Current Events > Is it true dat you can fuck a guy but not be gay like dis nipple CEuser claims?

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https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/76122029/892630542
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Sexuality can change for a lot of people. It's always been interesting to me that a woman can have some experimental lesbian years and no one bats an eye when she later says it was just a phase, but if a man so much as kisses a dude while drunk and on ecstacy for a dare in college he's then branded gay forever. Like, people actually get invested in arguing about it.

By "interesting" I just mean stupid.
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It's pretty fuckin' gay to fuck a dude in the ass. I'm not saying you ARE gay, I'm saying the act is gay.
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Gay. It's pretty cut and dry.
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Vicious_Dios posted...

Gay. It's pretty cut and dry.

No it ain't
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pinky0926 posted...

Sexuality can change for a lot of people. It's always been interesting to me that a woman can have some experimental lesbian years and no one bats an eye when she later says it was just a phase, but if a man so much as kisses a dude while drunk and on ecstacy for a dare in college he's then branded gay forever. Like, people actually get invested in arguing about it.

By "interesting" I just mean stupid.

Yea that's pretty messed up
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I think its because most of the time, the guys are the ones who label everyone. So when they see two girls, its hot but when they see two guys, its gay
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Vicious_Dios posted...

Gay. It's pretty cut and dry.

Or bisexual depending on other sexual partners. I don't get how this is such a complicated concept for this forum to grasp. The very definitions of heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality are straight forward and easy to understand.
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What if you're an actor who acts and does gay intercourse but consider yourself straight
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What if youre fucking the guy for money, or because you have someone pointing a gun at you demanding you do it? Though rare, there are some cases where you could do it w/o actually being gay
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V-E-G-Y- posted...

Yea that's pretty messed up

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Gotcha
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All I know is that you're extremely interested in this topic, TC, judging by the amount of topics you've made on it.
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You sound stalky, i hope I'm wrong like you are doe
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pinky0926 posted...

Sexuality can change for a lot of people. It's always been interesting to me that a woman can have some experimental lesbian years and no one bats an eye when she later says it was just a phase, but if a man so much as kisses a dude while drunk and on ecstacy for a dare in college he's then branded gay forever. Like, people actually get invested in arguing about it.

By "interesting" I just mean stupid.

I hung out with this one chick before who claimed that she had been in a long-term lesbian relationship (which, stereotypically, yes, was during her college years) before marrying her husband. Kind of awkward, honestly - she talked about it pretty damn fondly. She was comfortable in her bisexuality but I would worry about that straight marriage long term if the guy isn't cool with her dipping in the female pond again, ever. This while keeping in mind this lady was just in her late 20's at most.
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ssj3vegeta posted...

What if you're an actor who acts and does gay intercourse but consider yourself straight

Bisexuality is a thing. In any consensual instance of sexual congress you actively have a part in, weighs in on your sexuality, if you are really concerned with what to label yourself or others.
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Hey, you can call me stalky if you want but that sounds like deflection. Besides, you're kind of a fixture on CE so it's hard to not notice you. This is a topic you made 2 days ago:

https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/76119221

You're just talking about whether a guy is gay or not if he's in an MMF threesome. Basically the same premise. I also commented on that thread, of which you were the TC, so, I don't see what's wrong with me drawing a correlation.
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masticatingman posted...

pinky0926 posted...

Sexuality can change for a lot of people. It's always been interesting to me that a woman can have some experimental lesbian years and no one bats an eye when she later says it was just a phase, but if a man so much as kisses a dude while drunk and on ecstacy for a dare in college he's then branded gay forever. Like, people actually get invested in arguing about it.

By "interesting" I just mean stupid.

I hung out with this one chick before who claimed that she had been in a long-term lesbian relationship (which, stereotypically, yes, was during her college years) before marrying her husband. Kind of awkward, honestly - she talked about it pretty damn fondly. She was comfortable in her bisexuality but I would worry about that straight marriage long term if the guy isn't cool with her dipping in the female pond again, ever. This while keeping in mind this lady was just in her late 20's at most.

it's possible to be in a committed relationship regardless of sexuality
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The act itself doesn't make someone gay

Yes. You would be bisexual. Don't know why people are so averse to that term.
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GiftedACIII posted...

Yes. You would be bisexual. Don't know why people are so averse to that term.

You could even be straight, if you didn't enjoy any of it.
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Asherlee10 posted...

Well, I did have sex with a man and I was not sexually attracted to him.

I don't think it's impossible to do. It is a tall order to fulfill when it comes to sex and sexuality, but it is in the same vein as being nice to someone you don't like. We can behave in a manner that does not align with our identities or beliefs.

Why though? Experimenting?
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He was aware you were gay and still went through with it?
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