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Kitepitou 07/08/17 10:24:13 PM #52:	Tough situation, would've refused as well, I'm glad you made the right, or rather sane, choice OP. --- "I've had enough of your disingenuous assertions." FemShep - Mass Effect 2. <cite>Kitepitou posted [p:882574015] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Tough situation, would've refused as well, I'm glad you made the right, or rather sane, choice OP.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitepitou 07/08/17 10:26:41 PM #53:	BB mofo posted... I have a cousin who was honorably discharged from the army after being permanently disabled while on duty. He was offered the choice of a monthly check for the rest of his life or one large payout. His wife pushed him for the one payout, but my father talked him out of it. He reasoned with my cousin that at least with the monthly check he would have something to fall back on in an emergency. My aunt was less tactful. She had never trusted her daughter in law and told her son that his wife probably planned to leave him after she clears out their shared bank account. After all, the wife had already proved her duplicity by cheating on her son earlier. When my cousin's wife found out my cousin was taking my father's advice, she cursed both my parents out. Two months later, my aunt's prediction came to pass. His wife disappeared, leaving my cousin penniless. Christ, what a twist at the end, I thought that your cousin would've taken your dad and aunt's advice. --- "I've had enough of your disingenuous assertions." FemShep - Mass Effect 2. <cite>Kitepitou posted [p:882574116] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BB mofo posted...</cite> <quote>I have a cousin who was honorably discharged from the army after being permanently disabled while on duty. He was offered the choice of a monthly check for the rest of his life or one large payout. His wife pushed him for the one payout, but my father talked him out of it. He reasoned with my cousin that at least with the monthly check he would have something to fall back on in an emergency. My aunt was less tactful. She had never trusted her daughter in law and told her son that his wife probably planned to leave him after she clears out their shared bank account. After all, the wife had already proved her duplicity by cheating on her son earlier. When my cousin's wife found out my cousin was taking my father's advice, she cursed both my parents out. Two months later, my aunt's prediction came to pass. His wife disappeared, leaving my cousin penniless.</quote> Christ, what a twist at the end, I thought that your cousin would've taken your dad and aunt's advice.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BoxxyXXXV 07/08/17 10:28:56 PM #54:	Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again --- Niko Niko Nii! <cite>BoxxyXXXV posted [p:882574192] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 07/08/17 10:30:19 PM #55:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again "One true love" Lol --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:882574245] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> "One true love" Lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 07/08/17 10:31:33 PM #56:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:882574300] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jeff AKA Snoopy 07/08/17 10:32:36 PM #57:	Are you living in the house currently? Will you ever? If not, are you willing to rent it out? I mean, no use holding onto property if it doesn't get proper use. If you have plans for it, great. If not... why would you keep it? Just in general, ya know? --- It's art! YOU DON'T NEED PANTS! - Chris Jericho http://imgur.com/a/1zdpk <cite>Jeff AKA Snoopy posted [p:882574334] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Are you living in the house currently? Will you ever? If not, are you willing to rent it out? I mean, no use holding onto property if it doesn't get proper use. If you have plans for it, great. If not... why would you keep it? Just in general, ya know?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BoxxyXXXV 07/08/17 10:34:10 PM #58:	Tmaster148 posted... BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education. Yeah but that's what a relationship is: making sacrifices for each other. If TC can't understand that, maybe he isn't mature enough yet to try a relationship. --- Niko Niko Nii! <cite>BoxxyXXXV posted [p:882574405] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education.</quote> Yeah but that's what a relationship is: making sacrifices for each other. If TC can't understand that, maybe he isn't mature enough yet to try a relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitepitou 07/08/17 10:34:20 PM #59:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again If she was his true love, she would've waited until they settled and years after they married each other to ask him to pay her debts. --- "I've had enough of your disingenuous assertions." FemShep - Mass Effect 2. <cite>Kitepitou posted [p:882574413] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> If she was his true love, she would've waited until they settled and years after they married each other to ask him to pay her debts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sativa_Rose 07/08/17 10:37:08 PM #60:	BB mofo posted... I have a cousin who was honorably discharged from the army after being permanently disabled while on duty. He was offered the choice of a monthly check for the rest of his life or one large payout. This is exactly why people need to understand enough math to learn the concept of present value. --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. <cite>Sativa_Rose posted [p:882574545] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BB mofo posted...</cite> <quote>I have a cousin who was honorably discharged from the army after being permanently disabled while on duty. He was offered the choice of a monthly check for the rest of his life or one large payout. </quote> This is exactly why people need to understand enough math to learn the concept of present value.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 07/08/17 10:37:40 PM #61:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again The house generates rent, they had broken up before, the house is paid off which means it is making him money and providing a place to live from the sound of it. If she loved him she would not ask him to make a stupid decision that will only hurt him financially for her debt which they had a plan in place for. Good job kicking her ass to the curb topic creator, you don't need someone to be draining you of money and asking you sell property that generates money. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:882574568] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> The house generates rent, they had broken up before, the house is paid off which means it is making him money and providing a place to live from the sound of it. If she loved him she would not ask him to make a stupid decision that will only hurt him financially for her debt which they had a plan in place for. Good job kicking her ass to the curb topic creator, you don't need someone to be draining you of money and asking you sell property that generates money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 07/08/17 10:38:00 PM #62:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Tmaster148 posted... BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education. Yeah but that's what a relationship is: making sacrifices for each other. If TC can't understand that, maybe he isn't mature enough yet to try a relationship. While relationships are tough and there's going to be compromises involved, there's a huge difference between a conversation about how he could help her pay back her student loan debt and her expecting that he will pay off her student loan debt. There was no conversation involved and she just got mad at him for not taking the effort to do something she never discussed. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:882574586] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education.</quote> Yeah but that's what a relationship is: making sacrifices for each other. If TC can't understand that, maybe he isn't mature enough yet to try a relationship.</quote> While relationships are tough and there's going to be compromises involved, there's a huge difference between a conversation about how he could help her pay back her student loan debt and her expecting that he will pay off her student loan debt. There was no conversation involved and she just got mad at him for not taking the effort to do something she never discussed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BoxxyXXXV 07/08/17 10:40:53 PM #63:	Oh, my apologies then. You guys know the guy more than I do I admit. --- Niko Niko Nii! <cite>BoxxyXXXV posted [p:882574709] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Oh, my apologies then. You guys know the guy more than I do I admit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitepitou 07/08/17 10:41:54 PM #64:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Oh, my apologies then. You guys know the guy more than I do I admit. I don't visit this board too often and I don't even know OP but even then I can see that he made a wise decision. --- "I've had enough of your disingenuous assertions." FemShep - Mass Effect 2. <cite>Kitepitou posted [p:882574757] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Oh, my apologies then. You guys know the guy more than I do I admit.</quote> I don't visit this board too often and I don't even know OP but even then I can see that he made a wise decision.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingjeremy 07/08/17 10:49:45 PM #65:	Good call. :-) <cite>kingjeremy posted [p:882575112] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Good call. :-)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ExtremeLuchador 07/08/17 10:53:45 PM #66:	AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. --- "It was horrible," guard Jeff McInnis said. "I took 100 naps and we were still in the air." <cite>ExtremeLuchador posted [p:882575272] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GeneralZhao 07/08/17 10:55:06 PM #67:	AssultTank posted... In any case, good on you for not selling it TC. Breakups are difficult TC but hope you'll find comfort knowing tat you made the right decision especially financially wise --- http://imgur.com/a/f52rH <cite>GeneralZhao posted [p:882575335] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>AssultTank posted...</cite> <quote>In any case, good on you for not selling it TC.</quote> Breakups are difficult TC but hope you'll find comfort knowing tat you made the right decision especially financially wise</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GeneralZhao 07/08/17 10:55:36 PM #68:	ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. @ExtremeLuchador shave your head --- http://imgur.com/a/f52rH <cite>GeneralZhao posted [p:882575359] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> @ExtremeLuchador shave your head</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnny_Nutcase 07/08/17 10:56:41 PM #69:	ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. That's a kick in the dick right there. --- I've learned that life is one crushing defeat after another... until you just wish Flanders was dead. - Homer Simpson <cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted [p:882575406] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> That's a kick in the dick right there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 07/08/17 10:56:57 PM #70:	frozenshock posted... The worst thing is... it's not like she asked me to do this in a way that you would ask someone to do something big like... "I know it's really huge, but... maybe do you think it's possible for you to sell the house?" No, she was angry at me and scolded me for not myself suggesting that I sell the house. Holy shit. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:882575418] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote>The worst thing is... it's not like she asked me to do this in a way that you would ask someone to do something big like... "I know it's really huge, but... maybe do you think it's possible for you to sell the house?" No, she was angry at me and scolded me for not myself suggesting that I sell the house.</quote> Holy shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordFarquad1312 07/08/17 10:59:42 PM #71:	winged_weltall posted... Acting rationally would have been to throw her out then and there and spit in her face. Seriously. f* her. Good on you TC, glad you made the right choice. The spit would have been a tad bit irrational for me, but different strokes. --- The force is my ally "If you are tired of fear from links... Let Kirby's Nightmare protect you." <cite>LordFarquad1312 posted [p:882575537] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>winged_weltall posted...</cite> <quote>Acting rationally would have been to throw her out then and there and spit in her face. Seriously. f* her. Good on you TC, glad you made the right choice.</quote> The spit would have been a tad bit irrational for me, but different strokes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BB mofo 07/08/17 11:04:34 PM #72:	Kitepitou posted... Christ, what a twist at the end, I thought that your cousin would've taken your dad and aunt's advice. He did take my dad's advice, which is why it could have been a lot worse. This happened back in the early 90s, so a lot has changed since then. The monthly pay check from the military helped him, but he and his then 15 year old daughter had to move into my aunt's house for a couple years until he could get back on his feet. I think he never really believed his wife would leave their daughter. It's such a shame. He took my dad's advice, but he should have listened to my aunt and taken precautions as well. --- "But who prays for Satan? Who, in eighteen centuries, has had the common humanity to pray for the one sinner that needed it most?" -Mark Twain <cite>BB mofo posted [p:882575749] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kitepitou posted...</cite> <quote>Christ, what a twist at the end, I thought that your cousin would've taken your dad and aunt's advice.</quote> He did take my dad's advice, which is why it could have been a lot worse. This happened back in the early 90s, so a lot has changed since then. The monthly pay check from the military helped him, but he and his then 15 year old daughter had to move into my aunt's house for a couple years until he could get back on his feet. I think he never really believed his wife would leave their daughter. It's such a shame. He took my dad's advice, but he should have listened to my aunt and taken precautions as well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitepitou 07/08/17 11:08:20 PM #73:	BB mofo posted... Kitepitou posted... Christ, what a twist at the end, I thought that your cousin would've taken your dad and aunt's advice. This happened back in the early 90s, so a lot has changed since then. The monthly pay check from the military helped him, but he and his then 15 year old daughter had to move into my aunt's house for a couple years until he could get back on his feet. I think he never really believed his wife would leave their daughter. It's such a shame. He took my dad's advice, but he should have listened to my aunt and taken precautions. Oh I see, not a happy ending but at least he took the monthly check, that's much better. --- "I've had enough of your disingenuous assertions." FemShep - Mass Effect 2. <cite>Kitepitou posted [p:882575920] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BB mofo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kitepitou posted...</cite> <quote>Christ, what a twist at the end, I thought that your cousin would've taken your dad and aunt's advice.</quote> This happened back in the early 90s, so a lot has changed since then. The monthly pay check from the military helped him, but he and his then 15 year old daughter had to move into my aunt's house for a couple years until he could get back on his feet. I think he never really believed his wife would leave their daughter. It's such a shame. He took my dad's advice, but he should have listened to my aunt and taken precautions.</quote> Oh I see, not a happy ending but at least he took the monthly check, that's much better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SkaFrost89 07/08/17 11:09:28 PM #74:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Tmaster148 posted... BoxxyXXXV posted... Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education. Yeah but that's what a relationship is: making sacrifices for each other. If TC can't understand that, maybe he isn't mature enough yet to try a relationship. Do you know how difficult it is to buy a house, muchless pay it off? TC made the right choice. --- http://i209.photobucket.com/albums/bb20/PrinceVegeta89/kazum.png PSN: SkaFrost, Twitch: SkaFrost <cite>SkaFrost89 posted [p:882575969] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tmaster148 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Dude, new houses can be bought. Not so easy finding the one true love again</quote> I doubt TC's girlfriend(now ex) was his true love, They already broke up once and she was thinking selfishly by expecting him to sell his house in order to pay for her student loans that she took out for her education.</quote> Yeah but that's what a relationship is: making sacrifices for each other. If TC can't understand that, maybe he isn't mature enough yet to try a relationship.</quote> Do you know how difficult it is to buy a house, muchless pay it off? TC made the right choice.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 07/08/17 11:10:26 PM #75:	TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:882576009] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthAragorn 07/08/17 11:11:44 PM #76:	I was going to say selling it might be a good idea but lmao not for that reason, wow what a bitch --- i7 7700k \| GTX 1080 \| 16GB DDR4 \| Asus Z270E \| Dell S2716DG http://steamcommunity.com/id/StoneWallace17 <cite>DarthAragorn posted [p:882576062] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>I was going to say selling it might be a good idea but lmao not for that reason, wow what a bitch</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolboy11 07/08/17 11:18:35 PM #77:	you ain't thrown this chick out for that insane suggestion? --- Sigs are boring <cite>coolboy11 posted [p:882576344] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>you ain't thrown this chick out for that insane suggestion?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crazyman93 07/08/17 11:21:28 PM #78:	BoxxyXXXV posted... Oh, my apologies then. You guys know the guy more than I do I admit. I mean, everything they said was posted in the topic. --- let's lubricate friction material! ~nickels, Cars & Trucks <cite>Crazyman93 posted [p:882576462] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>BoxxyXXXV posted...</cite> <quote>Oh, my apologies then. You guys know the guy more than I do I admit.</quote> I mean, everything they said was posted in the topic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
XT3M3 07/09/17 4:13:40 AM #79:	Women and money are truly the worst. its why its my rule to never help a woman in a Money issue (Mother/grandmother excluded), even if shes my GF. unless it becomes my problem. They only in most cases look out for themselves IF you do end up doing what they want, they will dessert you or "forget" you ever helped them --- Brooklyn MADE. Lets go NETS,ISLES,YANKS,GIANTS YT: Ownal0t. i can probably lock you up in a game of 1 on 1 ^_^ <cite>XT3M3 posted [p:882586295] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Women and money are truly the worst. its why its my rule to never help a woman in a Money issue (Mother/grandmother excluded), even if shes my GF. unless it becomes my problem. They only in most cases look out for themselves IF you do end up doing what they want, they will dessert you or "forget" you ever helped them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoomtheGrav 07/09/17 4:14:34 AM #80:	frozenshock posted... AceAttorneyist posted... If I were you, I would suggest a break up. It's done. Dam, good job 0_0 --- set the controls for the heart of the sun http://www.kingdomofloathing.com <cite>DoomtheGrav posted [p:882586315] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AceAttorneyist posted...</cite> <quote>If I were you, I would suggest a break up.</quote> It's done.</quote> Dam, good job 0_0</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 07/09/17 4:15:00 AM #81:	Ruvan22 posted... TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this? Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. But for me the bad with her is that she was always the kind to get aggressive when she was not happy, which was often. It got worse as the years went by. For example, when I went to see her during weekends at her college, it was like flipping a coin. Usually she was the sweetest thing. But if she had worries on her mind, like a difficult exam was coming up, or she didn't get along with a teammate on an assignment or something... then she'd be super aggressive and lash out about everything... like she would get super angry if she tried to get herself some tea and the heater was empty, for example. It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Honestly it was exhausting sometimes. I swear she would sometimes scream at her mom and sister on the phone when they would try to cheer her up. If she was having a bad day for any reason she essentially became a monster. Then she'd calm down and be sweet again, but her attitude made everyone basically take their distances and her family didn't contact her as often as they did... so as time went by more and more I became the only person who talked to her regularly since everyone else including her family was avoiding her. Even her best friends became more distant with her as the years went by. It was like... for example, she would say "I'm super stressed out. I only slept 2 hours last night." So you would answer something like "I really hope you can sleep better tonight." Then she'd just scream "You don't understand anything! It's not that I'm not sleeping well, I'm not sleeping enough!" One thing that I remember being really worried about is... this girl is a sweet thing, but she gets in that state over a meaningless stress like a mid term exam... how is she going to get when we have a kid and that kid is sick and has to go to the doctor or something? It kind of scared me. --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:882586324] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ruvan22 posted...</cite> <quote>TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this?</quote> Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. But for me the bad with her is that she was always the kind to get aggressive when she was not happy, which was often. It got worse as the years went by. For example, when I went to see her during weekends at her college, it was like flipping a coin. Usually she was the sweetest thing. But if she had worries on her mind, like a difficult exam was coming up, or she didn't get along with a teammate on an assignment or something... then she'd be super aggressive and lash out about everything... like she would get super angry if she tried to get herself some tea and the heater was empty, for example. It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Honestly it was exhausting sometimes. I swear she would sometimes scream at her mom and sister on the phone when they would try to cheer her up. If she was having a bad day for any reason she essentially became a monster. Then she'd calm down and be sweet again, but her attitude made everyone basically take their distances and her family didn't contact her as often as they did... so as time went by more and more I became the only person who talked to her regularly since everyone else including her family was avoiding her. Even her best friends became more distant with her as the years went by. It was like... for example, she would say "I'm super stressed out. I only slept 2 hours last night." So you would answer something like "I really hope you can sleep better tonight." Then she'd just scream "You don't understand anything! It's not that I'm not sleeping well, I'm not sleeping enough!" One thing that I remember being really worried about is... this girl is a sweet thing, but she gets in that state over a meaningless stress like a mid term exam... how is she going to get when we have a kid and that kid is sick and has to go to the doctor or something? It kind of scared me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crazyman93 07/09/17 4:22:51 AM #82:	frozenshock posted... It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Sounds like you aren't missing anything in the end. --- let's lubricate friction material! ~nickels, Cars & Trucks <cite>Crazyman93 posted [p:882586464] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote> It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood.</quote> Sounds like you aren't missing anything in the end.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sylverlolol 07/09/17 4:23:47 AM #83:	Breaking up was the right move. I'd also sell the house myself...but that's because I know I'd never want to be a landlord myself after having rented for so long. >.> Good on you for making a tough, but smart, decision OP. --- This is my signature. There are many like it, but this one is mine. <cite>sylverlolol posted [p:882586477] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Breaking up was the right move. I'd also sell the house myself...but that's because I know I'd never want to be a landlord myself after having rented for so long. >.> Good on you for making a tough, but smart, decision OP.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crazyman93 07/09/17 4:24:36 AM #84:	sylverlolol posted... Breaking up was the right move. I'd also sell the house myself...but that's because I know I'd never want to be a landlord myself after having rented for so long. >.> Good on you for making a tough, but smart, decision OP. Personally I'd live in it. A house you only have to pay property taxes on is a beautiful thing. --- let's lubricate friction material! ~nickels, Cars & Trucks <cite>Crazyman93 posted [p:882586488] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>sylverlolol posted...</cite> <quote>Breaking up was the right move. I'd also sell the house myself...but that's because I know I'd never want to be a landlord myself after having rented for so long. >.> Good on you for making a tough, but smart, decision OP.</quote> Personally I'd live in it. A house you only have to pay property taxes on is a beautiful thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Roxborough4Ever 07/09/17 4:31:10 AM #85:	time to find a new gf --- You feast on red herring because it is your birthright. <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted [p:882586617] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>time to find a new gf</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
slothica 07/09/17 4:37:06 AM #86:	It's a sign. Break it off before you get in too deep. --- I'm as sweet as a cherry pie, but sometimes very wicked. 3DS FC: 2079-7127-4943 (Pokemon IGN: Zombie, Sage) <cite>slothica posted [p:882586706] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>It's a sign. Break it off before you get in too deep.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ToadallyAwesome 07/09/17 4:45:44 AM #87:	frozenshock posted... Ruvan22 posted... TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this? Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. But for me the bad with her is that she was always the kind to get aggressive when she was not happy, which was often. It got worse as the years went by. For example, when I went to see her during weekends at her college, it was like flipping a coin. Usually she was the sweetest thing. But if she had worries on her mind, like a difficult exam was coming up, or she didn't get along with a teammate on an assignment or something... then she'd be super aggressive and lash out about everything... like she would get super angry if she tried to get herself some tea and the heater was empty, for example. It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Honestly it was exhausting sometimes. I swear she would sometimes scream at her mom and sister on the phone when they would try to cheer her up. If she was having a bad day for any reason she essentially became a monster. Then she'd calm down and be sweet again, but her attitude made everyone basically take their distances and her family didn't contact her as often as they did... so as time went by more and more I became the only person who talked to her regularly since everyone else including her family was avoiding her. Even her best friends became more distant with her as the years went by. It was like... for example, she would say "I'm super stressed out. I only slept 2 hours last night." So you would answer something like "I really hope you can sleep better tonight." Then she'd just scream "You don't understand anything! It's not that I'm not sleeping well, I'm not sleeping enough!" One thing that I remember being really worried about is... this girl is a sweet thing, but she gets in that state over a meaningless stress like a mid term exam... how is she going to get when we have a kid and that kid is sick and has to go to the doctor or something? It kind of scared me. Jesus. With that kinda personality I think you dodged a bigger bullet by not impregnating her in 6 years. Way to go Neo! --- http://imgur.com/QKdxwuI <cite>ToadallyAwesome posted [p:882586842] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ruvan22 posted...</cite> <quote>TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this?</quote> Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. But for me the bad with her is that she was always the kind to get aggressive when she was not happy, which was often. It got worse as the years went by. For example, when I went to see her during weekends at her college, it was like flipping a coin. Usually she was the sweetest thing. But if she had worries on her mind, like a difficult exam was coming up, or she didn't get along with a teammate on an assignment or something... then she'd be super aggressive and lash out about everything... like she would get super angry if she tried to get herself some tea and the heater was empty, for example. It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Honestly it was exhausting sometimes. I swear she would sometimes scream at her mom and sister on the phone when they would try to cheer her up. If she was having a bad day for any reason she essentially became a monster. Then she'd calm down and be sweet again, but her attitude made everyone basically take their distances and her family didn't contact her as often as they did... so as time went by more and more I became the only person who talked to her regularly since everyone else including her family was avoiding her. Even her best friends became more distant with her as the years went by. It was like... for example, she would say "I'm super stressed out. I only slept 2 hours last night." So you would answer something like "I really hope you can sleep better tonight." Then she'd just scream "You don't understand anything! It's not that I'm not sleeping well, I'm not sleeping enough!" One thing that I remember being really worried about is... this girl is a sweet thing, but she gets in that state over a meaningless stress like a mid term exam... how is she going to get when we have a kid and that kid is sick and has to go to the doctor or something? It kind of scared me.</quote> Jesus. With that kinda personality I think you dodged a bigger bullet by not impregnating her in 6 years. Way to go Neo!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ultima Dragon 07/09/17 5:05:24 AM #88:	frozenshock posted... Ruvan22 posted... TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this? Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. I've known a girl or two like that in my time and it sucks. When they're on "sweet mode" they're like the perfect girlfriend in every way, just an all-around amazing person that you'd love to spend the rest of your life with. But when that switch is flipped, it's honestly scary. Like some straight up bipolar shit right there. "Monster" is a good way to describe it. Then it's a struggle, since you obviously have feelings for them and the good times are really good. You try to brush off the bad for a long time, but eventually it just gets to be too much. Edit: Oh, and congrats for making the right decision. I know six years is a long time but you'll find someone better than her and be much happier in the end not having to deal with the insanity of it all. Don't let her weasel her way back into your life again. --- "It's Canada, their idea of rioting is a half-muttered swear word." - deathbeforelife <cite>Ultima Dragon posted [p:882587188] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ruvan22 posted...</cite> <quote>TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this?</quote> Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad.</quote> I've known a girl or two like that in my time and it sucks. When they're on "sweet mode" they're like the perfect girlfriend in every way, just an all-around amazing person that you'd love to spend the rest of your life with. But when that switch is flipped, it's honestly scary. Like some straight up bipolar shit right there. "Monster" is a good way to describe it. Then it's a struggle, since you obviously have feelings for them and the good times are really good. You try to brush off the bad for a long time, but eventually it just gets to be too much. Edit: Oh, and congrats for making the right decision. I know six years is a long time but you'll find someone better than her and be much happier in the end not having to deal with the insanity of it all. Don't let her weasel her way back into your life again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 07/09/17 10:56:48 AM #89:	frozenshock posted... Ruvan22 posted... TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this? Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. But for me the bad with her is that she was always the kind to get aggressive when she was not happy, which was often. It got worse as the years went by. For example, when I went to see her during weekends at her college, it was like flipping a coin. Usually she was the sweetest thing. But if she had worries on her mind, like a difficult exam was coming up, or she didn't get along with a teammate on an assignment or something... then she'd be super aggressive and lash out about everything... like she would get super angry if she tried to get herself some tea and the heater was empty, for example. It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Honestly it was exhausting sometimes. I swear she would sometimes scream at her mom and sister on the phone when they would try to cheer her up. If she was having a bad day for any reason she essentially became a monster. Then she'd calm down and be sweet again, but her attitude made everyone basically take their distances and her family didn't contact her as often as they did... so as time went by more and more I became the only person who talked to her regularly since everyone else including her family was avoiding her. Even her best friends became more distant with her as the years went by. It was like... for example, she would say "I'm super stressed out. I only slept 2 hours last night." So you would answer something like "I really hope you can sleep better tonight." Then she'd just scream "You don't understand anything! It's not that I'm not sleeping well, I'm not sleeping enough!" One thing that I remember being really worried about is... this girl is a sweet thing, but she gets in that state over a meaningless stress like a mid term exam... how is she going to get when we have a kid and that kid is sick and has to go to the doctor or something? It kind of scared me. Wow TC - as others have said, it seems like the good times were really nice, but the bad times were like a nuclear warzone. I'm guessing trying to discuss this pattern with her wasn't ever productive either? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:882595295] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Ruvan22 posted...</cite> <quote>TC, glad you didn't lose the house. What was your relationship like before this?</quote> Well, I'd say more good than bad, but the bad was very bad. But for me the bad with her is that she was always the kind to get aggressive when she was not happy, which was often. It got worse as the years went by. For example, when I went to see her during weekends at her college, it was like flipping a coin. Usually she was the sweetest thing. But if she had worries on her mind, like a difficult exam was coming up, or she didn't get along with a teammate on an assignment or something... then she'd be super aggressive and lash out about everything... like she would get super angry if she tried to get herself some tea and the heater was empty, for example. It was like if everything had to be perfect to get her in a good mood. Honestly it was exhausting sometimes. I swear she would sometimes scream at her mom and sister on the phone when they would try to cheer her up. If she was having a bad day for any reason she essentially became a monster. Then she'd calm down and be sweet again, but her attitude made everyone basically take their distances and her family didn't contact her as often as they did... so as time went by more and more I became the only person who talked to her regularly since everyone else including her family was avoiding her. Even her best friends became more distant with her as the years went by. It was like... for example, she would say "I'm super stressed out. I only slept 2 hours last night." So you would answer something like "I really hope you can sleep better tonight." Then she'd just scream "You don't understand anything! It's not that I'm not sleeping well, I'm not sleeping enough!" One thing that I remember being really worried about is... this girl is a sweet thing, but she gets in that state over a meaningless stress like a mid term exam... how is she going to get when we have a kid and that kid is sick and has to go to the doctor or something? It kind of scared me.</quote> Wow TC - as others have said, it seems like the good times were really nice, but the bad times were like a nuclear warzone. I'm guessing trying to discuss this pattern with her wasn't ever productive either?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 07/09/17 11:19:31 AM #90:	Well, she knows she has that problem and she said she was getting better... but she really wasn't. I guess the aggressive impulses were just too strong for her to ever really be able to change --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:882596096] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>Well, she knows she has that problem and she said she was getting better... but she really wasn't. I guess the aggressive impulses were just too strong for her to ever really be able to change</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 07/09/17 11:22:43 AM #91:	frozenshock posted... Well, she knows she has that problem and she said she was getting better... but she really wasn't. I guess the aggressive impulses were just too strong for her to ever really be able to change She should see a therapist Avoid her, of course. Maybe text her and then block her? --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:882596219] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote>Well, she knows she has that problem and she said she was getting better... but she really wasn't. I guess the aggressive impulses were just too strong for her to ever really be able to change</quote> She should see a therapist Avoid her, of course. Maybe text her and then block her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DifferentialEquation 07/09/17 11:26:54 AM #92:	ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. how the fuck.... --- "If the day does not require an AK, it is good." The Great Warrior Poet, Ice Cube <cite>DifferentialEquation posted [p:882596374] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> how the fuck....</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
apolloooo 07/09/17 11:31:18 AM #93:	DifferentialEquation posted... ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. how the fuck.... It haopen more often than u think --- http://i.imgtc.com/iJyp6bF.png http://i.imgtc.com/ZBw36Qh.png Thanks for the peeps that made the pics <3 if i make typos it means i am on phone <cite>apolloooo posted [p:882596549] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> how the fuck....</quote> It haopen more often than u think</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Skye Reynolds 07/09/17 11:31:43 AM #94:	You made the right call. <cite>Skye Reynolds posted [p:882596566] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>You made the right call.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 07/09/17 12:12:32 PM #95:	apolloooo posted... DifferentialEquation posted... ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. how the fuck.... It haopen more often than u think This is also a reason to NOT get married for men, this kind of fucking bs is just evil as hell. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:882598194] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>apolloooo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> how the fuck....</quote> It haopen more often than u think</quote>This is also a reason to NOT get married for men, this kind of fucking bs is just evil as hell.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DifferentialEquation 07/09/17 12:15:23 PM #96:	DifferentialEquation posted... ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. how the fuck.... I don't doubt it. I'm just always kind of curious about what someone did to get this far into credit card debt. Just anecdotally speaking, all the people I've known that have abused their credit cards realize they've fucked up by the time hey get to 10k or so and then start fixing it. --- "If the day does not require an AK, it is good." The Great Warrior Poet, Ice Cube <cite>DifferentialEquation posted [p:882598324] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> how the fuck....</quote> I don't doubt it. I'm just always kind of curious about what someone did to get this far into credit card debt. Just anecdotally speaking, all the people I've known that have abused their credit cards realize they've fucked up by the time hey get to 10k or so and then start fixing it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlazinBlue88 07/09/17 12:32:32 PM #97:	Offworlder1 posted... apolloooo posted... DifferentialEquation posted... ExtremeLuchador posted... AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married. how the fuck.... It haopen more often than u think This is also a reason to NOT get married for men, this kind of fucking bs is just evil as hell. Yeah it's not like a woman could get married to a guy with credit card debit. Stop throwing out the gender bias so haphazardly. --- http://i.imgur.com/R15aJJ3.png http://i.imgur.com/NJqp6LS.png PSN/XBL: BlazinBlue88 <cite>BlazinBlue88 posted [p:882599025] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>Offworlder1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>apolloooo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ExtremeLuchador posted...</cite> <quote>AT least you aren't my old co-worker. He didn't find out about his 35-year-old wife's 50k credit card debt until after they got married.</quote> how the fuck....</quote> It haopen more often than u think</quote>This is also a reason to NOT get married for men, this kind of fucking bs is just evil as hell.</quote> Yeah it's not like a woman could get married to a guy with credit card debit. Stop throwing out the gender bias so haphazardly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Manocheese 07/09/17 12:38:42 PM #98:	You made a wise decision, TC. frozenshock posted... I made the calculations that if I sell the house the price I get is the equivalent of about 10 years worth of rent. frozenshock posted... Well the house is at 400k for tax purposes, but I think the market value is closer to 300 or 350. This doesn't make sense. Who is paying $30k a year in rent to live in a $300k house? That's $2500 a month. --- ()_() Hardcore - We'll probably be modded for this... (o.o) http://manocheese.googlepages.com/manocheesery <cite>Manocheese posted [p:882599276] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>You made a wise decision, TC. <cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote>I made the calculations that if I sell the house the price I get is the equivalent of about 10 years worth of rent.</quote> <cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote>Well the house is at 400k for tax purposes, but I think the market value is closer to 300 or 350.</quote> This doesn't make sense. Who is paying $30k a year in rent to live in a $300k house? That's $2500 a month.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 07/09/17 12:39:46 PM #99:	TC, how did she take the breakup? Did you tell her why? --- Posted with GameRaven 3.2 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:882599310] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote>TC, how did she take the breakup? Did you tell her why?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenshock 07/09/17 12:47:23 PM #100:	Manocheese posted... This doesn't make sense. Who is paying $30k a year in rent to live in a $300k house? That's $2500 a month. There are 3 rented apartments in the house emblem boy posted... TC, how did she take the breakup? Did you tell her why? She didn't say much at first, then later sent me a bunch of texts saying things like she was too patient with me, etc. --- I don't hate people, people hate me. <cite>frozenshock posted [p:882599634] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>Manocheese posted...</cite> <quote>This doesn't make sense. Who is paying $30k a year in rent to live in a $300k house? That's $2500 a month.</quote> There are 3 rented apartments in the house <cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote>TC, how did she take the breakup? Did you tell her why?</quote> She didn't say much at first, then later sent me a bunch of texts saying things like she was too patient with me, etc.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DifferentialEquation 07/09/17 12:55:47 PM #101:	frozenshock posted... She didn't say much at first, then later sent me a bunch of texts saying things like she was too patient with me, etc. I hope you're just ignoring them. Don't even bother responding. --- "If the day does not require an AK, it is good." The Great Warrior Poet, Ice Cube <cite>DifferentialEquation posted [p:882599934] in My girlfri... [t:75545253]...</cite> <quote><cite>frozenshock posted...</cite> <quote>She didn't say much at first, then later sent me a bunch of texts saying things like she was too patient with me, etc.</quote> I hope you're just ignoring them. Don't even bother responding.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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