Current Events > The whole idea that someone inexperienced with women should practice

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Ultima Dragon posted...

It's not even about getting good at sex with practice, because that doesn't take very long to happen. It all comes pretty naturally.

As a guy who was a late bloomer, it's about getting that chip off your shoulder. When you're a late virgin, there is always going to be something that's consciously or subconsciously holding you back from going all out and pursuing the women you want. Even if you feel happy and confident with yourself as a person, there is always going to be something there. Even if only in the back of your mind, undetected.

I really have to shake my head now when I look back at all the girls who obviously liked me but I basically shied away from or made excuses/tried to convince myself how that couldn't possibly be the case. I never had a problem talking to them or attracting them, I just couldn't seal the deal (even though I wanted to).

Once I lost mine it was like all barriers were down. It was infinitely easier to go on more dates, have more sex, etc. Something really changes inside of you as a man once you lose it. It goes from being this huge deal to just being another part of life.

What if nothing changes and you get sex then just have a dry spell for many years after that...
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I lasted like 2 minutes my first time, and I was 25, but thankfully I watched a lot of tutorials on eating out. You can make up for your lack of pumping action with your mouth ;) It seemed like she enjoyed herself. We're still together a little more than a year later

Get practice with one of those really flirtatious slutty girls who looks in your eyes, blushes, and acts like she loves you during it.

The practice dates/sex are to help improve your confidence, which will improve your luck with girls in general.
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There isn't anything wrong with being a virgin, but it will put women off who aren't looking for serious committment
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