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gamepimp12 04/30/24 9:26:43 PM #1:	Thats something I tend to really struggle with. I have a problem with wanting revenge, or wanting to be made whole so to speak. partially because I have such a strong memory I cant just forget things happened. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980178738] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Thats something I tend to really struggle with. I have a problem with wanting revenge, or wanting to be made whole so to speak. partially because I have such a strong memory I cant just forget things happened. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 04/30/24 9:27:26 PM #2:	Do the forgetting part first --- It says right here in Matthew 16:4 "Jesus doth not need a giant Mecha." https://i.imgur.com/dQgC4kv.jpg <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:980178748] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Do the forgetting part first </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen 04/30/24 9:29:09 PM #3:	How old are you? I ask because I'm old. After time, after some personal losses and some humbling, I learned to just let shit go. Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping that the other guy dies. --- Why do nerds always get caught up on the details? Michael Jordan is both the greatest and most overrated basketball player of all time. <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:980178779] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>How old are you? I ask because I'm old. After time, after some personal losses and some humbling, I learned to just let shit go. Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping that the other guy dies. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 04/30/24 9:29:33 PM #4:	I hold grudges until I'm bitter --- See profile pic <cite>Irony posted [p:980178785] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I hold grudges until I'm bitter </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ratchetrockon 04/30/24 9:30:21 PM #5:	i don't hold grudges. i tend to think they are right and that i'm the problem though lol --- I'm a Taurus. Currently playing: Carol Reed Mystery Dead Drop. He/Him <cite>Ratchetrockon posted [p:980178800] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>i don't hold grudges. i tend to think they are right and that i'm the problem though lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 04/30/24 9:31:21 PM #6:	Irony posted... I hold grudges until I'm bitter Sir, you have already been classified as Grapefruit Concentrate. --- It says right here in Matthew 16:4 "Jesus doth not need a giant Mecha." https://i.imgur.com/dQgC4kv.jpg <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:980178817] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Irony posted... </cite><quote>I hold grudges until I'm bitter</quote>Sir, you have already been classified as Grapefruit Concentrate. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam 04/30/24 9:31:33 PM #7:	Let it go --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:980178820] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Let it go </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JoeDangIt 04/30/24 9:33:13 PM #8:	I just treat everyone pretty much the same so it doesn't matter what they've done in the past. <cite>JoeDangIt posted [p:980178850] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I just treat everyone pretty much the same so it doesn't matter what they've done in the past.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 04/30/24 9:35:14 PM #9:	RetsuZaiZen posted... How old are you? I ask because I'm old. After time, after some personal losses and some humbling, I learned to just let shit go. Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping that the other guy dies. 34 in a week. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980178912] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>RetsuZaiZen posted... </cite><quote>How old are you? I ask because I'm old. After time, after some personal losses and some humbling, I learned to just let shit go. Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping that the other guy dies.</quote>34 in a week. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crayon_Lover 04/30/24 9:35:25 PM #10:	My father held grudges. I'll always hate him for that. --- Cleveland sports fan <cite>Crayon_Lover posted [p:980178916] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>My father held grudges.I'll always hate him for that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Umbreon 04/30/24 9:39:17 PM #12:	I struggle with that as well. Revenge is a siren song, but ultimately it feels better to let go of those feelings instead of reveling in your worst emotions. It's also important to remember that forgiveness doesn't necessarily require forgetting. You can forgive someone, while still learning from what they did. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) <cite>Umbreon posted [p:980178992] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I struggle with that as well. Revenge is a siren song, but ultimately it feels better to let go of those feelings instead of reveling in your worst emotions.It's also important to remember that forgiveness doesn't necessarily require forgetting. You can forgive someone, while still learning from what they did. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
vycebrand2 04/30/24 9:43:08 PM #13:	I usually dont. I can just think of 1 instance where someone was forgiven. It was mutual. Otherwise I never forgive. --- I was born when she kissed me. I died when she left me. I lived a few weeks while she loved me- <cite>vycebrand2 posted [p:980179058] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I usually dont. I can just think of 1 instance where someone was forgiven. It was mutual. Otherwise I never forgive. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OriginalPlain2 04/30/24 9:47:17 PM #14:	Im reading Forgiving What you Cant Forget by Lysa TurKeurst i also read parts of my bible (I know this board is mostly agnostic or atheist but I was raised religiously) counseling helps Ive heard as its also mentioned in the book Im reading --- 41 And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. 3 Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life? <cite>OriginalPlain2 posted [p:980179139] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Im reading Forgiving What you Cant Forget by Lysa TurKeursti also read parts of my bible (I know this board is mostly agnostic or atheist but I was raised religiously)counseling helps Ive heard as its also mentioned in the book Im reading </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheFalseDeity 04/30/24 9:49:31 PM #15:	vycebrand2 posted... I usually dont. I can just think of 1 instance where someone was forgiven. It was mutual. Otherwise I never forgive. This minus the one instance part. --- http://psnprofiles.com/TheFalseDeity Currently playing - Scarlet Nexus <cite>TheFalseDeity posted [p:980179191] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>vycebrand2 posted... </cite><quote>I usually dont. I can just think of 1 instance where someone was forgiven. It was mutual. Otherwise I never forgive.</quote>This minus the one instance part. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoIkan 04/30/24 9:54:57 PM #16:	If people are willing to change, I am cool with it. Being a trans person, it's the least I can do. If I don't let people change, people will never accept us. So I welcome it with arms wide open. I just think with political climate these days, it's very unlikely for some kinds of people to ever actually change anymore. That ship has sailed. <cite>PoIkan posted [p:980179293] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>If people are willing to change, I am cool with it. Being a trans person, it's the least I can do. If I don't let people change, people will never accept us. So I welcome it with arms wide open. I just think with political climate these days, it's very unlikely for some kinds of people to ever actually change anymore. That ship has sailed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LonelyStoner 04/30/24 9:56:06 PM #17:	Depends on how long Ive known them. --- He's all alone through the day and night. <cite>LonelyStoner posted [p:980179313] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Depends on how long Ive known them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Antiyonder 04/30/24 10:04:13 PM #18:	I'd say forgiveness shouldn't be off the table and do agree with second chances, but not every situation requires it. After all, denying forgiveness at most means you just cut one out of your life, but without constantly having hateful thoughts about them and the like. PoIkan posted... I just think with political climate these days, it's very unlikely for some kinds of people to ever actually change anymore. That ship has sailed. Additionally while I do again think forgiveness can be good on a case by case basis, the person who does wrong shouldn't change for the sake of forgiveness. I do think a person who renounces say bigotry may or may not merit a second chance. But if one hints to or outright state that they changed for the sake of being forgiven? Yeah I wouldn't blame anyone for being skeptical. --- Amalgam Universe resident Born in 82. <cite>Antiyonder posted [p:980179448] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I'd say forgiveness shouldn't be off the table and do agree with second chances, but not every situation requires it.After all, denying forgiveness at most means you just cut one out of your life, but without constantly having hateful thoughts about them and the like.PoIkan posted... </cite><quote>I just think with political climate these days, it's very unlikely for some kinds of people to ever actually change anymore. That ship has sailed.</quote>Additionally while I do again think forgiveness can be good on a case by case basis, the person who does wrong shouldn't change for the sake of forgiveness.I do think a person who renounces say bigotry may or may not merit a second chance. But if one hints to or outright state that they changed for the sake of being forgiven? Yeah I wouldn't blame anyone for being skeptical. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kim_Seong-a 04/30/24 10:11:07 PM #19:	I'm not even sure what "forgiveness" entails anymore. There are people who broke my trust pretty severely. Does forgiveness mean I have to trust them again? Do I have to like them again? Or is "not desiring retaliation" sufficient enough to constitute forgiveness? --- Lusa Cfaad Taydr <cite>Kim_Seong-a posted [p:980179548] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I'm not even sure what "forgiveness" entails anymore.There are people who broke my trust pretty severely. Does forgiveness mean I have to trust them again? Do I have to like them again? Or is "not desiring retaliation" sufficient enough to constitute forgiveness? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen 04/30/24 10:18:57 PM #20:	Kim_Seong-a posted... I'm not even sure what "forgiveness" entails anymore. There are people who broke my trust pretty severely. Does forgiveness mean I have to trust them again? Do I have to like them again? Or is "not desiring retaliation" sufficient enough to constitute forgiveness? Yea that sounds like it's up to you. I think it's about just letting that negativity go. --- Why do nerds always get caught up on the details? Michael Jordan is both the greatest and most overrated basketball player of all time. <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:980179694] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Kim_Seong-a posted... </cite><quote>I'm not even sure what "forgiveness" entails anymore.There are people who broke my trust pretty severely. Does forgiveness mean I have to trust them again? Do I have to like them again? Or is "not desiring retaliation" sufficient enough to constitute forgiveness?</quote>Yea that sounds like it's up to you. I think it's about just letting that negativity go. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CountCorvinus 04/30/24 10:19:34 PM #21:	I dont --- "There's no return from darkness. There's no return, I promise." (THEY/THEM) <cite>CountCorvinus posted [p:980179706] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I dont </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Killmonger 04/30/24 10:19:52 PM #22:	I dont. --- "I will die of cancer before I let another dude finger my a******." - ZeroX91 <cite>Killmonger posted [p:980179710] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I dont. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DDP886 04/30/24 10:20:22 PM #23:	Not everybody knows forgiveness, just ask someone specific on here lol --- Fo76: Lv 481 \|\| Destiny: Former Raid Sherpa \|\| ESO: Dual Wield Stamina Nightblade <cite>DDP886 posted [p:980179717] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Not everybody knows forgiveness, just ask someone specific on here lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 04/30/24 10:55:08 PM #24:	Reward:effort consideration, same as anything else. But clearly your sense of this is off-balance, so get therapy. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:980180178] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>Reward:effort consideration, same as anything else. But clearly your sense of this is off-balance, so get therapy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwynevere 04/30/24 10:56:06 PM #25:	I don't Fuck me over and I'll hold that grudge forever --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream [She/they] <cite>Gwynevere posted [p:980180195] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I don't Fuck me over and I'll hold that grudge forever </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CSCA33 04/30/24 11:02:02 PM #26:	I still recommend A Dark Song (2016) --- [click here] pronouns incoming SHE HAS PRONOUNS!>(She/Her)<CHECK OUT my PRONOUNS <cite>CSCA33 posted [p:980180272] in How do you... [t:80759544]...</cite> <quote>I still recommend A Dark Song (2016) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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