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Jen0125 02/23/21 9:39:06 AM #1: |
It seems weird and counterproductive
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Kanatteru 02/23/21 9:51:59 AM #2: |
men treating women badly free of consequences, a tale as old as time
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Jen0125 02/23/21 9:58:28 AM #5: |
Kanatteru posted...
men treating women badly free of consequences, a tale as old as time It's just such strange behavior. And why are there already two deleted posts in here --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lokarin 02/23/21 9:59:23 AM #6: |
Jen0125 posted...
It seems weird and counterproductive They're probably using a dating site because they insult women IRL too and can't figure out what the problem is... --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blightzkrieg 02/23/21 9:59:58 AM #7: |
At a certain point of matches that don't go anywhere I think guys are just throwing out anything as a conversation starter and hoping something sticks. I don't think most people are being intentionally rude.
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argonautweakend 02/23/21 10:00:06 AM #8: |
Just to insult women specifically or "i'm going to call her a slut because she didn't like my pick up line of 'nice tits, lets fuck'"?
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Jen0125 02/23/21 10:03:49 AM #10: |
argonautweakend posted...
Just to insult women specifically or "i'm going to call her a slut because she didn't like my pick up line of 'nice tits, lets fuck'"? Just to insult women. Like this guy matched me to tell me I looked like a quoakka with T-Rex arms lmao Which I mean okay, sure. But I have super long arms actually so that doesn't make sense. But it's just a weird behavior. When I asked why he is wasting his time acting like this he just said "lol stop it's a compliment" No it's not, lol. It's negging. And it doesn't work on me. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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jkdarlow 02/23/21 10:03:59 AM #11: |
I thought good girls liked bad boys ?
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Jen0125 02/23/21 10:04:40 AM #12: |
Kotenks posted...
I find that men who do this are frustrated at their lives and lash out at women because they're an easy target that the men can hurt. I almost feel empathy for him because he's Chinese and honestly a lot of the Asian guys I match with explicitly ask me if I'm okay with them being Asian? So maybe they get a ton of shit. But like I didn't say anything to this dude so it's hard for me to feel too bad. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReggieTheReckless 02/23/21 10:07:16 AM #13: |
Some people never grow out of being bullies
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JOExHIGASHI 02/23/21 10:37:09 AM #14: |
Maybe they're assuming it's a bot they're insulting
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Jen0125 02/23/21 10:40:11 AM #15: |
JOExHIGASHI posted...
Maybe they're assuming it's a bot they're insulting Idk he didn't even try to ascertain if I was a bot lol --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 02/23/21 10:54:57 AM #16: |
Some guys just turn into total shits the moment they feel like they arent being watched or that there arent any consequences for their actions
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HornedLion 02/23/21 10:56:49 AM #17: |
Can we get an example, Jen?
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Archgoat 02/23/21 11:04:03 AM #18: |
Maybe it gets them more attention then being nice or using flattery.
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Jen0125 02/23/21 11:04:43 AM #19: |
HornedLion posted...
Can we get an example, Jen? I already gave one in this topic Archgoat posted... Maybe it gets them more attention then being nice or using flattery. But why do that on a dating site? The point is to meet people, not insult them. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archgoat 02/23/21 11:30:58 AM #20: |
Jen0125 posted...
I can't say definitively, because that would never be something I would of done, but my theory would be that they may get more reaction or conversation going by starting with something kind of insulting then just saying they think the lady is very attractive or something along those lines that they think she hears all the time. Either that, or they are just very jaded people who don't like women, which there are plenty of those out there I am sure, especially single men. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kanatteru 02/23/21 11:34:11 AM #21: |
jkdarlow posted...
I thought good girls liked bad boys ? that's not what that means to be a bad boy you have to be rough-and-tumble but also respectful towards women --- despair-inducing ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blightzkrieg 02/23/21 11:36:35 AM #22: |
Kanatteru posted...
that's not what that meansTo be a bad boy you need to be a naughty little child who deserves to be spanked by mommy --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrPrimemaster 02/23/21 11:51:41 AM #24: |
Could be:
Lashing out in frustration or boredom from lack of success on the app Example: I remember joining okcupid and sending a lot of messages out to people that were thought out based on their profile and then not receiving any responses. I wrote a message I thought was perfect to a person, I thought the girl and I were compatible and that it would for sure get a response. When she didn't say anything back I was very frustrated and sent her a snarky message, I doubted that she would read it anyway and wanted to vent. I wasn't insulting but it definitely wasn't the best thing to send. I've also sent out some message that are more of a "fuck it, lets see what happens" mentality. Inexperience with dating leading to thinking that they are actually doing the correct thing in order to get a date Example: I am definitely inexperienced in pursuing women both online and in person. All of my long-term relationships involved the girl pursuing me so I never really had to learn. So I'm learning as I go and I imagine others doing the same might just have bad tactics (or maybe insulting is actually good, idk) Someone insulted them, so now they're insulting you. Some girls on the app can be pretty mean, matching with you and then insulting you. Then they'll block you so you can't even response. So they do the same to another person. Enjoying being mean, some people are ass holes. --- Metroids Suck ... Copied to Clipboard!
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jkdarlow 02/23/21 11:54:44 AM #25: |
Kanatteru posted...
that's not what that meansWait, so i shouldnt be going around calling woman a bunch of slags ? do they actually not like it or something ? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HornedLion 02/23/21 12:03:11 PM #26: |
Jen0125 posted...
Just to insult women. Like this guy matched me to tell me I looked like a quoakka with T-Rex arms lmao Okay. So heres the thing. There seems to be this idea that dudes have to work extra hard to stand out. Especially in their opening message. And thats not exactly wrong. His message couldve been a bad attempt at this. Or, much like the raptors in Jurassic park, theyre testing the fence for weaknesses. Meaning if your hot ass gets upset at that remark, BUT you have a low self esteem... youll be a hot chick thats easy to control. And what beta fuck wouldnt want that? Now, if you want to know what I say to women on dating sites that gets them to respond favorably 99% of the time... then youll have to sign up for my Dont Be A Beta Cuck workshop. Also... dont forget to hit like and subscribe. --- "Skippitty Bop boom ba-dop. Wham wham bam bam" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 02/23/21 12:08:15 PM #27: |
Remember all those cartoons that showed cavemen hit a woman it the head with a club and then drag them into a cave
How fucking dark is that in retrospect --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 02/23/21 12:14:06 PM #28: |
Mead posted...
Remember all those cartoons that showed cavemen hit a woman it the head with a club and then drag them into a cave Like it's much different now. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 02/23/21 12:45:39 PM #29: |
Maybe there should be some kind of class in public school that teaches boys how to respect women and the appropriate way to try to let someone know they are interested in non negative or abusive ways
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MeteoricBurst 02/23/21 12:49:37 PM #30: |
Women have to carry a lot of blame in this since in many households its the mother in the lead. Same for teachers in early school years. There is a deficit of male teachers. A lot of women have backwards views on women and pass them onto their male children.
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Jen0125 02/23/21 12:50:04 PM #31: |
MeteoricBurst posted...
Women have to carry a lot of blame in this since in many households its the mother in the lead. Same for teachers in early school years. There is a deficit of male teachers. A lot of women have backwards views on women and pass them onto their male children. No. Women are not responsible for the actions of grown men in their dating life. Full stop. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cotton_Eye_Joe 02/23/21 12:52:25 PM #32: |
Because Chad doesn't give a fuck
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MeteoricBurst 02/23/21 12:52:45 PM #33: |
Jen0125 posted...
No. Women are not responsible for the actions of grown men in their dating life. Full stop. Nah I meant what Mead was talking about with schooling. That stuff should be coming from home or at least very early school. By the time you reach secondary/high school nobody should have to teach you this stuff. I agree with you on adults. --- "I had no choice but to choose the DLC." - Junichi Masuda ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 02/23/21 12:58:21 PM #34: |
MeteoricBurst posted...
Nah I meant what Mead was talking about with schooling. That stuff should be coming from home or at least very early school. By the time you reach secondary/high school nobody should have to teach you this stuff. I agree with you on adults. Oh okay. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 02/23/21 1:30:10 PM #35: |
MeteoricBurst posted...
Women have to carry a lot of blame in this since in many households its the mother in the lead. Same for teachers in early school years. There is a deficit of male teachers. A lot of women have backwards views on women and pass them onto their male children. so there arent enough male teachers and you think women are to blame for that maybe you would have benefited from such a proposed class --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 02/23/21 1:30:52 PM #36: |
MeteoricBurst posted...
By the time you reach secondary/high school nobody should have to teach you this stuff. Yet, clearly, someone does need to. --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SlayerDude4462 02/23/21 1:36:01 PM #37: |
This is a good question. I don't really have an answer for it. Just like I don't know why people are on dating apps "looking for friends" as if there aren't tons of apps and sites for that kind of thing. If I'm on a dating app, it certainly isn't to add to my friend group.
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MeteoricBurst 02/23/21 1:39:49 PM #38: |
Mead posted...
so there arent enough male teachers and you think women are to blame for that Maybe you should have been taught proper reading comprehension. Though I suspect it's just you trolling again as usual. My post didn't suggest what you're saying at all. I never said they're to blame for lack of male teachers (or fathers). The point was that women often dominate the household and early teaching. Therefore, if young boys aren't being taught to respect women properly that's on them. They are the ones in those roles. The lack of men (good ones) around is a whole separate issue compounding the problem. --- "I had no choice but to choose the DLC." - Junichi Masuda ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 02/23/21 1:40:42 PM #39: |
It's common knowledge that women shoulder most of the child rearing even if there is a father around. Just to add.
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Mead 02/23/21 1:43:17 PM #40: |
MeteoricBurst posted...
Maybe you should have been taught proper reading comprehension. Though I suspect it's just you trolling again as usual. My post didn't suggest what you're saying at all. I never said they're to blame for lack of male teachers (or fathers). The point was that women often dominate the household and early teaching. Therefore, if young boys aren't being taught to respect women properly that's on them. They are the ones in those roles. The lack of men (good ones) around is a whole separate issue compounding the problem. Even if what youre saying about mothers is true, and Im not convinced that it is, wouldnt fathers be just as much to blame for not being a more constructive presence during early development and shouldnt they try to set a good example by treating women with respect themselves? I have a hard time believing that a lot of the worst offenders on the internet had a positive male role model that they saw treating women with mutual respect. --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArvTheGreat 02/23/21 1:46:12 PM #41: |
It means they like you Jen
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ReturnOfFa 02/23/21 1:48:49 PM #42: |
ArvTheGreat posted...
It means they like you Jenthis unfortunately. a lot of men have literally been raised to be illiterate in terms of expressing affection. but they learned that teasing/negative attention is somehow good. which sucks!!! --- girls like my fa ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MeteoricBurst 02/23/21 1:59:20 PM #43: |
Jen0125 posted...
It's common knowledge that women shoulder most of the child rearing even if there is a father around. Just to add. Yup. Mead posted... Even if what youre saying about mothers is true, and Im not convinced that it is, wouldnt fathers be just as much to blame for not being a more constructive presence during early development and shouldnt they try to set a good example by treating women with respect themselves? I already said that's the second issue. It's just like Jen said. Men need to take a lot more responsibility. If you don't want the work of raising children properly, don't bother having any. Not sure why you are seemingly trying to absolve mothers though. Unfairly or not they are tasked with the bulk of child rearing. If things go bad they have to take responsibility for much of that too. --- "I had no choice but to choose the DLC." - Junichi Masuda ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 02/23/21 2:03:55 PM #44: |
MeteoricBurst posted...
Not sure why you are seemingly trying to absolve mothers though Im trying to think of solutions to try to make things better in the future. You seem more interested in pinpointing where you think the blame lies. Personally I think the blame is spread pretty evenly through our culture but ultimately anyone treating another person badly is responsible for their own actions. --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 02/23/21 2:07:13 PM #45: |
ReturnOfFa posted...
this unfortunately. a lot of men have literally been raised to be illiterate in terms of expressing affection. but they learned that teasing/negative attention is somehow good. which sucks!!! Yeah it sucks for them because I'm not interested in playing those games. I don't need to get to know anyone that is just going to be making fun of me all the time. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JigsawTDC 02/23/21 2:08:10 PM #46: |
Kanatteru posted...
to be a bad boy you have to be rough-and-tumble but also respectful towards women ~skids in on motorcycle~ just like me! ~puts on sunglasses and does a wheelie~ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BlackScythe0 02/23/21 2:08:40 PM #47: |
Isn't that just how the internet is? Like you do realize women on those sites insult men for things like being under 6ft right? Humans suck.
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Mead 02/23/21 2:11:43 PM #48: |
BlackScythe0 posted...
Isn't that just how the internet is? Like you do realize women on those sites insult men for things like being under 6ft right? Humans suck. People should treat each other with decency. Even on the internet. I dont think its an unreasonable standard to hold each other to. --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 02/23/21 2:14:01 PM #49: |
BlackScythe0 posted...
Isn't that just how the internet is? Like you do realize women on those sites insult men for things like being under 6ft right? Humans suck. I see men's profiles always saying "6' since that matters" or whatever their tall height is. That does suck. Are women actually insulting them though or voicing a preference for tall men and the men are getting upset? There's a difference there. I don't have experience with that because I'm not a height queen. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JigsawTDC 02/23/21 2:17:26 PM #50: |
I was never an extensive user of dating apps, but I was never once questioned or insulted about my height. But I'm almost 6' so maybe they're a bit more forgiving towards me. Also, most women I tend to match with tend to be kind and funny and don't seem like the types to insult random dudes for their height. Do not doubt that there are vicious women who hate short men out there though.
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313800 02/23/21 2:18:30 PM #51: |
I've always found it strange how its fine for a woman to say they only want a tall man but if a bloke has a preference for a woman they kick off and say you should like them just the way they are.
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Jen0125 02/23/21 2:22:16 PM #52: |
313800 posted...
I've always found it strange how its fine for a woman to say they only want a tall man but if a bloke has a preference for a woman they kick off and say you should like them just the way they are. This is factually inaccurate. Men are allowed to have preferences just like women are. It's an individual attraction. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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