Current Events > I think my relationship might be extremely unhealthy

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But I have nowhere to go and no one in my family can do anything. lol this is so fucked.

I've been here for 4 years and my optimism is dying. There's a certain other word I want to use but I don't want to trigger anyone. I just know I have a bad feeling about this and have no idea what to do.

Stay strong. Understand that if being with someone makes you feel so crappy that you feel hopeless in life then you probably shouldn't be with them anymore. Doesn't matter whose fault it is or if it's anyone fault or no ones. You two just are probably not be a good match.

Look at the bright side as well. At least now you know that it's a problem, so now you know at least some of the first steps to fix it.

If you're living with the person and financially you're in a bind to where you can't leave the situation on your own, I guess that is what the primary goal has to be to get out.

Don't feel bad it beat yourself up for feeling this way. This feeling is actually way more common than you think, especially in society these days. The good thing is at least you have enough awareness to see what may be causing the feelings you're having. I hope everything gets better for you TC stay strong

Life goes on

I third what 2Pac said.

If Ive learned anything, its that there are far worse things than being single.

Stay strong, and please do whatever you need to do to protect your own mental wellbeing.

I fourth what 2Pac said

I fifth what 2pac said

There is no way out. Not in the short term especially

Super_Slash posted...

There is no way out. Not in the short term especially

There is. You break up but give some leeway to both people being able to find their own place. Be respectful adults but end the relationship.

bsp77 posted...

There is. You break up but give some leeway to both people being able to find their own place. Be respectful adults but end the relationship.

I'm unemployed and have literally nowhere to go. I don't think she's stable enough to give me enough time to not be homeless.

Super_Slash posted...

I'm unemployed and have literally nowhere to go. I don't think she's stable enough to give me enough time to not be homeless.

Are you actively trying to find a job? It sounds like you have the ability to control your own situation

bsp77 posted...

Are you actively trying to find a job? It sounds like you have the ability to control your own situation

I've been so depressed I haven't been looking as much as I should, admittedly.

Super_Slash posted...

I've been so depressed I haven't been looking as much as I should, admittedly.

I am sorry, that sucks. But you can't say that you have no idea what to do. You do know what you can do. Get a job, even if minimum wage, as long as full time. Get enough money to get your own small place or share a 2 bedroom with a roommate.

bsp77 posted...

I am sorry, that sucks. But you can't say that you have no idea what to do. You do know what you can do. Get a job, even if minimum wage, as long as full time. Get enough money to get your own small place or share a 2 bedroom with a roommate.

It gets a little more complicated when I need to bring my brother with me too, but this is the general plan currently.

Super_Slash posted...

It gets a little more complicated when I need to bring my brother with me too, but this is the general plan currently.

Your brother?

bsp77 posted...

Your brother?

He lives with us and I won't leave him there with her.

Super_Slash posted...

He lives with us and I won't leave him there with her.

Does he have a job?

TC's gf is supporting TC and his brother while he admits he isn't looking very hard for a job. I understand.

WarfireX posted...

TC's gf is supporting TC and his brother while he admits he isn't looking very hard for a job. I understand.

Dude, that does not justify emotional abuse. Are you for real?

Super_Slash posted...

Dude, that does not justify emotional abuse. Are you for real?

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An almost 22 year old account with less than 5 years worth of karma. No, they are not for real. This is a desperate Reddit chud who bought an old account, considering the active post count being so low.

WarfireX is an anti-vax troll who claims to love Roseanne Barr and lies about his income, fyi

Is there no way you can go back to your parents home? While they're still here?

2Pacavelli posted...

Is there no way you can go back to your parents home? While they're still here?

No one has any room for either me or my brother.