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wah_wah_wah 05/07/17 1:24:06 PM #101:	Mystere posted... It f*s off his ability to trust and that damage takes a long time to even lessen. When he gets another girlfriend, she'll go to the store and take about 20 minutes longer than it usually takes her. Lets say she saw a friend there and stood there yapping for a while. Guess where his mind will immediately go. It's a shitty thing to happen to you but it doesn't necessarily have to permanently scar you for life with every single woman going forward. Ultimately I'm not too concerned about cheating. I mean yeah I will break up with the girl if she does it, but to permanently not trust all women because of one shitty one is letting the cheaters win and letting yourself lose. Because in the end you did nothing wrong. <cite>wah_wah_wah posted [p:878641546] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystere posted...</cite> <quote>It f*s off his ability to trust and that damage takes a long time to even lessen. When he gets another girlfriend, she'll go to the store and take about 20 minutes longer than it usually takes her. Lets say she saw a friend there and stood there yapping for a while. Guess where his mind will immediately go. </quote> It's a shitty thing to happen to you but it doesn't necessarily have to permanently scar you for life with every single woman going forward. Ultimately I'm not too concerned about cheating. I mean yeah I will break up with the girl if she does it, but to permanently not trust all women because of one shitty one is letting the cheaters win and letting yourself lose. Because in the end you did nothing wrong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 05/07/17 1:24:41 PM #102:	legendary_zell posted... Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Similarly, don't go for any type of revenge as that just brings you down. Revenge will just turn this into a dramatic saga and you'll lose the moral high ground you should have. Don't waste someone else's time by using them as a rebound or revenge unless you're very upfront about it because that's just a crappy thing to do. You should take stock of your life and where you are. Focus on yourself and self improvement for awhile. It could be in terms of friendships, jobs, hobbies, fitness, whatever, but do something positive and growth oriented. Don't wallow, don't look back, don't look down on yourself. Become a better person for yourself and eventually it'll become clear how it wasn't your fault and how this is a chance to get something real in the future. This is what redpill is all about. I agree some mgtow go too far, the women haters. I don't follow that, I like women. I just am careful.. <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:878641573] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Similarly, don't go for any type of revenge as that just brings you down. Revenge will just turn this into a dramatic saga and you'll lose the moral high ground you should have. Don't waste someone else's time by using them as a rebound or revenge unless you're very upfront about it because that's just a crappy thing to do. You should take stock of your life and where you are. Focus on yourself and self improvement for awhile. It could be in terms of friendships, jobs, hobbies, fitness, whatever, but do something positive and growth oriented. Don't wallow, don't look back, don't look down on yourself. Become a better person for yourself and eventually it'll become clear how it wasn't your fault and how this is a chance to get something real in the future.</quote> This is what redpill is all about. I agree some mgtow go too far, the women haters. I don't follow that, I like women. I just am careful..</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mystere 05/07/17 1:27:21 PM #103:	jborgan posted... Conflict posted... jborgan posted... Mystere posted... jborgan posted... Lordgold666 posted... Or take the low road and send her n00dz to her family and the rest of the town. People need to stop suggesting this. It's even shittier than cheating. Explain how. I can't believe I have to. Imagine how many people you see and interact with every day, and how many of those people would you want to see you naked? Guarantee you wouldn't want most of them to see you naked, ever. Now imagine that all or most of them now have seen you naked. Could you interact with those people normally again? Yes, cheating is an incredibly shitty thing to do. But completely destroying her right to privacy like that for a mistake she made, and something that will stay with her for the rest of her life, is even worse, and honestly justifies her cheating, because you really aren't any better. Your post was good up until you called her cheating a "mistake". I forgot that she was doing it for 2 years. Yeah, that's well beyond a mistake, but she still doesn't deserve to have her privacy destroyed like that. People would quit giving a shit within a few months. Especially when the woman shrugs it off and everyone realizes that she isn't gonna let the fact that people saw her body consume her. Actually, you gotta put some thought into the type of girl you do it to because it doesn't work on everyone. I've seen/heard this shit. "He put a video of us fuckin' on the internet? Whatever." and she legitimately was unfazed. <cite>Mystere posted [p:878641684] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>jborgan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jborgan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystere posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jborgan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lordgold666 posted...</cite> <quote>Or take the low road and send her n00dz to her family and the rest of the town.</quote> People need to stop suggesting this. It's even shittier than cheating.</quote> Explain how.</quote> I can't believe I have to. Imagine how many people you see and interact with every day, and how many of those people would you want to see you naked? Guarantee you wouldn't want most of them to see you naked, ever. Now imagine that all or most of them now have seen you naked. Could you interact with those people normally again? Yes, cheating is an incredibly shitty thing to do. But completely destroying her right to privacy like that for a mistake she made, and something that will stay with her for the rest of her life, is even worse, and honestly justifies her cheating, because you really aren't any better.</quote> Your post was good up until you called her cheating a "mistake".</quote> I forgot that she was doing it for 2 years. Yeah, that's well beyond a mistake, but she still doesn't deserve to have her privacy destroyed like that.</quote> People would quit giving a shit within a few months. Especially when the woman shrugs it off and everyone realizes that she isn't gonna let the fact that people saw her body consume her. Actually, you gotta put some thought into the type of girl you do it to because it doesn't work on everyone. I've seen/heard this shit. "He put a video of us fuckin' on the internet? Whatever." and she legitimately was unfazed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendary_zell 05/07/17 1:29:15 PM #104:	Keith_Valentine posted... legendary_zell posted... Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Similarly, don't go for any type of revenge as that just brings you down. Revenge will just turn this into a dramatic saga and you'll lose the moral high ground you should have. Don't waste someone else's time by using them as a rebound or revenge unless you're very upfront about it because that's just a crappy thing to do. You should take stock of your life and where you are. Focus on yourself and self improvement for awhile. It could be in terms of friendships, jobs, hobbies, fitness, whatever, but do something positive and growth oriented. Don't wallow, don't look back, don't look down on yourself. Become a better person for yourself and eventually it'll become clear how it wasn't your fault and how this is a chance to get something real in the future. This is what redpill is all about. I agree some mgtow go too far, the women haters. I don't follow that, I like women. I just am careful.. That's the spin they try to put on it to sucker in men with low self esteem who are prone to bitterness in a moment (or lifetime) of weakness. But in reality, it's about creating an oppositional, hateful relationship between men and women. It becomes a contest of control and "domination" which is to be won through manipulation. Women become a ridiculous hivemind that are simultaneously loathsome and the focus of life. It's a crappy life tutorial for people who are not well adjusted human beings. TC doesn't need any of that. He needs to continue to be a well adjusted human. That will always be the best route in life. --- http://i.imgur.com/0Bi86cp.gif <cite>legendary_zell posted [p:878641767] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Keith_Valentine posted...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Similarly, don't go for any type of revenge as that just brings you down. Revenge will just turn this into a dramatic saga and you'll lose the moral high ground you should have. Don't waste someone else's time by using them as a rebound or revenge unless you're very upfront about it because that's just a crappy thing to do. You should take stock of your life and where you are. Focus on yourself and self improvement for awhile. It could be in terms of friendships, jobs, hobbies, fitness, whatever, but do something positive and growth oriented. Don't wallow, don't look back, don't look down on yourself. Become a better person for yourself and eventually it'll become clear how it wasn't your fault and how this is a chance to get something real in the future.</quote> This is what redpill is all about. I agree some mgtow go too far, the women haters. I don't follow that, I like women. I just am careful..</quote> That's the spin they try to put on it to sucker in men with low self esteem who are prone to bitterness in a moment (or lifetime) of weakness. But in reality, it's about creating an oppositional, hateful relationship between men and women. It becomes a contest of control and "domination" which is to be won through manipulation. Women become a ridiculous hivemind that are simultaneously loathsome and the focus of life. It's a crappy life tutorial for people who are not well adjusted human beings. TC doesn't need any of that. He needs to continue to be a well adjusted human. That will always be the best route in life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X 05/07/17 1:34:48 PM #105:	It's not that he's just find out what's really is going to bother him is when he starts thinking about how long and how many men she cheated on him with before finding out. That right there is what will drive him to madness. --- There's only three things in this world that will survive a nuclear apocalypse, twinkies, the cockroaches and Dixie Carter. <cite>Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X posted [p:878642053] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>It's not that he's just find out what's really is going to bother him is when he starts thinking about how long and how many men she cheated on him with before finding out. That right there is what will drive him to madness.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wah_wah_wah 05/07/17 1:35:35 PM #106:	Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X posted... It's not that he's just find out what's really is going to bother him is when he starts thinking about how long and how many men she cheated on him with before finding out. That right there is what will drive him to madness. Why? There's nothing you can really do about it now <cite>wah_wah_wah posted [p:878642087] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Miz_iZ_AwSOme_X posted...</cite> <quote>It's not that he's just find out what's really is going to bother him is when he starts thinking about how long and how many men she cheated on him with before finding out. That right there is what will drive him to madness.</quote> Why? There's nothing you can really do about it now</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mystere 05/07/17 1:38:04 PM #107:	jborgan posted... Conflict posted... jborgan posted... Mystere posted... jborgan posted... Lordgold666 posted... Or take the low road and send her n00dz to her family and the rest of the town. People need to stop suggesting this. It's even shittier than cheating. Explain how. I can't believe I have to. Imagine how many people you see and interact with every day, and how many of those people would you want to see you naked? Guarantee you wouldn't want most of them to see you naked, ever. Now imagine that all or most of them now have seen you naked. Could you interact with those people normally again? Yes, cheating is an incredibly shitty thing to do. But completely destroying her right to privacy like that for a mistake she made, and something that will stay with her for the rest of her life, is even worse, and honestly justifies her cheating, because you really aren't any better. Your post was good up until you called her cheating a "mistake". I forgot that she was doing it for 2 years. Yeah, that's well beyond a mistake, but she still doesn't deserve to have her privacy destroyed like that. I should also mention that I was speaking in general when I wrote that, not in this specific case. She absolutely deserves to be shamed for cheating for that long, but people should avoid showing nudes as revenge in general. Nudity being sacred and special just stems from religious bullshit anyway. <cite>Mystere posted [p:878642197] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>jborgan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jborgan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystere posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jborgan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lordgold666 posted...</cite> <quote>Or take the low road and send her n00dz to her family and the rest of the town.</quote> People need to stop suggesting this. It's even shittier than cheating.</quote> Explain how.</quote> I can't believe I have to. Imagine how many people you see and interact with every day, and how many of those people would you want to see you naked? Guarantee you wouldn't want most of them to see you naked, ever. Now imagine that all or most of them now have seen you naked. Could you interact with those people normally again? Yes, cheating is an incredibly shitty thing to do. But completely destroying her right to privacy like that for a mistake she made, and something that will stay with her for the rest of her life, is even worse, and honestly justifies her cheating, because you really aren't any better.</quote> Your post was good up until you called her cheating a "mistake".</quote> I forgot that she was doing it for 2 years. Yeah, that's well beyond a mistake, but she still doesn't deserve to have her privacy destroyed like that. I should also mention that I was speaking in general when I wrote that, not in this specific case. She absolutely deserves to be shamed for cheating for that long, but people should avoid showing nudes as revenge in general.</quote> Nudity being sacred and special just stems from religious bullshit anyway.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendarylemur 05/07/17 1:52:07 PM #108:	pinky0926 posted... Back_Stabbath posted... ITT: people that haven't been cheated on by people they actually care(d) about. Been there bud. It's been a year and a half and I finally think I'm starting to heal properly (like, to the point where thinking about it doesn't make me seethe with rage and sadness). Might feel like your world is over, but this s* is just part of life and it really does make you stronger in the end. A lot of people are saying don't dwell on it... as if it's that easy. You won't be able to help dwell on it if you felt any way like how I did. S* will rule your mind for a while. Just try not to let it destroy you. Read this post TC, and not many of the others. Sorry you were hurt, but you'll live, and you'll move on, and eventually you'll learn to love again. She sounds like a real piece of shit and not worthy. Not gonna lie, I did the same thing. How do you even not dwell? The mind will bring it back up again and again --- "Iwata was awesome" - Mr. Nintendo dinglebutt <cite>legendarylemur posted [p:878642852] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Back_Stabbath posted...</cite> <quote>ITT: people that haven't been cheated on by people they actually care(d) about. Been there bud. It's been a year and a half and I finally think I'm starting to heal properly (like, to the point where thinking about it doesn't make me seethe with rage and sadness). Might feel like your world is over, but this s* is just part of life and it really does make you stronger in the end. A lot of people are saying don't dwell on it... as if it's that easy. You won't be able to help dwell on it if you felt any way like how I did. S* will rule your mind for a while. Just try not to let it destroy you.</quote> Read this post TC, and not many of the others. Sorry you were hurt, but you'll live, and you'll move on, and eventually you'll learn to love again. She sounds like a real piece of shit and not worthy.</quote> Not gonna lie, I did the same thing. How do you even not dwell? The mind will bring it back up again and again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Evolician 05/07/17 1:54:05 PM #109:	Nothing sweeter than a slice of VENGEANCE. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Lavidon/ https://www.twitch.tv/Lavidon <cite>Evolician posted [p:878642929] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>Nothing sweeter than a slice of VENGEANCE.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 05/07/17 2:24:53 PM #110:	legendarylemur posted... pinky0926 posted... Back_Stabbath posted... ITT: people that haven't been cheated on by people they actually care(d) about. Been there bud. It's been a year and a half and I finally think I'm starting to heal properly (like, to the point where thinking about it doesn't make me seethe with rage and sadness). Might feel like your world is over, but this s* is just part of life and it really does make you stronger in the end. A lot of people are saying don't dwell on it... as if it's that easy. You won't be able to help dwell on it if you felt any way like how I did. S* will rule your mind for a while. Just try not to let it destroy you. Read this post TC, and not many of the others. Sorry you were hurt, but you'll live, and you'll move on, and eventually you'll learn to love again. She sounds like a real piece of shit and not worthy. Not gonna lie, I did the same thing. How do you even not dwell? The mind will bring it back up again and again yup, there's literally no way you're not gonna dwell I got cheated on in a nearly 2 year relationship as well and it's hard not to dwell - it will consume your thoughts for a while if you weren't expecting it and you'll go through so many hoops trying to figure out where it went wrong and why. but do remember that it really is not a reflection on yourself as much as you may think it is because of what happened and whatever she might say. it's just justification in betraying someone's trust that they'll have convinced themselves of it'll take some time of you being in that state of mind before you start to feel any sort of clarity, just take it as best as you can and try not to get into a self destructive spiral, i.e. don't turn to destructive behaviors like self medicating or self harm. if you really feel like you need it you should talk to someone like a therapist so you have an unbiased third party to help you see things in a different perspective keep your head up @thrashmetal14, you'll get through it --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:878644384] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendarylemur posted...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Back_Stabbath posted...</cite> <quote>ITT: people that haven't been cheated on by people they actually care(d) about. Been there bud. It's been a year and a half and I finally think I'm starting to heal properly (like, to the point where thinking about it doesn't make me seethe with rage and sadness). Might feel like your world is over, but this s* is just part of life and it really does make you stronger in the end. A lot of people are saying don't dwell on it... as if it's that easy. You won't be able to help dwell on it if you felt any way like how I did. S* will rule your mind for a while. Just try not to let it destroy you.</quote> Read this post TC, and not many of the others. Sorry you were hurt, but you'll live, and you'll move on, and eventually you'll learn to love again. She sounds like a real piece of shit and not worthy.</quote> Not gonna lie, I did the same thing. How do you even not dwell? The mind will bring it back up again and again</quote> yup, there's literally no way you're not gonna dwell I got cheated on in a nearly 2 year relationship as well and it's hard not to dwell - it will consume your thoughts for a while if you weren't expecting it and you'll go through so many hoops trying to figure out where it went wrong and why. but do remember that it really is not a reflection on yourself as much as you may think it is because of what happened and whatever she might say. it's just justification in betraying someone's trust that they'll have convinced themselves of it'll take some time of you being in that state of mind before you start to feel any sort of clarity, just take it as best as you can and try not to get into a self destructive spiral, i.e. don't turn to destructive behaviors like self medicating or self harm. if you really feel like you need it you should talk to someone like a therapist so you have an unbiased third party to help you see things in a different perspective keep your head up @thrashmetal14, you'll get through it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 05/07/17 2:25:15 PM #111:	Should have been a better bf TC --- Bulls 4 life ! Get Rondo out of here. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:878644400] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>Should have been a better bf TC</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 05/07/17 2:35:33 PM #112:	Mystere posted... IfGodCouldDie posted... Conflict posted... IfGodCouldDie posted... Kazuma_Yagami posted... Kaiganeer posted... thrashmetal14 posted... Im fucking dead inside bruv it's just a relationship calm down You've never been in a quality relationship before. You obviously dont know what a quality relationship is if you think it involves cheating. He didn't remotely imply that. His point was that it's totally understandable to be torn up over being cheated on. Who taught you how to read? He literally says quality relationship, any relationship that has cheating is not quality. Where did you learn to read? Stop trying to trick people into using the R word. ? --- Doughnuts, is there anything they can't do? PSN-Paters1 XBL-Cyanide Sucker LoL-SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:878644937] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystere posted...</cite> <quote><cite>IfGodCouldDie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote><cite>IfGodCouldDie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kazuma_Yagami posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kaiganeer posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote>Im fucking dead inside</quote> bruv it's just a relationship calm down</quote> You've never been in a quality relationship before.</quote> You obviously dont know what a quality relationship is if you think it involves cheating.</quote> He didn't remotely imply that. His point was that it's totally understandable to be torn up over being cheated on. Who taught you how to read?</quote> He literally says quality relationship, any relationship that has cheating is not quality. Where did you learn to read?</quote> Stop trying to trick people into using the R word.</quote> ?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Benify 05/07/17 2:53:42 PM #114:	Sheesh what'd you saw in her, TC. --- Everyone go subscribe to this AMAZING gentleman on Youtube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uZpqaGd61E <cite>Benify posted [p:878645912] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>Sheesh what'd you saw in her, TC.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 05/07/17 4:00:11 PM #115:	EyeWontBeFooled posted... MGTOW and Redpill sound like a foolproof route to bitterness. legendary_zell posted... Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Nope. I'm in a 6 year relationship and I treat my girlfriend like a princess even though I watch a lot of MGTOW videos. I think they've made it easier for me to maintain a healthy and happy (understatement) relationship. It's just good to hear other guys' experiences so you know that you're not alone. Also to understand that a lot of it is based on evolutionary biology, something that none of us have any control over. Understanding human nature goes a long way toward overcoming it. We as men have a lot of nasty stuff built into us as well, but being men we don't need as much of it explained to us in the same way. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:878649455] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>EyeWontBeFooled posted...</cite> <quote>MGTOW and Redpill sound like a foolproof route to bitterness.</quote> <cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character.</quote> Nope. I'm in a 6 year relationship and I treat my girlfriend like a princess even though I watch a lot of MGTOW videos. I think they've made it easier for me to maintain a healthy and happy (understatement) relationship. It's just good to hear other guys' experiences so you know that you're not alone. Also to understand that a lot of it is based on evolutionary biology, something that none of us have any control over. Understanding human nature goes a long way toward overcoming it. We as men have a lot of nasty stuff built into us as well, but being men we don't need as much of it explained to us in the same way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thrashmetal14 05/07/17 4:03:08 PM #116:	Benify posted... Sheesh what'd you saw in her, TC. I dont know anymore. I was stupid enough to trust her. <cite>thrashmetal14 posted [p:878649589] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Benify posted...</cite> <quote>Sheesh what'd you saw in her, TC.</quote> I dont know anymore. I was stupid enough to trust her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 05/07/17 8:51:23 PM #117:	If you try and get revenge, she'll just know she was right on dumping you in the first place Just move on The best revenge really is living well --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:878665385] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>If you try and get revenge, she'll just know she was right on dumping you in the first place Just move on The best revenge really is living well</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 05/07/17 8:55:12 PM #118:	thrashmetal14 posted... Benify posted... Sheesh what'd you saw in her, TC. I dont know anymore. I was stupid enough to trust her. NO you're not, you trust people you're in a relationship with, that's normal, what she does with that trust is entirely up to her Like someone said EnragedSlith posted... Just gotta remember that this is a reflection on her and not on you. Keep yourself busy and invest in some physical hobbies. Find a counselor to talk to. It's going to hurt like a motherfucker for a long time, but you'll get through it --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:878665601] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Benify posted...</cite> <quote>Sheesh what'd you saw in her, TC.</quote> I dont know anymore. I was stupid enough to trust her.</quote> NO you're not, you trust people you're in a relationship with, that's normal, what she does with that trust is entirely up to her Like someone said <cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>Just gotta remember that this is a reflection on her and not on you. Keep yourself busy and invest in some physical hobbies. Find a counselor to talk to. It's going to hurt like a motherfucker for a long time, but you'll get through it</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slaya4 05/07/17 9:09:35 PM #119:	My ex girlfriend broke up with me, but strung me along saying that we will be together we just need a "break" and what not for a good month. We were together for 2 years also. Turns out she was fucking some dude the entire time we were on a "break" and got pregnant and came running back to me after all was said and done. I'm not going to bullshit you and tell you that its going to be easy. Its going to be hard af before you actually get over it. The best thing you can do is evaluate what went wrong and when. Then you learn from it and don't repeat it again. Give it time. You dont have to do it now. Just try your best to keep a level head and take it day by day. Eventually you'll start get over it and start to recover. Dont get into another relationship until you get over the bitterness phaze. Girls arent going to be into you until then. --- Am I going too hard? <cite>Slaya4 posted [p:878666349] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>My ex girlfriend broke up with me, but strung me along saying that we will be together we just need a "break" and what not for a good month. We were together for 2 years also. Turns out she was fucking some dude the entire time we were on a "break" and got pregnant and came running back to me after all was said and done. I'm not going to bullshit you and tell you that its going to be easy. Its going to be hard af before you actually get over it. The best thing you can do is evaluate what went wrong and when. Then you learn from it and don't repeat it again. Give it time. You dont have to do it now. Just try your best to keep a level head and take it day by day. Eventually you'll start get over it and start to recover. Dont get into another relationship until you get over the bitterness phaze. Girls arent going to be into you until then.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thrashmetal14 05/07/17 10:32:52 PM #120:	What probably hurts the most is the fact that shes happy with her new guy and her new relationship and Im over here completely devastated. It just feels like she won. Thanks for the supportive posts though. It really does help. I really needed to just say this shit, even if it was to random dudes on CE, just to get it off my chest. <cite>thrashmetal14 posted [p:878671005] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>What probably hurts the most is the fact that shes happy with her new guy and her new relationship and Im over here completely devastated. It just feels like she won. Thanks for the supportive posts though. It really does help. I really needed to just say this shit, even if it was to random dudes on CE, just to get it off my chest.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flock_Masta_P 05/07/17 10:42:44 PM #121:	She might seem happy now but she'll probably cheat on that guy too given enough time. I wouldn't worry about it. Still shit in her underwear drawer though. --- http://i.imgur.com/fNt9EYY.jpg http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1130- Cleveland Indians \| OSU Buckeyes \| Tennessee Titans \| Toledo Rockets \| Cleveland Cavaliers <cite>Flock_Masta_P posted [p:878671595] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>She might seem happy now but she'll probably cheat on that guy too given enough time. I wouldn't worry about it. Still shit in her underwear drawer though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
apocalyptic_4 05/07/17 10:59:17 PM #122:	Doe posted... I wonder what its like to be able to emotionally connect with others A true introvert --- PSN: Adrian396 XBL: Prime Legacy Nintendo ID: Apocalypse <cite>apocalyptic_4 posted [p:878672432] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Doe posted...</cite> <quote>I wonder what its like to be able to emotionally connect with others</quote> A true introvert</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sylverlolol 05/07/17 11:04:51 PM #123:	armandro posted... what if you were the guy she was dating behind his back? lol these days you never know --- This is my signature. There are many like it, but this one is mine. <cite>sylverlolol posted [p:878672730] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>armandro posted...</cite> <quote>what if you were the guy she was dating behind his back?</quote> lol these days you never know</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NOM 05/07/17 11:15:10 PM #124:	She's a woman, it's what they do. Move onto the next one and wait for her to cheat on or dump you. --- this just here so I ain't a smelly sigless user <cite>NOM posted [p:878673324] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>She's a woman, it's what they do. Move onto the next one and wait for her to cheat on or dump you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlazinBlue88 05/07/17 11:16:56 PM #125:	thrashmetal14 posted... What probably hurts the most is the fact that shes happy with her new guy and her new relationship and Im over here completely devastated. It just feels like she won. Thanks for the supportive posts though. It really does help. I really needed to just say this shit, even if it was to random dudes on CE, just to get it off my chest. Had the same thing happen to be with a gf of 4 1/2 years. Her "happiness" is a fleeting thing. She'll eventually do the same thing to that guy that she did to you. If anything you should feel sorry for him. Don't blame yourself over this. If there was something you did in the relationship to make her unhappy, she should have communicated it to you. The fact that she didn't is all on her. Cut contact, remove her from Facebook, burn any of her things she's given you. Just isolate yourself away from her. Like someone else said earlier, focus on your life and improving the quality of it. Make new friends, find new hobbies, be the best you can possibly be. Learn to love yourself and being single. Leave her and her messed up relationship issues in the past. You'll find someone better down the road. That's what happened to me. The next gf I had after the cheater became my wife and we're going on 3 years strong. --- http://i.imgur.com/R15aJJ3.png http://i.imgur.com/NJqp6LS.png PSN/XBL: BlazinBlue88 <cite>BlazinBlue88 posted [p:878673428] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote>What probably hurts the most is the fact that shes happy with her new guy and her new relationship and Im over here completely devastated. It just feels like she won. Thanks for the supportive posts though. It really does help. I really needed to just say this shit, even if it was to random dudes on CE, just to get it off my chest.</quote> Had the same thing happen to be with a gf of 4 1/2 years. Her "happiness" is a fleeting thing. She'll eventually do the same thing to that guy that she did to you. If anything you should feel sorry for him. Don't blame yourself over this. If there was something you did in the relationship to make her unhappy, she should have communicated it to you. The fact that she didn't is all on her. Cut contact, remove her from Facebook, burn any of her things she's given you. Just isolate yourself away from her. Like someone else said earlier, focus on your life and improving the quality of it. Make new friends, find new hobbies, be the best you can possibly be. Learn to love yourself and being single. Leave her and her messed up relationship issues in the past. You'll find someone better down the road. That's what happened to me. The next gf I had after the cheater became my wife and we're going on 3 years strong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EdgeMaster 05/07/17 11:45:04 PM #126:	Keith_Valentine posted... EyeWontBeFooled posted... SpiralDrift posted... It wouldn't be a bad idea to watch some MGTOW videos right now to make sense of what happened. Just try not to let the info make you bitter like it does some people. MGTOW and Redpill sound like a foolproof route to bitterness. Mgtow changed my life. I turned around, rolled up on the chick who had dissed me before, and dominated her. Like it was nothing. I genuinely feel bad for blue pill men. And their women are often unsatisfied. Male feminist.. Lmao. Fuck that. Gotta be smart when dealing with these chicks, if you show weakness, they may go for the throat. Call me mean all you want, whatever, I take no shit from women or bitches and they like it. So much this. The girls I've put my foot down and called them out on their shit are the girls I hear from every now and then and still hook up with even if I'm not dating them anymore. The ones I've dated where I've bit my tongue are no longer around. I don't hear from them anymore and don't hook up with them anymore. The kicker? All these girls have cheated. Put your foot down and call them on the shit you see and don't like. They'll respect you more and won't mistake kindness as weakness. Bite your tongue and buy their bullshit stories and you'll continue to be cheated on and eventually thrown out like trash. --- If you don't have anything nice to say, say it on the internet. ****poster Extraordinaire <cite>EdgeMaster posted [p:878674870] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Keith_Valentine posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EyeWontBeFooled posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>It wouldn't be a bad idea to watch some MGTOW videos right now to make sense of what happened. Just try not to let the info make you bitter like it does some people.</quote> MGTOW and Redpill sound like a foolproof route to bitterness.</quote> Mgtow changed my life. I turned around, rolled up on the chick who had dissed me before, and dominated her. Like it was nothing. I genuinely feel bad for blue pill men. And their women are often unsatisfied. Male feminist.. Lmao. Fuck that. Gotta be smart when dealing with these chicks, if you show weakness, they may go for the throat. Call me mean all you want, whatever, I take no shit from women or bitches and they like it.</quote> So much this. The girls I've put my foot down and called them out on their shit are the girls I hear from every now and then and still hook up with even if I'm not dating them anymore. The ones I've dated where I've bit my tongue are no longer around. I don't hear from them anymore and don't hook up with them anymore. The kicker? All these girls have cheated. Put your foot down and call them on the shit you see and don't like. They'll respect you more and won't mistake kindness as weakness. Bite your tongue and buy their bullshit stories and you'll continue to be cheated on and eventually thrown out like trash.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 05/08/17 7:14:47 AM #127:	Conflict posted... KingCrabCake posted... Should have been a better bf TC Ultimately that's something you would know nothing about Ahahaah @Conflict mad as hell im more successful than his little self. --- Bulls 4 life ! Get Rondo out of here. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:878687964] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KingCrabCake posted...</cite> <quote>Should have been a better bf TC</quote> Ultimately that's something you would know nothing about</quote> Ahahaah @Conflict mad as hell im more successful than his little self.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
deanshow 05/08/17 7:22:03 AM #128:	I guess you can say she's a Judas in your mindddddddd https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqURPBtGJzg --- Will not change this sig until Tommy Wiseau wins an Oscar (Started 12-21-2014) <cite>deanshow posted [p:878688142] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>I guess you can say she's a Judas in your mindddddddd https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqURPBtGJzg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_cajun88 05/08/17 8:31:55 AM #130:	Cartwheel_Kick posted... Sorry man. How'd you find out? ^ --- http://i.imgur.com/ks5GR7C.jpg http://i.imgur.com/vG1Yhak.jpg <cite>the_cajun88 posted [p:878689866] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry man. How'd you find out?</quote> ^</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thrashmetal14 05/08/17 12:01:55 PM #131:	the_cajun88 posted... Cartwheel_Kick posted... Sorry man. How'd you find out? ^ Saturday, while I was at work on a 13 hour shift, she blocked me and all my family on facebook. Once she blocked all of us she put up a new relationship status and profile picture with the new guy. Only reason I was able to find out is because my sisters friend (who was still on my now ex's friends list) sent screen shots to my sister and she showed me. Once I found her new boyfriends profile, I noticed that the picture of them together was uploaded like 2 weeks ago, meaning she was dating this guy behind my back for at least a little while now. It still hurts so fucking bad. Thursday night she was over at my house, in my bed, having sex with me. While that was going on she was dating another side dude. She loved me for 2 years and now in the span of a couple days she went from being the same girl Ive loved for 2 years into someone I dont even know. She completely wrecked me, and somehow she doesnt care. She doesnt care that she did it, she doesnt care that Im devastated. She went from loving me to not caring at all in 72 hours. How the fuck does that happen <cite>thrashmetal14 posted [p:878698815] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>the_cajun88 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry man. How'd you find out?</quote> ^</quote> Saturday, while I was at work on a 13 hour shift, she blocked me and all my family on facebook. Once she blocked all of us she put up a new relationship status and profile picture with the new guy. Only reason I was able to find out is because my sisters friend (who was still on my now ex's friends list) sent screen shots to my sister and she showed me. Once I found her new boyfriends profile, I noticed that the picture of them together was uploaded like 2 weeks ago, meaning she was dating this guy behind my back for at least a little while now. It still hurts so fucking bad. Thursday night she was over at my house, in my bed, having sex with me. While that was going on she was dating another side dude. She loved me for 2 years and now in the span of a couple days she went from being the same girl Ive loved for 2 years into someone I dont even know. She completely wrecked me, and somehow she doesnt care. She doesnt care that she did it, she doesnt care that Im devastated. She went from loving me to not caring at all in 72 hours. How the fuck does that happen</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 05/08/17 12:15:53 PM #132:	That's rough. She more or less broke up with you at that time, but it's definitely knife-twisting to know that she was cheating on you beforehand. But holy hell, that's a terrible way to be broken up with. No talk between you two, just block + a change of status on facebook? Sounds like a bitch. I'm glad it didn't happen any later. Two years is a long time but remember she's just an individual and the next girl won't have these same attributes necessarily. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:878699502] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>That's rough. She more or less broke up with you at that time, but it's definitely knife-twisting to know that she was cheating on you beforehand. But holy hell, that's a terrible way to be broken up with. No talk between you two, just block + a change of status on facebook? Sounds like a bitch. I'm glad it didn't happen any later. Two years is a long time but remember she's just an individual and the next girl won't have these same attributes necessarily.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 05/08/17 3:15:44 PM #133:	she is really a piece of work lol, that's basically the most cowardly thing a person could do --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:878709982] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>she is really a piece of work lol, that's basically the most cowardly thing a person could do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DKFjalfe 05/08/17 3:23:35 PM #135:	legendary_zell posted... Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Similarly, don't go for any type of revenge as that just brings you down. Revenge will just turn this into a dramatic saga and you'll lose the moral high ground you should have. Don't waste someone else's time by using them as a rebound or revenge unless you're very upfront about it because that's just a crappy thing to do. You should take stock of your life and where you are. Focus on yourself and self improvement for awhile. It could be in terms of friendships, jobs, hobbies, fitness, whatever, but do something positive and growth oriented. Don't wallow, don't look back, don't look down on yourself. Become a better person for yourself and eventually it'll become clear how it wasn't your fault and how this is a chance to get something real in the future. You. I like you. <cite>DKFjalfe posted [p:878710478] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>Don't listen to the bitter MFers on this board. Stay far away from all that redpill and MGTOW garbage. Going in that direction would lead to you becoming a worse person instead of just revealing her character. Similarly, don't go for any type of revenge as that just brings you down. Revenge will just turn this into a dramatic saga and you'll lose the moral high ground you should have. Don't waste someone else's time by using them as a rebound or revenge unless you're very upfront about it because that's just a crappy thing to do. You should take stock of your life and where you are. Focus on yourself and self improvement for awhile. It could be in terms of friendships, jobs, hobbies, fitness, whatever, but do something positive and growth oriented. Don't wallow, don't look back, don't look down on yourself. Become a better person for yourself and eventually it'll become clear how it wasn't your fault and how this is a chance to get something real in the future.</quote> You. I like you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 05/08/17 3:48:32 PM #136:	thrashmetal14 posted... the_cajun88 posted... Cartwheel_Kick posted... Sorry man. How'd you find out? ^ Saturday, while I was at work on a 13 hour shift, she blocked me and all my family on facebook. Once she blocked all of us she put up a new relationship status and profile picture with the new guy. Only reason I was able to find out is because my sisters friend (who was still on my now ex's friends list) sent screen shots to my sister and she showed me. Once I found her new boyfriends profile, I noticed that the picture of them together was uploaded like 2 weeks ago, meaning she was dating this guy behind my back for at least a little while now. It still hurts so fucking bad. Thursday night she was over at my house, in my bed, having sex with me. While that was going on she was dating another side dude. She loved me for 2 years and now in the span of a couple days she went from being the same girl Ive loved for 2 years into someone I dont even know. She completely wrecked me, and somehow she doesnt care. She doesnt care that she did it, she doesnt care that Im devastated. She went from loving me to not caring at all in 72 hours. How the fuck does that happen :( This girl isn't worth the attention your mind is going to give her. She's just awful. --- http://i.imgur.com/gIoselB.gif https://i.imgur.com/p8iCfHF.jpg <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:878712085] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>the_cajun88 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry man. How'd you find out?</quote> ^</quote> Saturday, while I was at work on a 13 hour shift, she blocked me and all my family on facebook. Once she blocked all of us she put up a new relationship status and profile picture with the new guy. Only reason I was able to find out is because my sisters friend (who was still on my now ex's friends list) sent screen shots to my sister and she showed me. Once I found her new boyfriends profile, I noticed that the picture of them together was uploaded like 2 weeks ago, meaning she was dating this guy behind my back for at least a little while now. It still hurts so fucking bad. Thursday night she was over at my house, in my bed, having sex with me. While that was going on she was dating another side dude. She loved me for 2 years and now in the span of a couple days she went from being the same girl Ive loved for 2 years into someone I dont even know. She completely wrecked me, and somehow she doesnt care. She doesnt care that she did it, she doesnt care that Im devastated. She went from loving me to not caring at all in 72 hours. How the fuck does that happen</quote> :( This girl isn't worth the attention your mind is going to give her. She's just awful.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tekutso 05/08/17 3:51:37 PM #137:	I've been in a similar situation dude. A lot of guys have. One of my best friends just had his wife leave him for another man, with no warning signs, and they were together for 10 years. Some people just have no soul. Most people probably. Takes a real pile of shit to do that to someone. So I know you're hurting like hell right now, but be thankful this person was only in your life for a short period and is out of it now. --- Nerd Gamefaqs Finest <cite>Tekutso posted [p:878712269] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>I've been in a similar situation dude. A lot of guys have. One of my best friends just had his wife leave him for another man, with no warning signs, and they were together for 10 years. Some people just have no soul. Most people probably. Takes a real pile of shit to do that to someone. So I know you're hurting like hell right now, but be thankful this person was only in your life for a short period and is out of it now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 05/08/17 6:32:38 PM #138:	thrashmetal14 posted... She went from loving me to not caring at all in 72 hours. How the fuck does that happen I've been there, more than once. Honestly... I think it's just easier for girls to move on that quickly, and I think it's biological. It hurts a lot worse than having a big falling out or something, though. Even being hated by them would be easier than knowing that they genuinely feel nothing. But ultimately what matters most is what it meant to you. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:878722093] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote>She went from loving me to not caring at all in 72 hours. How the fuck does that happen</quote> I've been there, more than once. Honestly... I think it's just easier for girls to move on that quickly, and I think it's biological. It hurts a lot worse than having a big falling out or something, though. Even being hated by them would be easier than knowing that they genuinely feel nothing. But ultimately what matters most is what it meant to you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Evolician 05/08/17 7:51:18 PM #139:	--- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Lavidon/ https://www.twitch.tv/Lavidon <cite>Evolician posted [p:878726815] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 05/08/17 10:21:27 PM #140:	fwiw I had very similar, my ex gf I was dating but she was dating and seeing the dude she left me for behind my back for a while. she was giving me a hummer earlier that day and then texted me that night that she was leaving me for him lmao --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:878735451] in Welp I jus... [t:75320021]...</cite> <quote>fwiw I had very similar, my ex gf I was dating but she was dating and seeing the dude she left me for behind my back for a while. she was giving me a hummer earlier that day and then texted me that night that she was leaving me for him lmao</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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