Current Events > Why am I such a fucking failure at everything?

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Doesn't matter what I try, I just can't do it. Writing, game creation, programming, doesn't matter. I fail at it.

Why? What's wrong with me?
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self-esteem
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people like you and i are just excess human stock. we weren't programmed to succeed.

you're probably an idiot
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Conflict posted...

if you're not going to give any context as to what's going on?

I FUCKING DID.

Know what, fine. Add "context" to the list of shit I can't fuckng do apparently
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Conflict posted...

I'm just saying you make a bunch of topics shitting on yourself without explaining anything and then when people ask, you don't answer

Nobody likes that vaguebooking stuff

But I DID this time

know what, fine. forget it. i fucking quit
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You're probably practicing inefficiently

Keep trying
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Honestly, from the way you communicate on here, I get the impression you are easily frustrated and give up before putting any real effort into something (like talking to Conflict, for example)

Yeah, the few and the proud have the talent to be good at something quickly, but the rest of us have to put a couple thousand hours of honest effort into acquiring and mastering skills.

Like, nobody is good at anything immediately. I can pick up and play pretty much any game well now, but that's because I've spent 30,000 hours of my life gaming.
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Time and practice. Everything will come in time. Want to be a writer? Set a goal of writing a certain amount of words per day. Read, and read a lot.
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Alkaloid posted...

Honestly, from the way you communicate on here, I get the impression you are easily frustrated and give up before putting any real effort into something (like talking to Conflict, for example)

Yeah, the few and the proud have the talent to be good at something quickly, but the rest of us have to put a couple thousand hours of honest effort into acquiring and mastering skills.

Like, nobody is good at anything immediately. I can pick up and play pretty much any game well now, but that's because I've spent 30,000 hours of my life gaming.

This.

Practice, Practice, Practice is the key to anything. You can be good at anything if you put in enough productive hours. People that are naturally gifted at something are able to pick things up quicker but they aren't the only ones that can do X thing.

Also saying "you failed at writing" isn't explaining anything. It's vague and childish.
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Alkaloid posted...

Honestly, from the way you communicate on here, I get the impression you are easily frustrated and give up before putting any real effort into something (like talking to Conflict, for example)

I know someone like this

Friend: That's a good drawing I wish I could do that!
Me: Well I've been practicing since I was a toddler
Friend: *Tries to draw for 5 minutes* I just suck I give up!
Me: I've seen someone surpass me in a year because they seriously practiced more than me
Friend: No I suck!

Rexdragon125 posted...

Alkaloid posted...

Honestly, from the way you communicate on here, I get the impression you are easily frustrated and give up before putting any real effort into something (like talking to Conflict, for example)

I know someone like this

Friend: That's a good drawing I wish I could do that!
Me: Well I've been practicing since I was a toddler
Friend: *Tries to draw for 5 minutes* I just suck I give up!
Me: I've seen someone surpass me in a year because they seriously practiced more than me
Friend: No I suck!

Kids these days and their instant gratification.
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Conflict posted...

You gave more context than you did in past topics

That's not what you fucking said.
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Give up. It's what I did.
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CrimsonAngeI posted...

Give up. It's what I did.

Already did.

And I like how people start pretending to give a shit and want to know the problem AFTER I said I give up. Fucking hypocrites.
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Conflict posted...

It's not the exact wording but it's in line with what I said.

Horseshit. You said "you gave no context" and that was it.

Conflict posted...

Also, it's probably not smart to lash out at people who are trying to help you (I'm not talking about myself). You're just going to get mocked and kicked while you're already down.

It doesn't make a fucking difference. That's what happens anyway. And like I said; not one of you fuckers wanted to help UNTIL I said "I quit". You waited until then because then you didn't think I'd reply, so you can just go "Oh well, I tried. Clearly he doesn't want help" so you can feel good about yourself while putting me down. YOU did it as well, switching from "No context" to "not enough context" and pretending that you were just asking for more when you were really telling me what a waste of space I am. How stupid do you fucking think I am that I wouldn't see that?
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God you're a fucking loser

I'm glad you gave up
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Turtlebread posted...

God you're a fucking loser

I'm glad you gave up

Conflict posted...

Lol

That's what I thought.
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Use them fails as a learning experience.

What observations can you look back and see where it started wrong.
Then do it again with the wisdom you gained from the previous tries.

Next time youll do better.

Belee dat.
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Can you even go to the grocery store to get beer?
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This guy's meltdown reminds me of SBMfan13's, or whatever the hell his name was.
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It's because you see failure as something that is acceptable, TC.

You seem to like to fail in order to garner sympathy from others in your same predicament.

But those people can't help you. They're just as lost.

Simply don't fail. Even when you do fail, don't. Get something out of the experience and move on.

Go into every situation thinking you've already won.

It helps remove limiters like doubt and inferiority.

The context never can cause you to outright fail. You fail when you decide you want give in.

because you like defining yourself by what you can't do and come up with excuses for not being able to do things.
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DK9292 posted...

It doesn't make a fucking difference. That's what happens anyway. And like I said; not one of you fuckers wanted to help UNTIL I said "I quit". You waited until then because then you didn't think I'd reply, so you can just go "Oh well, I tried. Clearly he doesn't want help" so you can feel good about yourself while putting me down. YOU did it as well, switching from "No context" to "not enough context" and pretending that you were just asking for more when you were really telling me what a waste of space I am. How stupid do you fucking think I am that I wouldn't see that?

awww, that's not true, you'll be alright".
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