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SomeGuyUO
03/30/24 1:53:42 PM
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So a week or so back, this girl from work owed me money for food and she was like "omg I still have to pay you back lol".

So she Zelles me later at like 12am, no message. So I just text her "about time " and that turns into a 2 hour text conversation from there.

We got food again at work and she owes me money again. I joked that I should just start a tab for her. She pays me back all the time so I know she's good for it.

I dont want to reuse the same line again on text so what should I say this time to start a conversation again?
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Jiek_Fafn
03/30/24 2:02:38 PM
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Are you going to lunch with her at work or is she just straight out borrowing money and you don't eat together?

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gatorsPENSbucs
03/30/24 2:05:10 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
Are you going to lunch with her at work or is she just straight out borrowing money and you don't eat together?
Was wondering this too.

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BucketCat
03/30/24 2:11:00 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7a24a1fc.jpg

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Naysaspace
03/30/24 2:12:46 PM
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if it doesnt come naturally, dont force it

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W_S_C_M
03/30/24 2:17:43 PM
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Ask her if she'd ever want to get lunch outside of work.
I'm assuming you want to pursue more than just a work relationship with her?

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splodeymissile
03/30/24 3:40:41 PM
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Be blatant, but respectful about your intentions. It's not that difficult

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Dakimakura
03/30/24 3:43:18 PM
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Say if I wuz ur husband you wudnt have 2 pay me back haha.

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Itachi157
03/30/24 4:03:32 PM
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W_S_C_M posted...
Ask her if she'd ever want to get lunch outside of work.
I'm assuming you want to pursue more than just a work relationship with her?

This. If you're picking up food for her and eating separately then ask if she'd be down to eat lunch together next time (preferably on your guys' day off so it's clearly not a "work lunch"). If she says no or gives an excuse I'd just drop it, she probably doesn't want much to do with you outside of work. Doesn't mean you guys can't be cool at work though.

If you're already getting lunch together, just keep doing so and talking to her during lunch. No real need for text conversations at that point. Maybe during lunch one day ask if she'd like to go catch a movie together (or some other activity) or like I said earlier, suggest getting together for a meal on your guys' day off.
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LordFarquad1312
03/30/24 4:06:27 PM
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"You up for some tacos?"

Anyone who answers no is not worth being around.

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angeleyes94
03/30/24 4:25:54 PM
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Text her: hey baby you ever had your ******* licked clean by a fat man in a trenchcoat?

Works everytime.

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MC_BatCommander
03/30/24 4:27:41 PM
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Ask her on a date instead of paying you back, but like in a cute way

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Dakimakura
03/30/24 4:28:20 PM
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angeleyes94 posted...
Text her: hey baby you ever had your ******* licked clean by a fat man in a trenchcoat?

Works everytime.

I take back what I said, say this. Even if she isn't into it you can just be like "lol opps my brother took my phone and wrote that. I am so sorry."

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SomeGuyUO
03/31/24 2:00:06 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
Are you going to lunch with her at work or is she just straight out borrowing money and you don't eat together?

I always go get food for myself during work, so when I pick up for her also we always eat together at work.

Itachi157 posted...
This. If you're picking up food for her and eating separately then ask if she'd be down to eat lunch together next time (preferably on your guys' day off so it's clearly not a "work lunch"). If she says no or gives an excuse I'd just drop it, she probably doesn't want much to do with you outside of work. Doesn't mean you guys can't be cool at work though.

If you're already getting lunch together, just keep doing so and talking to her during lunch. No real need for text conversations at that point. Maybe during lunch one day ask if she'd like to go catch a movie together (or some other activity) or like I said earlier, suggest getting together for a meal on your guys' day off.

I always talk to her during work, not just during lunch. I just don't know what to do lol. I want to text her more just cuz I want to have communication with her outside of work. Funny thing is I always initiate face to face conversations with her but she always initiates text conversations with me.

I guess some people are more comfortable with texting so I'm trying to improve my texting game too lol.

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SomeGuyUO
04/02/24 7:18:46 PM
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I'm convinced now this girl is completely oblivious that I like her lol.
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Damn_Underscore
04/02/24 7:19:27 PM
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just ask her out bro

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DarthSloth5555
04/02/24 7:23:18 PM
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BucketCat posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7a24a1fc.jpg

Its down there somewhere, let me take another look.

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k1nG_j0hN
04/03/24 2:34:03 AM
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Well, do you flirt at all? Is there any teasing or touching?
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SomeLikeItHoth
04/03/24 2:45:44 AM
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Friend zoned.

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Arcanine2009
04/03/24 2:45:56 AM
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SomeGuyUO posted...
So a week or so back, this girl from work owed me money for food and she was like "omg I still have to pay you back lol".

So she Zelles me later at like 12am, no message. So I just text her "about time " and that turns into a 2 hour text conversation from there.

We got food again at work and she owes me money again. I joked that I should just start a tab for her. She pays me back all the time so I know she's good for it.

I dont want to reuse the same line again on text so what should I say this time to start a conversation again?
you guys talked until 2? lol What job do you guys work in?

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SomeGuyUO
04/03/24 1:26:44 PM
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k1nG_j0hN posted...
Well, do you flirt at all? Is there any teasing or touching?

I've complimented her on stuff she's worn, her hair too. I've done more of the teasing and touching tho, which she has smiled at it at times. Though it always feels like I start at zero the next day I see her.

Arcanine2009 posted...
you guys talked until 2? lol What job do you guys work in?

We both get out of work at 11PM.
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Damn_Underscore
04/03/24 1:27:38 PM
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Is she single?

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NoxObscuras
04/03/24 1:34:22 PM
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You could always turn it into a playful date invite. Something like "How about you pay me back by taking me to dinner "

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bigblu89
04/03/24 1:40:37 PM
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Correct me if Im off, but I think we have a good vibe and I wouldnt mind hanging out with you outside of work. So if youre free anytime soon, let me know. I think itll be fun.

Just lay it out there, and be 100% ok with it if she says no.

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