WANT ME!!! ;__;

Me: lol are you fucking kidding me jfc alright i'm out *gets dressed in 5 seconds and walks out the door*

Her: (surprised like her outburst is not only normal but nothing to make anyone disgusted and uncomfortable, like she didn't just do it or something) Where are you going?!?

Me: The hell do you think?


Not exactly an example of womens poor loyalty, but the drama. But it does lend itself as a reminder that most women are an unstable emotional mess along with their weak self esteem, and they're honestly lucky to have any guy put up with their fucking crazy bullshit. The ones that have the gall to bail on a decent loyal dude that treats em right to "trade up" in their minds, those are just amoral pieces of shit tbh
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ClockworkHare posted...

It's true.

There's a lot of guys who will leave one guy for another just because he seems better.

Not what TC was referring to, but for some reason you felt the need to make it so.
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GAMER_X posted...

piUrsEitanizm posted...

I see one too many girls that wait until they find something that isn't good enough about the guy they're currently with leaving them as soon as they find someone who seems like hes better.

I always feel like girls get and fall for that "the grass is greener on the other side" thing more than guys do.


What do you guys think?

Men overall are more loyal than women, women have a habit of being social climbers.

I've had my fair share of short and long term relationships and the other types in between, and i'm honestly more than happy to just be single and not be bothered with women for a good while. Its too much of a pain in the ass to wade through all the opportunistic selfish drama llama baggage filled little girl in a grown womans body garbage to find an actual decent woman these days.

And even then, just general drama of certain types seems to be a constant with all women period, and i despise drama with a passion the shit makes me sick.

Great example, there was a time where i was seeing someone, not dating, not a relationship, we hung out, chilled watched movies got take out, went out, really enjoyed each others company. So after a normal night of, you know, the whole night, in the morning she wants to go some more.

Me: i'm really sorry im just tired, i worked six days this week really burned out specially after last night lol. I just wanna sleep in a little more for a bit first

Her: THATS NOT THE REASON, WHY DON'T YOU WANT ME!!! ;__;

Me: lol are you fucking kidding me jfc alright i'm out *gets dressed in 5 seconds and walks out the door*

Her: (surprised like her outburst is not only normal but nothing to make anyone disgusted and uncomfortable, like she didn't just do it or something) Where are you going?!?

Me: The hell do you think?


Not exactly an example of womens poor loyalty, but the drama. But it does lend itself as a reminder that most women are an unstable emotional mess along with their weak self esteem, and they're honestly lucky to have any guy put up with their fucking crazy bullshit. The ones that have the gall to bail on a decent loyal dude that treats em right to "trade up" in their minds, those are just amoral pieces of shit tbh

If your story is true, then she probably thought you were an asshole, and told all of her friends about how much of an asshole you were.

I doubt she saw any error in her actions.
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I don't think that men are more loyal, I just think that on average they have far less options.

If a guy finds a semi-decent girl to date and/or settle down with he's "lucky." He's likely to stick with her because the job market is fierce and competitive. He might doubt his own ability to do better.

If a girl does, that's just her settling, even temporarily. She is still going to be given offers constantly, continue talking to other guys, soaking up compliments, etc. Most of those offers are going to be rubbish admittedly ("hay gurl want sum fuck?") But she will definitely receive some pretty tempting ones that might inspire her to cheat or just straight up drop the guy she's with. So many guys get blindsided by this, since the girl will be all loving and happy one day, then the next just stops responding to his messages or whatever until he can finally get ahold of her to figure out what's going on.

Not every girl is like this and plenty of guys are as well. Unfortunately I've seen and experienced it enough to be extremely reluctant to "double down" on any relationship and actually make a real commitment. That seems to be something of the past these days.
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It's not limited to either gender at all.

Relationships are complicated and so are people. I had a friend who dumped his girlfriend of 6 years out of the blue. She did nothing wrong. He just didn't see a future with her anymore. A month afterwards she's dumped he's dating a co-worker.

Was she a factor? Probably. But that relationship likely would have been doomed even if she wasn't in the picture. I think she might have been a justification for him to leave but that doesn't stop the fact that he was looking for a reason to go. Sometimes things just don't last. It's not as simple as loyalty or settling. People are complicated and our desires are never constant.
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Dyinglegacy posted...

GAMER_X posted...

piUrsEitanizm posted...

I see one too many girls that wait until they find something that isn't good enough about the guy they're currently with leaving them as soon as they find someone who seems like hes better.

I always feel like girls get and fall for that "the grass is greener on the other side" thing more than guys do.


What do you guys think?

Men overall are more loyal than women, women have a habit of being social climbers.

I've had my fair share of short and long term relationships and the other types in between, and i'm honestly more than happy to just be single and not be bothered with women for a good while. Its too much of a pain in the ass to wade through all the opportunistic selfish drama llama baggage filled little girl in a grown womans body garbage to find an actual decent woman these days.

And even then, just general drama of certain types seems to be a constant with all women period, and i despise drama with a passion the shit makes me sick.

Great example, there was a time where i was seeing someone, not dating, not a relationship, we hung out, chilled watched movies got take out, went out, really enjoyed each others company. So after a normal night of, you know, the whole night, in the morning she wants to go some more.

Me: i'm really sorry im just tired, i worked six days this week really burned out specially after last night lol. I just wanna sleep in a little more for a bit first

Her: THATS NOT THE REASON, WHY DON'T YOU WANT ME!!! ;__;

Me: lol are you fucking kidding me jfc alright i'm out *gets dressed in 5 seconds and walks out the door*

Her: (surprised like her outburst is not only normal but nothing to make anyone disgusted and uncomfortable, like she didn't just do it or something) Where are you going?!?

Me: The hell do you think?


Not exactly an example of womens poor loyalty, but the drama. But it does lend itself as a reminder that most women are an unstable emotional mess along with their weak self esteem, and they're honestly lucky to have any guy put up with their fucking crazy bullshit. The ones that have the gall to bail on a decent loyal dude that treats em right to "trade up" in their minds, those are just amoral pieces of shit tbh

If your story is true, then she probably thought you were an asshole, and told all of her friends about how much of an asshole you were.

I doubt she saw any error in her actions.

Well no, she just had really shitty self esteem and was hung up on feeling like no one thought she was attractive (she was good looking and a cool person) or wanted her etc. We talked on the phone like right after i left and i was like "lol wtf how can you even say something like that when i just spent a good portion of last night going ham purely to make you feel good? You think a guy that didn't want you and wasn't attracted would do all that work? Lol on what planet does that happen?"

She was just one of those chicks that had a serious hang up and she just wanted to hold onto it with a death grip and no matter whaaaaaat you said or did she wanted to obsessively insist it was reality. (yet another reason i'm soooo okay staying single for a good while, had my fill of womens barely existant self esteem hangups. "IM FAT, IM UGLY, YOU'RE JUST LYING TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD" lol like stfu christ fuck that uphill battle 24/7 draining drama bullshit). We made up the same day and are still good friends to this day though
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Now you're just hating on women. Do you know anything about France? Middle age men cheat on their wives with younger women and it's almost acceptable.

It's all part of life. Both men and women leave for bf/gf for others who are perceived to be better. There are so many factors that plays into it and people are not obligated to remain with one person forever if they're not married.
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She didn't dump you for someone better, she gave you more time with her than you ever deserved :)

GreatEvilEmpire posted...

people are not obligated to remain with one person forever if they're not married.

No, but if you're stringing someone along until someone "better" comes along, you're a piece of shit.
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@GAMER_X
The feels bro.

I had a girl get up out of bed on me because I didn't want a specific takeout delivery. I was just explaining how I was fine with nothing, and it upset her.
(Same case, low self esteem but attractive)

Anyways, I got out of the bed and got all the way dressed and grabbed my bag. Didn't see her at all in her house as I walked out the front door.

She pulls up on me after about 5 minutes. Lucky for her it was late. She got to doing the song and dance and I slept there that night.

Made sure to leave first thing that morning.

@Deadpool_18
Agreed


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Solar_Crimson posted...

As if guys don't do the same thing.

They don't, but they would if they could.
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weapon_d00d816 posted...

Solar_Crimson posted...

As if guys don't do the same thing.

They don't, but they would if they could.

Guys never dump someone for another woman or cheat on them?

How sheltered are you guys? lol
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I think the issue is that neither side experiences the shittyness of the same sex in a relationship. Guys only experience how shitty women can be, so they see women as more shitty. The same with women. At the end of the day, both sexes can be pretty shitty to each other, and I doubt either side is "leading".
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That's because women are hypergamous by nature. Just accept it and never trust them, it's so much easier. Love in this day and age is a trap imo, I got burned so many times before I Started learning the game.

Been there too, Gamer X. Mine was proly worse because she was straight psychotic and beautiful. I mean drop dead sexy, big fat ass green eyes. Heart breaker, she hurt me so many times. You would not believe the work I put in to begin to get that girls respect. But she taught me how it really is and I am grateful. It just sucks that I love her. She actually wanted to have my baby and I have always wanted to be a father. But I know things I wish I didn't, she'd divorce my ass , take my money, and proly suck my best friends dick if it was way bigger. What a great world, I'm so happy. Even love is a threat now.

Darmik posted...

weapon_d00d816 posted...

Solar_Crimson posted...

As if guys don't do the same thing.

They don't, but they would if they could.

Guys never dump someone for another woman or cheat on them?

How sheltered are you guys? lol

That's not really what this is about.

It's about "upgrading" for the sake of it. Women who don't shop around first and instead jump from guy to guy to guy looking for increasingly better ones because they can't stand to be alone for even a moment
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weapon_d00d816 posted...

It's about "upgrading" for the sake of it. Women who don't shop around first and instead jump from guy to guy to guy looking for increasingly better ones because they can't stand to be alone for even a moment

Guys do this too. Hell some guys do this to several women at once before fully committing to one of them.

It's really not unique to either gender. Some people fall for that fresh spark with someone new and get suckered in. It happens. It's better to dump the person before moving on than cheating on them anyway.
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Deadpool_18 posted...

ClockworkHare posted...

It's true.

There's a lot of guys who will leave one guy for another just because he seems better.

Not what TC was referring to, but for some reason you felt the need to make it so.

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