Current Events > @No_U_L7 I want to ask a girl out. Give me some tips, brah.

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@No_U_L7 Shes a girl ive been friends with before but we rarely see each other now. She works at the public library. I assume shes usually not terribly busy at her job. I dont like the idea of asking a girl out at her job, but its about the only chance I have other than taking the bitch way out and sending her a message on Facebook.

She has male co-workers who may also be trying to flirt with her when I approach.

Ive heard she may have already started seeing another guy. But her Facebook still says single so I think its worth taking a shot.

The convo starter I think Im gonna try to use is that Im looking for a certain audiobook.

I figured you may have some input, and while I feel like ive sort of prepared, it wouldnt hurt to see if someone with experience has something to contribute.

Why not skip the middleman and go to /r/incel instead? Because that's who you're asking advice from.

Ic3Bullet posted...

@No_U_L7 Shes a girl ive been friends with before but we rarely see each other now. She works at the public library. I assume shes usually not terribly busy at her job. I dont like the idea of asking a girl out at her job, but its about the only chance I have other than taking the bitch way out and sending her a message on Facebook.

She has male co-workers who may also be trying to flirt with her when I approach.

Ive heard she may have already started seeing another guy. But her Facebook still says single so I think its worth taking a shot.

The convo starter I think Im gonna try to use is that Im looking for a certain audiobook.

I figured you may have some input, and while I feel like ive sort of prepared, it wouldnt hurt to see if someone with experience has something to contribute.

Just find a chance when theres little to no people around. If you ask her where a book is and she takes you somewhere more secluded that is the time

Take the pressure off, just invite her to grab food or drinks

Seed the idea first, ask her what she thinks of certain bars, types of food etc and then adjust to how enthusiastic she is about one of them

Be sure to ask her Schedule and get her number

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Crono99 posted...

If you need advice on girls, listen to David X. Seriously. It will change your life.

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I listened to this whole video while I was at work. There is no way in Hell this guy ever scores with beautiful, self-respecting women. If the things he says are true, the only women he can be scoring with are those that have low self esteem. And thats the thing ive noticed with pick up artists. They consider it a success to have a one night stand with a 6/10 girl who is desperate and gullible.

Every now and then he said some things that werent completely absurd that I agreed with. He went on a long tangent about not letting the woman youre with disrespect you to her friends. During that tangent he says a lot of things that make sense about how the more subservient you are towards your woman, the less she respects you. Yeah, sure, but that was the only quality segment of the video. I could tell in the first 10 minutes of the video what kind of guy he was going to be, and I was right.