Current Events > People need to accept that incels exist

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Instead of thinking "well I was bullied, grew up without a father, and had anxiety too but I didn't grow up having a toxic view on the world". You turned out okay properly due to having the proper emotional support and succeeding. Incel happens when they try and fail and don't get the proper support they need. You also need to stop fantasizing about killing and torturing incels. Stop laughing and cheering whenever something tragic happens to an incel. Stop showing support for commiting genocide on all incels . Stop advocating for therapists to report incels to the police when they incels do try to seek professional help . Stop bullying incels. Stop killing incels. Stop telling incels to kill themselves.
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Oh look, this gimmick again.

Why do you think I'm exclusively saying it only applies to incels?
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What the fuck is this? No one is killing incels. Incels have killed innocent people because of their idealogy. It's a hate movement.

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Why do people think incels are a hate group that all share the same ideology ? why do people think of them as a social movement?
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Be nice to everyone, but beat out the competition. Just believe in yourself and you will succeed, but it's obvious from the start only few will succeed. You have to accept that not everyone is going to be happy and normal like you .
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The next time you type out something in the "post new message" box and you think it's a good idea to click "post message", don't.
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Tag

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Accept that years of bullying and being a social outcast and growing up without getting the support get better can result in someone having a toxic mindset.
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You didn't follow my instructions.
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This is a battle you simply won't win on CE. You're a fool for even trying.

(I agree with most of your points and your message overall, btw)

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People refuse to accept that bullying and neglect can have long term damage on someone. Neglect isn't just a phase you go through in highschool then you grow up and you magically have the social skills to surround yourself with loving people and have the confidence to seek higher education/good paying jobs.
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You had a rough childhood then had the support to get better. Incels had a rough childhood but didn't get the support to get better.
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You have to realize that incel-hating communities on the internet are like... the members are basically one bad day away from turning into incels themselves. It's not about "hating" incels as much as it is trying to distance yourself from them. Cultivating an anti-incel mindset to make sure you don't fall into that rabbit hole yourself.

I am replying to everyone's critique with a counter argument. How do you expect someone who was neglected to just "grow up" and get over the trauma they endured? They reach adulthood being treated like trash and they are just supposed to not have trust issues. They never learned to properly socialize and develop important life skills and
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I just want to say that people are going to have negative mindsets when they don't get the proper help they need to grow as a person. People here think you just get bullied and unloved then grow out of it on your own and get an awesome hobby, job, and start making friends and love life.
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Its survivorship bias.

Someone will say they arent very good looking or rich and they have no problems getting lots of women, so no one else should have that problem and anyone who does is just a whiner, regardless of whatever their flaws are. Meanwhile, watch them whine nonstop about Jeff Bezos when you tell them to stop crying about rich people and instead focus on improving themselves for a better job or to recognize opportunities and take advantage of them.


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I don't get what people mean when they say incels are an ideology or movement. I mean there are ideologies and movements like the pills and various "men's rights" organizations, but incel is literally just describing (I want to say it's around 30% of men between 18-30 in the US) young people who are unable to have sexual relationships despite wanting them. There are a lot of those types of men in Japan too, it's just describing their situation, not an ideology.

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Incel used to mean being involuntarily celibate . That's a very biased wikipedia article.
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ssjevot posted...

but incel is literally just describing (I want to say it's around 30% of men between 18-30 in the US) young people who are unable to have sexual relationships despite wanting them. There are a lot of those types of men in Japan too, it's just describing their situation, not an ideology.

There are a lot of dudes who can't get laid everywhere. Not all of them join incel internet communities plagued by misogyny and racism that radicalize people into terrorists.

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Beveren_Rabbit posted...

Incel used to mean being involuntarily celibate . That's a very biased wikipedia article.

you see that's the thing about words. they can change in what they mean over time

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I don't get it, we could easily solve this problem by having sex with them