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Parappa09 05/17/17 6:18:50 PM #1: |
i'm a nerd and into geek culture but not nerdy enough to play that much games + not very good at them either + dislike playing multiplayer games
i'm heavily extroverted but i'm also intimidated by those who are more extroverted than me + i can be kinda boring/laidback but then love getting drunk and going clubbing i'm black but other black guys probs find me a loser + not 'black' enough whatever the fuck that means i'm working class and grew up poor, yet a lot of my are middle/upper middle class + live a fancy life + privileged i'm gay but don't really care about lgbt culture + usually get racism thrown at me for being a coloured gay guy so find it hard to integrate it's like...who do I relate to. what am i. and how do I find other people similar to me. sometimes I wish I was an average joe so I feel like I could make more deep and meaningful connections to people. whhhhy am I so difficult. maybe i'm having a minor identity crisis --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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chill02 05/17/17 6:25:46 PM #2: |
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Parappa09 05/17/17 6:27:24 PM #3: |
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chill02 05/17/17 6:28:26 PM #4: |
I meant yes to the topic title ._.
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DanShields 05/17/17 6:28:38 PM #5: |
Yep
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SGT_Conti 05/17/17 6:30:05 PM #6: |
I feel like that too.
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StarReaper13 05/17/17 6:30:56 PM #7: |
Yeah.
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ZannoL 05/17/17 6:31:52 PM #8: |
It's much more important to embrace what makes you unique than trying to fit a mold.
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Doom_Art 05/17/17 6:32:13 PM #9: |
yeah i feel ya TC
I'm a nerd, but I keep it fairly downlow most of the time. Plus yeah like you said most heavier games and stuff are still a mystery to me Opposite of you actually. My family is wealthy but I've lived most of my adult life pretty frugally Also I'm the least masculine man imaginable --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SpiralDrift 05/17/17 6:34:13 PM #10: |
I'm a musician that doesn't smoke weed.
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Patty_Fleur 05/17/17 6:34:54 PM #11: |
TC: Waah! No one understand me Waah!
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evil_zombie11 05/17/17 6:35:29 PM #12: |
The average joe's connection to others here is through beers and drinking and going to happy viking or bars every friday night. How dry.
Go with your groups and connect with someone. I'm into powerlifting, strongman, competing, tattoos, art, poetry, psychology, history, drama, anime, criminology interests carried over from police work, war study, banking, and school, so I go and find people in these areas and connect with them and their common interests. Just nerd out and you'll find someone on your level. just don't overthink it and bring up topics and see if anyone takes the bite and engages you back. Me and a girl trade poetry and go on dates sometimes, I met another girl that loves Berserk and between lifting sets we argue if Guts is a jerk or not, another girl loves the Baroque art period and we share artists from that time, and of course the workout communities love talking different disciplines of lifting, etc. etc. --- Well, what do you expect? I'm an evil zombie... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 05/17/17 6:36:24 PM #13: |
evil_zombie11 posted...
I'm into powerlifting, strongman, competing, tattoos, art, poetry, psychology, history, drama, anime, criminology interests carried over from police work, war study, banking, and school that's all so interesting except the anime bit --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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evil_zombie11 05/17/17 6:37:58 PM #14: |
Doom_Art posted...
evil_zombie11 posted...I'm into powerlifting, strongman, competing, tattoos, art, poetry, psychology, history, drama, anime, criminology interests carried over from police work, war study, banking, and school I know but I love that stuff lol --- Well, what do you expect? I'm an evil zombie... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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YookaLaylee 05/17/17 6:39:01 PM #15: |
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Parappa09 05/17/17 6:41:52 PM #16: |
ZannoL posted...
It's much more important to embrace what makes you unique than trying to fit a mold. i kinda agree with that, since it goes against being a sheep and being true to yourself however I hate in TV shows and films that "be yourself" is shoved into narratives and ends happy ever after. especially when they don't try to improve or reinvent themselves. it's unrealistic and sets kids up for a downfall in life >.> Doom_Art posted... yeah i feel ya TC i'm such a lame nerd though. I feel like calling myself a nerd is a bit of an insult to actual nerds i'm not very masculine either --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lightsasori 05/17/17 6:43:14 PM #17: |
Parappa09 posted...
i'm a nerd and into geek culture but not nerdy enough to play that much games + not very good at them either Yep, can identify with this, except I do like playing a lot of multiplayer games. i'm heavily extroverted but i'm also intimidated by those who are more extroverted than me + i can be kinda boring/laidback but then love getting drunk and going clubbing Once again, can relate as well. One thing that gets me annoyed when I hang out with other asian people is how introverted a lot of them are. Like I honestly hate awkward silence and it really sucks when I try to break the ice and no one wants to participate but rather look at their phone. Rest of your post I can't relate because I'm asian that lived a pretty well life throughout most of his life. With that said, I'm atheist but all of my closet friends are of some Christian denomination and I get a long with them better than I do with any atheist I know. Though quick question, one of my friend is also black and gay and he says that he doesn't like to hang out with the black community because of how homophobic it is. Is it true that the black community is that homophobic? --- "Yare yare daze" ~ Jotaro Kujo "Children are pure, they know who's the strongest." ~ MaskDeSmith ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/17/17 7:07:18 PM #18: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
TC: Waah! No one understand me Waah! yeah it does sound like that. but i'm genuinely not a snowflake i'm not 'normal' at all Lightsasori posted... Though quick question, one of my friend is also black and gay and he says that he doesn't like to hang out with the black community because of how homophobic it is. Is it true that the black community is that homophobic? it can be but I wouldn't say it's as homophobic as people make it out to be. my black friends who I grew up + went school with are pretty accepting. and don't care about it --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/18/17 3:39:15 AM #19: |
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Parappa09 05/18/17 12:59:18 PM #20: |
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Paper_Okami 05/18/17 1:06:12 PM #21: |
tag i'll post later.
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AugustAdoulin 05/18/17 1:14:21 PM #23: |
Sometimes I think I'm my mother, but I don't remember when that happens. :o
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weapon_d00d816 05/18/17 1:25:41 PM #24: |
I don't even feel like I have any identities anymore. I kinda like it that way because it lets me be versatile and I don't feel any compulsion to be things.
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Parappa09 05/18/17 6:11:17 PM #25: |
weapon_d00d816 posted...
I don't even feel like I have any identities anymore. I kinda like it that way because it lets me be versatile and I don't feel any compulsion to be things. how come you feel like you have no identities? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Verdekal 05/18/17 6:13:04 PM #26: |
I solve the issue by not considering myself Jewish.
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ehhwhatever 05/18/17 6:17:32 PM #27: |
You're a black nerd. Dude there are so many. You should try doing some sort of experiment, only a fool never does an experiment in their lifetime".
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KILBOTz 05/18/17 6:22:52 PM #28: |
Yes. I feel like I am simultaneously a cliché and also don't fit into any archetype. I have like 3 sets of friends who mostly don't get along. One is my hick friends who like going fishing and mudding and gold panning with me, another is the city yuppies who i go to exhibits and try new restaurants and shit with, third is the bros i play sports with. In all cases I feel like I am the odd man out but to the yuppy group I sometimes get the feeling they just view me as a hick bro and same with the other groups.
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Parappa09 05/18/17 6:28:10 PM #29: |
Verdekal posted...
I solve the issue by not considering myself Jewish. turning your back on your heritage is something different though ehhwhatever posted... You're a black nerd. Dude there are so many. You should try doing some sort of experiment, only a fool never does an experiment in their lifetime". i'm more mainstream than a nerd if this makes any sense...if I went to a 'mainstream' party, I would enjoy it and get along with most people, good music and good vibes. but I don't think i'd particularly make any deep connections or good friends. and at the end of the day, it's probably vapid to me but then if I went to a nerd party then i'd know enough to get on with people, probably like the people a bit more even though our interests are really different and feel like i'm putting on a front of being up to date with manga, video games and super into it i'm really tired and this is probably a really bad example to make. but it's a vague idea of what i'm getting it --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ving_Rhames 05/18/17 6:29:40 PM #30: |
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ehhwhatever 05/18/17 6:33:16 PM #31: |
Parappa09 posted...
Verdekal posted...I solve the issue by not considering myself Jewish. Maybe you are detached from things. Everything is gang or group opinion so you got to be careful if you are detached. doesn't mean you don't have political missions or something connected to current events. --- I'm cursed by Uranus. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/19/17 4:03:12 AM #32: |
ehhwhatever posted...
Maybe you are detached from things. Everything is gang or group opinion so you got to be careful if you are detached. doesn't mean you don't have political missions or something connected to current events. I don't think I feel detached per se --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Key 05/19/17 4:17:35 AM #33: |
Yeah I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. Like I have a lot of nerdy interest but was never nerdy enough to hang out with nerdy kids. And especially the not "black enough" part. I'm mixed and while I've had black friends I'm often referred to as the "whitest black guy etc." But I'm still too black to be white. It's never really bothered me though
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Parappa09 05/19/17 4:23:54 AM #34: |
Key posted...
Yeah I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. Like I have a lot of nerdy interest but was never nerdy enough to hang out with nerdy kids. And especially the not "black enough" part. I'm mixed and while I've had black friends I'm often referred to as the "whitest black guy etc." But I'm still too black to be white. It's never really bothered me though how do you deal with it? like do you have one friendship group you regularly hang out with that you feel really comfortable with? or do you have different sets of friends you hang out with? i'm the latter --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Key 05/19/17 4:33:13 AM #35: |
The second one. I have one true best friend who knows all sides of me. We don't live in the same state anymore but we'll likely be friends for the rest of our lives. Then from there I have different groups of friends I have my work friends i hang out with occasionally that mostly party. I have my nerdier friends that I I play card games with and play fighting games or Pokemon with. And neither group would guess I hang out with the other. And sometimes I just hang out with the occasional person I meet that I get along with. I have a lot of different sides to my personality so I don't really fit into one niche and just have frfiends for each one.
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Kisai 05/19/17 4:40:30 AM #36: |
Kind of, sort of. It's why I don't really like talking about wanting to be a girl, or hearing others talk about wanting to be the other gender themselves. Whatever they're going to say about the subject, it's going to end up being different from my own approach, and it makes me feel like I'm wrong.
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Sativa_Rose 05/19/17 4:41:46 AM #37: |
Kind of. I haven't met many people who are intensely interested in the kinds of subjects that I am into, like economics. Most of the people my own age who I have met find the stuff I find interesting boring, and I find the stuff they find interesting boring. Thankfully the internet exists or this would suck a lot more.
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Dash_Harber 05/19/17 4:53:52 AM #38: |
I'm a complete outsider on every level.
I wear a mohawk and my wardrobe is mostly black with lots of punk/goth/metal influence. I love punk rock and metal and even play guitar well, but can't tolerate the politics of bands to keep playing. I hate some of the movements within my beloved communities, especially the crust punk, live in a gutter approach to rebellion instead of getting educated and helping people to build community (which ironically reminds me of the ascetic monk zealots of the Catholic Church that they would stand against) I'm a huge nerd but stand out among the nerds. I'm well spoken and dress like a post-apocalyptic raider most of the time. I don't have any nerd cliques. I can vehemently take sides between most series. Honestly, I don't think I will ever fit in anywhere. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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exvampire 05/19/17 5:28:53 AM #39: |
I know who I am but I don't really fit in anywhere. Writer / Music artist / aspiring filmmaker and weird as hell. Too passionate and weird to fit in with normal people. Not intellectual and serious enough to fit in with the cool art crowd. I also get a lot of shit online with people accusing me of being someone I'm not, that kind of messes with my sense of who I am.
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ehhwhatever 05/19/17 5:49:13 AM #40: |
exvampire posted...
I know who I am but I don't really fit in anywhere. Writer / Music artist / aspiring filmmaker and weird as hell. Too passionate and weird to fit in with normal people. Not intellectual and serious enough to fit in with the cool art crowd. I also get a lot of shit online with people accusing me of being someone I'm not, that kind of messes with my sense of who I am. Well taking advantage of a big city such as in comfort is a sign of being well bred, there are other things too of course. --- I'm cursed by Uranus. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/19/17 8:06:41 PM #41: |
it's kinda good that i'm not the only one feeling that way
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NeoBowser 05/19/17 9:07:23 PM #42: |
Parappa09 posted...
i'm a nerd and into geek culture but not nerdy enough to play that much games + not very good at them either + dislike playing multiplayer games --- I'm feeling myself, I'm feeling myself, I'm feeling my feeling my' ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/19/17 9:20:23 PM #43: |
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You are Parappa(parpaprpapppa). Stop worrying about the labels. You're not just a half nerd, or a gay black dude, or a party pinata at regular occasions. Those are things that define you -- they make you an identity together the thing is i'm a fairly confident person speaking to strangers, friends, in groups, etc but if you knew me deep inside, then i'm a wreck I wish I felt more confident though --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mal_Fet 05/19/17 9:24:32 PM #44: |
I prefer to think of myself as an individual rather than a member of a group.
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Xelltrix 05/19/17 9:25:00 PM #45: |
Eyerolling intensifies
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NeoBowser 05/19/17 9:27:31 PM #46: |
That's also a part of you. Try to see the bright side
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TyYoshi 05/19/17 9:28:03 PM #47: |
Ooooooooh so many indifferences, such unfairness life tends to do, inside me all the time- that I'm in needing to have my ego stroked and stripped away again this year to finally come in terms with myself.I'm bout to be 25 in September. I need to uh, find goals too.
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NeoBowser 05/19/17 9:49:37 PM #48: |
TyYoshi posted...
Ooooooooh so many indifferences, such unfairness life tends to do, inside me all the time- that I'm in needing to have my ego stroked and stripped away again this year to finally come in terms with myself.I'm bout to be 25 in September. I need to uh, find goals too. You're a cool guy too, I'm sure you'll reach your goal. Worrying about it isn't going to get you there any quicker --- I'm feeling myself, I'm feeling myself, I'm feeling my feeling my' ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/21/17 10:05:05 AM #49: |
Xelltrix posted...
Eyerolling intensifies i love sassy xell haha but honestly this is what goes through my mind TyYoshi posted... Ooooooooh so many indifferences, such unfairness life tends to do, inside me all the time- that I'm in needing to have my ego stroked and stripped away again this year to finally come in terms with myself.I'm bout to be 25 in September. I need to uh, find goals too. i'm 25 in november :'( --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vamp_Aubrey 05/21/17 10:06:50 AM #50: |
i don't have an identity
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