Current Events > Have any of you here ever run into old classmates of yours that were kinda mean

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...to you or others ...back then. But, you hadn't seen them since your school days when they were kinda jerks, so you saw them years later when they were adults. So they were at least 18 or maybe well over. Did you say anything to them, they looked like they were doing better than during their school days?

nope have never had that happen

Yeah kinda. Ran into a dude at a job, he was a new sous chef and he was just like "Suh dude". I didn't say anything but in my head I was like "Get the fuck away from me".

i ended up working with a guy from high school who was an asshole to me but I didnt need to say anything to him. He actually turned out to be a pretty cool guy

wanderingshade posted...

Yeah kinda. Ran into a dude at a job, he was a new sous chef and he was just like "Suh dude". I didn't say anything but in my head I was like "Get the fuck away from me".

oh he kinda thought you used to be old friends? i have kinda heard of that happening. maybe they were assholes to you, but instead of apologizing they kinda act like you were old friends

TimeForAction posted...

i ended up working with a guy from high school who was an asshole to me but I didnt need to say anything to him. He actually turned out to be a pretty cool guy

are you sure he remembered you? did you talk to him about what happened yrs ago?

Smallville posted...

are you sure he remembered you? did you talk to him about what happened yrs ago?

oh yeah we talked about a couple classes we had but no I didnt tell him I didnt like him in high school. TBH its almost always better just to move on

No

A guy by the name of Larry was a bully to me in elementary school.

Years later, he saw me at Wal-Mart and he apologized. That didn't stop me from freaking out at first...

DementedDurian posted...

A guy by the name of Larry was a bully to me in elementary school.

Years later, he saw me at Wal-Mart and he apologized. That didn't stop me from freaking out at first...

Did you forgive him? A little surprised by that, thought most bullies wouldn't apologize

once i moved back to my hometown in my mid 20s, i ran into a lot.

they were much better.

i'd never get a beer with them, though, and it's been about 10 years. haven't really seen one since tbh.

UT1999 posted...

Did you forgive him? A little surprised by that, thought most bullies wouldn't apologize

I don't remember, actually. All I remember is being paralyzed, him saying he was sorry and that he was going into the Military.

Waxitron_Gazer posted...

once i moved back to my hometown in my mid 20s, i ran into a lot.

they were much better.

i'd never get a beer with them, though, and it's been about 10 years. haven't really seen one since tbh.

Oh really? Do you think most former bullies turn out ok, can you say? Most were like in their early teens

I had one approach me in a YMCA once and tried to strike up a conversation.

I don't hold any grudges for petty shit that happened 10+ years ago, but the simple fact is that we were never friends so this interaction was the equivalent of a complete stranger chatting me up for no reason. Was awkward lol

UT1999 posted...

Oh really? Do you think most former bullies turn out ok, can you say? Most were like in their early teens

never said they were bullies. they were just sorta mean, as the topic implies.

have not run into one of my former bullies, but i still hope they're having a really fucking bad day.

Yes actually
theyre still kind of mean but I dont really talk to them, and seems like they actually want to talk to me

Most of the jerks are more mature now so I guess they just didnt want to be nice in school

Nope. I moved across the country 3 years after graduating, and have only been back once.

I don't know many classmates that were mean to me specifically but I ran into an old classmate who we kinda occasionally talk to each other in classes i found him annoying but I said hi to him but he didn't say hi back and now I'm annoyed

I have not ran into anyone from school, in at least 20 years. I assume some are still in this city but never come across any

doesntcare posted...

I have not ran into anyone from school, in at least 20 years. I assume some are still in this city but never come across any

that's kinda my case as well. I think that the vast majority still at least live in the same metro area but have not come across , maybe like 1 of them since school days

I was the mean classmate. I don't go around town.

my classmates are 42 years old, and most of them haven't changed at all. Now they have spouses and children, but their personalities haven't changed. The criminal bullies are still committing crimes, and the mostly-nice ones are still mostly-nice

I moved out of my school town in the USA, all the way to Mexico, so I don't see them in real life anymore, but occasionally I look at them on Facebook or Google, and their personalities haven't changed at all

hexa posted...

my classmates are 42 years old, and most of them haven't changed at all. Now they have spouses and children, but their personalities haven't changed. The criminal bullies are still committing crimes, and the mostly-nice ones are still mostly-nice

I moved out of my school town in the USA, all the way to Mexico, so I don't see them in real life anymore, but occasionally I look at them on Facebook or Google, and their personalities haven't changed at all

oh really? some of the troublemakers and assholes from back when i was in school, yeah i could see some of them being in legal trouble or committing crimes as adults. Wouldn't know though

UT1999 posted...

oh really? some of the troublemakers and assholes from back when i was in school, yeah i could see some of them being in legal trouble or committing crimes as adults. Wouldn't know though

There were these two guys named V and R that tried to trick me into under-age drinking during my first semester of college. I googled them recently. V was arrested for drunk driving a few years ago. R has a lot of business complaints against him accusing him of being a homophobe that spends much of his time making fun of homosexuals

There was a guy named K that co-erced me against saying anything about the future in his car. K was recently sued for invasion of privacy, as a pharmacist. K almost lost his pharmacist license for invading a patient's privacy

There was a girl named S that offered people money to beat me up. S recently caused a three-car accident, because she wasn't paying attention while driving. There was another girl named J that threatened to "knock up" my apartment. J works as a sleep physician now, and one of her patients filed a complaint against her because she was unable to diagnose his illness, yet still charged him $500 for the consultation

Why did you bother googling them? It ain't even worth wasting your time

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