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SomeGuyUO
06/20/17 2:23:16 AM
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wondering
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_Near_
06/20/17 2:23:51 AM
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I usually split it.
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Albel-Nox
06/20/17 2:24:14 AM
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Coin flip.
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Irony
06/20/17 2:24:35 AM
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Sword fight
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dragnmaninferno
06/20/17 2:26:27 AM
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Depends of the guys involved. From my (limited) experience and from the guys I know the guy who asks you out pays for dinner. Then if you go out for an after dinner drinks the other guy may pay for that.


After the 3rd date I would probably split the bill.
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Cj_WlLL_VVlN
06/20/17 2:29:14 AM
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I'm old fashioned and I still split stuff if I'm dating a girl. I'll pay for the first few dates if they'll allow but usually it ends up being a split fairly quick.

Theoretically if I was gay and I asked someone out I'd plan on paying for that date. After the first date maybe 2 or 3 I'd assume we're splitting.

If they asked me out were splitting from the get go.
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Delta_Force
06/20/17 2:33:38 AM
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The waiter.
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Xelltrix
06/20/17 2:36:32 AM
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I pay for first dates I initiate. After that splits or alternating.
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EnragedSlith
06/20/17 2:37:34 AM
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Chicken
06/20/17 2:37:36 AM
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Hummer 2
06/20/17 2:44:31 AM
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what if one guy is a power bottom?
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Parappa09
06/20/17 3:22:43 AM
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Gamer99z
06/20/17 3:24:25 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
Whoever is topping.

Chicken posted...
Top pays.

Ayy
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MabusIncarnate
06/20/17 3:26:19 AM
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Whoa, good question. Imagine the debate going on in the waiter/waitresses head. Who do I give the bill do? Do I give it to the less feminine one?

Inquiring minds want to know.
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Pastryarchy
06/20/17 3:35:49 AM
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It's generally a mutual agreement somewhere.
It's not really influenced by gender roles like many hetero pairings are.

If one guy makes significantly more, he's likely to be expected to pay more often between them. However, the guy who makes less is still expected to chip in to show effort. And the guy who makes more is usually fine with the arrangement since he bothers to stick around.
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Gamer99z
06/20/17 3:55:06 AM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
Whoa, good question. Imagine the debate going on in the waiter/waitresses head. Who do I give the bill do? Do I give it to the less feminine one?

Inquiring minds want to know.

I'm a straight man and I've only ever just be straight up given the bill a couple times without asking. Generally they just sit it down on the table and walk away if I don't ask for it or they don't ask who to give it to.
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MabusIncarnate
06/20/17 3:58:20 AM
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Gamer99z posted...
MabusIncarnate posted...
Whoa, good question. Imagine the debate going on in the waiter/waitresses head. Who do I give the bill do? Do I give it to the less feminine one?

Inquiring minds want to know.

I'm a straight man and I've only ever just be straight up given the bill a couple times without asking. Generally they just sit it down on the table and walk away if I don't ask for it or they don't ask who to give it to.

9 times out of 10 I dine with my wife and they almost always place it in my direction or assume i'm paying. Usually I am, so it's fine, literally the same joint bank account, but the bias is real and I feel like it's my obligation most times.
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OpenlyGator
06/21/17 2:13:33 AM
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When I'm out with another guy, the server usually just puts the bill in the center or edge of the table, not indicating either of us. Standard routine when serving straight guys. Because unless we're flashing PDAs, they just assume we're straight.
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Spiritlittle
06/21/17 2:18:47 AM
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Gay here. We always split it. All of my relationships have been like that, too. I don't know how much money he has, and he doesn't know how much money I have; we never fight over finances or paying for anything.

It's pretty great, honestly.
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ProfDE
06/21/17 8:56:17 AM
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I feel it should be whoever asked the other person out unless it is explicitly agreed on to split the bill.
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GOATSLAYER
06/21/17 8:58:10 AM
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The power bottom because they don't hold the position of dominance in the relationship.
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