Current Events > I never thought I would ever find love. I'm so happy I did.

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I remember the times where I was sure I'd never ever have anyone in my life, I'd be alone forever, be a virgin forever. It sounds a bit lame maybe and cliche whatever, but having another person to talk to about everything, being there for them, them being there for me when you need it, I'm feeling truly lucky and blessed that I can have this.


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Anyone else here that has found love late at life or unexpected that you would find love?

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Nope. Seemingly all the women I go out with are just looking for causal hookups. Im human so Ill take em but Id really rather just find someone that wants to be serious. Is that person out there somewhere? I dont think so
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FF_Redux posted...

Anyone else here that has found love late at life or unexpected that you would find love?

Not late at life, but I found love at 29. Then I lost her a year later.
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mew4ever posted...

Is that person out there somewhere? I dont think so

I think so.

Pepys Monster posted...

Not late at life, but I found love at 29. Then I lost her a year later.

That's late imo, but yeah that sucks you didn't get to be with her that long, I guess that doesn't count then?

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IIRC the TCs SO is near retirement home age.
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Bryfang posted...

I used to feel that way, then I lost it. Solitude is even worse after you find someone like that, like, when I was alone before, I didn't know what I was missing out on. I was okay with not talking to someone about my problems, I kept them all to myself. Now after having someone and losing them, keeping shit bottled up inside is rough. That and actually sharing time with someone whose company you enjoyed in every way was awesome. I've been dating since then, but never found that one again, not yet at least.

At the same time though, congrats on you for being able to find someone though, cherish it.

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Bryfang posted...

I used to feel that way, then I lost it. Solitude is even worse after you find someone like that, like, when I was alone before, I didn't know what I was missing out on. I was okay with not talking to someone about my problems, I kept them all to myself. Now after having someone and losing them, keeping shit bottled up inside is rough. That and actually sharing time with someone whose company you enjoyed in every way was awesome. I've been dating since then, but never found that one again, not yet at least.

At the same time though, congrats on you for being able to find someone though, cherish it.

Yeah, I know that I will never find anyone I can feel this close to when I'll lose him, considering he is so much older than me there is a high chance I will lose him some day, even if we'd never break up. I don't even want to imagine life without him atm. Either way, before him I never thought I could ever find this, so I'm still confident I won't be all alone after.

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